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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Are Guys You Meet Online Meant To Be Taken Seriously? by doe82: 6:22pm On Jul 24, 2008
Friends can be met anywhere and in the strangest circumstances
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 6:06pm On Jul 24, 2008
@ Syren
where ve u been?
Romance / Re: Selfish Girls by doe82: 7:52am On Jul 24, 2008
I CAN BET THIS GUY IS NOT SANE!
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:36am On Jul 24, 2008
@ SYREN
How are u today?long time
@ topic

Why are we still on this issue!
No doubt some broken homes are the product of the wrong choices and mistakes of parents!This condition cannot and never be blaimed on the child (girl or boy)
But whether it sure affects romance and futher 'family orientation" of a potential mother of father-------The answer is YES(90%)
There is no hard and fast rule about the behavior of humans given our different complexities dispositions but for sure F[b]AMILY PLAYS A ROLE IN MOLDING THE BEHAVIOUR OF EVERY CHILD.[/b]
E[b].G[/b]


1) You hard an emotional accident(broken heart) and refuse to ever love again.
Reason:u never really believed in love,it was an experiment from the beginning--could b that u never really felt love from the home

2) same scenerio in 1 above!----u learn t your lessons and still believe that there is love for u somewhere because your parents really taught u it exists!!!!
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:27am On Jul 18, 2008
Gamine:

I can really see that a Broken home dosnt affect Romance

Thanks to Syren n co! grin

don't be TOO sure!!!
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 9:12pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

Not 100% sure, but it doesn't seem that way and I don't want to make wrong assumptions. undecided I believe things are best the way they are smiley


Its good not to make wrong assumptions,This is 21st century,encourage them if they do"make such moves"

syren:


You don't like my offer? Why now? It'll be the best investment you've ever made. grin

Im scared i ve not invested in music before so i ve to do it wt both eyes open
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:50pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

there is no romantic interest but I don't mind they make really good friends 2 cheesy

are u  sure they don't have romantic interest in u?

doe82:

Its simple, real good men come simple,little,steady, and sometimes scared because they don't want to loose the damsel,




Most times they decide to just settle for "good friends" because of the above reason

syren:

I'll get doe82 to replace you grin




are u sure i ll accept ur offer?
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:42pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

yeh it's been a bit of an obsession since I was little actually lol  grin


Kinda had such obsession myself,written a lot of line but gave up when i found out i ve a bea voice that refused to get better.lol
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:32pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

I'm afraid I'm yet to meet a real good man but when I do hopefully I'll know Lol wink

undecided Ok no probs grin

They are everywhere,around you,in ur place of work,neibouhood,club,church even in the internet maybe u ve been looking too far for what maybe @ ur finger tips.I m sure u ve met a dozen but just failed to identify them.

Meanwhile thanks for ur understanding as for the promised story
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:23pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:



ok o we'll share the profits equally 90:10.
Or is the 10% too much for u   tongue grin





are u into music?
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:10pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

what would you say is the difference between a real good man and the a man that "seems" good or is "unreal" undecided


Its simple, real good men come simple,little,steady, and sometimes scared because they don't want to loose the damsel,
unreal men always have a siren way of letting their "motives" known.Its takes a real woman to see the handwritting on the wall!

and what about the stories u said you'd give wink

MY FREIND SAID HE WILL KILL ME IF I MAKE IT KNOWN TO ALL!!I m sure u don't want me to die yet! lol
May b i share it with u on chat sometime
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:14pm On Jul 16, 2008
syren:

hmmmm undecided When that's the case, the girl may not have her priorities straight in terms of what she's looking for in a relationship or ,  As for trust, yeh it should always work both ways, are u saying women like that can't be trusted? grin

I know u ll agree with me that most women don't set their priorities rigth when it comes to what they want in a relationship.Many want "to eat their cake and still have", this doesnt work anymore.As for TRUST u can certainly not trust such as u may be heading for a collateral emotional disaster.Intelligent Ladies that doesnt fall innto the above category most times do not make such mistakes
REASON:"unreal " men are easier to detect
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:17pm On Jul 15, 2008
@
syren

[/quote][quote author=syren link=topic=149545.msg2505857#msg2505857 date=1216062591]
A real man? undecided
Perhaps a good man is more appropriate grin just some who is understanding (most important wink) sensitive in the way he treats his woman, patient and ready to help her overcome fears and insecurities. What would be unhelpful is someone who'll abuse her trust which may have been hard to give in the first place.
DONT You THINK THAT THIS TRUST THING WORKS BOTH WAYS.I THINK I AGREE WITH UR SUBSTITUTION OF REAL MAN WITH GOOD MAN.BUT THE SIMPLE TRUTH IS THAT EVEN WHEN THE "GOOD" MAN IS RIGTH IN FRONT OF A GIRL,SHE DOESNT KNOW IT.THEY OFTEN GO FOR WHAT SEEMS A GOOD MAN, ?
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:51pm On Jul 14, 2008
PHILEOLOVE:

It has to be a real man that will do this.

