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Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 8:25am On Oct 07, 2019
Hello guys, I'm starting an cyber security course (CompTIA Security+ (SY0-501)) with certification. Please I need your advice as I believe this is an entry level certification in cyber security.

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Travel / Re: Naija to Yankee Thoughts And Experiences by Dremca(m): 8:36am On Sep 21, 2019
What an irony of life. You carry lunch box and water bottle to work, if na for naija, your colleagues go dey yab you say you be mummy's pet, say you no be big boy.
MackyNaija:

I was considering Waze for morning carpooling last night...

It will make it possible for me to use the HOV lane if I can get an extra person to join me to work.

Problem is my departure time varies between 6.15am to 6.35am... Anytime I ready finish, I carry my lunch box and water bottle run like rabbit go enter my motor. cheesy


How will someone I am picking up handle this variability?

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Lagos Matured Residents Hangout Group by Dremca(m): 4:12pm On Jul 25, 2019
I'm very much interested in joining the group. I suggest you screen people joining the group in the future because many will join for hookups.
Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 8:20am On Jul 21, 2019
please gist us more about th pool party went down, was it for your colleagues at work.
PDPGuy:
The pool party was lit! It was my second of such party in under one year.
Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 11:40pm On Jul 18, 2019
1. The assets divided 50/50 is only what's accrued From the time of marriage till divorce
2. I can never marry a house wife, I want to marry someone w shared same or similar strong vision with me. No wonder Jeff Bezos' wife was quick to file for a divorce on the allegation that she found anothet ladie's porn in his phone

I'm still imagining how a man who claim to truly love his wife will ask the wife to sign prenuptial agreement, won't she become suspicious of the man except is a contract marriage. Once there is compatibility not LOVE, there should be no panic.
Ugosample:


na wa


Even if you are marrying a Nigerian woman
you are still at risk as long as you live abroad

I have been doing my own research on this divorce laws thing

And some revelations came to me...

To reduce the financial impact of divorce

1)marry someone within your own socio economic class
a state like California agrees to 50/50 of joint assets
so marrying someone far below your economic status na suicide for that state IF A divorce happens

2) Whatever you do, make sure she is NOT a house wife
House wives get sympathy in court and they get bigger settlements
especially if your marriage was Like 5 years above

it is the combination of the two points above that often ruin black athletes
not only do they marry bimbos far below them economically
those bimbos for whatever reason are at home squandering his money and not working

these two factors will finish a rich man in a divorce settlement

out of many points let me add the last one......
do not move out of the house
moving out of the house = abandonment and abandonment is not good dir a divorce case

I'm just saying sha

it's good to have full knowledge of the tax and divorce laws of wherever you livr.

besides
if you picked a good woman (not bimbo) and you are good to her, why fear a divorce?

Just saying too

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Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 6:57am On Jul 09, 2019
Am just imagining how the ground will be shaking. It seems earthquake is one of the common natural disaster that happens in california.
radautoworks:


Yeeeaaah... Noooo... I'll take Texas flooding over quakes any day. Glad you're okay.
Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 6:54am On Jul 09, 2019
Even Switzerland. Those places has 0% taxation like belize, some very little taxation
Timi1990:


If she refuse to sign the only option you have is to spread your investment . Invest your money in Africa , Panama, Belize , Mauritius, UAE, Russia, etc . Those are the places the US govt can’t use force to place sanction on your assets and investments, any other places you’re on your own ooo .

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 2:52pm On Jul 08, 2019
What if she refuses to sign the postnuptial agrrement because she is now married. The best remain prenuptial.
tiptoe1:


You just said the gospel truth. If you intend getting married, sign a prenup and if already married, sign a postnup.
Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2019
Because the oyibo woman dey give am wella pass him ivorian girlfriend he left back home. grin
tescoman90:


I heard he bought most of his property in the name of his wife

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 3:56pm On Jul 05, 2019
He revealed so much to his ex wife and had no prenuptial agreement.
tiptoe1:


You mean he should have picked a lady from his village ?

