Mehn... This topic is exactly the case in my most older sister's home. She has 6 boys: triplets, and the other 3 boys single, with 2yrs between them.

The triplets are 8 yrs old now. The others are 6, 4, 2, respectively. These boys have turned my sister house to war-zone. Anytime of the day they are all around, they often fight.

Guys, my sister often tells me whenever we have a discussion on phone that she will put the 4th son(the 6 yrs old) under the care of my mum, because the triplets and the other lasts two boys don't allow him rest. These triplets are always bullying him. To add salt to his injuries, the other last two: the immediate younger brother - who is very violent, and the youngest of them who is 2, don't give a damn about him either.

My sister said he is very calm and gentle. He always stays glued to her whenever she is at home. She do say that she fears the psychological impact such thorny environment would have on the 6 year old, that she is not relenting in her decision to take him his grandmother - my mum for hitch free environment.

The 5th son challenges everyone including the triplets, but the most hit is the 4th son - his immediate older brother.

The last son is already showing very violent and abusive character. Despite being small, this boy would challenge everyone. He would grab something very tight to collect it from his brothers.

Boys are good, but could be brutal to one another when growing up as siblings.

Papoose269:
Op you are a bloody snitch and karma will surely visit you someday. You may think you are smart but you are at the bottom of the food chain. I feel sorry for your so called friend, I hope his eyes open soon enough to know that he's dealing with a snake. Even if he breaks up with the girl,I hope you don't get her and if you end up getting her, I pray that will be the end of you. MUGU

Let that KARMA visit you first. He wants to break up with her. I will go for her the moment he breaks up, ie, PULL THE QUIT TRIGGER.

CHESTER48:
op, it is better you tell him your findings, and have rest of mind. Cause if u jump in, like that, he will forever hate you, and you don't know where else you may meet in future!! Best thing is tell him your findings, and tell him that the girl is faithful, but if he will still break up that you will go for her. Then if he breaks up, he has nothing against you.

Okay, I will play it cool with my guy. I will only tell him not to break up with her. I won't tell him about my findings, at all.

rex444:
Am not sure u know what friendship is about .....so good things are only meant for u? Not ur friend? Sending spies to watch ur friends babe is a move a caring friend should do but where u r going with ur findings,devil better pass u

Oga, you no well. Yeah, let devil better pass me. E no concern you.

LotannaAnaekwe:


We still dey run consultancy business calls sometimes. So we still dey business together. Him Don move on already. It's been long na. The loss I hope go Don comot from him body. I remembered the day him talk say e no go marry her. One Yoruba colleague just open mouth with surprise, "ah!wetin the babe do, no miss that girl o... ".But he did! He felt that telling people I married his left over would piss me off! Lol, if only he knew I prayed for it to happen. The first knack wey I knack my wife give her Belle straight up!Truth is, we hardly appreciate good women. I have a distant cousin who is like this; as in I'm yet to see in my ENTIRE life a woman almost perfect. Sometimes I say how I wish she is not my sister. Very nice lady. But na everytime she dey cry for man head. If you see the way her husband came, you wouldn't believe it!


The guy that married her works with schlumberger. He came into the country and was in a restaurant drinking. Funny another friend of his joined him along with my cousin's ex and some two of my cousin's girlfriends (he is not married till date). Infact it was a full table.

After a long evening, my cousin's ex, called his gf to join the the merriment because oil money dey sweet and the guy dey pay for all the goodies . They left much later.


It was after he left one of the ladies brought my cousin's issue up. They discussed how good she is and the ugly news about the breakup and the instant he took dating another girl and inviting her to the table . Other guys there insulted his decision too and abused him. In all these the schumberger guy listened and made a final contribution that he would love to know this good lady that was dumped. He urged the ladies to call her and invite her for a drink. She came after much phone persuasion with bike. Joined the, table. After basic familarities, they exchanged numbers. My brother this marriage happened in three months!!! My in-law no just waste time. The marriage was a wasteful one,very exclusive. The ex came, but chai I don't think he had a choice because invitation was sent to him and since they are all group of friends, not coming would be seen as being jealous.

