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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:53pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Boss13: The bolded is so true. While the system protects the vulnerable, it also helps people tear things down and makes money off them while at it. A friend of mine, in the usual Nigerian fashion, was yapping about how African Americans are lazy and do not utilize the opportunities they have. I replied saying we Nigerians are very myopic and irritating when we say this. Firstly, we underestimate the effect of multi generational racism. Secondly, we seem to think that we have had no help. Fact is, an average Nigerian or person born to Nigerian parents has an unfair advantage compared to an African American. Our family & societal structure is very different; consequently, the role models and competition the society instruct we adopt or indulge in is also different(or used to be about a decade or two ago). We mostly grow up with both parents very involved in our lives, heck some of us even had the luxury of extended family taking up our tabs and providing guidance. Right from childhood, you knew you had to make something out of your life, not really because you came from lack but because the commitment of your parent/parents made it non-negotiable. Juxtapose that to where most African Americans are coming from, and tell me if it doesn't surprise you that they are able to even make as much as they do with their lives. We think any of us have the drive, discipline and priorities we have, exclusive of the influence of the society and time we were raised in? The home is where it all starts from. 20 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 6:45pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
AZeD1: I would think that there has to be a range for what is significant and what isnt. Oh yes, there should be some room for subjectivity but it can't be a case of just about anything is significant if one feels like it. I am not in support of abusing one's partner, one is right to walk away from an abusive marriage. However, in today's world, it does seem that marriages break up simply because it is convenient to. This goes for men and women alike. It is not so much about Canada, it is the time we live in... and it can only degenerate further. Here is the thing, a case of couples fighting over CCB to the point where it breaks-up their marriage is complete nonsense. I don't care if they both were the poorest persons in the world before emigrating to Canada. It only shows their priorities, and that they have a wrong notion of what marriage should be about. Obviously, I can't dictate to anyone what to do in their homes and I am not trying to. I am just saying maybe one should ask themselves what really matters. We assume every marriage breaks up because of abuse. Nope! Some people just got bored and wanted to chase elusive happiness somewhere else... atimes, that's when the various excuses and insignificant squabbles starts to creep up. One could argue that they have the freedom to, and that I don't dispute. However, I have said that there are far reaching impacts to this on other people, in this case the kids are stakeholders too and I would think the larger society gets affected too. Considering all this, I don't see how it is wrong to say couples should be careful not to make selfish decisions or bring unhealthy competition into their marriage. If one is in an abusive marriage, I wouldn't dare ask him/her not to call the police. But if you only had a disagreement with your partner and called the police because you can, then well enjoy. We can not pretend that there aren't people who over-complicate issues, and make it seem as though it is as significant as their home. Anyways... I don drag this marriage mara for too long sef. Make everybody stir e tea as e sweet am, last last na them go drink am. 16 Likes |
Crime / Re: Bandits Kill 18 Soldiers In Katsina (Disturbing Photos) by einsteino(m): 9:10am On Jul 20, 2020 |
it is only a matter of time before these guys would over run the south too. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 4:28am On Jul 20, 2020 |
legionISproteus: Many people here, left great jobs(and maybe a better life) for an uncertain future here. They did this in the hope of giving their kids and family a better opportunity. If after all the sacrifice and stress, you tear your home over insignificant squabbles, then it must mean you have an inconsistent or even absurd value system. Besides, If we are lucky, we have only got a couple decades of active life left. Sooner than later, no one would actually care about all the possessions and ego that caused the rifts. When I think about my parents, I don't judge them by who got or brought what. Rather, I judge by how their decisions, principles, show of care and sacrifices impacted I and my siblings in the long run. That's really all I remember, and that's what endears them to me or not. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 12:59am On Jul 16, 2020 |
