You're being a SIMPle guy

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

This should be renamed steps to becoming a simp

IamKizzbrown10:
20 SECRETS LADIES ADMIRE BUT SOME GUYS DOESN'T KNOW

1- call her like twice daily
2- don't wait until she ask yu for money,give out freely.
3 -don't tell her she's boring
4 - kiss her on her four head
5- whenever she tell you she's missing you, and yu are not around, try yur best to see her that day.
6-play with her like yur sister
7- weneva she tell u,bby am sorry, try and forgive/forget.
8-av special time with her and tell her how beautiful she is.
9- Don't make her cry.
10- if she cry, kiss her tears and tell her she's beautiful.
11- introduce her to yur friends .
12- don't promise her heaven and earth wen u don't have it.
13- hold her on her waist while walking together to make her feel protected.
14. Tell her how special she is .
15- don't engage her with a ring if u are not sure to marry her,cus women do normally get hurt.. and they Can cry nonsense
16- she's your baby , handle her with care.
17-text her in the morning and tell her u miss her.
18. Don't lay your hands on her.
19. Correct her privately wen she's wrong in the public.
20. Don't buy her the world with everything but buy her your attention.

Come back and thank me later.
Ladies am I communicating??

@lalasticlala and other mods. Please we need another thread showing how to cook Afang soup properly. This thread is an embarrassment to our award winning AFANG soup

I have used axa mansard, redcare and roding. If you don't have any special health care need, just choose the cheapest

Please what is the salary structure, so i don't waste my time

Lightorder:
Tu face should keep the guy at arm length. Poisoning is not ruled out . That guy has been bitter and won’t just let go like that. If they can’t get you from a distance , they draw closer as friends

You are definitely the other gender

LaurelP:
Girls and dia wahala sha!

If man no pursue dem, dem go wan kill demself. When man finally come, dem go begin form

There's dis babe I so much gbadun and I've been trying to convert, but she's proving stronghead
I'm not one to pester a girl too much but dis girl's case is quite different. There's sth abt her dat won't let me back out. She's not d average money-conscious Naija chick looking for whom to devour, she's decent, hardworking, focused and well behaved plus beauty on top.

I'm sure she likes me cos she enjoys my company due to how I make her head swell whenever she's around me, but she just doesn't wanna oblige me. She won't commit at all! I don use all d weapons for my arsenal take woo dis girl but she's been immovable! I don't wanna be in her f-zone so I've bin teasing and flirting her so she go know say ma mind dey am.

Guys how do u handle girls when they begin play dis hard to get game




*hope say she no dey Nairaland sha*Æ

She done finally gree or abi you done marry another girl.
Abeg come gist us oo

Done wasn't hard but time wasn't enough
I spent part of my exams time on nairaland

1 min to go
Last to comment before the test.
Wishing all of us success

Can one use an android phone to write this test?

I got a mail for their interview but i can't remember applying for it.
Please who has an idea of what to expect

Josephkabila12:
Dragnet is not coordinating this exams very. I did Agip scholarship exams back in 2013 till today no feedback from them.

I also wrote this exams. Agip undergraduate scholarship exams. No feedback since 2013

You could give 2 or 3 of your trusted friends a million naira each and tell them to spray you on the wedding. People would think that you have rich friends. Also don't forget to hire bouncers, so that people don't steal your money on the floor

Barr. Inibehe is working

Following this

The team with the more beautiful ladies should win

Why is nobody commenting?

Finchmgh:
How are you guys so sure that she really went for a job interview?

Nigerian girls can put up any lie just to cover up their romantic hookup appointments.

She was used for subscription by those they adore.

Naija girls never see anything. This is just the beginning.

Nigerians don't appreciate honest people trying to make a living but rather they prefer to praise and worship rich criminals and ritualists, all because of money.

All of una go see pepper. Una go see money chop.

Please your comment is so insensitive
I bet you're still a teenager

SmellySperm:
the spendie should call first

In a spender - spendie relationship

FTC
i dedicate the achievement to my secondary school french teacher who believed in me despite all odds.

Now to the topic at hand, charlie charlie told me that it will end in tears since you met her through tinder(inorganic date). Try to meet a lady organically ie without the intention of dating or relationship. Let everything thing develop naturally..

icehot:


Send me a PM

I am interested too

Ngorbungor:

This the most recent from FAAN website, and there is no way in this world Uyo will get passenger more than Lagos, Abuja, PH, Owerri, Kano, Enugu and Kaduna. That's these are the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th and 7th busiest airport in Nigeria

This doesn't apply as the report prepared before ibom air started operations. It may interest you to know that ibom air wasnt captured in the report

We4all:
Regardless, what the 'falsely accused' face cannot be compared to what rape victims endure. She should channel her energy to ensuring justice for rape victims. Las, las, the falsely accused will be alright.

Feminine spotted

Uyi168:
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Didn't want to say it.

https://www.facebook.com/deborah.okezie.16/videos/491423525157204/?app=fbl

Op please this is not an advert ooo.

Abeg no ban me ooo

Na just the full video

Price of cashmere 220?

Duru9:
No be to migrate to this state now before e go late

I beg is uber working there make I come de run bolt there

I go like make friend with someone who stays there

Lol...indigenes prefer to pay #50 for keke than to pay for bolt. Bolt business doesn't thrive much except on sundays and weekends in the state

This rubbish aka copy and paste post doesn't apply in Nigeria

Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances

So how would someone in diaspora contact you if you didnt include an email. This is 2020, people try to make things easier for themselves. I have seen SA and top govt officials communicate with people using WhatsApp call and WhatsApp message.

vanbonattel:
Are you serious ?

Igbos own Nigerian Ports Authority

Igbos own Oba of Lagos palace (Oba is just a tenant ) lol

Igbos own TVC news station

Igbos own the warehouse and all the palliative looted

Igbos own all the BRT buses and terminals

Igbos own all the police stations

Igbos bought oriental hotels 2 days before the riots.

Thanks for letting us know that Nigerian Port Authority is a business and not a MDA.
Thanks for letting us know that the Oba of Lagos Palace as well as Police stations are business centres

IdontGivAfuck:


You are a disgusting sadist , you must be from Akwa Ibom

https://www.football.co.uk/news/man-utd-leicester-everton-join-race-for-samuel-chukwueze/739497/

Why Akwa Ibom?

Noun MBA is for how many months