I think the guy himself is a smart follow, knowing fully well that what other says about her is genuine enough because it's someone else that should blow one's trumpet.

No sane man misses good ladies when he deed one. O have made up my mind to marry the babe. I and my friend can't miss out on her. Since. he is seeing and following another babe. I have no choice than to corner the girl.

GOFRONT:
Lolzz....

Op, your case reminds me of four corner game of those dayz..... "AFTER SACK GAME"

E be like say me sef go mount surveillance on Joshua's girlfrnd maybe i fit find some good qualities in her.

If i find any, i go dey wait make dem quarrel, quit, then I go hijack an marry her Asap..

One man food na another man poison, One man poison na another man food.......Alhaji Tekno

Naso, nah. My nigga see beta babe come dey talk poo. im eyes go soon clear.

IdeyFindWife:

Oooookokobioko, sharp guy! Your aim straight pass Ronaldo own! Congrats!
Y'know my old Yoruba NYSC days Landlord used to hail himself say "Even Wicked Man Know Say Hin Wicked, Na Persin Wey Wan Tell All e Dey Find"!.
Nor be say we no dey know say some of our guys be mumu, we know! But for me to folo pally dey destroy my life or anoda innocent persin life; I don pass that level.
He took it too far, e no mature at all! E dey run down the babe and still no want make anybody upgrade her.
Make sure your wide & kids have no contact with him o, guys like that na wounded snake dem be, always dey look for who to bite.
I'm sure he'll be living in regret by now

Thumb up, bro. Your mind dey dia.

kenex4ever:
he will hate you for that. If you are a good friend then you will tell him your findings and dat you would takeover if he breaks up. If he goes ahead to breakup with her then you are free to make ur move.

Hmm... This your suggestion strong. Me...tell him my findings

I no fit. Let him conduct his own watch over her.

LotannaAnaekwe:


He is not seeing anything! Na so. What is he seeing? My guy here we don dey follow the girl up with detective is happy with with he saw. So who who the Bleep is the jealous one with low esteem?

abeg tellam oo. Who no want woman webi say if you leave amm comot, your mind go dey at rest? Woman wey no go even see chance talk more of social media. An industrious lady for that matter.

uzomanny:


Okay..if only you knew the reason(s) behind his action(s)

All that glitters is not gold

Goodluck

Bro. No tangible reason at all.

The only reason is insecurity and intimidation of her beauty and brain.

That lady's type are rare in Naija. Beauty with brain.

I had warned him enough to stop suspecting rubbish. At least, the hood niggas acting like my surveillance camera haven't giving me negative report.

I promise myself that am not gonna betray my nigga, but it is becoming obvious that he is seeing another babe, I and have option than to make a sharp move when we go on break.

Dpussyhunter:
see you!


while you're dulling waiting patiently for dem to break up, i'm already making plans to track her down and snatch her from ur friend


my kinda girl!

You no, one of my mannest nigga dey involve. I gat to play it cool with him.

Guys nah still guys. He has been a brother since secondary sch.days.

Earthquake1:
There is something your friend is seeing that you are not seeing that you will eventually notice when you enter that relationship

You are dumping a lifelong G for a pussy

Prepare for karma

Bro. Phogettt...da tin. Why youself dey yarn dust?

He wan dump beta babe. You wan make I leave am Baba, you no well.

After, I go still dey man up with my nigga. Afterall, we be same brotherhood in everything.

LotannaAnaekwe:




Don't wait for the idiot!!!
If na me I go hijack am. It's a free world bro. If you like her just don't bother to date for long, Just go straight to her parents.Enter the babe, no look back.

Correct guy. You see...for this life, enh. Dulling no dey my dictionary. I just dey rep my nigga, but im eye go soon clear.

I go make move next break sharp, sharp.

LotannaAnaekwe:


Your story is same as mine. I have a friend, not that close but I knew him through business contracts and local football matches in my area. I first noticed his ex, now my wife the first Saturday I met her. We have finished playing and drinking some beers in the field when she showed up with the best pepper soup ever. And I have been severely dealt with women. The worst was lavishing money my elder brother sends from abroad on my girlfriends.

