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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 6:20pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Suspectzero: To start with, one trailer of whatever you drink or eat ... I like this discussion because I always see something I agree with in every comment, both opposing and supporting ones. First, I call it a discussion and not a debate because the onus lies on us to decide for ourselves. No one here can dictate or trash another for where they choose to raise their own kids, especially when that place is their own country as well. If we were talking about sending them to the U.S or europe for the same purpose, no one would view it as a "mentality". I believe we have to understand that these things are a matter of preference and not a matter of intellectual superiority or civility. Now, where do I agree with you? The being able to see a part of you in your kids is a very valid reason. If one wants kids that are completely ailien to them, we would have just been sperm and egg donors. In short Quebecois went separatist nuts simply because parents found their kids and grandkids becoming anglicized. Till this day, there are offsprings of immigrants who refer to themselves as irish-canadian, scandinavian-canadian and some do return home. So, it isn't wrong to want a part of your identity to reflect in your kid, even if you are from shithole Nigeria. Besides, shouldn't it be great if they can get the best of both worlds? or there is absolutely nothing good about Nigeria? Of course even if you raise them in naija, they would be still a bit different from you but to what extent and what areas is the deciding factor. Some people saying this is a non-issue would be the same ones in years to come, finding out they are only accepting it and not necessarily what they wish. Sure it is left for parents to raise their kids but we seem to forget that society to a large extent dictates if that way is a norm or not and it would ultimately influence the kid. Immigrants wake up everyday realising this at the last hour. To my knowledge this is most common with nigerian parents in the U.S, the same ones who were once excited about raising american kids. it happens so fast that all they can do is make peace with their new found reality. Also, I am not so big about morals. To me, nigeria has no morals, not even respect. Afterall the same ones who champion respect, would deride an old man who has no money and worship a wealthy young boy. However, if you lived in Nigeria, you should know when Nigerians speak of morals, it connotes religion and family. Like kids being submissive to their parent's will, without negotiations, even if it means pretending. And the state not handicapping you on how to raise your kids. Generally, nigerian morals is on not being sexually pervasive or lewd in public(whatever you do in secret is fine by Nigerian rules lol) and family culture. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: My Monthly Savings In Canada by einsteino(m): 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
I was about to ask what motivation got you working 60hours a week consistently for a year. Work here is hard on one, except is a laid back job like security. Then I saw the quote you replied to. Yeah hypothetically speaking, if you work 60hours a week consistenly for a year, you should have decent savings but occasionally stupid variables like getting sent home early, shifts getting cancelled or just being tired, could reduce it. Eitherways, who wan save go save something. So long as they live modestly and don't have other financially draining goals like education or pursuing professional licensure. naijaman3: |
Travel / Re: My Monthly Savings In Canada by einsteino(m): 5:31pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
atutupoyoyo2211: First I must commend your polite response. Secondly, most of what you said tallies with my experience so far. However, we should be careful not to use what car one drives as a metric of success. In canada, most cars are financed(bought via loans or credit). Most of my friends drive 2017 cars and make only a couple dollars above minimum wage. I have also worked at warehouses where my colleagues drove sports cars and we all earned the same wage and put in the same hours. This is just to clarify that cars here is hardly an indication of how well someone is doing financially, it is a matter of one's taste. The banks and dealers are willing to finance or lease a brand new 2020 car to you if you have a good credit score. For slightly older cars, you can even get them with a bad credit, only that the interest rate and downpayment would be higher. There is a reason why most Canadians find themselves at collections or bankrupt once they miss a couple paycheques. Aside this, Indians indeed dominate the haulage industry. Not many people want to do that job. Many immigrants work crazy hours here at blue collar jobs(at least for a start), the scammers are in the minority. Though if one has a family, they could still be struggling paycheque to paycheque despite the supposedly fat income as bills arent funny here. It is a better life overall, but nigerians back home shouldn't just assume minimum wage of $14 is a whole lot of money as though their bills and expenses would remain in naira here. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:44pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
