@Ochi-aha, you must be reeetarded right from the very moment you had your first breath cos your thinking faculty is under utilised. Imagine,OP was talking about london,UK and there you are referring to Australia. these two nations don't even share the same continent. Even my 2 yr old boy knows that australia is a continent of its own and UK is in europe. How stupid can you get, huh? If you truly follow my replies to posts as you claim,you'll be wise enough to know that i'm female. Here's my final submission about the character you call yourself: 'you're an irredeemable,pathetic sorry arsed fool'. And FYI, I hold a Masters degree from Imperial College, London, United Kingdom. Was offered a grant for my doctorals but i turned it down. Do you get me now numbskull? an assignment for you: make use of your google and check out imperial college and hey, dont forget to also check it's ranking. ode!

ochi-aha:

I am surprised that you sister agreed to slave under your Uncle and Aunt in London, so that they can pay her tuition fees. If she is a Full-Time student of her University, she is entitled to a Student's Visa. Armed with a Student's Visa, she could find part-time Jobs she could work on to raise money to pay for the next academic session's tuition fees.


I suggest she makes an appeal to the University's Student Union and the University Authorities.

ignorance is really a disease. How much part-time work, as an international student would she have done to pay a whooping 3 sch years fees that ran into thousands of pounds, pay her accommodation, transportation and take care of other basic necessities? Coupled with the new law on int'l students not working at all, how much can she raise to pay the next sch yr's fee. Even while working on your dissertation,you're not allowed to work full-time as it's considered as a 3rd term for you. So what are you telling us? Rather than spewing rubbish from your gob, why not shut it up and save yourself the embarrassment of the world knowing your exalted level of ignorance?

As pathetic as your sister's case is, you should know that there's a serious underlying problem between her and her lecturer. She's been in that uni for 3 yrs,shouldn't she know that all courseworks(in virtually all uk unis ) are to be submitted both electronically and in hardcopies? If my lecturer didn't tell me this, i'll call his or her attention to it. To have forgotten to submit a hardcopy is a problem but it wouldn't have been such a massive one if there wasn't any underlying prob that she's not telling. I had a similar case while studying. My lecturer had to email me that she couldn't find my work. Told her i'd submiited my copy at the faculty office. She took it upon herself and traced it to the undergraduate submissions made to her. Don't know if you get my point. An essay as coursework is capped at 40 percent, the other 60 percent for exams. Losing out on 40 percent essay won't drop her grade from a 2.1 to a 3rd class.she can still get a 2.1 or atleast a 2.2. Afterall, i had one F and still made a 2:1(i don't show my transcript tho.lol) Put 1&2 together and you'll know she's looking for a backup to her already obtained 3rd class. Helloooo? No one will ask you to re-sit a coursework. You re-sit exams. Let her just get the 3rd class she truly worked for and look for ways of making up with a pgd and then m.sc here in naija. You said your dad don kaput, your mom no gather and your sister's sponsors and your family's bread winners are just uncle and aunty not even brother and sister o. Tell you what? i haven't seen angels before. Can you pls introduce me to your aunty and uncle? You lot must be ingrates from the deepest pit of hell.

gulfer: Is grammar an Issue for you with this headline?

you're not alone.

In Uni. He came to make an enquiry in a lecturer's office. I got the door for him and he was drop dead handsome.this is the 3rd yr of our marriage with a boy that's his photocopy and they wear the same haircut

This really got me bcz i kinda almost had the K-leg. So mine is very slight. Surprisingly that was how my husband first noticed me. Back then in Uni, i was seriously rocking my minis,shorts and my heels and didnt give a hoot. Talk of me being among the IT babes during our sch days. I'm not trying to exaggerate but i'm the kinda of girl you'll say,"damn she's beautifully and wonderfully made" and the dudes were flocking like mad. It was so much fun. So poster,there's no hitch in marrying a k-legged babe.

tunapawizzy:
Awwwww sweetheart tell me dis is a joke

hahahaha! she just added a new colour to the colour dictionary.me i will propose swimmer purple and butter black. Fisher pink indeed.

@Seedord247's they fought and he eventually won'. Lie lie,the world would have known the true winner by the time i would have decorated and re-designed his entire being with my nails and teeth. Talk of permanent tatoos.

JallowBah: For most women in an abusive relationship, they do believe, sincerly, they are to blame themself.
And they are not.

You should get someone to beat his little a-s-s up, and get her out of that house.

If a woman cheat? Beat her. Other than that? Be a damn man, dont use your hands on a woman. Pfft. That is NOT a real, good man. Thats TRASH.

To an extent i agree with you but the bit i wont take is you saying if a woman cheats,beat her.beat her as what? Na you born am? You dey reason from your anus abi?. Na guys like you dey make me summon my "5 woman squad",all made up of my sisters,to whoop your sorry and miserable arse.@poster,what's the name of that "zoo" your friend calls her bf's house? Shei,she's the "animal" and her bf the "zoo keeper". Tell her next time tourists visits the zoo they'll be attending her funeral not sightseeing.