safex: Yeah but it took my friend's nigerian side to compel her to (If you know what I mean) 7 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 10:43pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Please guys, do not let your guard down here. I know crime and fraud is low here but things dey happen for this Canada. Someone I know got defrauded while attempting to rent a house in Toronto. A lady posed as a landlord, even had fake mortgage documents for the house and canadian passport. Took my friend on tour round the house. Nothing seemed out of the ordinary, so my friend paid the lady $2000(as first and last month's rent) via interac. A day before my friend was to move in, this lady tells her that there has been some complications. That the existing tenant isn't willing to leave any more, so she plans on taking them to the landlord-tenant board. She then promises my friend that she would refund her the money spent on booking Uhaul and put her in airbnb for 10 days at her own expense, while she sorts out eviction of the tenant. The next day, my friend called her but the line was dead. My friend then visits the house, and met an old man there. She told the man that she was there to check out the apartment she rented. The man told her that he owns the house and the girl is actually just living in his house. He went on to say that the girl was recently arrested by the police for rent fraud and she is to leave his house soon. At that point my friend says she was in rage.. Anyways she asked the man to shut the door behind her, while she confronted the girl. The girl admitted to the crime and says she was in need of money. That all the documents my friend earlier sighted was fake, including documents from BMO and those supposedly from her lawyer. The lady had no remorse, only instructed my friend not to call the police because she wasn't ready to go back to them. Thankfully, my friend called the police and insisted that she must get her money. At that point, the lady's boyfriend got involved. He refunded my friend just before the cops showed up. They got away just as the cops were showing up. The cops were like same house, same girl. Turns out the girl had even made it to the news, here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_N9-eoxSvCA 25 Likes 7 Shares |
Crime / Re: Family Accuses Oghenekevwe Kumane Of Killing Son In Delta (Pics) by einsteino(m): 11:25pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
omogerohprecious: I hear he didnt kill the man or order it. There was a crisis and the vigilante/security staff under the monarch's employ had a shootout with the hoodlums. According to the story, it was a stray bullet that hit the guy. That community has always had serious "skoi skoi", both the people and their monarchs. So, I really dont know who to believe. |
Health / Re: Nigerian Engineer, Ekwunife Dies Of COVID-19 Disease In The UK - Photos by einsteino(m): 9:42pm On Jul 03, 2020 |
May his soul rest in peace |
Celebrities / Re: Burna Boy Celebrates His 29th Birthday Today by einsteino(m): 9:02am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Burna boy is most likely 29. He attended Montessori Intl Primary School, Portharcourt. He was part of the 2002 graduating set. I still have a photo of him with the rest of the class. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:53pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
Mamaroon: This one follow too lol. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:46pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
capsule: There is a guy on Qoura who few years to his retirement got into a divorce, now he has to work even after retiring because he has lost his all. Dr Dre's wife is filing for a divorce after 24years of marriage. Mehn she doesn't even need to be treated badly to wake up and say she wants out. it is easy to want out if you are going to get paid heavily for leaving lol. lots of folks in this country are tied down with Alimony and child support payments. It's weird why people don't get a prenup, too many over optimistic men out there. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:35pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
flyingpig: ah from your mouth to God. iseee o! lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:32pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
SixSigma1: I think it is the same in the U.S because a friend in the U.S was able to get his wife to sign a post-nup. The wife earns more than him right now, so it made sense for her to sign. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:05pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
listowell: mehn in the bolded is one of my biggest fears lol. marriage is like shooting at a moving target. One has to choose to marry someone based on their now and pray the person doesnt drift too far from their kernel. lol infact it is a miracle that people can even be together for long because we all change over time. 5 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 4:25pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
listowell: Well, there are quite a number of ladies among our kind that live off men. However, I don't think there are enough to make that the narrative of Nigerian ladies. I don't have any Nigerian female friend here that I know to be lazy. I would think after Asian ladies, Nigerian ladies are the next on most industrious here or maybe I haven't been paying attention. I get that people pretend but times, we also open eyed walk into marriages with people who are nothing but trouble waiting to happen. So, maybe we should also learn to be a bit more cautious and stop worrying about Trophies. This thing is a two way street sha, women suffer at the hands of men too. Talking about forsaking family, women are still learning in that dept, inshort they would never win men in that one lol. I personally know of a lady back in Nigeria who borrowed money and sold properties to help her hubby travel to Canada many years ago. Oga got to Canada, remarried and cut off ties with his wife and kids back home. It is over a decade now, oga has not even bothered to get in touch with his kids. I have also met someone here in Canada who has a family here, but secretly went back home to marry someone else. Inshort, when I was growing up, it was quite common during burials for people to learn that their deceased Dad secretly had a family with another woman. If you hear women talk about their experience with men, you'd be scared for your daughters and sisters. There are terrible men as there are women. Men are only at the receiving end now because the system in attempting to protect women from a history of terrible/abusive men, have made it possible for even good men to suffer for no fault of theirs. So, I'd say we all just chill, and make a risk management plan that looks out for ourselves. Hopefully, people would start to speak out and someday the these laws would be revised. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:40pm On Jul 01, 2020 |
