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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 7:41am On Aug 24, 2019
PrimadonnaO:


Better don't read nonsense written by a bunch of misguided sycophants and illusionists.

They create uncountable duplicate accounts cheering themselves... their fickle popularity lives and dies on romance section.
cool
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 7:30am On Aug 24, 2019
darediamond:
"an helper"? You mean like a MAGA?
Aside sex, most Nigerian girls have nothing to offer.
but ur gender is showing female na
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 7:26am On Aug 24, 2019
Myhusband:
the only thing I don't like in that your post is your insincerity. you don't want anything to affect ya 2:1 hence why you don't want relationship or fall in love. if you haven't fall in love with the said lady why asked her your kind of friendship with her? why bothered with her blunt response of being in a platonic relations with you


in nutshell, if the lady had hide her intention and pretend to you, when you asked the baby question and she said you're in a friendship that might lead to marriage, I'm sure you wouldn't have open this thread before giving her the money


information you didn't pay for, 99.1% are the percentage of my female friends while male friends struggle to be 0.09% then in school. I smashed 80% of these ladies without toasting them.

I have nothing to say in regards to money, if you should give her money, it's ya choice. my male friend in school once gave a lady 50k to do shopping when food hard for me his guy to eat then
if a girl tells u that she is in a friendship with you that she wants the friendship to lead to marriage what does it mean
pls give me hints
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 7:21am On Aug 24, 2019
PotatoSalad:
Platonic friends kee her there
thanks boss for that WhatsApp trick u once posted where u said in the last part that after viewing her chats one can go ahead and drink sniper.
I did spied on her WhatsApp tho.
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 7:06am On Aug 24, 2019
Mydazz:
OP you stated what the girl wanted(platonic friendship) but forgot to state what you want or wish,...... that aside how close are you guys in this platonic level?

very close, before her challenges came up back then during 100level she calls and messages to Know how I'm faring, if I don't call for a week she complains that I've abandoned her I control her anyhow I wish, I do call to see her during odd hours at odd places and she obliges, anytime I asks to see her she has never for once given me excuses even when her schedule is tight she will still find a way to see me, drops loads of messages on WhatsApp and whenever I'm a day or two off Whatsapp she'll flash to know if I'm still alive lol, she says a week shouldn't pass without me calling thrice and a week shouldn't pass without us meeting up each other and she hasn't asked me of any financial assistance before even when she's out of data or airtime she won't ask, I'll only do that without her request and if at all I want to help I'll help because of all these stuff I've told u.
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If it's one of your male friends is in this predicament will you be willing to do the same?
of course Sha but tho it'll be limited after all I helped out a guy i barely knew with 15k earlier for accommodation but when I later come broke for school ehn as foodstuffs finish and everything the guy couldn't reciprocate.
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:54am On Aug 24, 2019
greggng:



You are a selfcentred person. You can only get blessed when you help without expecting anything. Infact I visited my ex in her school ...as I was driving out I saw a lady crying and I requested to know why she was crying ...I was able to find out from some students that she will not be allowed to sit for exam the next day...I took her to the nearest atm and withdrew the whole cash plus additional cash for her personal need....she was so happy ...seeing that happiness in her face made me happy...atleast I have done something nice. There is a difference btw you not having and having and not helping. Help without any strings attached and you will reap the reward in a great way. That lady might be your saviour tomorrow. I practice what I preach.

the question is "if it was a guy crying so would u have offered to help the exact way u helped this unknown crying lady?

cc castro316

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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:52am On Aug 24, 2019
Harddiskng:


This man ehn Lmao grin

But seriously once a babe you ask out mention platon... The guy-man thing to do is to give her madt spacing. Hello-hello na once in like 2/3 months. I no no wetin they are still dey discuss to the extent she feels so comfortable discussing her problems with him when her parents are still alive.
mehn you're so right bro.
discussions wey dey on platonic mode suppose get limit, e no suppose pass boundary to the extent of asking for financial help and discussing her family challenges with me as if I be her husband
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:46am On Aug 24, 2019
AntiBrutus:
To the extent that I can help without struggling.

I always tell people, if you can't give without expecting anything in return, DON't GIVE.

Sometime ago, a friend came to me for 130k. She needed it to buy some things for her business. When she sent the message, I didn't reply fast, she thought I was probably ignoring. So, she sent a VN join... cheesy

When I read and listened to her VN, I replied "lol". Not like I was mocking her, but she was almost begging and swearing with her life.

I just told her to send her acct number. I couldn't even imagine her begging a guy like that, knowing how lots of our guys reason. Few wks later, she was back again. Don't forget she paid the former right on time.

I had to ask her this time, why struggling for working capital, lets see your books. That was how we became partners.

I've had another young man ask me for money for his sick mum medical bills, I gave it to him.