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 10:11pm On Jul 04, 2019
Any man who goes to the village to marry a wife certainly has a coachroach in his cupboard. Only 1 out of 10 girls you will meet in Nigeria has a reformed mindset, the remaining 9 only follow the crowd. Compare that Americans. Mark zuckerberg married his girlfriend from Harvard university same with Barack Obama who married his girlfriend from same Harvard University. They all shared the same thing in common. A successful mindset and a desire to be the best. In the same Nigerian universities, boyfriends pay school fees for their girlfriends and end up being dumped when she meet a money bag. Am not saying America is perfect but the mindset is far from that of Nigerians in general not just girls.
lionlee216:


Lol @ well raised abroad.. u no no anything lol. Why u think some men from abroad dey run go village go marry wife? grin

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2019
That's why I don't date girls that are not working (I don't mean Sales girl job), so I can seperate need and want. Many naija girls are just "wanty." After asking for money from every guy that approach them, certainly the guys will sleeps with them and go their way including the one with good intention. The moment they start approaching 30, they begin to move from church to church, praying for husband. With the way I am, I may not marry a Nigerian girl (Except the ones well raised abroad).
Ugosample:



lmao

this got me ROTF laughing

Even amongst the so called "upper class elite"
You can still feel and smell that "poverty mentality" and "poverty instincts" amongst them
when I'm in naija, I mix with them and I see it


Naija no be good place to raise kids

well except you like to have timid punks as kids
like many NiggerAreans like

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Dremca(m): 5:44pm On Jul 04, 2019
such as the moment you approach a girl for a friendship, thats when she will ask you for money hair, cream, sub and possibly thats when her phone will spoil and she will ask you to buy her a new phone. grin
Ugosample:


funny enough

id rather not raise my kids in NiggerArea.

There is a damage that does with your kids that I don't want for my girls

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Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 1:10pm On Jun 17, 2019
Based on research, I found out it has a reasonable tech presence. However, this is just my own finding and that's why am seeking opinions from people who have been there. I need general information as regards culture, racism, cost of living and opportunities.
Backfornow:


Just curious, why Richmond?
And
Congrats on your new adventure.
Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2019
I believe there are more tech presence, opportunities and network in silicon valley when compared to Richmond area. I plan staying there for some few years due to its cheaper cost of living, then save up and move to the west.
Backfornow:


I like Richmond. What can you not do in Richmond that you can do in Silicine Valley. Economically you would probably be better off in Virginia. DC is a train ride away which there loads of opportunity/contacts there. Virginia Tech which is a good university is in Richmond where there are some brilliant minds. Virginia Beach is 2 hrs drive away. Good food etc. But it is Jim Crow South, so...
Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 3:04pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hopefully via F1
hammed71:
are you relocating through f1 or H1b
Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 2:08pm On Jun 16, 2019
Hello friends, its been a while. I'm making plans of migrating to Richmond, Virginia by next year after which I will relocate to silicon valley in the future. What can you say about the city for a budding techpreneur and a Nigerian like me.
Cc: backfornow, babyvet et all.
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by Dremca(m): 12:17pm On Jun 13, 2019
Accomodation and feeding
Tecord1:


when u say room and board, what exactly do you mean. Especially BOARD
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by Dremca(m): 9:15am On Jun 11, 2019
You haven't yet replied.
Skillset11:

Thank you bro!
I will reply accordingly.
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by Dremca(m): 6:40pm On Jun 08, 2019
Washington and Lee university offers full ride scholarship including room and board. I just pm you.
Skillset11:
I am happy to have joined nairaland in part 15.
My sister introduced me to this platform!
Spring 2020.
Undergraduate psychology!
SAT 1400 and TOEFL 108. GPA 3.67/4

Proposed University

Alabama state University
Southern Illinois University.

I am opened to any other universities for full funding.