19CannyMum: I wish I could like this a thousand times. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 9:05am On Jun 30, 2020 |
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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 8:46pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Lajiniran: I am a realist, so I understand your fears. I still feel it depends on who you married and how well you think you know her. For those yet to marry, I usually say get a prenup if you can and then hope you never use it. As for the career, I would take a look. That was a lot of mentions though, I get everyone's point. I wouldn't speak disrespectfully of a spouse on a public forum, but maybe we should cut him some slack. Things happen here and even to good people, so it is natural to be afraid. Those of you who are on the whatsapp group might remember the guy who was hushed by the ladies on the group when he said he couldn't understand why his wife was unwilling to split bills with him. His point was that in Naija, he never for once needed his wife's financial input in running the home because he earned several folds more than her but on getting to Canada, he isn't making a killing like he was in Naija and their income is now about the same. Mind you, the way things are set up here, it is very difficult to run a home on a single income. I thought it was reasonable for him to not only expect but demand that she takes some financial responsibility but to my surprise, a good number of the ladies on the group went on to say stuff like any man who makes such demands is simply not man enough. That shows that it is unrealistic to assume that every Nigerian lady out there would not begrudge you if she has to run the home. I laugh when our women argue that men are the head of the home so they have to foot the bills. Fact is men are not in anyway head of the home here, we are at best ceremonial heads because if ever the police or courts gets involved, the woman is lord. Cae in point, a month ago, I had to house a friend who got kicked out of his home by the police. Oh yes! the sort of things we often assume is only to be heard not experienced. His girlfriend(they are civil partners) called the cops when they had an argument. Mind you he didn't assault her, inshort she is the one who has a history of assaulting him. That reminds me, if your lady ever assaults you, don't fool yourself to think that the manly thing to do is to tolerate, report it while you still can, it would cover your ass if there is ever litigation. During my work as a Concierge, I have escorted police on several occasions to apartments over calls bothering on domestic issues between couples. All it takes for police to get involved here is a quarell(no violence), inshort the lady needn't call. If the neighbours can hear loud voices, then y'all might just find the police at your door while at it. While I don't know the cause of these quarells, I get the sense that you not only have to be a good husband but you also must be married to a good wife if you are not to regret your marriage here(This is the case even in Nigeria, only that there is more to lose here). Many of our men are autocratic and that simply can not work here. Some of our women do not understand that they too have to change. Some of our women have the weirdest expectations from a man, one that I hardly see from women of other nationalities. Equality must also extend to responsibilities. Though as with most things, a couple can not be dictated to as to what framework or rules to adopt in running their home. The key is that whatever framework you adopt, it has to suit you both and fair to each other's preference for peace to reign. If you are yet to marry, great! Consider your dates as interviews, especially if you close your options against non-nigerians. If you don't want a lady that is unwilling to split bills, ex them, if you don't want a man that chants be submissive, ex them. There are many happy marriages here, like the one of my friend that I said his wife had his back for years until he found a reasonably paying job. And I sense that many of the men here dragging the OP also have relatively happy homes. However, to pretend that the risks for men doesn't increase when you settle here, is just being plain naive. Especially since we know that what holds many marriages in Nigeria together is just kids, the way divorce is viewed back home, along with the numerous relatives and clergy that would wade in. All I can say is that as you plan on learning Canadian workplace culture and all you need to settle in Canada, couples should also plan on making changes that would foster peace and love in their home. Talk things over with your spouse, if there was bad blood or resentment, iron it out and be seen to make ammends. You would find that you would spend most of your spare time at home here, all the beer and bar time that served as escape from your home ceases the moment you get on board that flight. Nobody dey beg couples to stay together here, if una wan fight, police dey more than happy to arrest. If una dey form una no wan do again, lawyers no go school just because of passion, dem wan chop. So use your head, protect your homes because the system is set up to help you do otherwise. Your spouse should be your partner, not your competition. 110 Likes 25 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:50am On Jun 27, 2020 |
