faith2ogesco:
So what happens if the man is not from any of these places but the wife is?

Nothing

*check bolded*

People should please make up their minds. Are they serving God or are they serving ancestors?

If you are serving God you won't indulge in it, so as christian let try to be true to our calling instead of one leg in one leg out. Don't expect not to get burnt after dipping your hands in fire.

cyclops:
still interested?

Am interested

dotman4real007:
OP you are a prostitute already, you admitted that you have sugar daddies not one sugar daddy ohh but daddies. Just because you are not on the street of Allen doesn't mean you are not one.

Leave the past, think of the present and the future. What she need now is your encouragement. Have a lovely day.

TeeFeh:
Let me tell you something guys, recently I lost my job and I have been depressed for months so I thought about calling my sugar daddies because I was stark broke and hungry, at some point I even thought of scamming people for a living but guess what kept me going? God did, the fear of God did.

Another reason I don’t want to be a prostitute would be because of my personal integrity and then I have a bright future too and my friend usually tell me about how its just one day someone’s life gets better and that kept me going. By the way, i am still out of job and I don’t have a job but there is hope for tomorrow. So don’t stop pushing it.

I can relate to your story ( me i was looking for sugar mummy but the thought of me seeing myself as same to prostitute slowly kill the drive in me ), its not easy and it won't get easy until you get something doing, just pray nothing like emergency situation that required money from you come your way, my sister pray against it. My advice to you is to get yourself engage in something no matter how menial or low the job is as long as it doesn't involve you harming others. If na to sweep or dey wash clothes for people for a fee do am, fry akara for bus stop, fried groundnut and package am for bottle do am ( me i carried block, water, mixed concrete even work as loader, loading and offloading ) but make sure your CV dey waka everywhere. Don't think of what people will say, if dey wan talk let Dem talk na Dem get their mouth your own be focus and have a goal and you never can tell where help will come from, it might be from the people you wash clothes for. Just be focus, have a goal and continue praying to God.

If you are very good in writing stories in your free time, start a blog or go to place like steemit and start writing but this is a slow process but steady income after some hard work over time.

Please let me stop here, before local man start to dey misyarn .

jesusjnr:
Yeah you heard me right for It's Intentional!

A thousand shall not fall at my side, and ten thousand shall not fall at my right hand. For even though they ought to have fallen, because of the single fact that I am there present with them, not even one of them shall fall but shall remain alive and standing with me. In Jesus name. Amen!!!

For that's in consonance with the teachings and instructions of Jesus that we should pray for our enemies, and if He were here today, I believe that is the kind of prayer He would pray Himself.

So although prayers contrary to the teachings of Jesus has now become the order of the day in the church, it doesn't mean that it was supposed to be that way.

Therefore don't expect me to say amen to prayers that include phrases like "a thousand shall fall at my side, and ten thousand by my side" and tell me that it is Biblical, because even though it is Biblical, it is contrary to how Jesus instructed those of the church to pray.

For that was how the disciples of Jesus tried to follow the "Biblical" example of Elijah to call down fire from heaven to destroy some persons, but the extent of rebuke that Jesus gave to them, would have sent them a strong message that just because something was "Biblical" and that Elijah or any other "man of God" had done it, didn't make it right for those of His church to emulate it.

Luke 9:55-56 (KJV)

55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of.
56 For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.

So even though it was "Biblical" and that Elijah had done it, didn't mean that those of His church were supposed to follow it, because it was contrary to the teachings and purpose of Jesus who did not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them.

Therefore despite the fact that such prayers which are contrary to the teachings of Jesus and the purpose for which He came, have now become prevalent in the church, and amongst those of the church, as for me, myself and I, I ain't gonna be a part of it.

That's why I hardly join people in prayers these days, such as when I am about to travel long distance journeys, because the prayers usually contradict the teachings of Jesus on prayer.

Because before you know it, "a thousand shall fall at our side, and ten thousand shall fall at our right hand", shall come out of their mouths as I recently heard someone say to my disgust when i reluctantly joined him in prayer.

And Ii make me wonder, who are these "a thousand" and "ten thousand"?

Are they human beings or animals?

If human beings, do they have spouses, children, siblings, parents, friends, uncles, etc?

If yes, so why should eleven thousand of them fall at their sides?

Why do they not just pray that God protect them and whoever they care about, instead of praying that thousands of human beings should fall at their sides in the process?

Or better still pray that God should protect them and all those by their sides so that no one falls, because they are by their sides, and let God decide how He's going to make it come to pass?

For that would be praying according to the teachings of Jesus which is the Will of God.

And we shouldn't expect God to take us and our prayers seriously when we pray contrary to His commandments, for this is one of the major reasons why the church lacks power, because of her present orientation which reflects in her prayers.

For imagine that this church is entrusted with the extent of power that Jesus had, can you imagine what would have happened to her enemies?

Fire from heaven for don burn all of them finish, in the name of it is Biblical, or Elijah did it.

But it's no coincidence that Jesus who was entrusted with such extent of power was not inclined to destroy His enemies, if not there would be no talk of salvation today for all the enemies of Jesus would have been burnt to ashes in one single strike.

But Jesus didn't use one drop of His power to inflict injury on anyone needless say kill, so that should say something about why He was trusted with power without measure.

And this was the orientation that He tried to inculcate into His disciples on that particular occasion and others, for He knew how important it was for them not be inclined to destroying their enemies, because of the extent of power that they His church would be entrusted with.

And I believe that for those who want to be entrusted with similar extent of power that Jesus and those of that church had, that it's crucial that they don't pray contrary to the teachings of Jesus and the purpose for which He came, but that they start praying in consonance with it, as in "no one shall fall by at my side or at my right hand..." etc.

But if they choose to continue with prayers as "a thousand shall fall at my side and ten thousand at my left hand..." etc., which goes contrary to the teachings of Jesus and the purpose for which He came, which was to save men's lives and not to destroy them, then they shouldn't expect me to say amen to their prayer, because the last thing I would want is for Jesus not to entrust me with as much power as He had, or that which He endued the church He founded with, because He thinks I would use it to destroy the lives of the men He came to save.

God forbid!

Nice write up but according to my understanding you are not entirely right.

It true Jesus came to save and in doing so He came with the message of love which is to love God with all our all and to show that we love God with all our all we must love our neighbor as we love ourselves.

So in reaching out to others we must do so in love, even our enemy for truly they are not our enemy in the real sense but people who are being manipulated against us by the forces of darkness.

FreelanceRebel:
For we wrestle not with flesh and blood but against principalities and power, against rulers of this world.

Resist the devil and he will flee.

The above biblical quote post by @FreelanceRebel summed it all.

Now when we pray against our enemy, we pray against those powers, demons and principalities manipulating people against us and don't forget they not one, they can be 2, legions or thousands of them. So praying that thousands should fall at your side and ten ten thousands at my right hand is not wrong to pray because you are praying against powers and principalities and rulers of darkness of this world not our fellow human being.

Judging from the write up, something is telling me that the woman is in this hot pot of soup because she trust her husband to do the right thing and went ahead to collaborate with her husband thinking that before she got to lagos the said money would have been in her account cooling and awaiting onward transfer to the bureau de exchange guy. Poor woman.

Wetin i know sef.