Ishilove:
Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

My thoughts exactly. ......and she'll go out there and open her gob to say "i'm a craduate for nigerian university".SMH. Her bullets might even be part of why the bloke wants to give her sorry arse a break

Ishilove:
Good heavens. . . *shudder*

@op, no offence intended dear, but are you sure you are a graduate? Your atrocious grammar points to the contrary

My thoughts exactly. ......and she'll go out there and open her gob to say "i'm a craduate for nigerian university".SMH

nnemmpi: Okorocha,apkabio,fashola,oshomole,leyi imoke

i know you're entitled to your opinion but liyel imoke making your list,nah! If the poll was for the dullest govs,i'd totally agree with you if he topped the list. Try sampling the opinion of CRiverians and you'll know what i'm talking about

Tell her to put up posters and start campaigning all over the country under the platform of RMPP "Rretarded and Mumu Peoples Party"

~Bluetooth:

Fed should whup Andy's asss.

my money is on Andy pls

@all that got the study materials from mcnepow and mcnepow her/himself pls be kind enough to inbox the materials to me @ info4edak@yahoo.com. Thanx

The whole idea is laudable but from a woman's view point,most of us will take you for granted,like your ex already did. My hubby was such a -0 when it came to anything kitchen. Everything was on me.i never knew he was secretly learning how to cook until he surprised me one day with beans and yam. The meal was so appalling but i loved the effort. Today he's a guru. We take turns. He's got loads of cookery books and surprises us from time to time. Then people complained that i wasn't the wifey material because i wasnt doing his laundry,housekeeping etc. That was because "he never let me". These attributes combined with his whole gentlemanness made me quickly say yes when he proposed. Managing the home front is so easy for me cos we're a team.So OP, keep doing what you do. I pray you do it for a girl that'll appreciate you.

The whole idea is laudable but from a woman's view point,most of us will take you for granted,like your ex already did. My hubby was such a -0 when it came to anything kitchen. Everything was on me.i never knew he was secretly learning how to cook until he surprised me one day with beans and yam. The meal was so appalling but i loved the effort. Today he's a guru. We take turns. He's got loads of cookery books and surprises us from time to time. Then people complained that i wasn't the wifey material because i wasnt doing his laundry,housekeeping etc. That was because "he never let me". These attributes combined with his whole gentlemanness made me quickly say yes when he proposed. So OP, keep doing what you do. I pray you do it for a girl that'll appreciate you.

vicoloni: Kaduna is presently on boko fire

Fire has been released. Dude,you've spoilt the game. The beginning word for your sentence should have been state not kaduna.

waja: . And you Brutus (Edakedkay), did she asked U to tell us. U are her friendly enemy that's why U took her 4 abortion.

i can help you find the right word to describe your "friendly enemy"-"frenemy". If you must know,i did try to convince her.advised her to look on the positive side-talk talk talk for a while but once the baby was delivered,everyone would around. I was certain the guy would come around after a while.i was sure he just wont sit back and watch her go thru the whole pregnancy but then she already got an admission in a uni abroad.she went for that option. I was the only one other than her guy who knew zbout her condition.i had to provide a shoulder

@elewedu, that's the surprise here but the guy's still so in love with her and another surprise, the guy's family equally loves her to bits and wants them together.yeah,plenty surprises.they were both each others first love.she just lost it on the way and i'm glad she retracted her steps when it wasn't too late.

@Keyo,been thinking along same line too but everything's in God's hands. They don't live together. The only snag they had was her flings,which i think they've walked thru it, and the little hitches you get in relationships.other than this,they are your typical jigsaw puzzle.

Keyo: She should wait if they are truly in love. 28 isn't too old, in fact it isn't old at all. I'm 28 and the last thing on my mind is marriage. Please tell her to wait and sort out their financial problems before getting married. I don't see what the big deal is about getting married at such a young age. Maybe it's the pressure from tradition. Girls these days just fuss about marriage like that's all what life is about. So what if the whole world Is married and you're not?!

thanks for this. Like i said earlier,rule her flings history out and she'll be your typical lovable girl.she's sort of a goal getter and not nailing the marriage bit of her life makes her feel like a failure. I'll do my best by her and give her the many wonderful advice people like you have given

Sean lenux: You and your friend are despicable, imps and bunch of junks. Both of you are doomed for condemation. Your suffering just started

gosh! Here's another judgemental ijit. Tell me if you're righteous enough to spite another person. Why are people so judgemental? You all are a true case of "if men were God". Mind you i'm married with a child.

kaeto: marry at 28 and more? Trival! We are talking of a LovePeddler and muderer,killed so many kids n took in for many chaps, a bitch. U both must c a true MOG for deliverance from hardship as a result of d wasted kidz' blood. Ambivalent- both harsh n true.

you should get the story here correct.the two times she took in where both the guy's and i tell you she's already sought God's forgiveness and being the God i know,he'll definitely hearken to their cries,pleas and supplication. Carry on living your holy life.

