Phenomenal16:
See d way,,,,all of u are commenting as if d story is true

Sister, it is hundred percent true.

Hi Good People On Nairaland. My name is Davindal. I am a 29 years old ex Nigerian soldier but now an IT Expert. I got married on September 2019 to my beautiful wife.

It all started on March 2019, 6 months after I voluntarily discharged from the Nigerian Army due to serious injuries - though I am well and currently fit.

One evening around 9:10 PM, I was strolling home from a bar not too far from my street; when suddenly, A very pretty tall and well shaped chocolate complexioned lady accosted me. The moment I noticed that someone was fast advancing on my position from the rare, I had to quickly sway my body indefensive stance. Lol and behold, it was this very beautiful lady.

I was amazed at her. She equally noticed I was terrified and at the same time curious about her intention in bouncing on me from behind. Then she said, "Brother, please, I am sorry in the manner in which I approached you. My name is Ruth, and I have a problem and I need your help now".

Hmm... I contemplated inwardly what the problem was...how could this fine girl be needing help from an ex-soldier that equally needs help so as to fix thing up. These thoughts and more roamed aggressively on my mind.

Then, I asked her what the problem was, and she told me that she is a first year student of UNN. that she lost her ATM card and hard nothing on her to buy anything basically food. She pleaded that I should just buy her food for the night.

I searched my wallet, and found only N150. Guy man don spend all the N35000 (money) wey him carry commit around 6:00 PM to go flex some bottles and also buying drinks for a few homies. Whereas, in my area 2019 a plate of food was from N300 to N400 then.

I asked her not to worry, that despite the fact I had no enough money on me that I would still buy her food. She was all smiles.

As an area, I took her to a restaurant at a distance of a pole away from where we were standing and bought her a plate of food worth N400 due to the two pieces of meat in it, and a bottle of malt. I met the madam who runs the restaurant who happens know me quite well, and promised to come pay them tomorrow.

She obliged and was even hailing me "Awua! the Awua rugged!!" maybe because of the fine babe. However, we left that restaurant around 10:15 PM.

When we got out of the restaurant she said, the gate keeper to her lodge might have locked the entrance gate. That she would need to talk to a few of her lodge mate to inform them that she was locked outside so the could call come beckon on the gatekeeper to come open the gate but the problem was zero airtime.

I said no qualms, I transferred N200 airtime to her mobile phone from my GTB account. Before me, she placed a call to a close lodge mate who then rushed to her request. We exchanged contact and she left.

Thereafter, we keep talking over the phone periodically, but I noticed she was becoming more attached, and was calling me endearing names. Contrary to her advances, I was in a relationship with another lady (who is currently my wife) before that encounter, and I didn't want to cheat.

However, I lost my phone on June 2019 hence all the contact on it. When I bought a new phone 2 days later and welcomed back my sim I have to copy a few numbers from my diary into my new phone, hence lost her number.

I moved on, even though I was not eying her for a relationship but she called one day again and we started talking again. On September 2019, I married my wife traditionally without telling this babe about it.

Shockingly, I bumped into this babe in PortHarcourt, on 15 December, 2019... didn't quite know she was the one for the only time I met her was in the night, and it was around my area at Nsukka.

That day In PH, I was going about my business when suddenly she bumped into me on the door way in a super market/shopping mall. I passed her by, and she called me by my name "Davindal!". I turned but couldn't recognized her easily. The style of her hair made her confusing in appearance.

She was looking extremely gorgeous. Guys around us where admiring her and also watching us in awe. Then she said, " It is me...Ruth". I was excited so was she too, we embraced each other. Drove in her car to a cool place to chill. NB: I was surprise seeing her in such a big car but I held my calm.

After which she told me her dad sent her for a business deal with a firm that she was in that shopping mall to pick a few things. Surprisingly, sas we were gisting she informed me that something in her tells her that I just married few months ago. I kept mute...couldn't say a word. She said anyway no problems.

When I came back, to my hotel room, I was confused for I remembered, I never told her my name, not even in the night I met her, not to talk about getting married. I Couldn't phatom how she new about these things.