Way back in uni, I paid the sch fees of a colleague who was crushing and I didn't "love" him enough to date him.

Just yesterday, a friend was telling me I am too humane, he is scared people (guys to be specific) might take advantage of me. I told him not to worry, as much as I could be fcking generous- I am also VERY discerning.

The good news is, I have never begged my friends for financial help. But they are so nice that they sometimes ask if I have problems at all and I shouldn't hesistate to share when I do have one...

The cosmos has a way of settling people that are truly altruistic.

When it comes to giving, I like to think I see humans, not a gender. Though I am beginning to reconsider my stand.
sorry from your write up it looks like you're a female right?
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:42am On Aug 24, 2019
franchasng:
Opposite sex = None!!


Close old time male friends = unlimited wink


"Any young man who goes about giving his female friends or platonic friends money without any benefit attached will never be rich nor great" - Williams Churchill


"Only weak, gullible men allow women manipulate them into becoming their friends just to be helping them when they need help without offering him any help in return" - Macbeth 1845


"Men who keep platonic female friends that are not their business associates or work colleagues are weak and not destined to be great" - Muslini


"If you want to be great as a man don't keep platonic or female friends, treat all women as business transaction where you must make profit" - Michael Jackson


"The only fruitful connection that connects a man with a woman who is not his blood relative, business associate, work colleague is sex, don't be deceived" - James Bond


"Women never take a man serious nor care about his growth or success until they have had sex with him" - Australian Billionaire Mr. Forest
hmm where u get all these quotes from?
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:39am On Aug 24, 2019
Harddiskng:


Lmao grin

You are being driven by your emotions bro. You are a hustling guy, you won’t give any of your guys in need 30k why consider giving it to a girl that has friend-zoned lol.

Her parents are still alive, allow them to go the extra-mile to pay her fees. You have zero obligation towards her. If you feel like giving as a good Christian/muslim, give her what you give any of your guys, even 5k is plenty for her. Guy change your wardrobe (your future babe would like you to dress well) and buy a good present for your mum (she deserves it), your father and siblings (family first) any amount you have to spare you can give to her, if you feel like it.

Put it at the back of your mind your good deed wouldn’t be rewarded and may be quickly forgotten. She would definitely not consider giving you 30k if your situations were reversed.
absolutely brilliant cool
I like that future babe aspect u wrote there
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:38am On Aug 24, 2019
castro316:


Bro. If you have asked her out pls dot give her this money. This is a stale lie girls use to extort money from friendzone guys ad others who have her on their wish list. Observe her. Does she have a phone? She should sell it. Platonic friends right? She should go and meet her boyfriend. I am dead sure this girl has paid her school fees she just looking for a way to milk you off because you are drooling for her pussy. Girls are normally merciless to guys they don't have feelings for so be careful lest you get burnt.

It hurts my badly that men can't help their fellow men.
@the latter part of your message, it's not all oh.
when I had money earlier this year I helped a guy with 15k for accommodation and no refund... and also boosted his upkeep and food stuff as he wasn't receiving anything from home by then
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:26am On Aug 24, 2019
silento:
Don't let anybody deceive u into thinking that helping others will return u to square one , let me tell u I dash someone the last 5k in my account at the beginning of the year , owu blow me like 3weeks before I could stand again but u won't believe that now I earn my first million this year , help others and don't do it when ur camera is on , do it with ur heart and expect nothing in return God's blessing is the ultimate
Thanks bro even Christ said it is more better to give than to receive, the secrets to being financially blessed is in giving
Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:24am On Aug 24, 2019
BucketMan:
pls ubunja do this abeg..thanks
abi na?
me also anticipating Sha cos that thread go make sense

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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:23am On Aug 24, 2019
ReeLoaDead:
Chai, there is one broke guy that is collecting the goodies from this lady while this poor dude just the pay money from the other end undecided
if at all I find out that kind thing na for me to borrow gun go blast both of them

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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:22am On Aug 24, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Give without expectation
the thing is can u do same to a male friend you're not dating?

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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 6:21am On Aug 24, 2019
Teejayphillip:
Ere kini aja ba ekun shey? (which Kai play Tiger dey follow Dog play)?

Wetin concern me and platonic abi MALTONIC friend

I go too unscrew ur kitten nuts grin grin grin.

I go too scatter ur palace,e mi EKUN
Oboy this one strong cheesy
Politics / Re: Kosisochukwu Anioma Wasn't Kidnaped, Went To Owerri To Visit A Friend (Picture) by DateMynd44(m): 6:02am On Aug 24, 2019
PennywysCares:
She has been taken rounds upon rounds while her was there worried.