bily: I agree with you on a lot you said but I would like to point out that catholic schools in Canada is not what we know catholic schools to be though. I attended a catholic school at some point in Naija, and have had interactions with a friend who attended one here in Canada. Catholic schools here are similar to attending a very liberal posh private school in naija. Inshort what we call liberalism in Naija, is conservatism here. Then another thing is, most people who jump on the catholic school train do it with the hope that they wouldn't have pro LGBTQ type of classes/clubs. This is often not the case, as catholic schools have their hands tied since they are public funded and have to be seen following the govt's bidding. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:21pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Influential101: Your comment deserves a trailer load of beer. People often think the Nigeria they grew up in is the same as what you have today. The culture has devolved. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:17pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Suspectzero: Not everyone views leaving Nigeria as an escape though. Some of us still have plans to leave Canada for somewhere else, would that be an escape? I have heard of a number of people(esp folks in the U.S) who did what iPopAlomo has in mind and their reasons were hard to invalidate. Mind you, most nigerian private secondary boarding schools are filled with kids of folks in the diaspora. I am talking schools whose fees are 1m+ , it would be hard to think they are suffering. We also do have people who relocate to Naija, partly to raise their kids and obviously because they are wealthy enough to afford a luxurious life in Naija. While I completely understand your sentiments, it is important to realise that people here have very diverse backgrounds and interest. 13 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 2:59pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
iPopAlomo: That sounds like a plan but then again it depends on so many factors. First, one would need his/her spouse approval, and this is easily a contentious topic. Then my utmost worry is that the ages when a kid is in secondary school is a very important time for kid's to bond with one's parents and for parent's to shape their kids. You could work around this by flying them to Canada every hols, assuming you don't find it prohibitively expensive. The whole thing seems easier conceived than acted out, I suspect I would end up abandoning the idea. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 5:30pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
iPopAlomo: Lol I.T and finance have it the easiest here, though it is I.T that has the better remuneration of the two. For some other field, like engineering, it often isn't a plug and play scenario as the industry is very risk averse. There is a reason why international students land "core" engineering jobs much faster than experienced immigrant engineers. Then again it is best to have an open mind and chase your goals. I don't have a family but have thought a bit about where would be best to raise my unborn(hopefully I am fertile cos we can't be too sure yet ). I am at a dilemna because I know I don't want them completely raised in Canada, but there is so much about Nigeria that leaves me sad and hopeless for the country. The mentality and culture that is evolving in Naija is one that I detest. Yet there are a lot of pros to growing in Naija that I feel it is necessary my kids live and build some roots there a bit and not merely visit. I watched Akon talk about how his Dad sent him and his siblings off to Senegal, while they only visited the U.S during hols, until they were done with secondary school. He makes it seem like he got the best of both worlds from it but I wouldn't want to assume everyone gets the same result from that experience. I wish I can learn of more cases like that, to help me draw an informed conclusion. Another issue is in whose care and discipline would you entrust them? Would you relocate to Naija with them or would you just ship them out to boarding houses while you stay back in Canada? 7 Likes 6 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:29pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
I can't argue with points 6, 7, 11 and 12. My God she perfectly summarised Canada in the bolded, especially that point 7! People here are two faced and eye service is a huge part of their workplace culture. I cant count how many times people have spoken very ill of someone to me, but go on leading the person to think they are best of friends. They even find it odd when you choose to be neutral. You really can't tell where you stand with a canadian, esp at work. It is very common for seeming good friends at work to forget your existence the moment you or they change jobs. People socialize on a need-to-basis here. This is why most immigrants default to mostly associating with people of their own culture, just to preserve their social sanity. It is the second generation of immigrants/kids that often get used to the flow. Then the healthcare thing... that one beats my comprehension. There is an acute shortage of specialist doctors, Canadians even travel abroad to get healthcare, yet doctors have to go through an abysmally long winding path to licensure. It seems like there is a deliberate plan to maintain the shortage. Collintos: 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:23pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Well, there are a lot of facts in it but not all of it is true, and some aren't to the extent she portrayed it. Collintos: 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:16pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
abbey4christ: lol @ bolded. It depends on where the person's experience and degree is from though. If from a first-world commonwealth nation, with some luck the person has some chance of remaining at the same level. Beside the issue of Canadian experience and Canadian degree, the major issue is that the economy isn't expanding as fast as the number of job seekers. As there are quite a number of canadian degree holders still searching for a good job. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 12:55pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