Please note: I have a one year 5 months old son now, and my wife is currently pregnant.

Fast forward to this year 2021, though ever since I bumped into her in PortHarcourt on Dec. 2019 we have been talking over the phone and via WhatsApp media.

In one of my conversations with her she jokingly told me that she has a key to my stars, and that she loves me dearly and would do anything for my sake even though I am married.

Then I summoned courage to ask her how she came to that conclusion, and she said she would tell me when we meet. She asked to see me privately, I told her that I am on a contract job in Abuja, that I would be back to Enugu State in a month's time.

I later came on April 2, 2021, sneakingly met and slept with her on 15th of April in a hotel. We had a nice time. She confessed how she loves me genuinely. In that hotel, though I paid for the room before I hinted her of the location.

During our intimacy time, she ordered and paid for all we ate and drank. When she was freshening up in the bathroom, as a security conscious person I checked her bag, and discovered stash of 500 naira notes, almost up to #45000. Other items are combs, eye pencils, brow powder, lipstick, tiny perfume can, and nothing more. I can say, this babe has wow b**bs, hip, huge thighs and *ss. Above all, with tight pu**y. I really enjoyed her.

The problem now is that she is becoming too attached to me. I even opened up to her that I am married, she cared less and said no problems. I traveled for another IT contract job to Lagos, and she was like, I should come back to Enugu and come and have her that she has grown so madly in love with me after that first sexu*all encounter. I kept on postponing the time I would be coming back until I promised her that I would come on 1st of May 2021 after which I couldn't make it.

Finally, I made it to Enugu where I am based alone. She wanted to come see me yesterday 5th, 2021 from UNN but I threw up an excuse because people know my wife very well. My wife is also a student of UNN, Economics Dept., and she visits weekends from Nsukka. I didn't want to insult her absence.

Why I am Scared

Yesterday, Ruth called me from UNN raging in anger that I don't know whom she is. That in case I don't know that she is a Goddess of wealth in the spiritual realm, and she posses supernatural power to ease of my life that I should know it now.

The moment I heard 'Goddess' cold shiver ran down my spine. Then I asked her to explain what she meant by calling herself a Goddess. She said that as a child long before she came in contact with me that she new me, that the injury I sustained in the military was pre-planned by my God to save me from untimely death. (I never told her I was in the military)

She went on to say, that although I seem successful in the myopic eyes of people. In furtherance, that I am suppose to be balling in higher level of wealth and money than I am currently balling because I am using only 1 star out of the seven higher stars I came into this world with. She said that she would be revealing her parents' identities to me later on.

I told her that she never answered my question on being a Goddess, and she said she is a Goddess of wealth. That she has a gift which makes it possible that anyone she loved and blesses automatically see a brighter future, and fortune. That in my own case that she was assigned to me spiritually to make me stupendously rich such that I can help the less privileged in the world for I am kind hearted young man would doesn't abuse privileges particularly when in the military.

This babe, 22 years old, equally reminded me that she had more than #10000 in her purse that night she came for me...that it was a trap to get in contact with my destiny.

Then, I became even more scared even through I was sounding firm and assertive. How she knew I was afraid got me scarier. She beckoned on me not to be afraid that she is a beautiful soul but also a supernatural person, and a Goddess who has been sent by almighty God to open my way properly. That she would bless me whenever I am ready to see her.

She reminded me to observe how things have been changing for good in my life ever since I met her, and Even more after our intimacy.

I reminded her that it would be some how to marry her a second wife, but she said she doesn't care that all she wants is to be with me that she would easily get along with her supposed co wife. She said she has her on money which is equally mine for an even more happy home. My wife is 23.

She is 22 and in 300 level, sparkling pretty, and gorgeous.

Please, who has experienced this for I don't know if she is a ghost or human?

Should I still be seeing her? Pls I need an advice for truly, I have been getting contracts steadily.

What kanda websites exist these days? Imagine site I came across on a twitter https://www.literotic.top/ . As I click am, I saw nothing. There is another one literotic dot com, I click am, nah lubish. Huh!

Hey guy!

Each time I connect my mobile hotspot to my laptop so as to surf the net, my data gets drained before I even open my Google Chrome browser or any other browser.

