humilitypays:

What an excellent piece.. learnt alot from it.

humilitypays:
Listen, whenever a single lady is talking about spec this, my spec that.....it is mostly superficial and fantasy-based qualities that are not worthy. I am not just typing this for typing sake. If I may brag small to drive my point home.......I have met so many women of all class.....most single ladies overrate themselves when it comes to physical looks.


Many guys maybe flooding around you for flings, date, one night stand, FWBs, hookups, etc.....that doesn't mean you are truly a hot chick with charming personality most men want in a life partner....men are weird when it comes to picking a wife. The qualities they seek for in a fling or hookup or casual date is not the same with what they desire in a life partner....and this is where most ladies get it all wrong and miss out.


You as a single lady maybe thinking; I am beautiful, I am sexy, I have money, I earn big income, I live in my own house, I drive my own car, I have masters degree, yet men aren't coming to me for marriage, it seems someone cursed me or I am possessed, you are not sister!!


All over the world, it is the same. I laugh at people who think ladies find it easier getting married abroad than in Nigeria....Nigeria is even easier for smart ladies to find a hubby than abroad......so many white ladies are lonely and emotionally depressed due to no serious man in their life which is why Nigerian internet romance scammers keep cashing out big......they take advantage of that situation of loneliness among western women.


The problem is, until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner.


Most single ladies are the cause of their long singlehood......let me share a story with you.


A very close friend of mine shared a story with me last week....this guy is completely single, in fact, any lady that meets him now is lucky because he is mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially prepared and just looking for that one lady to be with. The only thing is, he has been single for too long because he is this kind of perfectionist type of a guy.....maybe too much book made him that way,maybe. If he was a lady, he may never get married, but lucky for him, he is a man, so he will get away with it because it is the man that decides when and whom to marry at the end.


So this guy told me while he was driving to a pharmacy to get an over the counter drugs, he saw a beautiful lady walking on the street.....he drove past her and parked, and respectfully came down and helloed her, luckily she replied, they talked for a few minutes the lady said she was in a hurry, and that she just want to get a taxi at the junction because uber drivers she has been ordering kept refusing to come to her location.....my friend said he offered to take her to wherever she was going that he's free, she declined that he should not worry.....he said okay and asked for her phone number, she refused, and said maybe next time, he told her that next time may never happen.....she said then that's not destined to be....he said okay......he said as he tried to step back into his car, something told him to try again, he said he called out the lady, she turned, he walked towards her and pleaded that let me have your number, its not a crime....if I call you aren't cool with picking, or talking at that moment, I will respect that and maybe not call again, so she gave him the number and with strict instruction:


Please don't bug me with calls, I hate it!!


My friend said he felt so belittled, he just collected the number, and wiped it off the moment he stepped out.


Its an insult to a young man of that pedigree....and why would a single lady give such useless instruction to an admirer


I don't care her previous experiences with other guys.....you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter with some dumb guys when he hasn't even done anything of such or anything wrong.


I no longer pity single ladies searching.......most are the architect of their own problems.....even the ones that end up with foolish men as husbands, they are to be blamed.....you don't pity a company that screen out good, qualified applicants and hired the most foolish applicant....same way, you don't blame a bad employee for being a bad employee to his employer, you blame the employer who saw better candidates' application and stupidly hired the useless employee......ladies are the employer who screen guys and accept the one they feel deserves their attention, so whatever they get, they should swallow it and take it as their mistake!



If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life.

God bless you sir

Kingdemu:
God bless you Sir. If Seankhalifa will be willing to go by what I proposed, your 5k should be able to cover another batch of 10 people at N500 each. And from the responses so far, the following names are the 10 who have shown interest to be assisted.

Preshob
Seeker123
Dblock89
Overself
Sketch007
CBNwords
Bestlily
francisgodstime
Jossyboy21
cutieBR

Thank you very much for your act of kindness.. God bless you sir

ShadowM:
Great just in case we don't get him anyone in Abuja willing to help these people should please let us know

Please can I forward my CV.. FCC Office(Ebonyi) God bless you sir for this act of kindness.

ojorich:
I'm currently in abuja and I intend going to FCC office(kogi) within next week,guess i could also help some people out

I'm paying #800 for the 2 working days right and How do one pay? Just mailed you my number now

GStarr:

Yes... 4hours each day

Ok...please does it mean a day will take 4hours; 8pm-12am?

GStarr:

Session will last for about 4hours for 2 working days...


Area to be covered includes General and business mathematics ( problem on ages, averages, time and distances, work done, number series et al), numerical reasoning, verbal reasoning and use of English.


Please send your whatsapp contact to geexclusive4@gmail.com to be added to the group.


Sessions will start around 8pm each day

I'm interested. How many hours will a session last and what are the areas to be covered within that session? Btw I applied for arts/humanities.

GStarr:

As many sessions as possible Sir.


A session can last for as many days as possible...