@ Syren and Phileolove


HOW DO YOU KNOW A REAL MAN?
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:00pm On Jul 11, 2008
@Syren

How re u 2day?
I think I agree with u on ur last post.
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 5:40pm On Jul 11, 2008
Papito:

In africa marriage, you cannot remove the influence of parents home in future romance and relationship, we might want to wave it because of wersten exposures but believe you me, it is still there.

having find out why are happy parents always insist on

1. where your spouse come from
2. who are his/her parents
3. their religion
4. are the parents of your spouse still together? if not why?
5. the antecedence of their parents if they can have access to it.




THANK YOU JARE!I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 8:17pm On Jul 10, 2008
@ SYREN

D reasons are obvious baby, and u know that.I wwill tel 2 stories to illustrate my points but not now as I ve to get some jobs done.With them I believe u will get the trrue picture!
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:50pm On Jul 10, 2008
@Syren

I agree that 75% is grossly an exaggeration especially in these days and times when girls spend most of their time in schools and campuses amongst friends of every character and background composition.But believe you me Mothers have a role to play in the satbility of their mothers marriage.
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:34pm On Jul 10, 2008
CH3COO:

Facts over diluted opinions.
didnt get what u mean
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2008
@Syren I mean GREAT deal of role.culd b good or bad depending on the mothers personality and circumstances.
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 6:13pm On Jul 10, 2008
I knmow its not easy to grow up in a broken home and its definetly not the child,s choice.They need to be encouraged and be given every emotional support.

@Syren I agree with you mothers play a greatv role in a girls life.
Romance / Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by doe82: 5:29pm On Jul 10, 2008
Honestly,pple from broken homes are risk when it comes to marriage but that doesnt mean we dont have good ones.The reasons for such broken homes should be investigated before decisions are made.Again the personality of the parents and other conditions sorounding the childs growing period do make some difference.
If u have such friends they need encouragement!
Romance / Re: Silly Things We Have Done For Love! Confession Time by doe82: 6:01pm On Jul 04, 2008
walan:

we only think we lose when we love and it all goes bad.

but in truth, we have had the glorious experience, and that's alway worth the blast.
it pays to look back at the experience of loving and realize that the love we had was created in ourselves by ourselves. and indeed we can create it anytime in ourselves.

it is never wrong to fall in love, for by doing so we advance in spirit and become stronger beings capable of giving. and that's all that count.

life is beautiful, love is good for us, and we are always better(brighter) than we think.

Agreed!when u love and is loved;its an experience, when its not that way;its a living HELL
Romance / Re: Silly Things We Have Done For Love! Confession Time by doe82: 8:13am On Jul 04, 2008
most times this pple we talk about that never appreciated what they have(true love)always end up in very bad hands!
Romance / Re: Silly Things We Have Done For Love! Confession Time by doe82: 6:56pm On Jun 30, 2008
@MYKE
MY BROTHER I DON SUFFER 4 THIS LUV BUSINESS.NOT MY FAULT MY PARENTS THOUGH ME THAT IT EXISTS AND I CAN REALLY LUV AND TRUST ALTHOUGH IT HAS NOT BEEN A SWEET STORIES.I VE NOT LISTED INFIDELITY EXPERIENCES!
IMAGINE A MAN BEEN FIDEL TO AN INFIDEL LADY!
LOL
Romance / Re: Silly Things We Have Done For Love! Confession Time by doe82: 6:22pm On Jun 30, 2008
wow don't know dat I m not alone in this boat!Let me share a few of those ugly moments

-----Didn't want 2 go on vacation because of her
-----Let her take the 1st position to prove my love
-----Got feverish when she didn't came as scheduled.
-----Cried every night when she told she was getting married
-----REPORTED HER IN NIARALAND WHEN GIVE ME ultimatum TO MARRY HER
------This list is long I think I should better stop here!
Romance / Re: Her Mum Is On Her Neck Because Of Me by doe82: 7:43am On Jun 12, 2008
vicade:

catch them young and groom them.
Omotola Ekeinde and Amarachi Nnwankwo are classical examples.

if the apples in the barren are rotten ,you pluck them fresh from the tree and forget about the barrel as long as they are ripe enough. cheesy
tongue
never really thought of that
Romance / Re: Her Mum Is On Her Neck Because Of Me by doe82: 7:38am On Jun 12, 2008
vicade:

catch them young and groom them.
Omotola Ekeinde and Amarachi Nnwankwo are classical examples.

if the apples in the barren are rotten ,you pluck them fresh from the tree and forget about the barrel as long as they are ripe enough. cheesy
tongue
never really thought of that
Romance / Re: Her Mum Is On Her Neck Because Of Me by doe82: 7:43pm On Jun 11, 2008
;d
Romance / Re: Her Mum Is On Her Neck Because Of Me by doe82: 6:44pm On Jun 11, 2008
"your baby"

thats exactly what she is.Her mother likes u but I m sure what she doesnt like is ur distracting her daugther at a tender age of 18.if you love her,help her get into school,advce her to study her books,make good results and then , maybe marry u
Romance / Re: Frank Talk: Ladies Can You Marry A Sickle Cell Carier? by doe82: 6:39pm On Jun 11, 2008
provided your spouse is no AS,then It is not an issue as the situation can be managed and u still make a beautifully family

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