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Politics / Re: “it Is An Insult To Label Fulanis As Criminals” -northern Governors by dare2differ: 1:47pm On Apr 30, 2016
Come and bite us!
Celebrities / Re: Charles Novia Writes On Tiwa Savage And Teebillz Saga by dare2differ: 1:41pm On Apr 30, 2016
I can't believe anyone fell for that depression crapundecided
Celebrities / Re: Transcript Of Tiwa Savage's Interview With ThisDay Editor: 21 Things She Said by dare2differ: 5:14am On Apr 30, 2016
TJ doesn't mind her doing all thatundecided
stroker:
Many inconsistencies frm Tiwa. Sm stuffs might be true but its clear her maital skills are not too good. Also that cheating part, she now cried, good acting. The same person that grinds her ass on co performer on the stage. Tj no be saint, but i can deduce Tiwa frustrate am small. She said in the beginning of the interview that she thought he was dead, also you were not with your phone to see all that was going on online. this presupposes an earlier event between the two that must have happened recently. Now she cm apologize. U employed a cook for the house, then he's too drunk or too moody to ask him to eat. Tj expected more from the lady financially which is very wrong. He's helped her career but it does not gv him the right to also depend solely on her and squander resources. In all, both of them Bleep up, but mk Tiwa no play the victim at all. Lying to do damage control on a battered reputation. She had to make a video of the interview so that she can show theatrics as regards het composure, dressing, and the crocodile tears. My take is that this is not the time to call to be interviwed to play vict8m. Selfish and callous
Celebrities / Re: Teebillz Takes Cocaine, EFCC Investigating Him Over N45m -tiwa Savage by dare2differ: 5:00am On Apr 30, 2016
Your sexism no get rival

May you meet a woman like her husbandsmiley
raumdeuter:
With the interview of Tiwa I now believe Teebillz more.

He owes EFCC, He cheats, jealousy,, Whasapp with woman, now he used cocaine

What else He sponsors Fulani herdsmen, he killed Abacha, He caused global warming

Listen to her interview, her main issue revolves round him not having money
Men listen, being broke is the greatest offence you can commit to a woman, the moment you are broke, Boko Haram would be better than you

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 11:27pm On Apr 29, 2016
Okay sunshine

Sleep tight!
goingape:
OK moonlight!


have a nice day!
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 11:20pm On Apr 29, 2016
smiley cheesy


Teespice:


bad belle

enemy of progress.

coming from a woman, later when boys begin to bash your gender, you will be the first to scream blue murder.

what a shame.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 11:17pm On Apr 29, 2016
I enjoy insult people like you. OMG!I love it. But bittersad. Nah, that ain't me.

Fragile, sensitive and dare2differ in a sentenceshocked. It is definitely unheard of. For a guy who blames rich women for their husband's insecurity and irresponsible behaviours, I will take a walk sirundecided.

You are no position to say sh.it!
goingape:
you are not an humanist but a bitter soul who derive pleasure in insulting others and long for someone to comfort her. I always knew you from the side and SOMetimes don't want to cross ya way not because of avoiding fight but know how you are fragile and sensitive to many things.

check your own history and see for yourself.
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 10:49pm On Apr 29, 2016
I am a humanist. I have seen your mor.onic posts and your stand have always been against her because she has more money and he doesn't. undecided A man who could blame everyone including his own family but conveniently missed himself, is nothing short of a mor.on

You really need to check your post history mister.
goingape:
you are always fast in rainy INSULT on someone who go against somthing but slow in seeing and observing the other person's view (man)

I don't blame you probably because you are a female who hid behind her own misconception.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 10:40pm On Apr 29, 2016
So it is okay to ruin another person's life if you hustled for them?

You need to keep your emotions in check mister undecided
FADEO:


You are a fool. Go and read a book by TD JAKES... HE Emotions..... You just open that your stinking mouth to say nonsense when you no dey there. have you heard the mans side of the story before you judge. A fool judge a matter without hearing both sides of the story. you did not see the part that she said he hustled for her. My dear in all thine getting, get brain....