Lajiniran: @bolded if you guys get along fine, then it shouldn't be a problem. I know with all the gory tales we hear these days, people are paranoid but remember the negative stories travels farther than the positive stories. I have a (Nigerian)friend whose wife was chiefly responsible for the bills for some time here, it didn't come in between their peace or joy. When he finally got a reasonably paying job, she took a backseat and focused on schooling. I also do have a couple Indian friends whose wives were the breadwinners during their bridging program, and heaven didn't come down. The point is, marriage should be about complementing each other and not competing. However, only you knows the nature of the person you are married to and why you nurse your fears. In any case, I would think you should have kept that bit to yourself because this is a public forum. As anonymous as everyone thinks they are here, you may find someday that someone might tie you to these comments and it may reflect poorly on you. I don't see how you managed to get the score of 650, I suspect you made some wrong entries in the form. Review it and see if you get above the most recent draw-score. I would choose PR over Study visa anyday. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 12:58am On Jun 27, 2020 |
bencomib: You could check the department's website for a list of their professors. Go through their research areas and publications, then contact the professors and tell them why you are passionate about their research and what competency you would bring to their research team if selected. here is a link that explains it in detail https://www.nairaland.com/2367106/travelling-canada-part-8/28#34729512 |
Celebrities / Re: Timaya’s 'Telli Person' Warned Hushpuppi Before His Arrest – Fans React by einsteino(m): 12:56am On Jun 27, 2020 |
techmo: would it have been alright for him to steal if he was changing the lives of his people positively? I'm just curious to know if charity now makes crime okay. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 10:16am On Jun 25, 2020 |
ednut1: Congrats boss. I am glad to know that your persistence finally fetched you the much awaited goal. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 5:41am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Fortissimo502: Thank you so much for this. I relayed your suggestions to her and she has confirmed from the college that the Independent learning centre course would suffice. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 2:28am On Jun 09, 2020 |
SlowlybtSurely: I never thought I could ever see downtown Toronto this empty. Now that I think about it, I havent been downtown since the lockdown. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 2:27am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Please a friend would like to apply for Nursing in Ontario but the admission requirements are a minimum of 70% in English, Maths, Chemistry and Biology. For WAEC, she got a D in Chemistry so she certainly does not meet the requirements. Her questions are: **Does she need to get an OSSD certificate ( which would include English, Maths, Biology and Chemistry) in order to apply for Nursing? Or She can just go to an adult learning center and take only English, Maths, Biology and Chemistry exams - without actually getting an OSSD certificate? **Also, there's the mature student entry route. This requires her to take a paid assessment exam (in English, Maths, Biology and Chemistry) for all the schools she applies to. Please does any one have an idea how challenging these assessment tests are? Thanks. |
Education / Re: Aerial Pictures Of The Obafemi Awolowo University (great Ife) by einsteino(m): 5:44pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
yusman14: I already said North Africa and South Africa have the best universities in Africa. The highest ranked universities in Africa are in South Africa and Egypt and their best are higher ranked than modest American universities. Countries like Tunisia are not as good as these universities but on average, I would think they are better than our average(generalization). There are several bodies that rank universities and these rankings use very different metrics, some are based on mundane things like webometrics. That said, the three that are worth considering is QS rankings, Academic Ranking of World Universities(ARWU a.k.a Shangai Rankings) and Times Higher Education Rankings(T.H.E). Of these 3, Q.S is viewed as the most reliable or the gold standard, while ARWU is largely used by folks in academic research as it reflects the better schools for PhD studies. Now, UI and CU didn't even make it to QS rankings at all, while CU is nowhere to be found on ARWU. They both are on Times Higher Education Rankings(T.H.E) but I don't take T.H.E seriously. This is because their metrics changes too often and recently has been more about diversity. Times higher Education has UI on 500+ while Concordia University is lower ranked, doesn't seem to make any sense to me because