bravitudenatura:
To people of his kind God is a myth cos they worship the devil and his works is made manifest in their lives!

Exactly!

slimmingcare:
One thing everyone should know is that we are all professionals in our various fields. I am an Accountant and I can tell... My financial, Marital etc status is better than most of these so called celebs.
The TV and or social media makes their faces popular.
I have met with hundreds of them at Ozone cinemas. I treat them the way I ll treat my fellow brothers and sisters.
Do not carry them off your shoulder.......

Abbbi o!!!!.................we all are HUSTLERS,only say their grind the carry them enter flat screen

They're well dressed...... classy!

chucs:
I will take a good heart over beauty cuz beauty fades with age. Young Lady you've got a heart of GOLD!!! The comments I'm reading here is not portraying Nigeria in any positive way.

They're running their mouths because they don't know her.
"I must comment" syndrome. *smh*

shegxi:
madam, u made sense if this is d true picture of things and reality. Unfortunately, it is nt entirely true. D point is, ladies have bn program(africans) to "stress" d dude even when they like him from d get go and dat is forming hard to get. In d end sha, everybody shld define wat works for him/her.

Yeah its true! We can say "Forming had to get" when the lady already likes the guy and wants to stress him (guys form had to get too..... some make yanga pass tolo-tolo sef) ....but its not applicable in every situation esp. when the person involved is not just interested.
Discernment will help one identify which is which

@op you used the word "DESIRE", why would a lady desire something and still not look for a way to get it? A simple smile can pass the message across
,creating avenues to spend time with the person too can help ...there are so many ways one can do it, it is called seduction and there is creativity in seduction. Men are hunters by nature..ladies are seductive by nature.
Those ladies who "play had to get"(if u choose to use that word/see it that way) seriously lack the DESIRE you mentioned,they are not interested or are too distracted to notice e.g the shulammite maiden already has someone and king solomon was just wasting his time wooing her.
Its is possible for someone not to be interested initially and the interested party will have to give the uninterested a reason to be interested...... i.e the art of conviction,it can either be shortened or prolonged depending on ones convincing power( and peeps begin to label this as "playing hard to get".......its normal and natural)

sonofananimal:
I know it can happen to anybody and nobody will every pray for it,

What I'm talking here is the exaggeration of the story!

A story that just come and be talking of bad things he/she hear doesn't bring any form of encouragement but rather more miserably to those who are facing some stuff of challenges in life.

Is just like preaching of hell hell and more hell without talking of the goodness of heaven and what will make SOMONE be in the right PATH and I'm sure there is many story of how some find their man/WOMAN in some good way or circumstances, but yet we choice to entertain the bad stuff of life more than the good stuff.

It might be a terrible experience but one can learn from it.....yes,we can right the "wrong" only if we truly understand what the "wrong" is. There is time for everything under the sun ,a time to tell pleasant stories that can tickle the ear and a time to relate experiences(be it fictional/non fictional) that one can learn from. After all, at the end of the story,she gave a positive advice ,we can live with that instead of dwelling on the negative. Her intention was to build not tear down.

sonofananimal:
by fantasizing and telling false story about her neibour without hearing what is actually going through on the man's side!

All women are saint ABI! And the male will be tag as evil.


I guess that story make sense to you!

Fantasy you say!.....whatever it is ,what happened to the lady in the story can happen to any man. Frustration in marriage can come from any angle(husband/wife)...after all, embittered husbands divorce their wives same with the wives....and some choose to be suicidal.
When it comes to choosing ones life partner ,there is what they call "CHOICE".
How we use it ,can either bring blessings or malediction

sonofananimal:
you KNOW you just wrote RUBBISH thinking you make sense

She make sense die!!!!!!!!

Heromaniaa:
Nigerians are really mean and unpredictable. Today they're bashing the senator the next day they are bashing those bashing the senator. And BTW the senator wasn't frowning. That's his countenance naturally. Wailers wail. They seldom smile.

Brothers can bash themselves but they'll go against an outsider who wants to bash one of their own

warriorprincess:
it seems like the whole of the Gorodia family has forgotten that laxmi is pregnant o

Abi o!!! That was how they forgot that Sachikam was murdered,and the murderer left evidence(the bracelet) .....unsolved mystery

blazetitov:




Please show me where the having a child out of wedlock was listed as a sin. And who cares whether its a sin before man? Which God forsaken man are you talking about?