@all that gave very reasonable advice,thanx a whole lot,it really helped, but to those who decided to be douch bags,i wont abuse you cause if i did,there'll definitely be no difference between us. I'd like to remind the douch bags that sin is sin,the littlest of sin is equivalent to the mightiest of sins. Carry on leading your judgemental lives and see where it leads you.

y me: First thing first, just because all her friends r getting married does not warrant her to do the same
there is time for everything and I know at her age she wants nothing more than to start a family
From the man's point of view I do understand him not wanting to take the fiancee's sister help in sponsoring the marriage, what will happen after the marriage? who will pay the rent and other bills that follows as both partners have no job

on the other hand your friend thinks more about getting married that she forgets what marriage is all about
she needs to know marriage is not what you can walk in and out of and does not work alone with love
she even contemplating on going for other suitors she knows little or nothing about screams how desperate she wants a wedding
she should decide if this is the man she wants to spend her life with and find ways to better their future
let her go out there and search for jobs too
and if possible that same money her sister would want to sponsor the wedding with should be given to her to start something reasonable with

they are both seriously hunting for jobs actli

y me: First thing first, just because all her friends r getting married does not warrant her to do the same
there is time for everything and I know at her age she wants nothing more than to start a family
From the man's point of view I do understand him not wanting to take the fiancee's sister help in sponsoring the marriage, what will happen after the marriage? who will pay the rent and other bills that follows as both partners have no job

on the other hand your friend thinks more about getting married that she forgets what marriage is all about
she needs to know marriage is not what you can walk in and out of and does not work alone with love
she even contemplating on going for other suitors she knows little or nothing about screams how desperate she wants a wedding
she should decide if this is the man she wants to spend her life with and find ways to better their future
let her go out there and search for jobs too
and if possible that same money her sister would want to sponsor the wedding with should be given to her to start something reasonable with

no the guys sister offered to sponsor the wedding and she's turned two suitors down.

swtchicgurl:

where did you get this information from? smh!

good question girl. One of my sis actli married at 31.

plzzzzzzzzz guys/ladies help me out here.some comments would do pls.i'm running outta the time limit i gave my friend and she'll soon come to me for advice. Pls help me out with your honest replies

fuckherlord:

women close to clocking 30 and above are cursed when it comes to marriage forget about your friend

married??

what is your age range

i'm 29 and married but that was harsh you know. I mean your comment about women close to clocking 30 but seriously what would you have her do?

She's my bestest friend. We've been friends since secondary school and her guy was my classmate in nursery school.
I didn't know until when she introduced us. She's been with him for 10yrs.
She's 28 now and the guy 31. He's your typical tall,dark and handsome guy and oh my he loves her to his marrow. Not into women,hardworking,down to earth and he's got most of the qualities any woman would want from a guy.

My friend on the other hand is equally pretty and tall as well but she's had quite a number of other guys she's slept with.actually,6 of them. Each time the guy forgave her when he found out but he was this close to leaving her after he found out about the last one.

In their final year in school she got pregnant for him but had to flush it out as they were both not ready to take that step. Forgot to say they were mates in university in 2008 she took in again,was ready to keep it but the guy wasn't.not because of finances for he was quite ok then but because he wasn't sure if it was his.

My girlfriend had told him it was his because she took in November of that year while she had stopped all her flings because she almost lost grips on this guy due to all her atrocities. all efforts to convince her guy the pregnancy was his fell on deaf ears. She had to flush it again and I accompanied her.

They tried to patch things up. 4 months after,she left the country to go do her masters in the UK. But before she left the guy confessed to her he'd slept with a girl as he was under so much pressure from his friends to dump her and move on with some other girl. He said it was never the same without my friend.

He loved her too much and thank gracious they were back together again and my friend has never had some other guy in to her since then.she was away for three years and a year before her return,he popped the question which she happily said yes to.plan was for the wedding to hold november last year but as life would have it things took a dive for the guy.

She's been the one supporting him since then while he on the other hand has been hustling seriously. Trying his hands everywhere and even looking for a job.something he never wanted to do because he's this type of guy that believes in creating jobs for others. He was actually doing this.

They are both jobless now and their prospects are good tho. The thing is, all our friends are married except her and one other friend of ours. She's currently so depressed and feels like a looser because she's not married. Her guy's elder sister wanted to sponsor their wedding but the guy completely turned her down that he won't let anybody sponsor his wedding.

My friend completely loves this guy too and won't leave him as she fears she won't find anyone else to love her as this guy does and she leaving him now will paint her a bad person. Meanwhile, she's so very much loved by the guys family even after she told them everything she did wrong and the girls family loves him as well. Apart from my friend's history with men, she's a very good girl-friendly,caring,she listens, generous and I truly believe she's done with her old ways.

She wants a baby but the guy doesn't due to his financial standing and promises that everything will be done my friends way once he lands a job. My friend's is that she wants to them to get married with her guy's sister sponsoring the wedding and then they can continue their hustle from there but her guy's not buying.

Meanwhile,she's got two guys wanting to marry her but turned them down.

Please will you advice her if she were your sister. Remember she's 28yrs.