Anonymous6o6:
Mehn... A lot has happened!! Like a lot

First, I have gotten a laptop! Yeah, a good laptop! And it was thanks to the August cohort members who decided to contribute and get me one.

Secondly, I completed the Alx Virtual Assistant Program last Sunday, mehn... It has been a struggle using my phone to multi-task, now I can practice more with my laptop.

This is my fourth month in Alx program as a software engineer, many things has happened during this period, I made great friends, broaden my knowledge on C even though it was a struggle.

I really struggled with C because I had to finish watching Tutorials before practicing with Sololearn. So happy to get a laptop.

There were days I questioned myself on the knowledge I have accumulated and if the period time for time was worth it because I felt I haven't learnt much, but I didn't allow it discourage me.

I came across a video that had the answers to most of my questions. Especially about my journey as a software engineer, I will be writing down the things I have learnt from the video and my friends who are experienced developers. They include the following:

PS: these are tips for software engineers

- Don't try to learn everything! -
- Build projects while learning
- Solve problems with your skills

Not learning Java, C++, python, C#, PHP because you saw them as a requirement for a job, rather get good at a programming, build projects with it, solve problems with that language, which will showcase that you are that good at it.

Using myself as an example, I intend to specialize as a backend engineer using python and C++. Python is a high level language which will be slow with operating systems, this is where C++, a low level language comes in.

I hope you don't find this boring lol

Philip6800:
If you like to earn in dollar, just get a side hustle like crypto futures trading

I can guide anyone that's interested in learning crypto futures trading. You won't regret learning it. You can pay after making profit because knowledge is not free.

Emmanuel30a:
Its so unfortunate... Many things are or were involved... Marriage definitely may not have a particular age to venture into... Firstly, she is a wrong or wayward one. Secondly, you did not settle many things before you married her... You married her at the age of 16years... She was probably in Senior Secondary School 3 or she just completed Secondary School... Marriage is more much than sex... Her mentality should be one of your priorities before you married her... You should have allow her to gain admission into Higher Institution then promise her marriage only if she keeps her vaginity... You can marry her at 400 or 500level... After confirming her vaginity status. She can carry your baby by then... There are many ways you can test vaginity... You can test it Medically or you can test it Biblically... Some or more of the fault is yours... Teen would behave like teen... Teen always want to see&have many things... You must have seen many teens&things. Some teens are queen & a win win. Ur teen is not a queen.

Slimanyd2:
Another new registration for a BOT

slimanyd:
That Joy when u can finally rest from 2- 2 hrs Trading. Perhaps , You have funds that is above 400$ ,I would implore you to hustle more for BOT. No comfortability wey pass that o.

Olatara:
She wasn't poor nah ( at least her father was a Professor) he initially objects her marriage to Julius Agwu.

Julius begged to marry her, so what exactly are you saying?

She might be stubborn oh, but she's not a bad person.

OpenHeaven2019:
What does it mean to be early.

Been early means investing in a tech long before it makes sense to people. Long before it becomes the next big thing.

The next big thing in Crypto is Omnichain.

In January of 2021 I invested in HydraDX pre sale. I knew what they were building was ground breaking, no one has developed an Omnipool before now. They were building an OmniPool to create the truly first Decentralized Omnichain dex.
I also knew since what they building was the 1st of its kind so it would take time.

I invested and it been over 1 year, my investment still locked with them and no return yet but I’m happy I was right!

Omnichain is the next big thing!

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Sammyklever:
For this that wants to understand how to get whitelist of good Nft project

Just mention me....

OpenHeaven2019:


Since I dropped this here, I should as well drop an update

I minted Tubby cat for 0.1eth. Floor few hours after mint was 1eth.

Made over $3k from it - life’s good.

For OxFrens (the one whose discord link I shared) minting is in 20mins, please use a degen wallet to mint!

Peace out.

SirAce:


I was whited listed on 0xAliens and i minted but I can’t access the nft on opensea, it’s saying items not listed yet and i can’t find their discord chanel.

spartan117:

Yes

spartan117:

Software engineering

Raiga:
Very confusing headline.I thought afrocandy herself died.
No talk say I no give you update. Get 10,000($450) free. It launches in march if you like miss this one like you missed bit©oin.

spartan117:

Google bootcamps like Stutern, Moat academy, there are others.

Here is a thread on Stutern:
https://www.nairaland.com/6429277/programming-investment-stutern

And one on Moat Academy:
https://www.nairaland.com/3943450/attended-moat-academy-software-bootcamp

FYI I graduated from Stutern.

spartan117:

Google bootcamps like Stutern, Moat academy, there are others.

Here is a thread on Stutern:
https://www.nairaland.com/6429277/programming-investment-stutern

And one on Moat Academy:
https://www.nairaland.com/3943450/attended-moat-academy-software-bootcamp

What did you study sir?

FYI I graduated from Stutern.

Jman06:
I will never be scared of marriage for fear of being cheated on by my wife.

I won't even lose sleep on account of a cheating wife. I can't torture myself for another's indiscretion.

But one thing is sure, I'll definitely know when my wife starts cheating, and trust me, I'll not be the one to divorce her. But she'll wish she got divorced because I'll happily put her in a condition that's more terrible than being divorced.


Shalom

rhames:


Finish your Higher National Diploma and apply for the DRC ( not Democratic Republic of Congo) as we referred to it while an applicant there. Direct Regular Course will guarantee you three years and six months as your officer training will be accelerated compared to regular applicants.

Arizona042:


Gate.io is OK. Nice volume. Good coins too.
But the best is Kucoin for CEX and Uniswap for DEX.

These are where you see projects that can 10x or even 100x your money if you know what you are doing.

Arizona042:


Gate.io is OK. Nice volume. Good coins too.
But the best is Kucoin for CEX and Uniswap for DEX.

These are where you see projects that can 10x or even 100x your money if you know what you are doing.

Herbsworks:
PLGR made about 4500% increase within few minutes. Those who bought on pan.cakeswap before it was listed benefited from it.

Tolu181:
i dey oo

Took break from coins
Facing nft now

ayindejimmy:


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Not when we both own the biro.

This is marriage not dating. Two has become one.
Refusal of sex by any of the partners is negligence of conjugal duty.
Some men when they're sex starved they portray develop animalistic instincts. Me, I just leave you and move to plan B.

I'm not defending the man's violent reaction but don't come here and say the wife is not wrong. She boxed the husband into a tight corner and he reacted differently.
They're both victims

Maximus85:


For the fact that she is still in your house and has not told anyone about it means, she takes part of the responsibility of what happened.

Give her time. She will come around.

But you sef.... Crase dey your head oooo, what would you do if someone did that to your daughter? Haba!

Write an apology letter and keep it somewhere she would find it.

Write "I'm sorry" blank cards and fix them in random places in the house.

If these don't work.

Form sickness or don't come home for days. Arrange for your own kidnap.... These would quickly snap her out of the madness your caused. Cause she still loves you.

If it works, immediately tell her the sickness or kidnap is fake oooo else na frypan to fire for you ooo

Herbsworks:
The Glimmer (GLMR) coin is going to experience atleast a 6000% increase in next 3-4 days.

nna777:


I use Btc/usdt as my standard. I carefully mark out it's resistance n support and then use it to short or long alts as the case is.

Note that greed isn't good so safe bet is *10 leverage and below. You are more likely to profit than make losses 85% of the time.

Kundagarten:
If you like inform the imam of Saudi Arabia. No vote for you.