Pls guys, I want to stop this occurance, but don't know Jack on how to go about it.

This is causing me pain. I kept on wasting money on data.

Any useful steps to stopping this data draining would be duly appreciated. Thank you all in advance.

PC: Accer. Windows 7.
4G RAM. Dual-Core.

Op!!! You are a complete mother-fucking buffon, and a personification of the word 'weakling'.

So...because of her so-called beauty, you lost your sense as a man. Oga, you a complete Ode.

Well, I don't give a flying Bleep about pussy niggas like you. You are hereby advised to go and die, huh. F*ck you Mehn!!!

Well, let me advise you weakling. In your next relationship, don't allow sex to reformat you brain.

The rule: Don't you ever agree to do for a lady that which her patents cannot do or afford her, unless she is your wife, sister, or mother.

If the situation is aside these set of ladies (mother, sisters, wife, et'al) above, you are hereby advised to take it as a sacrifice (no stringe attached, after all, you can help someone in dire need) when you help a lady.

Anyway, if you are near me, I would have given you a brain resetting slap. Pussy Man.

Now that it has happened. Who would win?

Eyaah!!! It is over for All Progressive Criminals, APC, and their zombies, aka, BMC.

This is prelude to what gonna hit them to smithereens on 16th. Sending Buhari back to Daura is a task that must be done by all well-meaning and reasonable Nigerians.

If you are a zombie, don't quote me or you will die.

Enough is enough. Army officers can't continue dying because of lifeless President Buhari. Atiku is needed now to restructure the armed forces. I'm highly OBIdiently Atikulated.

lol @dump him, as if the guy na trash, you think it's easy to let go of someone you deeply love?Okay about the premarital sex, you're right, but dumping a guy because he refused to say anything about marriage doesn't make sense to me sha, what if he's trying to know you more?you think it's easy to plan the future with someone you hardly know, even people that has been dating over 3yrs are not planning to get married talkless of 1yr,a lady must be patient with her man instead of rushing him, apart from trying to know her better... What if the guy is not financially stable, even mentally too, you think marriage would be the first thing on his mind, na marriage go put food on his table?Marriage is not for kids, it's for people who are ready in every aspect,, So dumping a guy does not make any sense to me, patience is golden

Oga Tine God Investment a.k.a Tine Investment. Where is our money? You came here 2 to 3 years ago to sweet talk us into investing in that fraudulent company. And when a few of us did, you and your cohorts disappeared.

Well, I haven't created time for you. When I do, you will have yourself to blame. I will shoot your balls.

Surprise how I still keep track of you? Never, mind. I have your data. It is a matter of time, you will pay with your miserable fraudulent life.

Since you have chosen fraud as a career. Don't worry. You will be taken out... Bastard. My #1m can't just go like that.

Incase, you don't know. others are trailing you also.

How could the so called bonds we bought through you reach the investment maturity, and now...almost a year after, we have yet to get neither the profits (dividends), nor our investment capitals back,huh?

Well, to be clear. Last time I spied on your location. You were around Imo and Abia axis. Although, I didn't go further in wanting to pin-point your exact abode or location within these two axes, because, I wasn't disposed enough due to my force career.

I promise to take you bastard of a criminal out when ample time comes for you.

Maybe, in your next life. You will have learnt never to mess up with highly tech-savvy, brutally trained mask-man mafia in the force.

Idiot. Here you are claiming nonsensical advice guru. An unsuspecting individual might fall cheaply to your numerous scam mechanisms. Time will tell on how longer you live. unless I meet Jesus the way Saul in the Bible did, and was converted. Until then...you must be taken out.

I keep hearing popular musician and song writer. Abeggi, which album this Charly boy, abi man don release. And when im release am? Because, I haven't heard of any song belonging to him.

Oga! You are a complete clown. Why are you eying another guys woman, huh? Whom where you dating before she was posted to your office?

You see... It is you and your types that push guys like us to be ruthless. You are a complete pussy nigga.

Just bless JAH that it isn't my type that you are toying with his woman. I swear! That thing between your tigh would be cut off if I gat to know.