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 10:37pm On Apr 29, 2016
Stop making mor.onic statement to justify your sexism.-
goingape:
this one has come back again!



how do you know he want to bankrupt his wife undecided

stoping saying RUBBISH just to please the other side.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Marriage To Teebillz Is Over - Tiwa Reveals In An Interview by dare2differ: 10:30pm On Apr 29, 2016
If I prayed that 'may your wife bankrupt you!' 'M'

Would you say Amen to ir? If no, you are a hypocrite



Let's try an irresponsible, lazy and insecure man who wants nothing but to bankrupt his wife wink
goingape:
you talk as if it is easy for a man to get something doing and to feed your immediate family!

when a woman have money more than her husband this same scenario keep repeating itself.

all I see is just a woman bragging about her wealth and make him seem he is not doing his job.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Filing For Divorce Was Cause Of Tbillz Suicide Attempt by dare2differ: 9:47pm On Apr 29, 2016
Most pigs won't believe this, all they care about is a woman who is arrogant and disloyal

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Romance / Re: Why We Dont Reply PMS by dare2differ: 8:15pm On Apr 29, 2016
It is true now. I didn't know she was this smart
pinceprinz:


She have started again oh, Cause trouble!! grin
Romance / Re: Igbo Girls And Women Are Still The Most Beautiful In Nigeria by dare2differ: 8:13pm On Apr 29, 2016
I know, all the ones I see on gleesmodel are indeed beautiful grin










That was sarcasm tongue
Romance / Re: Estharfabian's Voice Note by dare2differ: 8:11pm On Apr 29, 2016
Unlike you she tries hard to pronounce words the way they should
MRSANITY:
I listened to Estharfabian's voice note, please that accent she used is for which country? It doesn't sound british, neither does it sound american, please listen and let me know who she was trying to imitate.
Romance / Re: Why We Dont Reply PMS by dare2differ: 8:08pm On Apr 29, 2016
I didn't know you have sense like this undecided
HateU2:
lol

I hear you bro
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is The Real Victim Of Teebillz Rant. Has Anyone Asked If She's OK? by dare2differ: 7:40pm On Apr 29, 2016
She slept with 2baba yet he eats in 2baba's house, collects his wife's food and did not seek divorce cool

An insecure man will say anything to shift blame. Yes, he is insecure. he is only trying to blackmail her!

elampiro:


How is he insecure? What has that got to do with a woman cheating on her husband?

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is The Real Victim Of Teebillz Rant. Has Anyone Asked If She's OK? by dare2differ: 7:30am On Apr 29, 2016
You can't defend her because of what an insecure man said. I understand you now
elampiro:


So you couldn’t figure out that his outburst on a fan was due to the trauma of his wife cheating with celebrities. And that fan was suggesting Tiwa shoot a video with a male celebrity. The fan also used the 'f' word.

It's a pity people have decided to defend Tiwa. Nigerians worship celebrities. If all that have been said is true, no sensible person should defend Tiwa.

I also like Tiwa, but I can't defend her for cheating. Not one or two.

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is The Real Victim Of Teebillz Rant. Has Anyone Asked If She's OK? by dare2differ: 12:16am On Apr 29, 2016
Look in the mirror


Do you know what they agreed to before/after marriage? What makes you think that all those people you listed do that every fvcking time?

By the way, her career is actually more intensive than theirs.

LesbianBoy:


The person who wrote article must be MAD! Infact the person deserves an "oscar" for the "most senseless person ever" What nonsense! Just look at the bolded! Pls is omotola not a celebrity too? But she said she still cooks for her husband! Dakore egbuson, is she not a celebrity too? But she still has time for her man and cooks for him! Chioma chukwuka nko? Shebi she is a celebrity too, but she still has time for her husband and cooks for him! I can go on and on.....Gadammit! So what the fvck is the writer of this CRAP article talking about? The writer of this article even claimed to be a "man". But I doubt it! It must be one of those FOOLISH STOOPID feminists I am sure! But if the STOOPID person who wrote this article is actually a man, then he must be one of those pvssy-whipped FOOLS who would rather lie just to please the female folks! As far as I am concerned, its only a STOOPID PERSON that will agree with what the OP posted! Nansense!

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Is The Real Victim Of Teebillz Rant. Has Anyone Asked If She's OK? by dare2differ: 12:10am On Apr 29, 2016
Some women and men are mor.onic. It is a woman and she is making more money. She must the reason. Even when the man is making all the money, she must be the greedy one.
I wish people would see beying gender.

Mamatee07:


You know this how? Did he specify if she dated those guys before marriage or after? Have you never seen jealous insecure men accuse their wives of sleeping with anyone who comes around them

How can he say Tiwa is sleeping with Tuface and still go eat in Tuface's house Does that not sound like a mad man angry can you do such a thing


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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 1:48pm On Apr 28, 2016
That is not true. I don't know any woman in my family who stayed at home. Indeed men have been raking in more money. Would you be surprised if I told you that most of these women often endure abuse. The most common one is threats of being thrown out of the family home. That is the Nigerian situation. There are lots of articles on it. I mean it is everywhere. I can talk about English scenarios too. Money is power and power corrupts be it man or a woman. Making a man the sole/main provider does not mean that it does not corrupt men the way it corrupts women. It does. There are many documented accounts and research on this issue.