Confirmed Enugu babe can't disappoint us when it comes to dick game
let ur mind be pure bro, that girl isn't of age to do all that.
Politics / Re: Kosisochukwu Anioma Wasn't Kidnaped, Went To Owerri To Visit A Friend (Picture) by DateMynd44(m): 6:00am On Aug 24, 2019
Electdbahdguy:
shocked


When I first saw the kidnap news, I smiled and at same time laughed out loud. You may have asked why??

It's simple. She looked like someone that has been caged all through her life. Most richkids are like that. No freedom like their counterparts.

Meanwhile, I'm sure she's pregnant and as a small girl that she is.... Missing her period prolly for the first time, she had to rush go see the pregnantee in Owerri for possible and quick solution. So therefore, make them run BPT for her immediately.

But if above ain't the case, then why she couldn't wait till school resumes to carry out the dickursion!! Now putting the parents at worry.

Don't bother asking how I know this. NKECHI and Chioma have been spending a whole time at my place even when they are supposed to be in school.

Threesoome made easy!!!!!
lol that ur second meme get as e be o cheesy

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Romance / Re: What Must The Lady Have Before Going Into Marriage?? by DateMynd44(m): 12:23am On Aug 24, 2019
Magnoliaa:


Nice one. And the most important, an empty head.
lol this ur sarcastic comment is so funny

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Sports / Re: Fernando Torres Retires From Football After 6-1 Final Match Loss In Japan(Photos by DateMynd44(m): 12:21am On Aug 24, 2019
Maldini212:
El-nino.is a legend Bleep MANure fans Up chelsea
shut up

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Sports / Re: Fernando Torres Retires From Football After 6-1 Final Match Loss In Japan(Photos by DateMynd44(m): 12:19am On Aug 24, 2019
Sevenlords:
Wow
can u explain that pics?

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Romance / Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by DateMynd44(m): 12:16am On Aug 24, 2019
Danwakae:




HOW CAN YOU BE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE'S OPINION ON THIS ......U ARE WICKED




IF U DONT SEND THAT MONEY TO HER ALLAH WILL NOT FORGIVE U...MUST U GIVE AND TAKE ..


BRO PLEASE , I DONT KNOW HER, BUT PLEASE HELP HER, SHE MIGHT JUST BE SAVING U FROM DEATH BY DEMANDING PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP...ALLAH IS THE MOST SUFFICIENT, BENEFICIAL...


IF U DO IT, ALMIGHTY WILL BLESS U MORE THAN THAT, WHEN U GRADUATE , GOOD WORKS WILL COME LOOKING FOR U IN'SHA ALLAH...AMIN.
thank you very much bro God bless you
Sports / Re: Fernando Torres Retires From Football After 6-1 Final Match Loss In Japan(Photos by DateMynd44(m): 9:29pm On Aug 23, 2019
Amarabae:
Spain has a lot of cute guys grin kiss
ode carry your mumu sef commot for here.
iranu

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Sports / Re: Fernando Torres Retires From Football After 6-1 Final Match Loss In Japan(Photos by DateMynd44(m): 9:28pm On Aug 23, 2019
failed and wasted career

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Politics / Re: Photos Of President Buhari With Emir Sanusi by DateMynd44(m): 6:17pm On Aug 23, 2019
Abalado:
Lol,,,, is this one too Emir or what? With bathroom slippers to the Aso rock.. What's wrong with all these abokis self,, leg the pain am ni[color=#990000][/color]
lol u guys can be so observant grin
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by DateMynd44(m): 6:12pm On Aug 23, 2019
OttHin:


vessel wey dey supply heart attack and other heart related sickness.
I no still understand oh
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by DateMynd44(m): 6:11pm On Aug 23, 2019
Couponchecker:
More like 1 and 2 Had a minor accident at first, the rest is history.
take heart bro
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by DateMynd44(m): 5:22pm On Aug 23, 2019
OttHin:







Answer; (d). Alabi

wetin be alabi
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Admission Help by DateMynd44(m): 5:16pm On Aug 23, 2019
herlecks:
Amen. I and my friend will both be in contact. May I have your name, sir? I'm Alex
what was your sister's score In Post utme?
Education / Re: UNN Law Students Defy Rain To Celebrate Final Exams (Photos) by DateMynd44(m): 5:10pm On Aug 23, 2019
Katenavas:
WELL DONE BOYS, you are joining millions of unemployed graduates in Nigeria.....
RUBBISH.
because you're unemployed doesn't mean they will also share same misery and fate like u.
wish them well and move on
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by DateMynd44(m): 5:08pm On Aug 23, 2019
Couponchecker:
My Aunty was finally laid to rest today.

May her soul rest in peace.
how did she die?
sickness, accident, murdered?
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by DateMynd44(m): 5:08pm On Aug 23, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
wolves vs Burnley
thanks bro make I go stake Sha tho that one get as be.
u dey play pools abi?

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