I pray my colleague gets to know. I believe he has also the proper drills pattern meant for womanizers like you. Idiotic bloody fool.

zeanslim:
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that's what I did for my blog Trendy Tech Buzz

To avoid google ban and have a Valid tracking of my AdSense.

I can easily activate it when I need to check my AdSense design or layout ..etc.

Bro. Good morning. I just visited your blog. It looks apt and clean. The navigation is very okay. Pls what wordpress theme is it that you are using?

pinacole1:


Yes boss as for me I really wish Nigerians can just be patient with PMB, we seems to forget easily in this country, the Nigeria currency deal with China will change a lot of things by next year, for sure price for electronics will crash dats fact bro. Nigeria Pls be patient with this administration, let's think, the man man is really impacting on lives gradually.......

Nigerians should be patient with who? Thunder fire you and Buhari there. Nah electronics we WAN chop abi? Ogah you no get sense. So you haven't asked yourself why the sudden silence of the Fulani killer terrorists Headsmen ?

Don't you know that another four years for the lifeless one is another four years for Fulani expansionists agenda. So carry your electronics and go and die.

tumababa:


As simple as abc. Those thinking sw is literate enough not to mind where the vp comes from is making a big mistake. Most of d literate ones wont come out. It is d grassroots that vote and d sentiment will be used. It is simple logic to me. SS n SE already belong to pdp so why pick vp from there? D sentiment to be used hereis dat pdp dont care about sw votes. They think they can win without the sw and dat will be d mistake. Pdp needs a sw vp to split d vote in sw. they already split dat of d north with atiku. Good luck to them.

Shut up my friend!!! Since Osibanjo has been the veepee, what has he been able to influence, you bigot? What matters is kicking bubu out nxt year. Where veepee comes from is inconsequential.

They should try nonsense and see it backfire. Is like the Bubu zombies have infiltrated Atiku camp. They want him to fail oo.

Kai Walahi! Atiku don kill us by picking this Peter Oboy of all people. That man nah very stingy person. How would guys get easy money from the incoming government?

I dislike Obi for his tight-fisted nature. My experience in Anambra nah die! Everybody just dey complain say he no gree share money.

It suppose be 'Chop make I chop'

Taidi:
Op..I think you should help us with a step by step guide on how to go about it..thanks

He can't give what he doesn't have. If you want to get the knowledge visit Johnchow.com or Onlinebusinessguide.com, and thank me later. The later I learned the owner is a Nigerian, but he started the site new.

EMMAUGOH:
Are u sure she is on her right senses. The kind of advice given to my elder brother then but he keeps on having familiar emotional pity. Now He wants out by all means ,

Bro keep on pressuring her or hear her deep down part of the story. Sometimes there are other things that meet the eye than what u hear. Maybe she is desperate to belong whereas she forgot in years to come she might be compiling problems for her self.
But if she didn't consent tag along till she sees that needs are insatiable the man will come for more with more sweet words.

I have pressured her enough. She kept saying that she feels like helping them always. That prompted me to ask her why I should be involved before she said it is now my responsibility. Note: I didn't ask her not to help but I reminded her that it was uncalled for catering for a huge family of six and pushing I your prospective husband into that while their father would just dress up in the morning and be wandering up and down in Porthercourt. Then she said again that if I don't love her mom's children and her husband, that I don't love her too.

She further stated that anybody in the military is not to be trusted. That I have been faking the so called love I have for her.

She affirmed that if I don't remit the money before this Friday that the break will be indefinite. That, it will be either I remit money and the break stops or I don't, and it continues.

BrainnewsNg:
OP! you are truly a responsible man, i applaud you on that..

For this lady that has decided to ruin your life with her charm riden mind must not drag you into failure

I advice that you let her be, with time if the charm frees her and she knows a kind of man she has lost she will end up searching for you and will be pleading for forgiveness

OP i repeat, never accept such responsibility its too foolish to think of it not to talk of going into it

A woman who truly loves you will always listen to you and will takes actions that will accord your happiness

Please, free her.