Maybe you need to move away from the domestic context and focus on other relationships. You should have noticed that they way you treat individuals differ. Usually it comes form a consicus or subconscious understanding that you are equal to the perosn, above the person or lower to the person. These factors greatly affects the way you treat the person. Now when you put that in the domestic context where you wake and sleep with the person, where proximity is everything, it is easier to take it to the extreme than you would have with a friend or a stranger. Power struggle is real and it's consequences are real. Let's stop making this gender thing. It is far more than that.

Would you be surprised if I told you that as women suffer more extreme forms of abuse from their male partners. Children are often the victims of abusive women.

It would make sense that a woman would be abusive in a relationahip where she takes in more money. However in a society that recognise men as the sole/main providers, men who earn far less tend to see themselves as weaklings. They will naturally start to hate on her success. Every action would be analyse and often misinterpreted. He would want to gain that power and most of them often resort to violence as a means of control.

There are relationships where both couples are violent and abusive. Women also resort to violence to gain power. To get their man to act in a certain way. Some of them do it because they know they will get away with it. Some of them do it because they know that people wouldn't really believe a woman can act in such manner. However in comparison to men, the rate is lower.

Look at teebliz case, he is blaming everyone except himself. The moment I read the part where he blamed her for his lack of success. I knew this was a case of a man whose wife abuses or a man who feels emasculated because his lack of success. The latter is more likely because his failure began when he stopped being her manager.



You need to look beyond gender because if gender were such a big factor, how would you explain abuse in homosexual relationship. This isn't about a woman or a man. It is about what we all experience. People blame the female gender when a woman is at fault, people blame her when the man is at fault.


-I know my points are not well coordinated but try to read am like that.


sukkot:
men have been doing it since the time of adam and there has been no issues with it. its the norm and not the exception. thats the household most of us who are over 20 grew up in. daddy working and mummy at home.

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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 12:34pm On Apr 28, 2016
sukkot:
very few do. most men are happy to provide for their wives or girlfriends. many boys send their girlfriends to uni and pay her tuition. i see many cases on NL

I am not talking about how the man feels for providing for the family. I am talking about the consequence of being the sole/main provider. How it affects the relationship? How it makes the man feel about his partner and his family?

How would you know that very few man do so? I told you it was complicated.

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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 12:24pm On Apr 28, 2016
sukkot:
i have seen a few. you think men like general idiagbon and buharis wives will disobey them because they earn less ? study those two men - very strong and principled and carry themselves with dignity and have an aura of authority and seriousness about them. you think because one uselesss woman has a few more dollars than them she will have the balls to talk anyhow to idiagbon and buhari ? so like i said - a man has to be very dignified and upright and strong and principled and no woman even if she earns more will disrespect you. see the problem is yall meeting weak men who you can boss around.


I am still going to disagree with you. To agree with you, you will have to answer my question.

Why do men who also earn far higher than their wives abuse their partners?

Note though, I am not saying women are always the victim. I know better than to agree to that stereotype.

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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 12:10pm On Apr 28, 2016
That is not true. When a woman with a means of power acts, people often use her erx to either blame her or praise her. They wouldn't see a case human behaviour with arrogance that enjoys misuse of power. They forget that this is what some women go through everyday when their husband is the breadwinner.

In relationships, it is more complicated.


sukkot:
On point too. only few women can pull it off naturally but all women can be made to pull it off if they meet the man who i described earlier. wink

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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 12:04pm On Apr 28, 2016
keepingmum:
First he blames Tiwa for his misfortune
Then he blames Tiwa's mum for his misfortune
Then he blames his own father for his misfortune

Mr Teebilz? Where is your sense of responsibility in any of these? I know for a fact this isnt a publicity stunt as they have both been silent on each others grams for a couple weeks. I also know they have been separated for a while.

