Pls help me out!!! I have a female colleague who's married with kids, every time she's talking to me she like touching or should I say her hands is always on my body, last week I was talking to a colleague she came from behind wanted to tell me something and she pressed her boobs deliberately on my back, I wasn't comfortable with that.
On my own part I don't want to embarrass her, a friend told me is a normal thing and that she means nothing. But I'm a guy and I know the meaning of that touchy attitude... I want to tell her I'm not comfortable with that and I don't know how to put it, I have being running from having anything with a married woman . pls help me guys
really miss the days when men had the cohunas to say what was on their minds.
SIMP: I love you so much why don't you feel the same way? Girl: k
SIMP: I can't live without you? Girl: k
And other bunch of simpleton statement.
The alpha male hardly chats or doesn't even chat at all with a girl yet he's the most valued. His lifestyle drives her crazy that she desperately desire to be with him at any given opportunity. In conclusion, Dear Men, value your attention!!!! No man earn respect when he showers unnecessary attention to a girl.
there's no valuable assertion to back up your claim. Personally, i dont subscribe to this kind of lifestyle. You value me, I value you!
So you're saying guys should sit back and let the girl do the talking. That one na still relationship?!
EtinosaDLaw: You attach too much importance to yourself. Who cares? Na we go buy pampers for you? You can father 100 children with one woman or with 10, nobody gives a shit. So scurry off.
asin nobody
modify this your nobody with caps lock abeg. Make him d play
Dailyparrot: A girl can have your phone number on her phone for 2 years without texting nor calling you.
There's this girl that I met in 2017 in Uniben. She was doing her Jupeb program that time while I was preparing for my youth service.
We both spent good time with each other then until I left Benin to Lagos in July 2017 when I got posted to serve in Lagos.
We continued to communicate until her numbers stopped going through. So we lost contacts and never got to speak again and that was still that 2017, less than two months after I left.
I have been hoping to run into this girl someday since she stays in Lagos but that never happened.
Fast forward to January 2022 when I went to buy some clothes for my Masters degree convocation at Unilag. I was about to pay for my clothes at a shop at Mandillas, Lagos Island, when I saw a girl and I was like, who's this fine girl.
On a second look, her face looked familiar. Because it's been years we last saw, I needed to be sure it's the person I was with some years back. So, I asked if she's Chidimma, of which she affirmed yes.
We greeted and exchanged contacts. She later told me over the phone that she was shopping for some items to return to school. She left Lagos two days after we reconnected and we continued to chat and talk over the phone.
I thought it was a divine reconnection because I have improved a lot from the person that I was then both financially and otherwise and she's currently in her 500 level. A good time to start something serious isn't it? Lol.
In February, ASUU strike happened and she was forced to return back to Lagos. She informed me all through the time about her return and all. When she got back to Lagos, I tried to see her on several occasions but it didn't work out. She would give one excuse or another. Even when we live close to each other. She stays at Yaba while I stay at Shomolu.
There was one faithful Monday that we both agreed to meet. I called her several times on that Monday but she didn't pick up. I called her with my number that she didn't have and she picked up immediately. As soon as she realized I was the one on the phone, she ended the call and never picked up again.
I was like, this is bull$hit and childish at the same time. I thought at her current level and age, she should learn how to behave better but I was wrong. If for any reason she wasn't able to meet up again, the responsible thing to do is to pick up and tell me that we can't meet again and I will take it that way.
I had to ask myself a reflective question after which I deleted her number from my phone and deleted our WhatsApp conversation.
It's been several months since this incident happened and this girl has never gotten in touch with me either through calls or WhatsApp messages or anything. I have forgotten someone like her exists.
I was surprised to get a message from an unknown number yesterday asking me for a financial assistance to do her project. This girl didn't even deem it fit to say a greeting and ask how I'm doing. At least, she could have pretended a little before going to make her DEMAND.
I wouldn't have gone straight to ask who's this if not the way she went straight to demand urgently for financial assistance. I just stopped responding after she introduced herself because it would make it look like I want the conversation to continue. No need asking about the incident of the last time since I don't care anymore about it or her. I've moved on.
Now, the major reason girls hardly delete a guy's number from their phone is because of moments like this when they might need the help of the person that is undeserving of their time and attention.
