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Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by cuvox(m): 10:44am On Nov 18, 2017
johnstar:
weytn we wn advice u again?

D only advice we go gv u na make u nor play d game
bros easy na. I be still beginner.
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by cuvox(m): 9:32am On Nov 18, 2017
mean while, can somebody please help fund a brother

3486353

trying to arrange some games but no funds to play

abeg quote me so I can thank you

and please someone should check this game and advise me

5XQDKFL
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by cuvox(m): 8:00am On Nov 18, 2017
Abeg somebody should remix and add 3 games 5XQDKFL

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NYSC / Re: KWARA NYSC BATCH B STREAM 1, Let Us Connect Here by cuvox(m): 10:15am On Nov 17, 2017
Millsz:
Boss, the camp no be here!! Just zero ur mind say na 3weeks of suffering and smiling.. Hold enough cash cos the food is useless.. and camp is kinda far from Ilorin(2hrs or more). The weather thr was hot during my time but I think its going to be VERY cold now, so do the needful!! Any other questions, just specify!!

about how ppa be (how many hours we dey work) , accommodation, light and network . I already know state, LG and most ppa doesn't pay
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 4:10am On Nov 17, 2017
stillwendy:
@cuvox, kwara state is terrible. All you heard about it is true. You can't make money here. You will kuku just be spending money. Most PPA here don't pay.

State doesn't pay, lg doesn't pay, most ppa doesn't pay... tired already.

what about accommodation, light and network?
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 4:08am On Nov 17, 2017
SuperSuave3:
Terrible kor, I've been in Kwara for more than 20years, it's peaceful and cheap. Transportation per drop na #50 for cab and bike and #40 for bus

you be Indigene na, not Corper. as per Delta state Indigene, I can tell you that to me the state (Delta) is expensive and as a corper, expect worse.

so, tell me, on Ground of neutrality, how is the state?
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 3:55am On Nov 17, 2017
SuperSuave3:
anyone knows how the cost of living for Edo be? house, food and transportation especially

life in the south here is little bit expensive..
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 3:53am On Nov 17, 2017
olakunlebj:
DELTA!!!!! I hope the place is nice

nice but will be a little bit expensive like almost all southern states. don't expect light too much in some areas..
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 3:51am On Nov 17, 2017
soloez:
Choi! I was posted to kwara state. Who else is with me ?

me. heard their distance is measured in miles and hours
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 3:48am On Nov 17, 2017
SuperSuave3:
Why? Kwara is more of a south western state than north, it's peaceful here and things are cheap. Be happy abeg

so all I am reading online about the state being terrible is play?
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 3:20am On Nov 17, 2017
ever since I learnt it was Kwara, I have been down. my mood done sour...
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 2:49am On Nov 17, 2017
italkmoses:
Drop your number let me add you to the group of PCM's posted to Kwara


reading about the state since and I must admit, I AM APPLYING FOR REDEPLOYMENT
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 1:47am On Nov 17, 2017
kingzic:
Hw do I get to kwara 4rm delta state

in Delta too, got kwara. Think we will use God is Good motors
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 1:38am On Nov 17, 2017
Lilv:
agbedejohn@yahoo.com pswd 07038913269 pls help ooo.

Anambra

NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 1:31am On Nov 17, 2017
Kwara state here
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 7:38pm On Nov 15, 2017
Miaanita:
hello fellow pcms..my uploaded picture ain't that clear when I registered but it was accepted......

Now since people have been receiving messages for Change of picture
..am still yet to receive any message like that both in my phone and dashboard on my nysc portal account...

Pls hope all is well pls and who has a number I can call so as to verify that pls.....

And Friday is almost here....pls who has the same experience too

If there isn't any message on your dashboard or sms, don't fret.

