Mrkuvuki:

I gat 99 problems but a B' aint one

Jah Bless.. My gf reserves the right to sleep with whoever she deems fit,I on the other hand reserve the right to produce a RED CARD at my sole discretion.

Bro, emmmm na Straight RED CARD offence,not because she's the devil (afterall you left her bush fallow for a year) but because there'll always be that awkward feeling,whenever you guys have a family occasion,or when your bro visits.

this is pure suspense

Conrats Tom Clancy,this batch processing strategy from Nestle is heart numbing. The suspense is killing me slowly.

I hate to break it to you... The possibility of a happily-ever after ending is so so so so slim,like needle eye slim. His family will oppose it,his friends will oppose the union if he ever mentions marriage. And after awhile all the negativity will manifest in your relationship,the sand castle disappears.


My advice: Enjoy yourself with your bf while it lasts without expectations,you have a good job and a decent life.

QUE CERA CERA WHATEVER WILL BE WILL BE.

Enjoy ur life YOLO

Slimzy baby:

hahahaha...everyone is now a judge..wow!

Does it mean nobody on dis thread hav cheated before??...smh!

Me,Me,Me and I enjoyed every second of it.

braxjay: Dear Aleovera,

you deserve to be cheated, frustrated in every relationship, and more importantly, u deserve to have your hubby in future ripped apart by younger hot babes for you lack of focus.

yours sincerely
braxjay

Lol get off your high horse....

Toks2008: I am tired of reading these type of stories abeg.

The point is that whether you are just dating or married to anyone, expect heartbreak anytime. Trust nobody. LOVE DOES NOT EXIST IN THIS WORLD EXCEPT GOD'S TRUE LOVE.

Get married because it is necessary but expect any crazy act from your spouse at any time.

Lets be real. This thing called L.O.V.E is a facade.

Well said... Love is HIGHLY OVERATED.

Please oh before we murder the OP...he without sin shpuld cast the first stone,

Being judgemental won't help.

Aleovera:

No use pointing out what I should or shouldn't have done seeing that it is a lil too late for that. Now, as regards coming clean, are you saying I don't have to tell him about my moment of weakness?

As noble as it sounds to tell your boyfriend it is a wrong move, reminds me of my ex girlfriend and her saying she told me cos of love, I forgave she still slept with the guy again,to me its like Hey I cheated and um.. I pity you.

Please don't try to appease your conscience, you cheated spare your bf the trauma because he will blame himself wonder where he went wrong what he didn't do right,Feel horrible for ur indiscretion,so please pity a brother and save him the stress.

As for me @d point I have gotten to,if my present gf sleeps even with my dad,I won't loose a wink of sleep.

At poster don't beat yourself up life goes on.

Princenady: @chukkynwob, hw did ur fon interview go? Pls are u a futo gradu8 4rm Obosi?

Naaaaa

soneee: Nobody here that went for the assessment centre that has gotten a mail for a PI survey?

soneee: Nobody here that went for the assessment centre that has gotten a mail for a PI survey?

I haven't oooo. I guess it means you were successful at the assessment centre

i really like this song

is this project dead

12 inches!:

Whatever!!!! I'm sure u're dying from guilty conscience already. Wait a minute. Why are quoting me. Do you see yourself in my comments. Let me tell u, the truth is bitter and it is what it is. After all the lovey dovey, marriage is nothing but a contract that u will do what I expect of you and I will do what you expect of me. So if I'm paying all or most of the bills why can't you do your own part of the contract and if u think the wahala is to much, must you absolve all the responsibilities to someone else? When the house maid starts doing all the work of the wife, then what are really her duties in the home. To born baby? Even the house help can do that too. And there is this trend I noticed where young married women leave their toddlers in care of all this togolese girls. Plsss what the f.u.ck is that. Aint no woman leaving my kids in care of a togolese girl. I'll rather take care of them myself while she becomes useless to me.

You can take care of kids can't you?

kilmix:

My Dear gender superiority is not peculiar to Nigeria.
In fact, in Britain under the Shakespearean and Elizabethan Literature, women were not allowed to act in their dramas in theatres. In Romeo and Juliet, a man acted as Juliet at that time .. Men were costumed as women. Has this position changed till this era? NO. Till this moment a female has never been a Prime Minister in UK.
Even in the Land of Freedom, America, there has never been a Female President.
Male superiority was not created by Man. It is in the ordering of things(State of Nature).
Am not against women treated equally with men.

The Matrimonial Causes Act LFN 1990 would be helpful as it relates to a married woman changing her last name to that of the husband.

Emmm... Margret Thatcher was what? Health minister in Nigeria? Don't talk about what you don't know.

Male superiority is completely man-made. In as much women may not be as strong physically,there deserve every iota of respect.

fellis:
Yes, it is going to take some time before people discard their archaic ideas about gender inequality but I honestly cannot stop talking about it. It is a passion I have
Also, it takes less time to solve a problem whem more people are informed about it.