She came around with a friend and as they served us.I realise she is very witty, Crazy and extremely funny. I noticed other guys taking instant Like on her.

But her guy no notice na. He already has a, lady in another state he was preparing to marry. And me like this one.

One of our usual Saturdays during marriage discussion. He opened up that he won't marry her because he loves the one in school more.... Few months later he got married.


Okpe oooo. I made my move. The babe no gree o. She thought I was joking.Felt I wanted the cookies. I got to get her residential address after a long and strenuous search. Visited her aunty in one of the ministries to bear my mind. Pleaded days on end. When she finally accepts but with grudges, I told her to send me her account and paid a large sum of money as ashebi and the rest from her end. Her mind come relax


My guy been want to form shitte. Didn't come to play for months after he heard I married his ex.

Best decision ever.
Many good girls are either single or in a bad relationship.

Spot on, my guy. You know what? Ladies outnumber guys, but we have few good ladies.

My own is that I want to marry a good lady. Tnx for this write up. No dulling for me.

Just that I don't want it to appear like snatch. I want to allow it crash first so that no one will accuse me of snatching my guy's woman.

uzomanny:
So much for being a friend ba?

All I see is jealousy and betrayal at its very peak,friends like you are more deadly than the actual enemy

Note this fact...the way you're planning to steal her will be the same way another guy will also steal her from you

Dont mess with Karma

There are lots of ladies,why your guys girl?

Bros... You misunderstood my write up. I didn't say I would snatch her from him. He wants to quit the relationship due to he feels intimidated and insecured.

I'm only waiting for him to pull the QUIT TRIGGER.

LotannaAnaekwe:
Guy you dull oooo. Go pay her bride price sharply if you have the money. I did same o, now I'm enjoying my marriage.

Bro... Nah my target be that. I'm praying and patiantly waiting for my guy to pull the QUIT TRIGGER.

Different strokes for different folks.

Since, I broke up with my stupid slutty Ex last year due to the fact that I perceived the condom scent around her VJ. I have yet to settle down in relationship with any lady, because the former incident affected me psychologically. I don't seem to trust any lady again.

Last time that I was on break, I met couple of ladies, who wished respectively to initiate a relationship with me, but I didn't give in: I was fearful of being heartbroken again.

One of my guys: a bosom friend of mine, has this girl that he has been dating for like 3 yrs now. This my guy is always suspicious of this girl's fidelity and loyalty to him. He always tells me how he prays to God to avail him a good lady that wouldn't cheat on him, regarding the nature of the job we would be doing. He say he can't stand being cheated by a person he calls wife, girlfriend or even fiancée.

Whenever he calls this girl, and she delays in picking his call, or misses picking at all, next thing is anger and verbal outburst. The girl is a 300L university student. A very beautiful God fearing 22yro lady.

He doesn't seem to believe any explanation this girl may give as regards to not picking his calls.

To me, the girl is a perfect lady. My kinda woman. My parents house is in the same university environment as that of the girl's parent. I have done underground work: set up guys around her home, her department, her place of worship. In all these locations, I have like 2 guys to each location spying on this girl to see if their is any side bobo aside my guy.

They only said that they haven't seen her with any other guy.

None of the guys has giving me any negative report about her. These guys always tell me that she is very devoted to her studies, church service, and stays inside their compound whenever she is at home.

All these I know, but my course mate doesn't know a damn thing about my plan. Instead, he often tells me that he wanna quit the relationship with the girl. He says that the girl can't swear that no other PRICK HAS DICKED HER DOWN since the 3yrs relationship. That if she swears, she gonna die.

Well... Mine is that, I have studied the girl in question. I'm beginning to love her; in fact, I love her, and I'm patiently waiting for him to call it a quit so that I can dive in to initiate relationship with her.

Am I making a wrong move I know that this will certainly make the pally-relationship with my guy/colleague a casualty, but I don't wish for two of us to miss such woman of virtue.

Guys, do you know that this girl in question- though her parents are okay financially - works for her money. She is into computer programming for people, does decorations for ceremonial settings, and leisurely produces hand bags for ladies.