Do some guys really fall for this type of girls? Like a girl will surface from nowhere after ignoring you for months and make a financial demand and you will honor it?
Because I don't understand where these girls get their confidence from to act in this manner. So shameless if you ask me.
see as you make food wey i d chop come sour. Worse, you no even block. That one pain me.
Thebest12: There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me . But she keeps disturbing me . Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages. Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her , if I do so am I not overreacting ?
yes you are a simp, and the color of that shirt is indigo not purple. Take it to the bakery
If na woman matter,una go just the soft anyhow. If na man now -no time
Oberhiri141: Ever since i packed into my new house, my landlady and her daughter have been disturbing my life one way or the other.
One day, I gave my landlady 10kg of mama gold rice which was given to me at my place of work and then the following morning she called me and asked me to lend her 10k.
I think she has taken my kindness for weakness and as for her daughter, her own inordinate request for money is unbearable. If it's not meatpie today then it's recharge card or even hair cream.
Please, Elders in the house, how can I cope with this burden?
soft because its women...but shishi una no d give una fellow guy
Ruggedniggaone: They are inconsequential all te important politicians in Benue are working for Atiku victory with or without ortorm and wike Atiku victory is sure
the same benue I come from or another? Name the politicians working for his victory. Cus where I'm from, atiku is not even in the race.
Blessedmercy8: This is rather shocking as the albino guy said the reason for their union is to make more albino babies. Please watch and see the two love birds feeling fly in a world of their own.
For those saying this is a skit, please it is not. Of course they are skit makers, I know but this is not a skit. They are actually getting married. In fact they even said people are doubting them ( just like you guys are doing now) but it will come as a shocker to everyone.
What I'm saying is, is this advisable? Should they continue to multiply their kind, knowing the health challenges they face due to lack of natural protection from the sun as a result of a hormone ( melanin) deficiency.
I would have preferred it if there was a reduction in albinism. Hmmm.. this people better know what they are up to.
I love albinos, atleast those that know how to take care of emselves. No pun intended
Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned. I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.
The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after). 3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).
Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.
Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know. I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.
I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched. So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.
Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).
#Peace!
I enjoyed the epistle...Next one please. I marry you, You masturbate in my presence, you get out!
obembet: I believe Each course is unique and designed to groom students to be the best versions of themselves in the competitive world.
Generally in all courses, Which University level is the hardest?
Nlfpmod Lalasticlala Seun mynd44
I see shege for my 200lvl, then 500lvl came...
Did 4 presentations in less than 10months, spent the whole session in school, continued with my project even after my last paper. Lost my relationship of 3½years. But I still flexed those final year parties sha. Win win and I've muived!
I've this mantra of never laying a hand on a woman. But Tbh, i fit forget my hand for geh face if she talk this kind thing at this moment; She suppose collect!
SyrusdeHansome: So this is how pained u Messi fans are when ur goat is criticized? Wao! Being Ronaldo is the hardest thing on earth. If Messi was 2b getting at least 1/4 of the criticism Ronaldo gets in a day i'm sure he'd contemplate commiting suicide. Just imagine the same pple who r always quick to analyse nd judge Ronaldo's actions nd inactions getting pained seeing Messi receive same treatment?
oga, I'm not a football fan, i just happen to read different news and most atimes, get caught up seeing how youths argue online and offline about these greats
I intentionally made my comment to look like it was an attack just so I can see the reaction from your ends-As expected of course.
Now look buoy, whether Messi or Ronaldo or whoever, some people don't just like being disrespected, cus they're 80% more likely to flare up than play cool.
SyrusdeHansome: Messi is a viper. He's a prententious viper that rarely 4gives nd 4get. He's a very arrogant fellow that has the love nd backing of the football governing body nd the media. Yrs ago pple thought Xavi was a quiet humble person but after his retirement we started seeing his true self. Barca teach their players hypocrisy nd Messi is the biggest hypocrite in football
just lookatew,
Sitting down and confidently typing what you have no single idea about what so ever. Always analysing peoples life like yall could do better on the same position. Just Sharap!
Romance / Re: Will A Man Know If I Tell Him I'm A Virgin While I'm Not? by DaInferno(m): 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2022 
they dont like it when the table turns
The universe is situated such that you meet a stupid person everywhere! Wtf?!