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Properties / Re: For Sale....2bed With 3 Nos Of Mini Flats On A Full Plot Of Land @ Abule Egba by dejgan: 4:24pm On Jun 06, 2013 |
pics pls. thanks! |
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Husband by dejgan: 5:53pm On May 18, 2013 |
@OP...wondering why everyone spoke looking in one direction....the fact that you are married doesnt mean you wont have a life. What happens to this lady should this marriage end today (God forbids)? Her father might have expressed his concern in a crude way but what an elder sees while seated, a young man may never see it if he climbs a tree. Here are my few cents to the OP... 1.)No degree is a waste of time just like no degree guarantees a great future. It all depends on you. Your masters in agricultural extension (economics or others) can be a taught masters which can enable you lecture in a tertiary institution (University, Polytechnics, colleges of education, etc.) as you work on your PhD. Education is a goldmine many are overlooking forget the frequent ASUU strikes. Besides the advantages of lecturing, you will have ample time to raise your kids. Its not everyone that will be a chattered this or that...besides time is fast running out on this certifications. Many chartered are walking the streets with nothing to show. People will always go to school. Teachers who know their onions will never be out of demand. 2.) Its never too late for you and your hubby to chat a future and vision for your family, cause it seems you didn't put one in place at the beginning of the relationship. A FAMILY VISION is as important as a personal vision. Questions like where will our family be in the next 5 years, What class of school will our kids attend? what type of neighborhood will the kids grow? What type of vacation and how often will the family have? etc. You can still re-visit these issues and ultimately define the expectations and input of both parties to the realization of the family vision. Seems like your hubby has a different plan for you outside the one you have for yourself which is not well communicated. 3) I also pick from your post that there seems to be an air of superiority around your hubby. This can be traceable to the fact he calls the shot financially in the home or he is more educated. Dont wait till you are pressured/desperate to proof to your husband you are not dumb. Start adding value to yourself. You have access to e-learning, read and study broadly on-line. Everyman will bow to superior intelligence. Many marriages know no joy beyond the second year because of the "see-finish" syndrome. You are usually at home in your home-wears as you have no job at the moment while your husband goes to work everyday and he sees all sorts of well-dressed, "intelligent" and charming ladies out there. Dont be fooled to sit at home for any reason, no matter the amount of the allowance he gives you. Start adding value to your life... 4.) Thank goodness you are not a nagging wife. If he doesn't listen to you at all, it means he doesnt trust your sense of judgement. Allow the issue rest for a while and prayerfully seek a good time to re-present the issue. Dont argue from the standpoint of what your father told him. Make your points logical and don't make it a closed-ended issue like you have already made-up your mind and he must just comply....leave it open-ended asking for his alternatives on the issue. 5.)Lastly, do a soul-searching and ask yourself what exactly you can do for yourself outside going for a masters and all that. It is key you start doing something. START YOU MUST ASAP! 1 Like |
Autos / Re: Nigerian Customs Do Not Auction Cars Online: Beware of FRAUD! by dejgan: 10:59am On May 18, 2013 |
@Inspired M....God bless you for this. These guys are mainly around Ikeja yet they claim they work at custom offices in the northern part of the country. They even have matured/married women in their cartel so you wont suspect a fraud.....like someone said earlier, its greed and ignorance that will allow anyone fall for this type of scam. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: El-Rufai’s Book Is An Intellectual Fraud - Soludo by dejgan: 7:54am On May 06, 2013 |
bayooooooo: [size=18pt]Nasir el-Rufai’s Book as Intellectual Fraud?[/size] I doubt if Prof Soludo wrote this......it will be a worse disgrace compared to all he accused el-Rufai of...... If someone admitted to you that what he wrote were impressions he was given, why go the press to write a book? My greatest reservation about the OBJ team was their immaturity, arrogance and naivety in handling power despite their experience in professional and private practice. Some fools will clap and cheer this write-up (book) but I think it is a revelation and an insight into the immature minds of individuals who shaped policies that affected over 200 million people in 8 years. They were much older than Gowon, IBB, Murtala and OBJ in their military years.....leadership quotient is depreciated greatly in Nigeria. It is so obvious as you read comments on Nairaland when Nigerians in their mid 30's and early 40's share views of national interest with such shallow-mindedness.... You see why the old men in their 70's and 80's have been able to perpetuate themselves in power....its simply because the younger ones are not prepared emotionally to lead this country. We were here when Dimeji Bankole was speaker, check all the governors who came in below 50 years and check their performance. Is it any better than the grandpas? Harvard, World Bank, Oxford and foreign resumes aren't all we need to restore Nigeria....a lot of emotional intelligence is required! 8 Likes |
