@ roscodaddy

pls help me tell him

@ neikid, yeah thats me n thanks gal!

@ idupaul

may the way i feel now neva come ur way cos i dont think u would be having mouth 2 talk like this!

@ idupaul, then pluck ur eyes off so u dont have to see it

@ idupaul  

did the post bring u in here, y dont u ignore it? If u dont have a heart, i have one!

@ davidylan lmao   hehehehe

for those that cant stand their first, it may be so but the fact still remains they remember who did the thing first no matter how good or bad.

That was the first person to make u a woman n also no matter what when u look @ urself, it's like something u carry 4eva. men and women are different, women, virginity cant be undone except through technology of course that is a woman's pride.

@ agaba123

yeah I would definitely left for me, time and God cos i put my time n effort into this. no one especially when good deserves such! and the painful part he still doesn't want to let go of me.

@ Lady T

it's true a girl hardly ever forgets the first especially when it was a mutual or through empty promises

Thanks y'all yeah it's hard but y'all have put me at ease n made it much easier 4 me 2 pull thru, this thing called LOVE infact i'm speechless

Thanks Domilic

-It wasnt like i went to leave with a man, i had problems and it was circumstance and he wasnt just any man, he was my man.

- Reason, we were having problems that i didnt know of and he needed time and saw how his friends were building families so he returned to wot=rk things out with me.

-no reasonable reason, he's frustrated, things would get better, have faith, God is able, time would put things right,

- I would say my affection is much more

- yeah he did but i guess that's in my nature, i know he is going through a lot but what hurts me is why he kept me by his side while all these were happening and yet still behaved unfair.

@outlaws
thats what i would do though it would be hard, as 4 my so called friend, she thinks she is one though she helped in disclosing what i didn't know of, she also helped in destroying her friendship with me.

i just think the best thing is to sit back n wait, when he is ready he would or after sometime maybe close 2 winter then ill just take the next step.

My dear that's what im still trying to figure out

wanted to do it in a humble and more matured way so that the guilt would kill him more, well ive got some documents, jackets u know during the winter, n 2 boxes with ma clothes so it's hard to let go but ive decided not to call him, if he thinks he still has me by holding on to my things well, i dont even know.

lmao, how would u get me back on my feet?

@ beauteous
lmao

I feel you cos im going thru the same thing right now but what hurts more is he's even defending himself and still trying to lead us on

@spikedcylinder

That's right, if u rn't a good person yourself, it would be hard to see the good in another person or what that person has to offer.

U r right guys just that it's hard but yeah i know time would heal this and God isn't asleep.

Thank y'all for 4 ur love n support, i really appreciate it. this really showed how hurt i was that i decided to come online for help. 1 luv.

I wish mine would break up with me for this reason cos i write poems for him everyday untilm he started misbehaving

@ bettes

yeah i meet a lot of people i mean guys but this thing we call the heart.hmm, is really tough. ill just leave everything to time.

@ kenayi

i love ur answer but the more u tend to forgive, more u r taken 4 granted. Why is that we know that love us are those we tend to hurt to the most. i am happy with him but im not happy with what has happened.

@ rubi

sigh, humiliation would even be an understatement

@ k1banty

u r right, i guess ill just leave that to time U know. yeah he does love me but im yet to know why all these happened.

@ sistawoman

Ill just leave that out cos i want to leave the relationship humbly n still hold my head high without a 3rd party.

Also pls dont forget to add me on ur yim.

I agree with  U k1banty, calling the police is out of it especially for some1 i ove or loved i meant  

So what do I do about my things that I'm yet to get for me to move on? and he would not release them yet.

I dont have to answer if i dont want to. I put it out there to get the best help i could get.

@ xhanty

u r right but sometimes beauty aint everything. some men would still hurt U

@ k1 banty

Thanks,