Search for a woman that will appreciate your kind of person and not a woman that anybody can confused. Thanks.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Thank you sister for this wonderful advice. I love being 100% real in any relationship O find myself. I always wish the best for any person that I am dating. The same goes with this girl. But since she can't value me. I have braced up already to let her go. I have impacted her life positively, and I don't regret ever doing that. I am always filled with joy when I leave a person higher socially, economically, and academically than I met he/she.

Heavens knows that I have tried by persuading her to tag along academically with my influence. Am happy despite that all the sacrifices I paid are about going south.

It is time I moved on, for I don't think I can accept her back if she comes back.

I think, I should live mylife outside any form of relationship with the opposite sex for at least 1yr from now, and in the process focus 100% on my career and businesses.

Maybe after one year I will see a genuine lady whom I can accept to date and marry after 6 months of dating her.

Although, this will kill my dream of getting married at this age 26. However, I don't think it will be deemed too late for me if I get married at 28, ie, in 2yrs time from now by God's grace. That may be God's time for me to meet that perfectly perfect lady.

I am too solid to be soft on this kinda issue.

Once again, thank you sister.

Netanyahu1:


Old boy you are too young for this na, if you start doing that now it’s never going to stop, cause your girl needs the love of her mom so bad that she’s willing to do anything for it and if you are not in on that she is willing to leave, trust me I know it’s hard for you cause you love this girl.

But she’s chasing family love she never had, so beware.

Thank brotherly

MissRaine69:

Loving someone should not be a financial burden as well. She is choosing to help this man’s family and I think this is fuelled in part my her mother. She has no loyalties what is he doing to help his own children.

If she asks for a break grant her that, she is behaving like this and when you are just dating what will she be like as a wife. A painful as it is to accept money is a game changer in relationships your mistake was financially investing in someone who technically can walk out of your life and you cannot do anything about it Her mistake was enabling her step father.

Thank you sister. I value you ladies advice more because you ladies perfectly understand how these things work. Above all thank you.

chenzen:
it beats my imagination how a lady thats got nothing to offer control a full grown bloke like the OP



OP please answer this question sincerely.

ARE U A PUSSIE WORSHIPPER?

No I ain't and can never be.

DopeAngel:
mr man run far away from that girl as far as your legs can carry you.

What does she mean by if you can't assist her lazy stepfather then you should give her a break. What nonsense is that.

Are you under any obligation to help her extended family?

Girls think marriage is a poverty alleviation scheme.

If she can prioritize her step father over you after all the help you have rendered her, use your head and run.

Those are the kind of girls that will run back home to their family when any problem arises in marriage to discuss you.

You are the man. You make the rules. If she can't comply to your advice, let her go.

Better don't let any irresponsible girl ruin your future. You are too young to carry the burden of a family that is not yours. You have your life to live.

Her step father is a stupidman for asking help from his step daughter whose mom he just got married to less than a year. What nonsense.

Young man go and get yourself another girl if she's not ready to listen.

Thank you very much dear. I already mapped my territory.

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Deadlywoman:
Not only that, I sent money for her school fee, despite the fact that she had almost a million naira in her bank account.

What happened to this money?

I don't know why she no wanna use her money again. That is mine that must be sent.

FOWOSHERE01:
Girls and their silly mind games.
You are a MAN. Don't let a woman start to control your emotions.
In my own opinions, you did the right thing but you may try explaining to her in another way.
Follow your gut feelings.
But you've really tried for her oh.

Thank you dear.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
If you subdue yourself to such emotional threat then boy
..... You are gone. Maintain your stance as a Man if she cannot accept your advice not after taking her this far..... You really deserve every respect from her based on that and you need to respect yourself too by maintaining your decision. It is not ego... It is you being you

Thank you dearie. I have decided never to do that.

FreshBoss007:
when sh*t hit the fan

life is hard, don't make it harder


if she wants a break or conditions her need as a factor to staying then ready to do more,
trust me, the wants are never satiable, it would only pile up

its pretty sad, but if she insist on it then give a break

True talk my brother. I'm gutted as am typing this.

Goodmorning, Pals.

My relationship is about crashing.

My girlfriend has suddenly changed. Before now, I use to be the every moment thought of my girlfriend.

