tosyne2much:
That's why it's good to always keep friends with good advisers. Those who are never afraid to tell you the bitter truth and destroy whatever illusions you might be having

If you had such friends that are always there to wake you from your slumber, your marital journey wouldn't have gone this way

Exactly, my cousin's advice saved me.
I wanted to do the whole thing on my own.
Thank God I opted out.

Pray she does contrary to your order and divorce her.
You still have lots of years ahead of you to be in a bad marriage.
She has giving birth to your child, make she just be your baby mama.

You are a man, you can still marry again.
You are a man that doesn't want stress for your life, so you deserve that peace in your home.

BlindAngel:



Whenever I throw up the question about the hospital bills and even the things that I bought for the naming ceremony, her answer is always the same "always saying that if the money I spend is greater than the pain she went through to birth our child, that she did a huge sacrifice for me and I'm ungrateful.

Whenever I throw up the question about the hospital bills and even the things that I bought for the naming ceremony, her answer is always the same "always saying that if the money I spend is greater than the pain she went through to birth our child, that she did a huge sacrifice for me and I'm ungrateful.[/quote]

How long did you date before wedding her?
Did she take you to see her family members, and did you take her to yours before the wedding?
Did you have like a sister that is old enough to marry and she isn't?
I am guessing your wife is not working too, and all you do is to spend.
Does she have friends? I am guessing no

You married her out of pity.
I was almost in your shoes, but I was able to opt out on time before the wedding, and I am being careful of the kind woman to marry now.
It was like yours, so when i read your story, I fully understand what you are going through.