I didnt receive any message but there was one on my dashboard... If you didn't receive any, just chill and keep checking... But I'm sure you don't have to fear

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NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 1:40pm On Nov 15, 2017
hayzed1090:


Alright thanks. It has been changed

better. it affected me too but unlike you, those e-diots didn't send me a message. I logged in and found out. I will therefore advice everyone to do same thing - log in please and view your dashboard. it's not everybody that is affected that will receive a message. I didn't.
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 11:31am On Nov 15, 2017
hayzed1090:
Pls house, I received a msg from nysc to go and change my that my passport . They said it's nt clear. Pls will dis affect me following dis batch?

instead of you to change it now, you are asking. oga change am fes oooooooo.

and we dont know if it will affect you cause honestly, we are all PCMs like you
Romance / Re: Ladies Will You Rock This 15k Eh Bra/towel? by cuvox(m): 9:30am On Nov 15, 2017
GraveMan:
I Like This Thou_ Its More Sexy Than The Normal Bra And It Will Be Faster And Easier To Remove When U Wanta Svck Her Niipple!!!

you badt gan

people are already talking about it

Romance / Ladies Will You Rock This 15k Eh Bra/towel? by cuvox(m): 8:27am On Nov 15, 2017
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Source http://www.eagleheadline.com/archives/11289

NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 6:33am On Nov 15, 2017
Reason why I need to go with this batch.

1. I don't want to be election corper

2. I Dont want to be election corper

3. I don't want to be election corper

4. I want to get it over with so I can peacefully face my life

5. I don't want to participate in any election thing.

this is Nigeria, you gats wise.

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NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 7:31pm On Nov 14, 2017
slanky:
Lol..diz cranked me up!

Serious. Do this, don't do that, remember to do this... Haba
Romance / Re: Most People Enduring Abusive Relationships Have Something They Gain by cuvox(m): 7:59am On Nov 14, 2017
Only1mi:
Absolutely amazing. The trouble here is that your aunty wasn't being abused, she was simply being a user, and that's not what being in an abusive relationship is about.

People create the monsters that destroys them
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by cuvox(m): 7:58am On Nov 14, 2017
Service never start but I'm already tired

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Events / Re: Couple Take Their Wedding Photos To Chaya Mountain In China (Photos) by cuvox(m): 7:37am On Nov 14, 2017
Them no get village people

One uncle or aunty for done table their marra

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Romance / Most People Enduring Abusive Relationships Have Something They Gain by cuvox(m): 7:07am On Nov 14, 2017
I used to wonder why some people endure abusive relationships till I read this story by Jude Idada... and it made sense..
its a long and interesting read.

... We all believed my aunt was trapped in a loveless and abusive marriage.

And because we did, there was no opportunity we didn't seize to tell her how wise and expedient it was to leave her husband.

Three children in tow.

She would weep and tell us how hard she had tried to leave, and how the thought of leaving the children behind was too much to bear.

At the beginning and a long time after that, my father had offered to use his legal chambers to fight for custody of the children on her behalf.

My aunty will thank him profusely and promise to follow up with his offer.

She never did.

Her husband was a military officer.

And was never in want of top positions, in fact, he was a darling of the then military head of state.

It was one state military administrator after another. They even sent him to the United Nations and to ECOMOG.

He fed fat from the coffers of the nation.

Yet, my aunt's tale of woe continued in the midst of the fineries she wore and the luxury she lived within.

My father on his part stopped listening to her, whenever she came visiting and regaled us with lamentations, my father will quietly take his leave and retreat to his bedroom or the upstairs living room.

Then there was a coup d'etat.

A new military government came to power.

My aunt's husband lost his patronage.

And was posted to a far-flung military position, somewhere up north in the middle of nowhere.

In two weeks, my aunt was at our house in Lagos.

With the three children.

She wanted out.

My father wanted no part in it.

My mother was livid.

How could he abandon family at such a perilous time?

My father was cool when he responded to her as we drove to a family friend's birthday party that day.

"Some people use pity as a weapon of manipulation. And use love to blackmail. I will not be an enabler of such an abusive person."

My mother was even more furious.

She made clear her feelings.

My father retained his cool and retorted.

"Some monsters are created by their victims. But the one will call a victim is actually a fellow monster. And that which we accuse the monster of, we do not know, that it is a creation of both monsters."

The more he spoke, the more infuriated was my mother.

"She knows that the whole country see her husband as a monster, so she feigns victimhood to curry sympathy. But that which he is, she also is, but she is smarter than him. She uses him and uses us also who empathize with her feigned situation."

My mother went silent.

"My dear, your cousin is not being abused. She is simply a user. And you are allowing her to abuse your emotions and concern. She has come now because her husband is no longer in a position of power and wealth. Can't you see that what was keeping her in that marriage wasn't fear for her kids, but the power and money that she got from the marriage?"