Politics / Re: Amaechi Will Be Treated Like A Traitor – Dokubo-Asari by dejgan: 7:22am On May 06, 2013 |
The real boko haram are tallking.....some people believe it was Buhari that started the Boko non-sense....but Asari was trained by Al-Qaeda. Henry Okah implicated GEJ and his men in the October 1st bombing which was the beginning of terrorist attack in Nigeria. Okah's sentence by a South african court was used to settle scores between the South African and Nigerian Governments after about three years of hostile diplomatic relations almost resulting in a cold war between the two countries. Jacob Zuma visited Nigeria few days after Okah was sentenced in South Africa. Asari will shout and die if GEJ does not come back in 2015 cause of the massive contracts he is getting from this government. My question remains: has the South-South, Niger delta been a better place since 2011? 27 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: BankyW At Oxford University Pan African Conference In London by dejgan: 5:10pm On May 05, 2013 |
really, what impact is banky w making in the political scene with his music? Tuface, Sound Sultan and Femi Kuti to me seems to be the few ones engaging this dirty politicians with their music.....Tu baba's "E be like say" song will forever remain relevant in educating the masses about who to vote for...Sound Sultan has done several works in addressing corruption both within the elites and the masses....Femi has continued the legacy of his father in calling the political class to order....but Banky W....?? 4 Likes |
Properties / Urgent Request : Ikeja,allen, Toyin Street by dejgan: 1:33pm On May 03, 2013 |
Urgent Request: A 2 bedroom flat with 2t/2b is urgently needed. Prefered Locations: Off Allen, off Toyin street or Opebi Budget: 500k (One Year payment pls) If you have any, pls contact 08136686859 for inspection. Cheers! |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 11:02pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
@ayenny02...keep posting your questions to me pls.......you are not a bad student afterall, you only possess a WILD sense and I will refrain as much as possible from answering you from either the Bible or the Quaran for now. I will answer you based on common sense and spiritual understanding..... |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 10:56pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
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Politics / Re: Shameful Look Of Street In Over Hyped Lagos State by dejgan: 5:43pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
@OP, you are a villager and this is your first trip to Lagos....sorry to disappoint you....its not the Lagos of your dreams....pele...its like this all over the world.....local brat! go back to your village o..... 1 Like |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 5:16pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
ayenny02: The christian will quote Mark 16:19 as a proof that jesus was raised up to heaven and sat on d right hand of God. |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 4:51pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
ayenny02: The christian will quote Mark 16:19 as a proof that jesus was raised up to heaven and sat on d right hand of God. The scripture you quoted was totally out of context...if you dont know, come for bible study. I wont lift portions of the Quaran to fight you but argue based on principle of interpretation. Hosea was a prophet addressing the ills of a society of people who were serving God hypocritically and religiously like you muslims still sacrifice every year and some silly christians still pay tithes without loving their neighbours. that is the meaning of that scripture. it has nothing to do with the death of Jesus. People like me went to sunday school for 18 years. I am not of the stock of Christians that just quote their pastor's messages. Have you heard of the Messianic Psalms.....the book of psalms was not entirely written by David....its a compilation of inspired writings by several authors who mainly were temple priests and Levites. If you have not, welcome to a life changing discussion......be ready to quit hitting your head on the ground and I can promise you, your life will change. AMIN! |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 1:42pm On Apr 26, 2013 |