iPopAlomo: Your moniker is to die for, lol. I have had to completely quit drinking because I am still on G2. I never thought I could but it was between risking a DUI that could send me back to naija, vs Uber anytime man sips something. I can't afford taking an uber and still pay pricey car insurance, I have to maximize my money's worth lol. Congrats on the new job, care to state what industry/profession it is? It would help someone in a similar field know what is applicable or perhaps reach out to you for tips. 6 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:37am On Nov 14, 2019 |
Newww: I can only speak of Ontario. PEO allows direct application for P.Eng. However, tIt is still left to their discretion and evaluation to determine if you should be asked to sit for technical exams, come for interview or do both. In the end they would decide wether you get EIT without acknowledging your experience(meaning you would wait at least 4years to P.Eng) or EIT awaiting Canadian experience(1 year left to P.Eng). For details consult the website of the licensing body for the province of interest. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:30am On Nov 14, 2019 |
WoodcrestMayor: I had something like that on my credit card, the monthly premium for the insurance made me prefer risking all that. So, I cancelled the insurance lol. It makes sense for me since I don't have mortgage or loan to service yet. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 2:58pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
zohan101: I would advise you apply for P.Eng rather than EIT. Wether this is possible would depend on the provincial regulator you choose to go with. If you do succeed and meet the academic requirements, you would be given E.I.T status pending when you get 1 year canadian engineering experience. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 2:44pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
CanadianWasp: Gbam! Each time I come out to my work's parking lot and see the cars my colleagues drive, I begin to suspect HR is only paying me a quarter of my wage. It is so hard to believe that folks who earn the same hourly rate as me would dare to drive sports cars and fancy trucks. These guys here just put everything on credit and finance option, which isn't exactly a bad thing but they often do this in a very financially irresponsible way. Once they miss one pay cheque, their whole life comes crumbling like a pack of cards. I remember when I called my bank a couple months ago, the call centre rep checked my account and was like "Oh your account looks good, care for a credit limit increase?"... You would think she saw millions in it, money wey dey inside no go even sustain me pass a month without income but because canadians hardly have savings without heavy debt, na beautiful account to her. and the only thing she could think of suggesting was credit limit increase, so that I go come carry gbese wey go wipe the savings It is true that in this part of the world, credit and finance options are a nice to have and often a necessity, but living within your means is a universal necessity else you would die above your means lol. If you wan dey buga for this Canada, banks go just dey happy on top your matter. People here need to learn how to manage their finances. 61 Likes 11 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 7:08pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Lol the internet is where smiling and socalled polite canadians say what they really think about immigration. I took the following screenshots on the comment section of a site just a few minutes ago, comments were posted today. Funny how this one is riddled with so much ignorance about the scheme, the govt needs to let its citizens know that immigrants work their asses off and are not spoon fed. Moreso, did anyone catch the line about "demographics" ? 4 Likes 1 Share
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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 4:33pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
salford: Baba how are we going to fix Nigeria? The problem isn't our leaders, that's an over simplification. I think the problem is in everyone of us, there is something about our culture that makes it not matter who is president or governor. The same old shit, would still go on regardless because we are cultured the same. It explains why born Canadians of Nigerian descent are ideologically very different from their parents. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 4:28pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
akosh005: Mehn eh I felt embarassed for Nigeria. No wonder some people see us as sub-human. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 6:55pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
I am not quite sure if what I witnessed yesterday was an election, because it seemed like just a normal day. The country went to work and school, only dashing out for a few minutes to vote! Some schools were even used as polling centres while the pupils and teachers went about their usual business! There was not a single police on the street, no thugs, just people taking selfies at polling centres like na shoprite dem go. I watched some candidates do a house to house visit without company, motivating people to just vote, not necessarily to vote for them! At the end, I watched them only count votes, they had no deaths to count. I watched everyday people, school teachers, newscasters, get elected without Godfathers! Heck Wilson Raybould ran independently(without a party) and won! I watched the parties that lost congratulate themselves, and the party that won reach out to those who voted against them! No talk of 97% vs 5%... I strongly suspected I