Let me tell a short story of how it all started. My girl stays with her maternal grand mum because her father died when she was 4. Her mom's marriage with her late dad only lasted 4yrs as the marriage produced only she and her immediate younger brother who is now 20.

Before I met her she had worked full time with a tobacco company, BAT(BRITISH-AMERICAN TOBACCO) for almost a year. Then she was being paid N80,000.

However, I insisted that she should advance her education which she obliged. I bought JAMB form for her, and used my influence thereafter to secure an admission for her in UNN.

Not only that, I sent money for her school fee, despite the fact that she had almost a million naira in her bank account. And was at the verge of sending her money again for her second year school fees, for the payment is due to commence either this month end or next month.

Then, when she gained admission into UNN, I was proactive, that I composed a letter for her to be addressed to the manager of the branch office of the company. Fortunate enough, the manager assented to place her on part-time, but with a paycut that saw her earn only N50,000.

The major issue that led to this problem was that, I had a pass and was with her last week Monday, when her phone rang and it was her step dad that was calling her through her mom's phone. Note: her mom remarried after 1 year of my girl's dad died.

Her mom got married to a stupid man of 52 years old. This man called my gurl that day and was demanding N25,000 from her for the school registrations of one of his sons whom is about entering JSS 1.

I was mad that I asked her never to accept such responsibility for now. That she could do so in future. Later she pleaded that I shouldn't be angry.

This girl has been giving out money to this ass hole of a man.

However, the game changer was when she called me 5 days ago and was saying she needed money for something. When I enquired she opened up that her step father said that the school he wanted her half-brother to attend has started registrations. That I should send her money for it is now my responsibility.

I couldn't easily believe her. I shouted her down immediately. Rebuking her instanta. I made her to understand that such responsibility is not proper for neither she nor me that has yet to pay her bride price to be carrying a full grown ass man's family problem.

I made her to see the reason to leave me out of that till I come in finally for marriage which was my main plan. But, she hung up the call on me.

She stopped calling me for like 3 days, and when I call, she doesn't pick.

Nevertheless, I called her 4 times yesterday and she picked the 4th call and said in punchy manner that she needed a break or I do what she requested for.

Pls gentlemen and ladies, is it right for a young man of 26yrs old like me to carry another man's family problems, even when the said man is not the biological father of my girl?

Should I let go of her? I am confused right now.

Pls, I need mature advice on this for I love this girl so much.

I have 5800 and 11652 followers respectively on 2 Twitter accounts. The issue is that I don't know what to do with these accounts.

I am already tired of tweeting. In fact, I have run out off ideas as regards what to tweet about.

Moreover, my schedules don't give me time anymore for that. Though, I flooded all my tweets in the two accounts so far from when I started in 2014 and 2016 respectively till date with strategic keywords hash tags which bring in organic followers for my accounts.

I also discovered that whenever I tweet in response to any Nigerian news media publications just seconds after their tweets that I seem to amass huge Nigerian followers, say 60 persons and so.

Guys is there anyway I can monitize this for I wish for that reality. Even though, I have ppl flooding my DMs with massege proposals but I don't trust them one bit. I see them as people who wants to get clues to my login details.

Thank you guys for genuine responses and advices. Note: I have heard of sponsord tweets. However, I wish to know how it works.

To help him is simple. Simply buy ten packs of 100mg Tramadol capsules for him. Buy also a carton of Codiene, and some rephnol tablets. Prescriptions: let him take 200mg(2 capsules) of Tramadol in the morning after meal. With a gap of 2hrs, he should take one tablet of Rephnol. It will slow his thinking. As afternoon approaches he should take 200mg of Tramadol again, this time before lunch. He will be energetic after that. It induces happiness. Take his lunch properly. Later, towards evening, let him go and buy plastic-bottle coke, open it, and drink a quarter of it so as to make up space volume for mixing it with Codiene. After that, he shld pour the Codiene into the coke bottle tighten the top and shake vigorously to mix wella. Later, he shld be sipping it and smiling with. friends as they gist.

I bet you, he would never recall or remember the slut that left him.

He would be fine.