ayenny02: The christian will quote Mark 16:19 as a proof that jesus was raised up to heaven and sat on d right hand of God. @ayenny02...you have refused to answer me....guess my last post silenced you a bit.....I dont have time for rhetorics of Arabic and hebrew since you dont even understand any...but I see you lift quotes from the Bible and twist the meaning to suit your fallacies....So it was Paul who came a few years after the ascension that imported the doctrine of resurrection...since you dont know...ask and you will be taught....I need not study the Quran to know my left from the right....you are totally misguided and your citations taken out of context..... above all, its extremely the nature of an extremist (like your boko brethren) to thump up falsehoods like these in order to discredit another man's beliefs and when you dont succeed, you resort to violence. I told you, if you are this intelligent, pls harness this intelligence to better use in combatting poverty, health and social issues especially among your Muslim brothers in the North. Sa'lam! |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 11:47pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
ayenny02: Where you dey? you dey do bible research to find answer? "You search the scriptures, for in them you think you have life...." Do I blame you? after hitting your head severally on the ground, it is bound to loose its reasoning capacity. Enough of this rubbish. If you believe your religion is the best, go and use it to save your community and your world. UAE is a muslim kingdom, Dubai was built with oil money in less than 10years....there are several christian cities all over the world enjoying un-interrupted power suply...you na dey here arguing who be God or Holy Spirit....mumu religious fools! very soon, a minister will come and tell us some spiritual powers wont allow PHCN work... If you are this intelligent, why not use your intelligence to help your fellow Muslim brothers in the North dying of poverty and terrible diseases daily..... Christian brothers, you na do well o! so to allow muslims have prayers in a church building is now "haram'? In what way are you better than the so called "Boko Haram" people. There is no building called a church. Your body is the only temple of the Living God. God does not live in houses built with human hands....anybody can do anything in houses built for whatever purpose...it does not defile God....when you reason like this, you speak like those who claim there is no God and there is no Trinity. The priest has done what Jesus Would Do.....if we all will do the same today, our country will be better than this. Dont be full of religion, it only makes you a FOOL.....I have met very good muslims, who will not even speak ill or evil of a pastor, talk less of Jesus...but the religious fanatic muslim sounds the way you all are sounding, calling for the head of that priest.... Dont just read the bible (anybody can do that) but live the bible. |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 11:32pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
the_ripper3: Boko Haram dey monitor this thread o. Christians beware. Dem no born their father..... |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 11:28pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
@ayenny02....correct..No be only Jesus be God..even Me, again I say Me....I be God! |
Religion / Re: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by dejgan: 11:22pm On Apr 25, 2013 |
@ayenny02....make I help you add pepper to pain you well.....Jesus is not the only son of God....Me (even me) and all those who believe in Jesus are sons of God....it that truth hurts badly...go hug transformer cos the devil himself has not recovered from that simple truth.....lo ba tan! |
Politics / Re: NDPH Commissions The Biggest Transmission Sub-station At Oke-aro by dejgan: 1:34pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Oke-Aro is a community close to the area the Dana crash happened last year. They hardly have power. It is also close to the popular Iju Water works that supplies a chunk of the water for Lagos state yet the whole of the area is not connected to the water grid. This is the beginning of militancy. You use some people's domain to generate power for some elites in Ikeja, Maryland and so on while they remain in darkness.......yet PHCN wont stop sending them crazy bills. |
Romance / Re: Gold Digging Men: The New Trend In Nigeria by dejgan: 1:04pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