And yes... It's 800Naira per session

you wicked sha

johhhnn:

Poverty doesn't buy happiness either! No dy use all these stupid quote motivate yourself

You just said my mind... people are really suffering.. there's hunger and prices of commodities are skyrocketing. It's no longer funny anymore. God help us

Wiseandtrue:
As in even the new 60th anniversary logo looks like a world filled with thorns shooking Nigerians

Nigerian has to be liberated!!!

It has NEVER being this bad!

Honestly I enjoyed reading every bit of it.. Nice write up Op

Godswillu:
This is beautiful
This is the type of post that should be on Nairaland front page

Nbotee:

Happy birthday sir. Wishing you God's blessings, sound health and more grace to fulfill your purpose on earth.

SmartProf:
Very impressive. He is known to deliver projects as Mr. Project...infact he just delivered one at Edo that APC is yet to recover from.

You have God my dear...it's well

Bestlily:
Whenever I see press button I laugh because that word na for people wey get levels. I don't even have any button

@classichsy you can reach me on this mail, chukwusylvaline@gmail.com. can't receive messages on the other mail. Thanks[quote author=classichsy post=83758773][/quote]

Please bulaj can i have your mail in other for me to send the message i want to send out to your mail for you to vet it. Thanks and God bless you

bulaj:


Bug me? Who am I? Please feel free. I am happy to connect with you.

val4sure:
Yes, I meet a girl on tinder, but it was a disaster.
On the first week that we meet, let's say we meet on Saturday, then the next week monday she don start dey bill me.

On monday she asked for 15k for her hair, I told her make she chill nah, we just started 2 days ago. Then 2 days Time she billed me again of 10k, that she need transport to work. I just weak.

I told her we never reach 1 week ooo, then the next day she requested for recharge card which I sacrificed and send to her. After sending the card in the morning, for night she billed me another 10k for feeding money.

I decide to ask her what happened to her former relationship, she said the guy she dated last broke up with her within 3 weeks of starting the relationship. That was when I noticed why the guy man run, I have to take to my heels.

;Dquote author=kadraxkyle post=93276030]congrats to them. Once i find a nairalander suitable for me. i will marry too

Lalasticlala will help us push our nairaland wedding to front page.[/quote]

Better go to church. Happy Sunday

TheCork:


Yor wahala too much I beg...am going to watch blue film

Keep your money huncle have you finished helping those around you Not playing hard to get dude. Just being myself

TheCork:


Ok calm down baby u win. But y r u playing had to get sef? Don't u want moiney?am trying to help u

What will happen you can drop your mail or number

TheCork:


Gimmme ya number now or else...

Enjoy your life of luxury bruh and happy chasing. Peace out

TheCork:



Hangon..
Sweery am a playa. My job is to chase women. Infat, u juss lost your shance, truss me.this would have been your shance to eat proper fish n chips at nando's.. too late now. Lesson learned,next time, u will not do shakara when person is toasting u. Anyways did I mention I drive BMW wit allow wills & I live in expensive nice rich area of London call pekam,& I own 12 suit with about 9 shoes..... juss in case u ask again

No b small pekam abeg comot for here jor

TheCork:



This chick stubborn mennn. So u telling me u dint come hear to find man & to chop my moiney..abi? U post lost your shance to date a londoner.
Can your boyfriends enter London? I have been to London 8times & in London right now innit. In fact did I mentions I drive BMW & I leave in rich area of London call pekam... juss in case u ask

Mr London and BMW never told you i was looking for a man. No b chicks yakpa for London You dey fear to date them ni

TheCork:



This chick stubborn mennn. So u telling me u dint come hear to find man & to chop my moiney..abi? U post lost your shance to date a londoner.
Can your boyfriends enter London? I have been to London 8times & in London right now innit. In fact did I mentions I drive BMW & I leave in rich area of London call pekam... juss in case u ask

Did I ever in anyway mentioned I'm seeking for help keep your money bruh besides i don't need a man to take me to the restaurant before I eat chicken okay shame on you too

TheCork:



Women are suppose to like moiney. Can't u see am trying to help u? When did any mans ever take u to restaurant or when is the last time u eat chicken in chips? ..and then u complain u can't find man (shame on you). Anyways was your please?

Really oh lawd enjoy your London and the BMW. Not interested garrit!

TheCork:



Attitude all ready? Do u realise am from London & I drive BMW? Do u realise am not on ya level? Can yor boyfriends reach London?.. and then u complain u can't find mans on nairaland. Darling am only trying to help u innit. Anyways was your nomba & please can I date u for 300 naira cash?

Have you taken your drugs today kiddo?

TheCork:


Ok I will pay u 200naira cash for warm kiss & good hug plus romance u for 2 minute. Deal?

Not for sale

TheCork:


How much please?

kalvoken:



Guy if truly you are a wise guy as your name suggests, you would pray to turn dog rather than wailing.

Did you read anywhere that's in Nigeria the thing happened? So which job loss are you talking about?

This is so like me

Kemimarch16:
Going out o, honestly I wish to have many friends but it difficult for me because I'm intorvert,it really affecting me in so many ways.

Please daben can you send the it to me @chukwusylvaline@gmail.com. thanks and God bless you. It's well

daben1:
bros, you still need am?