What we have here is a classic case of a boy child who has refused to grow into a man. He will rather blame everyone for his problems than accept responsibility

This is a guy with 2 kids prior to his marriage with Tiwa. Why couldnt those relationships work? He blames his father
Why couldnt his relationship with Tiwa work? He blames his mother in law

Even to the point of saying she hasnt asked him what he will eat in 3 years? Seriously Yet in the same sentence says she has been the breadwinner. Please the food you eat who provides it? The money you spend to eat out who provides it? What have you done, Mr "I am the husband and Lord of the House" to remedy the situation? They have been married for 2years and if she didnt cook for you in 3 yrs then clearly you have nothing to complain about cos she had been doing that pre marriage so wetin con be the problem?

This is what Linda Ikeji said when she wrote that often times, ,when men have nothing to say they body shame a woman by saying she is sleeping around. Maybe she did sleep with these men but is it also possible all these happened whilst she was dating these single men?

Is Teebilz going to say he didnt sleep with any lady before marrying Tiwa.

Boy you need to growwwwww the efff up and face up to your responsibilities. You are crying online because your wife no give you food chop. This guy married Tiwa cause she was an upgrade from his babymamas!!! Classic gold digger who is now crying fowl because sugarmama stopped his monthly stipends.

Take alook at the "romance" section of nairaland and you ll see a whole generation of self entitled boy childs "reporting" their other halves for not doing whatever.

May GOD help these generation of men that think its okay for a woman to be the breadwinner


Are you a man?
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Slept With Donjazzy, 2face & Dr Sid - Tee Billz Accuses Wife by dare2differ: 12:00pm On Apr 28, 2016
I remember reading that you wanted her to get proper waeves, lose weight and dress more elegantly to be marketable. What happened now? Did you start thinking differently when you stopped being her manager? Tiwa should have sought help when this started hapoeningundecided.

Both of them must have lived together before they got married. Did he not see what he was getting into or did she changed after marriage?;

Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 11:40am On Apr 28, 2016
I think what we have here is a classic case of power struggle.

If it is, teebliz must be really stvpid. Tiwa is doing well and he isn't. He feels emasculated. He has to blame someone. Tiwa's discouragement was the beginning. If her parents marriage was the same, that is the if her mother brought in more dough than her husband, then he feels justified to blame her and juju. He starts to see every action as a mockery of his position. He analyses her every step. It is all in his head. He needs to show his superiority so he starts making all these accusations. Then follows it with domestic abuse.

However Tiwa could be the cause, she needed to show him that she was right and wouldn't stop reminding him that he failed because he didn't listen to her. She is always having these shows. She is getting more famous. He is at home doing nothing. His once successful career isn't going in well. He is no longer the man she once knew. So she argues, words were exchanged and she strikes him. And he hits back. So men are physically more powerful and she got hurt but they blame him.


Either way, I hope they resolve this madness amicably. It would be mor.onic to blame her without any evidence that she treated him less than a partner. If you think you know better, then you have to explain why men who earn far higher than their partners abuse as much as men who earn far lower.

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Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 11:25am On Apr 28, 2016
smiley
kozykid:
Funny how we invest everything into Bella Naija weddings and can't manage Marriage at the end of the day....
Peeps prayed for their type of weddings and some labelled it relationship goals

Funny society
Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Wants To Commit Suicide by dare2differ: 11:22am On Apr 28, 2016
He could also be the cause of his pains. sad

modath:
Tiwa and her husband should take their problems inside house & we nor wan hia "hacking" later!!!

The details revealed in the posts (now deleted) strikes too close to home to be from a remote source!!!!!

The guy is in deep pains though but to feel pity for him is hard, the lady he abandoned in the US (with 2kids) for "superstar" Tiwa couldn't have been wishing him well!! #karma #colddish
Celebrities / Re: Toolz Reveals She Is Bleaching, Fans Blast Her by dare2differ: 11:04am On Apr 28, 2016
It is not bleachingundecided. Your face would only appear brighter, a natural brightness. It removes dead skin cells and age spots.

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Romance / Re: Smartress, Mattress Detects & Tells When Someone Else Is Having Sex In Your Bed by dare2differ: 10:38am On Apr 28, 2016
Thank you very much kiss kiss kiss
I will call on you when it is time.


sukkot:
ohh shyttttt its all about Lanicky. lanicky must win this thang. we need change change change and only Lanicky can deliver change. grin



of course. let me go see her profile wink

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Romance / Re: Smartress, Mattress Detects & Tells When Someone Else Is Having Sex In Your Bed by dare2differ: 8:13am On Apr 28, 2016
Lol. I need your help o. We need you to support our contestant for Miss Nairaland 2016. Her moniker is Lanicky. What say you? Please?


sukkot:
grin just got released from my ban. give a black man power and he cant handle his ego * sigh *

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