Remember the story of Mary and Joseph? An angel had to liaise with Joseph to make him stay with Mary so as to free her off shame and Jesus being viewed as a bastard

butanep:


This is where we get it wrong. There are some ladies that are intelligent but can't speak high profile English. Intelligence is not a measured of your spoken English.

I meet some ladies during my service year that are intelligent but can't speak high profile English. It is as a result of many factors.

Thank you very much!

Brighter grammar/queen primer is not the ultimate and does not equal intelligence. I know peeps who are gurus in their respective endeavours but cannot speak well(according to their definition of "speak well"

fotadmowmend:
Warri girls

Meaning?

Seventeen:
I wonder wat guyz mean wen dey say "she will b a liability'. Whether we like it or not, one of the main duties of a husband after being the spiritual head and the protector is to be d 'primary provider' of the family. Not dat a wife cant help, dont get me wrong, but i dont think guyz shuld place a womans financial status any where in d top of the list of qualities of a wife. OP pls access their characters and other important qualities a good wife shuld have. In a good marriage, a woman brings to d table, much more dan financial help. Husband and wife have dia different God given roles, so in my opinion, that Labake mismanaged her bizness and has no savings or that Shalewa has a good Job and is financially stable shuldnt b criteria in discarding or choosing either of dem.

I tire o! Has he investigated to know what happened to her savings? Did she run into debt for the sake of humanity or her own selfish desire? If she does not know how to manage ...he can fix it ,if he wants to. Its just that men nowadays want "ready-made" ,I wonder where they sell them.

pet4ril:
thabks jare..... This op doesn't know what he want..... All these i don't love the ist girl is just because of the resent girl oooo and i assure him the devil he know is better than the angel he do not know

He loves the first girl...while he doesn't have feelings for the recent girl but appreciation. Check the gist well

TheMainMan:
i cn differentiate when it matters.. I actually use it too when i'm chattin.. Probably to save sm stress and the person should just dig since its just online ish.. ..

The best way to save stress then is to type " I'm" instead of "am"

That means she won't be coming back to "Do Good" again....

komzyb:
shea!! They for show loha reconciling with Laali...what do you think?

Yes na ....

Na so I enter bus from pencinema ,supposedly going to Yaba only for me to see myself en route Apapa. I almost shout for d conductor but when I reason how people go see d matter base on say na me be the only odd passenger, I just relax begin do sight seeing

kuulkyd:
And someone wasted money to make that sign post oo

Nor be waste, the thing work. Abi u nor see as the place clean?

Which kind tasteless ending them give laali so #Vexxing badly

Oliviaarims:
Now, I'm crying again. This story has reached Nairaland! The said incident happened in my very town and I got a firsthand testimony from the brother of the boy who called for help. The story's been twisted a bit. Aghogho was 10yrs old.. And Silas had put on the home theatre probably to cover screams from his victims. So while he killed the first girl, Aghogho, nobody was able to come to her rescue because of the loud music. He would have also succeeded in killing Vwegba, the second girl had a friend of the family not happened to have been checking on them at that time. He peeped through the window of the house and found Vwegba struggling with Silas in the room and immediately went to call for help.
Silas was shot in the leg by mopol officials who were immediately called to the scene. He claims to be 17,not 15. But everybody else believes he's more than that. Evil boy looking for pity.

He had tried to kill innocent children at a time when they were totally helpless! Aghogho must have begged for her life before she died. Imagine the shock the little girl must have experienced.... Awaiting death from the hands of a boy she hitherto trusted... Their pastor's son! There were streaks of tears on her face as seen in the pics of the corpse. Very gruesome way to die. What a sad fate for the young, respectful, intelligent and God-fearing 10yr old Aghogho! The family had just 3 children, all girls and the evil Silas wanted to kill two. Wickedness of man!

May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace... AMEN.

Very sad! What about the instigator (the guy in ghana), aren't they investigating him? His identity should be revealed too,he his wicked...surely this is not the first time he's ordering for body parts

Society puts pressure on them. Therefore, society needs to understand that it is not a do or die affair