Nice

Any man that sleeps with his househelp lacks ethics because most times the maids are subjected to bullying,intimidation and some times RAP3 for the s3x to occur in the first place.

I sometimes go over to my sisters house and I must tell you her househelp is so well endowed,(I am single and the girl is 20). I made it a point of duty never to look at her below her neck even though its so difficult.

If I can fight sleeping with my sister's house help even though I am very single, do you think in the future I'll sleep with mine?

As this young poor girls are there to help the family,our aim should be to improve their quality of life,by giving them good education so that they can break the cycle of poverty and not using them as s3x toys. Isolate them from your marriage drama.

And like I have told my sister,don't employ maids that are so attractive cos ur husband will have to be fighting temptation even when he is at home.

fellis:

So? How does his changing his wife's surname make it the right thing to do?

Come, you people better not quote me if you don't have anything meaningful to say.

Lol my good friend,are you still fighting this war?

The gender inequality in Naija will take decades of desensitization to even out.

Keep up the good fight anyway.

scarletdp: Yes I'm an engineer but during the second stage der were sciences der too, and geology students, coz I remener dem giving us different questions at some point, but then again maybe its still in batches, I'm not too sure... And they told us in not more than two weeks dey would call the successful ones for assesment centre

Assesment centre again addax sef

chebyshev: @chukkynwob;I just checked my status now and it still reads application under review.what does your own status reads now.pls reply asap

Mail me please

zonaking: @chukkynwob,hw ws d interview pls tell me . I wud love to ve yur contact cus some tin tells me yu r now bakerhughes staff! BB pin,E mail, or any kind

its on friday bro

chebyshev constant....how far? have u checked ur status?

OkaiCorne:
Sent. Goodluck and success

lol I have received it . boss

OkaiCorne: @chukkynwob congrats. For the phone interview, get a quiet place where
You'll not be disturbed or cause a noisy background for your interviewer
Because dat is the number one offence in a phone interview. Furthermore,
Have your cv and other credentials in your front while your interview is on.
Let me have your mail so that I can help you with the interview format
Of these oil servicing companies.You can also google phone interview etiquettes. Goodluck.
One more thing, when they pay you your first salary, don't forget to credit
My account. My account number is *****1255, Anuofia microfinance bank ltd.

Lol jiga_saw@yahoo.co.uk

I lost my friend and classmate in the inferno and he was an only son,who went for an interview in Lagos and was on his way back.... Coolest guy ever in skool,I never saw him angry in all 5years I studied with him

chebyshev: @zonaking:but Chukkynwob has refused to tell us the position he was invited for. congratulations to you Chukkynwobs all the same.

Sorry Oga Chebyshev I've been busy,graduate field engineer..please anyone with d phone interview tips?

And the religion of peace brings peace to Boston......

The earlier muslims realised the close link between terrorism and islam ,and increase the effort to stop the spread of violence in the name of Islam,the better for them and their image.

Till then if I hear Alla wa kubakar in a bus or a plane, I'll dock man...

cyrexx: Funny nobody has come up to say something like

"I was once a sinner/unbeliever but I became a saint/believer after i joined nairaland"

It seems this Internet age/information age is not favourable to religion.

Narrow is the way that leads to heaven....
Many are called,few are chosen....

When I first came to nairaland,I'll admit I was shocked damn..never seen that much hatred from God before. lol

With Ooman's personal vendatta against God,
Logicboy's crusade against religion especially his own Spaghetti monster lol...(Both good NL friends).

Then I realised its just their viewpoint and they have the right to embrace it.

This section made me completing tolerant to other views of life and increased my faith in God.

I also met lovely peep like Strictlymi,Davidylan,Jesoul,Ihedinobi,Enigma....

All wonderful peeps....

I have grown a lot,and also refined my principles of argument....

Cheers guys....Y'all rock both Atheist,non-theist,theists,sprirtual and most especially MY CHRISTIAN BRETHEN

OkinawaCal64: Hello chukkynwob, Goshen 360 and everyone else engaged in this discussion: One thing I have learned in my 64 years of life, is that there are no greater destroyers of truth than that of ideology and tradition. Instead of applying the true contents of the Bible, we humans tend to invoke our own and/or various other ideological beliefs from the GREATEST BOOK EVER WRITTEN! I noticed chukkynwob addressing Goshen regarding the Old Testament as if nothing in it is important, or as if it shouldn't be used and parts of it applied to our daily lives.
Let's keep it going.

With all due respect Sir,what you wrote is surprising to me..

Can you kindly show a post where I was guilty of the indictment above? Thanks

Allow the grass and the wheat to grow,the master of harvest will differentiate...

Goshen why do you still have the old testament in your bible,maybe we should tear it,No?

I fail to understand why people are trying to convince you.

I might not speak lots of Greek but what you are postulating here is HERESY

Sir.Logicboy is back..how was your leave?