If she’s not a producer, she’s not a keeper. A lazy woman makes for a poor partner, and an even poorer mother.

Without money or godlike genetics, you’re playing on hard mode. Money makes everything better, the quality of woman you can get is the epitome of such, not the exception.”

“Women are the biggest potential threat to your long-term happiness. In the words of Nietzsche: “she is the most dangerous plaything.” Always be guarded.

“Women lead double lives. She will project a strong outward good girl facade whilst engaging in acts of depravity in secret.

Women who have slept with lots of men dehumanise and objectify men through sex. Such women are poor relationship prospects. Aware this damages their value and in a bid to have men take them seriously, they distort their past by playing down their number.

“A woman’s mistakes never count, a man’s are never forgotten.”

“If you’re not where you want to be in life , do not have serious relationships with women. Her perception of you will remain rooted in the former version of yourself and her needs/issues will hinder your progress.

They do not care about things that do not affect them. If you want a woman to care about something, you have to show her how it affects her on a personal level.

“The majority of women define themselves by their beauty, and so never become anything greater than their bodies. Women without beauty who define themselves by their intellect are often jealous of women who have beauty because they resent having to work harder to achieve similar or lesser social success.”


Women have a propensity to distract you from your mission, do not permit this.

Whenever there is a problem between a man and woman, the fault is always assumed to lie with the man and never the woman. And so because of this, the onus to fix the problem lies on the man, not the woman.

What is a bar? It’s a social venue where women can receive attention from men at predictably constant rates. Every approach performed will increase her worth. Every hot guy who lays pipe inside her via a one-night stand will reinforce in her mind that she deserves Mr. Perfect. These men feed her ego like an IV bag nourishes a surgery patient.

The effect of all this is cumulative so that a 30 year old woman who is well past her prime will put out attitude multiple times higher than a hot 18 year old who just started going to clubs. Since the older woman simply can’t forget all those men who have approached her and wanted to take her home, she won’t receive your approach unless you’re nearly the best of what has attempted to fvck her in the past, even though the number of guys willing to wife her up has decreased exponentially. Nightlife venues give average women near unlimited choice and attention, causing a sharp degradation in her attitude, warmth, and even her appearance.

How many times will she be approached each time she goes out? Let’s be conservative and say three, though it’s likely to be higher if she’s pretty. This means that by the time you approach her when she’s still somewhat in her prime at 25 years old, she has already been hit on by 2,500 men who wanted to have sex with her.


we’d think that these attempts are good for her and good for society, that it allows her to experiment with her sexuality, find her ideal man, and generally be a happier womane. But we know that all this choice does is turn her into a carousel rider who is unable to bring value besides porn star sex in any type of relationship.

One thing we missed with the girl and her 2,500 possible suitors is that internet whoring goeshand-in-hand with going out at night. Because receiving male attention is like a drug where dosage must be increased to receive the same high, girls continue the attention train online. If you count all the guys who message her on Badoo and Facebook. it’s possible that an attractive girl would have been contacted over 10,000 times for sex before you even spit your line. In one way or another, you have to compete with all those men.

There is hope, and I’m sure the answer to this problem has probably already popped into your mind.Find girls who hate bars and clubs.It’s as simple as that. Even in a highly feminist society like America, a girl who doesn’t ever go out at night will still be gentle, caring, and likely have a low notch count. She won’t be rude, she won’t have trashy tattoos, and she won’t curse like a sailor. If she alsodoesn’t own a smartphone, she will likely be a dream girl. It’s even better if she doesn’t drink, because then you know that sex for her is a logical decision, not an emotionalone that depends on some guy running aloof game on her. Her notch count is absolutely in the single digits.The best place to find girls like this is during the day, specifically the bookstore. I’ve noticed that girls who read tend to hate going out more than girls I’ve met in other day game scenarios like coffee shops and Whole Foods. It really is impossible for a bookworm to prefer a night out at the club than to dive into a good book, and even I’m gettingto the stage where I prefer the book than the club, howevermodestly high my chance of getting action on a random night is.

The good girl does have its own set of problems:

*.The seduction moves excruciatingly slow
*.She is shy to the point of being mute
*.Your ramble has to be strong since she won’t talk a lot
*.Sex is average
*.Her vagina is too tight

Regardless of these problems, I believe bookworms are the ultimate solution for a guy who has built up his game toa competent level and wants to spend a couple days a week with a good girl who won’t be so willing to ditch him for a minor transgression or just outright cheat on him with the sexy guy at the club who bought bottle service with his bros. While the bad girl is approached 2,500 times in her life, I doubt the good girl is approached more than 50 times.