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Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 9:36am On May 17, 2019
Congress can't pass that bill without DACA being included.
hammed71:
Guys am just thinking if congress manages to approve trump new merit based immigration bill, when will it be effective is it immediately or the next year

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Properties / Re: Building A New Fence For A Land In Awka, Anambra State. by Dremca(m): 11:48am On Apr 26, 2019
spyder880:


Thank you Sir. Yes this my focus in an already developed land is recent, I was looking at lands that will take about 3 years to develop but after Ugwuomu and Akpuoga, I started feeling like a bush man that always wonder in the bush cheesy

Another turn off for me is the uncertainty of funds in buying properties and fulfilling the conditions before the agreed dates. By this I mean that if the estate payment doesn't happen as fast as the time the owners gave me, I will be scampering to raise money to ensure I pay fully for the land. It really gave me a lot of headache on the Akpuoga land where I had to raise over N12m to shore up the amount paid in by land subscribers before I could pay off the total cost and get all documents signed. Took me a lot of time to recover. I know it's the economy.

But I am still waiting and watching for deals that will be very profitable, I am also saving up to it and one day, I will be selling lands where I have fully paid off the locals.

Thank you once again.
I do understand that real estate market is very volatile. However, creating a clear master plan with your joint partnership will do a lot of good. The first phase of the master plan should be raising fund to finance the purchase of the land while the second phase of the masterplan should include clearing of land and creating access roads, this will motivate subscribers to start setting up structures gradually.

Waiting to raise enough fund for "buy and build" will create more uncertainty in price increase both for the purchse and to subsribers, the cheaper the land, the more the subscribers; the pricy the land, the lesser the subscribers.

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Properties / Re: Building A New Fence For A Land In Awka, Anambra State. by Dremca(m): 1:05pm On Apr 21, 2019
Buy and build is never easy, even banana island residents never built immediately they bought the property and the longer you wait, the more expensive it will become for those who can afford it. Well, its our decision. Let's keep our fingers crossed.
spyder880:


Thank you Bro, the Awka estate is on hold till I find enough people that can raise the type of money to make us buy a portion of the city where we can develop immediately. I won't like to own estates in areas where I have to wait for development to catch up, I want a place where we can buy and build.

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Properties / Re: Building A New Fence For A Land In Awka, Anambra State. by Dremca(m): 12:56pm On Apr 21, 2019
More feather to your cap and this reminds me, how about the Awka estate.
spyder880:
To GOD be all the glory. We have been contracted to build this new fence on a plot of land in Anambra state's fastest developing zone, the details of the project are as follows ;

Project : Construction of a fence and installation of a gate for a new Land.
Location: Awka, Anambra state
Client : A nairalander
Contractor : Tigerkenn Homes
Duration : 20 days.

We want to make this quick and with good quality.

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Properties / Re: Building A New 6 Bedroom Duplex, A Diary. by Dremca(m): 11:56am On Apr 21, 2019
I believe the owner wants it for aesthetics.
spyder880:


Client's preferences, even me thought it high, but the owner wins grin
Properties / Re: Building A Big 4 Bedroom Duplex In Ohaozara, Ebonyi State by Dremca(m): 11:52am On Apr 21, 2019
Weldone sir

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Properties / Re: Building A New 6 Bedroom Duplex, A Diary. by Dremca(m): 11:44am On Apr 21, 2019
That's four times the height of a grave. Is it not too high, what must have been the reason for such a high roof.
spyder880:
This roof, is 25 feet high.
Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 9:27pm On Apr 20, 2019
What's trump chances of being impeached based on report of using his senior staff to tell lies, will he resign like Nixon or be the first American president to be impeached.
Travel / Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 6:16am On Mar 28, 2019
I really want to know if the native Americans better known as American Indians were actually from India as it was historically reported they came through a land bridge called beringia through Serbia from Asia.
radautoworks:


Scenario. You own land and/or a home in Nigeria. I come along, squat, renovate it and live there. Then one day you decide you want your land and I order you to get off the property it's mine now. Do you a) accept that because I improved the land and go find land elsewhere or b) claim your right to it.

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