@ OP "none of the above really. It's something I notcied a lot in Abuja, young guys looking for women who drive posh cars and take trips abroad... There was also this woman in a salon I was at one time who told us of the man she married (she's a sickler and a motivational speaker who writes and speaks at seminars in Europe and Africa). The guy claimed to be an MOG who had cancer, and she went out of her way to take care of him to the detriment of both her health and career. She annulled the marriage once she discovered he was in fact very healthy, all he wanted was a cash cow. Wondering why men who God made providers would want to alter that and become liabilities to those they ought to provide for." Please never be quick to run into conclusions when you have only heard one side of the story....co-incidentally,I know the story you just referred. The guy in question is even late as we speak. The woman (a young lady in her early thirties) dated a friend and has been known for dating guys with money. my friend had financial issues and she took off. My friend had donated blood for this said lady during crisis (she is SS) severally but the lady took off and ran off with the new guy who had more money. The lady has tried her hands on several things including modelling and all sorts..please note, she is not wealthy or rich by any standard...she is still struggling. She knew of the guy's ailment and they both claimed the guy had been healed of the cancer as they even testified in church (a popular urban church in abuja) which led the ministers to wed them..... Its a long story as the lady disannulled the wedding before the guy eventually passed on sometimes last year. The guy is from a family that is financially ok. The lady is not. I dont know who is deceiving who. My friend she jilted is back on his feet and the same chic is trying to come back...pls reconcile facts before publishing. Needless to say, the issue you raise is true and it must be balanced as its not peculiar to a particular gender. Evil people are everywhere. |
Music/Radio / Re: Americans React to Dbanj's "Scapegoat Remix" With Kanye West by dejgan: 10:56am On Apr 23, 2013 |
D'banj has no talent and he is driving a bentley, you have talents and you are crying your sorry ass on that third-hand BB they threw at you from obodo-oyinbo....what a sorry life.....D'banj and Don Jazzy are both smiling to the banks....am sure he didnt perform for free at the finals of the nation's cup in SA...I guess D'banj's music has only gone bad in the ears of Don Jazzy's followers....they both took decisions that was best for their careers. You are advised to do yours too or better hug a transformer singing "igwe". Dont know how this made front page......guess Nairaland is becoming anti-D'banj afterall and Seun had better watch this trend... 5 Likes |
Education / Re: Top 50 Universities In Nigeria 2013- Ranking By (NUC) by dejgan: 3:09pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
source pls? |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Has No Regrets Pushing Fashola For Lagos Governorship by dejgan: 12:07pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Wondering why people are always critical of what is good....Eko Ile and Eko Atlantic are just stating the obvious. Like them or hate them, Tinubu/Fashola succession program is the best thing in this democracy since 1999. Even OBJ wished he had a Tinubu in PDP. They may not be perfect but if all the clueless PDP people are performing as half as they loot the treasury, we wont be here talking boko haram rubbish today. When we cry, we see! 21 Likes |
Politics / Re: Atiku Customise Shoes As Campaign Souvenir Ahead Of 2015 (picture) by dejgan: 7:55am On Apr 18, 2013 |
Atiku is making shoes available so as to avoid another "shoe-less" disaster in 2015. 31 Likes |
Properties / Re: Clean 2brs,3brs & Mini Flat To Let@ïkeja by dejgan: 11:41am On Apr 03, 2013 |
prices please |
Properties / Re: Sales!!! Quality Vitrified Floor And Wall Tiles by dejgan: 12:18pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Pls send me your catalogue and prices to halldej@yahoo.com asap. |
Politics / Re: Jonathan Asks If Violence A Sign Of ‘end Times’ by dejgan: 2:42pm On Jan 01, 2013 |
Africa’s most populous nation, roughly divided between a mainly Muslim north and predominately Christian south[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] Northern Nigeria is not "MAINLY" muslim....predominantly may be the right word. These uninformed foreign press are a major problem in this Boko issue...taking advantage of the ignorance of Nigerians. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Nigeria's World Trade Centre To Open In 2013 by dejgan: 1:57pm On Dec 11, 2012 |
@Guapo...Burj Khalifa the tallest building in the world built in Dubai was completed in 2010 with 163 floors with 46 maintenance floors at 1.5B Dollars. GEJ and his co-looters are building a 37floor twin tower at 1.2B Dollars and they are celebrating...ok o! 6 Likes |
Autos / Re: Request For Free Vin-check With Pictures Of The Car/SUV by dejgan: 8:19am On Dec 10, 2012 |
Good day sir. Pls help with the check for this nissan murano. vin is Jn8Az08W04W302270 thanks! Will be nice to have the report thru my mail alabipd@gmail.com |
Autos / Re: Request For Free Vin-check With Pictures Of The Car/SUV by dejgan: 8:18am On Dec 10, 2012 |
Good day sir. Pls help with the check for this nissan murano. vin is Jn8Az08W04W302270 thanks! |
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