My mother was still silent and looked out of the car window.

"I saw it in her eyes. Her duplicitous nature. There was a coldness in it. And I realised that she was the true abuser, and he a partner in the abuse. She played you all. Now she is here acting out her fall back plan, and you are her willing puppet. Let her go find someone else to use. Not me and hopefully not you."

He reached over and held her hand.

"Trust me on this. Tyrants like this are usually married to tyrants. The ones who are not, leave their partners a long time ago, because the burden of conscience is too hard to bear in a relationship where one person wants to become a monster for power, and the other doesn't want to."

My mother still looked out of the window.

"Don't you see how she continually attends the NAOWA meetings and events? Don't you see how she name drops and still visits the houses of the powers that be? Your cousin is restrategising, and she is positioning herself in the new scheme of things. She has used her husband to get where she is, and now that he has no value to her, she is using us as a witness to the abuse she had endured so that she is guiltless enough to latch onto another opportunity?

He sighed.

"You see her as a cousin, and it is beautiful how you feel for her and are concerned about her. But she sees us all as pawns. People to be used. She cares only about herself. She is a sociopath. If you keep enabling her, then you are as guilty as herself and her husband for the way they have treated this country and its citizens."

My mother looked back at my father.

I recognised the look.

It was the one she gave him when he won an argument, and she saw the reason in his position.

My aunt stayed with us for a while longer.

Her husband called a number of times and then came visiting twice.

He wanted her to come back.

She didn't want to.

My father made himself scarce.

My mother simply nodded her head as they both made their case to her.

There was no empathy.

Only diplomacy.

My aunt noticed the change in my mother.

She asked her what had happened between them.

My mother was tactful.

But my aunt was smart.

She moved out without complaining again.

A new house.

Children in new schools.

She at all the 'IT" parties.

Then fortunes changed for her husband.

He had somehow warmed himself into the new leadership of the country and was appointed a military administrator of an oil-rich state in the Niger Delta.

My aunt was back with her husband in days.

A first lady once again.

We saw her smiling coquettishly on the 9 .p.m network news as she stood by her husband during the commissioning of a project in the state.

My father looked over at my mother.

It was the - I told you so - look.

My mother shook her head and let out a weary sigh.

And said.

"May God help us all."

My father smiled.

"He has already helped us. We are the ones that have refused to think or see. That believe that the only test of victimhood is only by the words from the mouth of the complainant and not the perusal of their actions. That think evil is only of the ones who are not of our blood, tribe, race, religion or sex. And let our emotions rule our head, instead of the other way around."

We turned to him.

"God did not create anyone as a pawn for another person's benefit. We are the ones who choose to live as pawns out of mental, tribal, emotional, psychological or religious slavery. And we are the only ones who save ourselves."

We stared at him that day in the living room.

Amazed that he had seen what we had not seen.

Even though we all were looking at the same woman.

I had a father.

source: https://www.facebook.com/jude.idada/posts/10155587725781068
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by cuvox(m): 7:01am On Nov 14, 2017
if you are not your boyfriend/girlfriend's female/male best-friend, you are not fit to date that person in the first place.

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Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by cuvox(m): 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2017
Brothers in the house abeg make una help me... Make una fund my bet9ja account 3486353... I wan stay awake this night see Wetin I go fit bet unto ht over 0.5 things... Please...
NYSC / Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by cuvox(m): 10:24am On Nov 10, 2017
michaeldgr8:
2017 Batch B PCM. I don't want to pay for my registration slip cos i want to get my call up letter in school and without m unable to print out green card. will I be given green card also in school??

No
Romance / Re: Man Catches Girlfriend With Another Man On His Bed And Take Selfie With Them by cuvox(m): 6:23pm On Nov 08, 2017
grin
Health / Re: Why You Should Stop Eating In Restaurants In Nigeria by cuvox(m): 11:08am On Oct 31, 2017
Dude stop visiting dirty restaurants to eat. We own a restaurant and for the past 3 years i know how much efforts i have put into this business to make sure quality and hygiene of fôod and services doesnt reduce, you cant trash other peoples work just cause of a few bad eggs. Its like saying everybody should own a car because some bikemen, keke riders and bus drivers are thieves.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Just Created An Android App That Would Curb Job Scams ! by cuvox(m): 11:05am On Oct 31, 2017
nice. Would check it later

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