She learned programming for a year the moment she finished secondary school before Jamb and getting admission to stud Pure Mathematics?

This girl doesn't demand money from my guy oo. Is my guy that forces her to collect money, but he once told me that in one occasion he wanted to send her money, that the girl asked him to save up the money for both of them: "baby, save it for us; I'm okay darling." To this my guy suspects.

I can't allow such rare gem to sleep off my hand, since my guy wants to fall hand.

What do you guys think?

Even if she is infidel to my guy, I believe it was his attitude that caused it.

I'm not in a relationship now, for I can't delve into it without studying the lady first.

I can't fall MUGU again.

Mine is 6.1 inch. When erect but I wish for like 7inch dick, so I can be confident enough as a tiger. Whoever knows any cream or ointment I can rub routinely to increase the lenth, pls share with me. Thank you.

"I do help her financially..." . Op just listen to your miserable self. In fact, you are a fool, and you are now her maga. How could you allow a mere girl to be playing you up and down as if you a schizophrenic.

No, continue paying her bills while she pockets every drop of her so called allowee. By the time your program ends, you your infatuated eyes will clear. Idiot!

Oga, you don big for age nah. You don pass these things. Are we to fry beans with your pregnant Olosho?

Oga, grow up.

Dullarddinho yaf pinish dis kwontri, geskiya.

Kai, dollard-dinho

wurabecca:
She's 18

I'm not Jealous

I bought Venza for my Ex

So it's not new .

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Aunty, you can lie, ehh!

Naturally, I last at most 12 to 15 mins before cumming.

I don't think I need these your so called natural remedies.

If I must support my system sexually, it gonna be when I'm sexing an instiable bitch, whom might wish I last longer than 15mins. It that case, I will go for #Tramadol. For, it is the surest.

I gat no time to follow you remedies.

The hypocrisy of this forum is legendary. Abeg thumb up to the guy. These bitches ain't loyal at all.

That was how one idiot I was dating before now, bleeped another guy before coming to my home to give me welcoming Bleep while smelling of condom.

Cheap publicity. But sister, you can lie oo.

Kai! Bloggers can lie eh!! All these paid publicity for 5 mins fame.

I didn't say she can't. I know female colleagues who are as fearful as civilians, though we have amazons in heart amongst us: but this very one is a lie.

Rubbish

Nonsense. Put original stuffs and rank high. Don't cut corners.

ebujany:



Kogi people deserves our pity...how on earth did they end up with this clown as a governor?

True talk bro. That Yahaya of a guy na correct clown. Pls a minute silence for Kogi Ppl.

That man is personification of the term, WEAKLING. He is a big fool. Such weak men are not suppose to be allowd to impregnate any woman, lest they produce and populate our society with weaklings.

Weaklings that can't defend themselves talk more of the nation. I can't imaging a woman beating a tiger like me. I that can life 140kg plus, and a tai chi fighter(joined with military training and excercise). Not in this life.

That man should be killed, asap

Idiot, you are. Someone's girlfriend? You are mad. If I were the guy, I would just pretend as if I never knew you had interest in my babe.

I would just watch to know my babe's final decision, ie, whether she is for me still, or wants to follow you - for I can't fight over a lady that doesn't wana be with me again.

If her reaction to your advances is that she doesn't want, and I confirm to that effect.

Guy.... If she tells you #NO and you still have the gut to track and disturb her. In fact, nah your six feet sure pass, then.

I go just arrange with a few of my colleagues and guys. We go abduct you go far corner bush.
There and direct, we go first cut your prick and scrotum.

Live and clear, before you bade goodbye to mama Earth. I personally go carry a big stone high up, and then lower it with most lethal force on your cut-out dick and scrotum to smash them before your very eyes.

Note: we go force you watch as I personally, smash a very big stone against your dick and scrotum that we would cut out. Even if you are gasping for breath, we would make sure you watch every bit of your execution process.

In your next world, you will never have a functional dick, not to think of looking or eying people'S girlfriends.

Your type ain't fit to exist. Your type needs to be eliminated, asap.

Bastard!!!