I have been to UI and Concordia. I obviously don't have as much creds as T.H.E but to be honest, rankings are not even something I should debate because it is hard to evaluate thousands of universities across the world and many don't really signify the infrastructure available or actuality of the impact they make to their students(no one really goes to much of these universities to see things for themselves). The practice is to develop a formula that looks at stats, some of which are supplied by these universities and their academic publications. That said, I did my undergrad at UNN and I know U.I to be a very good school(in my opinion it is better than UNN, hopefully no lion crucifies me for this) and Covenant university is very likely going to be the best Nigerian university someday if they can figure out funding. However, if I were to choose a school to attend or grad to employ in the sciences/engineering (squarely based on university attended) btw U.I and Concordia, it would be Concordia all the time. This is because I know both schools personally and wouldn't have to rely on rankings to make my decision for these. |
Education / Re: Aerial Pictures Of The Obafemi Awolowo University (great Ife) by einsteino(m): 5:17am On Jun 03, 2020 |
yusman14: Please I'd like a reference, so I could see which body did the rankings. Was it QS? Anyways congrats if they are but it would be sad to know that's the best Africa has to offer. Anyways, I hope we come up on the areas that matter because truth is that with the exception of a couple North African and South African universities, we are not even known out here. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by einsteino(m): 7:41am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Kylekent59: You almost succeeded in expressing yourself maturely but for the bolded, really is uncalled for. We can debate with respect for each other. I am aware about all you mentioned and have given my reasons already to others who mentioned me earlier. I don't think that it's possible currently in Nigeria, you can read my previous replies to see why I think so. Although @enigmang has made a very good debate and I am waiting to see if s/he or someone that knows better can prove that it is indeed possible. |
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by einsteino(m): 7:31am On Jun 02, 2020 |
enigmang: Thanks. your reply is educating. Here is my reply to the points you raised: The NIMC DG in february of this year, said Nigeria is the only country without harmonized identity data. It maybe that within the last couple of months, something was done about that but I doubt that since we are still made to recapture for just about everything. Every database has a primary key, but you do know that since they do not know whose print it is, they are essentially scanning through the entire database rather than selecting from rows with a specific key. Obviously, I haven't seen NIMC or CBN's infrastructure and maybe the AFIS isn't as complex as I presumed(I havent built one and isnt my field either lol)... however, I am not sure that it is as easy as you say since the scan gotten from a crime scene would be a recreated or partial one rather than a true scan as is the case with handheld devices. |
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by einsteino(m): 7:04am On Jun 02, 2020 |
enigmang: It is easy to assume they can just search through the millions of prints from BVN, Sim reg, NIMC etc However, the truth is that without a primary key or a complex system like Integrated Automated Fingerprint Identification System(IAEFS) in place, you can't. Also, the data from BVN and it's likes isnt harmonized, so it is very unlikely they examined it against a database like BVN. Fingerprint search is not as simple as movies like to portray it (just like hacking isn't as easy as movies make it seem). Someone said they probably had a suspect and compared the prints to his. I think that is the most probable thing that happened. |
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by einsteino(m): 7:03am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Eskdale: about the bolded, for real? I'd be surprised because last I knew we were yet to harmonize our data, hence why we always need to recapture for voter's registration, driver's license, passport renewal etc Besides, it is easy to assume they can just search through the millions of prints from BVN, Sim reg, NIMC etc However, the truth is that without a primary key or a complex system like Integrated Automated Fingerprint Identification System(IAEFS) you can't. Fingerprint search is not as simple as movies like to portray it (just like hacking isn't as easy as movies make it seem). Someone said they probably had a suspect and compared the prints to his. I think that is the most probable thing that happened |
Crime / Re: Uwa Omozuwa: Edo State Police Command Arrests One Suspect by einsteino(m): 7:00am On Jun 02, 2020 |
unscripted: It is easy to assume they can just scan through the millions of prints from BVN, Sim reg, NIMC etc However, the truth is that without a primary key or a complex system like Integrated Automated Fingerprint Identification System(IAEFS) you can't. Also, the data from BVN and it's likes isnt harmonized, so it is very unlikely they examined it against a database like BVN. Fingerprint search is not as simple as movies like to portray it (just like hacking isn't as easy as movies make it seem). Someone said they probably had a suspect and compared the prints to his. I think that is the most probable thing that happened |
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