was hallucinating, I said to myself "there must be something in the water I have been drinking here". So I slept hoping my brain would be in order when I wake but here I am still having these weird memories that claim to be real. Please I want to find out from you guys, if what you witnessed was the same. 74 Likes 8 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:29am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Bawss1: Regardless of what we are made to believe, when these guys say they are against immigration, what they actually mean is "non-european" immigration. If the immigrants are Europeans, to them that is just a Canadian yet to learn the canadian accent lol. Their major problem with the current immigration levels is the sharp change in the demographics. For instance, the percentage of non-whites have spiked under the current immigration scheme, not everyone is happy with this. Before you take sides in an argument, make sure you watch out for the underlying tone. Not everything is truly about merits and demerits, some folks just hide under them to push their agenda. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:18am On Oct 21, 2019 |
salford1: Backtrack? lol that guy sounds like Trump, I would be very surprised if he cares for political correctness. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:12am On Aug 26, 2019 |
efosa2020: Check the websites of the universities of interest. Look out for the admission requirements and application deadlines, then prepare your application. Also, there is a Canadian study visa thread on Nairaland, head over there for support and people on the same mission as you. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 3:07am On Aug 26, 2019 |
maternal: You gave a very good reply, one that I couldn't agree any more with... though with the exception of the bolded. The earlier respondent may have been wrong but that doesn't make him an enemy of progress, that's too serious an accusation to just fling at someone. One may argue that the matter at hand is too dire to pardon misinformation but hey that's a risk you sign up for when soliciting advice on forums. The whole purpose of posting answers on a forum is to help checkmate such ill advise, as it is bound to happen no matter how informed we are. Having people answer questions in the open allows a peer-review(like you did) that normally wouldn't be possible with private message. Knowing this, if someone has any intention of sabotaging another, do you think he would be foolish enough to do it in the open? It may be that he hasn't lived in Ottawa, so it is possible his advice was based on hearsay. In such a case, that can only mean he wasn't cautious to indemnify himself, doesn't make him an Enemy of progress. 53 Likes |
Culture / Re: Prince Gbadegesin Ogunoye, Olowo Of Owo - Elect Bows Out Of Public Service by einsteino(m): 9:57pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
nwadiuko1:Even then this kingship is still an elected position, it says olowo elect was selected by the senior omolowos and ratified by the king makers. Such selection involves lots of politicking with the kingmakers and Governor of the state. Any kingship selection process that isn't directly hereditary(father to eldest son) in Nigeria, is usually determined by exchange of Ghana must go bags or having close ties to the govt in power. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Nigerians To Pay More For Electricity Consumption by einsteino(m): 11:43am On Aug 22, 2019 |
krattoss: well, considering what the minimum wage is in Canada, I think electricity is much more affordable to Canadians than it is in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 11:44pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
Hephgirl: Congrats |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:09pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Narkoya: I think all you may have read on settling down in Toronto or any part of Canada should suffice, as Hamilton can only have a few peculiarities in that regard. What would help is to find someone who is living/have lived in hamilton to maybe give you pointers on the best area for newcomers and the no-go areas. Also, such network could make finding your way around town and job hunting easier than it usually is. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:04pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
EHAO: Yes, you may send a pm. Just to keep your expectations in check, pls note that it is a very small group and it is often quiet unless there is really something to talk about or answer. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 9:33pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Narkoya: okay. Hamilton is closer to Toronto, about 30mins drive while London is roughly two and half hours drive away. I have been to hamilton once, it is an okay place. I haven't been to London before but I would be there this week. |
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by einsteino(m): 1:57pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
donrabii: Ryerson University has a bridging program for Engineers. However, I think one of the requirements is that you submit a PEO committee review letter, meaning you first need to have applied for P.Eng and have been instructed by PEO to take further training inorder to meet its academic requirements. In my opinion, aside from PEng license, it doesnt really help you much in the job market. There is a chemical Engineer I know that recently landed a process engineer job, you might want to hook up with him for pointers. We have a very small whatsapp group of Nigerian Engineers in Canada, it might help to join the group to get a diverse opinion as I can only know so little outside my discipline(Civil Engrng). 4 Likes 5 Shares |
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