It’s not as hard to compete with this crowd. Average game will likely be enough, and by average I mean you’ve hit the nightlife for a year or so to build up your confidence and escalation moves. Unfortunately, you still can’t escape the necessity to learn at least some game to become an attractive man. Don’t get it wrong and think that you can be an autistic geek and still pick up the cute bookworm. There is no avoiding some work on your part. but even with any man's promiscuous behavior, He can't help but gravitate towards girls who he knows deep down will content him in ways that sluts simply can’t. Having rough sex is no doubt fun, but men innately want girls who care for them and don’t screw a lot of other guys. Unfortunately, nightlife exposure will always destroy a good girl.

Now I know I said that nightlife is the number one corrupterof women, but I lied. The number one corrupter of women is choice.

Berlyn1:
It would be painful if they hear it from someone else, once trust is broken, it would never be whole again what is past is past, but for a healthy relationship one has to let his/her partner know virtually everything about themselves

some men or women also hide their kids from the person they're about to marry which is very wrong.

Konquest:
^^^^^^

Draei:

Your first 3 lines are pile of bullshiit, next thread...

thanks for reading

OP the answer to your question is in this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/4270627/why-should-start-family-early

okay this should he front pages

good stuff

You see, hairy vulvas are incredibly arousing and the hairier the better. In fact, hairier women seem to have extra large vulvas e.g., labia, majora and minora, and more open vaginas. This appeals especially for orãl sex including cunnilingus. Also, I prefer hair under the armpits - this is common, desirable, and almost the norm in France where they have a word for it - la cossette. 

oam4j

Both men and women are affected by the possibility of being childless. But let’s face it, women have the shorter end of the stick in this case.
As a man, you are able to sire children up until you die unless an accident or health issue precludes that possibility. A few years back there was a story of a Chinese warlord who sired a child with a concubine when he was in his late 80s.

Women, on the other hand, are much more limited. Women are able to become mothers up until they hit menopause. The average age for menopause is 51, although some women begin to experience it in their 30s. Even though a woman may not be in menopause, the longer a woman waits, the more difficult it becomes to conceive a child.

A woman’s likelihood in getting pregnant peaks in her early 20s. By the time she is in her early 40s, a woman has only a 36 percent change of getting pregnant.
Many women are delaying having children with the idea that advances in medical technology will make up for the decrease in fertility as they age. Unfortunately, fertility treatments are expensive and not as foolproof as we’d like to imagine. Many couples wake away bitterly disappointed.

But just because men have a longer window doesn’t mean you should delay indefinitely. The idea is not to just spread your DNA. Rather, you want to establish a legacy. To do that, you will want to raise children. To do that you need to be around for their formative years between birth and 18. Starting when you are a 90-year-old warlord, while it may be fun, would result in your wife (or concubine) raising your children.

That makes it less likely that you will pass on your beliefs and wisdom.
The sweet spot for fathering children is probably in your late twenties or early thirties. That way, you will still have the energy to chase your kids when they are small, but you still stand a good chance to see your grandchildren to further cement your legacy.

Getting married and having children is the best way to ensure you have a legacy. But I need to be honest: not everyone is going to get married. It could be because of a physical defect or because there are just not any suitable spouses available. Many men find themselves in the latter position today. They are able to provide for a wife and children but there are no suitable women available. Should these men just give up and resign themselves to an empty life?

Life can be fulfilling even without a wife and children. In some ways, it can be better. If a man marries poorly, his wife can make his life a living hell by nagging or cheating on him. And modern divorce laws are stacked against men. A man can invest years into building a legacy for his children only to have his wife destroy it all after watching
Eat, Pray, Love. Better to be single and happy that to be married to a scold or a slut.

A life as a carefree bachelor can be very fulfilling in the short to mid-term but it carries a big downside in that you run the risk of establishing no permanent bonds. As one ages and comes to face his ultimate destiny—death awaits us all—he naturally wants to have that sense of connection to something greater than himself. Having children is a way to experience this connection.

moorevic:
It could be damaging depending.

it's a risk that every man should be willing to take.

Having an erection will determine if you have a future or not.

habsydiamond:
Becos they still want to enjoy their lives....money money with their downside becos thinking of marriage....

the truth is that women have an advantage.

but why don't they use it.

NwaAmaikpe:


No need asking for a woman's past. It always catches up with her and becomes her future.
Okafor's Second Law.

okafor

MrIjapa:


You see, hairy vulvas are incredibly arousing and the hairier the better. In fact, hairier women seem to have extra large vulvas e.g., labia, majora and minora, and more open vaginas. This appeals especially for orãl sex including cunnilingus. Also, I prefer hair under the armpits - this is common, desirable, and almost the norm in France where they have a word for it - la cossette. 

woow

this is good stuff

MrIjapa:
Because they are hairy.

hairy how?

why?

omooba969:
The question I ask myself is - what's the use of the information? To seek information about the past is as helpful as it can be destructive coz there's tendency to be presented with distorted judgement of the present.

Curiosity kills the cat they say but I will rather choose to enjoy the moment & discover my woman. I believe there's nothing about her past that's not a common knowledge to all, we only waste our precious time making a big deal of what's not.

If you love her, let her know & demonstrate same coz there are many more places to discover. Looking back is like sieving through garbage. It might be important to you but examine if it serves a meaningful purpose.

if she loves you then she should keep that secret from you

Evablizin:
It depends on what you want to know about her past and what you want to do with it.

a man should at least know what he's getting into.

When a woman says she’s “not like that anymore,” there’s a good chance that she’s being sincere. That’s why you might be tempted to give her a chance—she’s actually being honest when she says it. At that particular moment in time, she actually believes in her own bullcrap, and that’s exactly why knowing her past is so important. All of the lip service about how she was “immature” or a “different person back then” is utter nonsense. Her past is exactly who she is, and she can easily revert right back into being herself once her goals have been accomplished—at your expense, mind you.
(marriage)

Women never really change who they are, they just change what they do, and they only change what they do just long enough to get whatever they’re after (pregnancy). The only way people really change is through deep introspection, self discovery, and a very strong desire to overhaul themselves for the better. Have you met any women that possess those three qualities? no.

“Looking out for your best interests does not make you insecure. Not settling for anything less than what you want does not make you insecure. Demanding to know the truth about someone you've been intimate with—or plan on being intimate with—does not make you insecure.”

A man should try as much as he can to know a woman's past.

Research suggests that women are pickier when it comes to potential partners in a speed dating event, with men indicating interest with half the women participating and women only indicating interest in roughly one third of them who participate.

Let’s try this example—imagine a man and a women in a bar or nightclub on separate sides of the room. They are both single and both catch a glimpse of each other before giving off a flirty smile. One of them decides to approach the other from across the room. In your mind, did you imagine the man walking up to the woman or the woman walking up to the man? A majority of you would have imagined the man walking up to the woman.

In an experiment performed by Jon Millward, the answer seems to suggest it’s women. In his experiment, Jon created 10 fake Social media profiles (five men and five women). They all had similar sounding usernames, the same answers to 25 questions, the same written profile and personal stats. The only difference between the profiles were the pictures, all with varying degrees of attractiveness. His experiment shows that the total messages received by the five women in the group was more than 15 times the messages received by the group’s five men. This poses unique challenges to both genders when it comes to online dating.

Women are plagued with the “Paradox of Choice” or “Choice Overload” where they have so many messages and men to pick from that it makes it incredibly difficult for to pick the right guy. Although men are not having to deal with this problem, they are having to compete with a larger group of men online as opposed to a smaller group of men offline. According to data collected from Business Insider, men would need to send an average of 25 messages to receive a response whilst women would only need to send an average of five.

now with all these advantages, women still Lie to men that they haven't found the right person yet, some still keep on searching and decide to not settle down to have kids until their time is up.

Guys don't fall for these Lies.

ghis is the dday

this is the dday

Kingbet:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXV4LsB29ZU&itct

what

Yyeske:
End of discussion, kanu played into Buhari's trap.

what about Tuesday

One of the most consistent messages from the web is this: don’t masturbate. Research has shown that abstaining from masturbation for even a week will spike your testosterone levels drastically. Sexual abstinence can make men more motivated, more aggressive, and more ready to take on the world. And I agree with that message. But porn,erotica, and pictures of hot chicks do still serve a purpose: providing hope. Because days, weeks and months of regular (ugly) girls can wear a person down. Because clothing and makeup can make a beast look cute and turn a meh into a wow. Because obesity is an epidemic and hot girls are a dying breed.

Because I just spent several hours getting this girl to my place, getting her clothes off, only to lose my erection when I see she’s been skillfully hiding her belly all evening. This has happened more than once. Because after everything it's good to know that this exists



and this

[img]https://thechive.files./2009/04/brazil-hot-sexy-1.jpg?quality=85&strip=info&w=500[/img]

Now, here is the kicker: most of these pics are of either candid or unknown girls, meaning that yes,with a stroke of luck and some skills, you can meet one of your own. These are not random far away Hollywood girls: they might be your neighbors, or that cute girl at the bar, or on Facebook.

Just knowing that such beauty is out there gives me the drive to go forward.

Happy browsing!

rocktation farano WTF

an eight year old child and you kept this topic till now.