Before You Make That New Year Resolution - by Henry Ibeleme

What happened to the previous New Year resolutions? Where you able to stop that addiction? Where you able to take a step toward your dream? Did you even discover your purpose in life? Or were you just chasing money and everything on skirts..? I'm not trying to make you sober right now. In fact, that's the only feeling I don't want to trigger. I want you to be analytic for a moment.

In recent news headlines, five world richest became N360 trillion richer in 2017. Most of your favorite celebrities bagged a lot of awards this year. A lot of people were able to establish a successful business, a feat they never dream can be achieved. There are also people who transit from being a very shy person to a person with enviable self-confidence. What did you achieve? Did you become the best in watching porn? Where you the best when it comes to watching the latest tv series or playing the latest online games? There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, but there's something wrong if that's the only achievement you can boast of.

You probably must have wasted the year with the wrong friends, watching the wrong TV shows and doing the most lamest activities. Instead of working on your dream, you were working on becoming an unbeatable online E-warrior. Instead of seeking for purpose, you were snooping around already made celebrities, looking for a flaw to criticize. I'm asking you, Is that your purpose in life? Is your purpose to be a spectator or A Star? Before you make that New Year resolution, before you start crying on that altar, I want you to analyse how 2017 have been. Mediate. If you don't, 2018 will just be another year of wasted purpose.

Do you know what people regret the most when they near their last breath in life? They don't regret the mistakes they made or the things they did. They regret only the things they didn't do, the dreams they didn't pursue and the opportunities they let slip by. What will your last regret be? What were you unable to do on 2017? 2018 is a another opportunity to take a step.

I was talking to my students a while ago and I told them,

"If your purpose in life is unknown, 2018 is going to be another year of struggle. If your ultimate purpose in life is unknown, your New Year resolution is nothing but words,"

Show me a man without a mission and I will show you a frustrated being who goes where the wind blows. If you had gone through 2017 without purpose, you seriously don't want to make that same mistake the coming year. Oprah Winfrey, one of the most powerful black woman on earth said, "Make it your intention to serve through your life with purpose..." I can't agree more. When you discover what you want to be, your life's purpose, everything begin to fall in place.

2017 must have been a year where you were pursuing money from all angle, with all intensity and determination. If that is true, are you feeling happy now? Did you got the money? Money, fame, recognition and everything good lies on purpose. You'll only become known the moment you begin to play your own verse in this universe. All you need to make a difference is to play your song, not someone else's song. Remember, UNI means one and VERSE means song. Sing your song and money will come.

Before you make that New Year resolution, discover purpose and make sure your resolutions ties to your purpose like an anchor. Make sure that every decisions and actions are directly and indirectly tied to your ultimate purpose of existence. Life has never been an easy road, but you've got everything it takes to make it. When you discover purpose, make sure you walk with like minds who have the same ambition.

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Cc. Lalasticlala mynd44

thesettingz:


And were you paid for this service?

You called that a service? You're even more lame than I imagined. Please go back to school kid and stop constituting nuiscience in our cyberspace.

bedfordng:
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I know.. Thanks

thesettingz:


[Capital Letter]guy this ur method of getting attention is nothing but craziness[Full stop]

get ur grammars right[comma] is [It's] not funny anymore [/b]

Professor in English, I hail.

bedfordng:
get in touch with me for swift withdrawal in your bank. my contact is on ny signature

Hello.. Are you conversant with payooner? I just created an account. What kind of details would another payooner user need in other to make a payment into my account?

chriskosherbal:
Well this is not the first or the last to happen .

But my question is why do this so called celebrities don't value thier lives ...you met a lady, dated her and you just decided to have sex with her without a condom ...

Are u okay, how much is the cheapest condom that you cannot afford . ..

All my life as an adult and through my university days I always carry condom in my wallet just as ladies carry thier make up everywhere they go. I don't want to hear story that touches ..

Haaaaa I nu try am ..wetin happen thsee days that people engage in discriminate sex anyhow.

Life nu get duplicate ....if you must play then play safe.

Click like for YES to condom .

Then you're not safe after all.. Better go for a test.

Premiumwriter:
so you can handle criticism? Well you called my intellectual work trash and I called your brain trash so how's that unprofessional? I'm only criticizing you nothing more.

What you wrote there is no where close to intellect. It's very dangerous, misleading and trashy. Oh yes.. Next time, do your research well and stop sounding like an authority.. Also, learn to accept counter opinions and criticisms.

I won't quote you again. Have no time to waste.

Thank You.

I was hoping to read something valuable, turned out to be trash.

Outofsync:

Dec 28, 2017.

You haven't heard of last minute miracle?

QuitNotice:
You are the pained one here for getting on my mention in the first place. Your likes are just roaming the internet, looking for who to channel their frustration to. Get off my back, you online rat!

Online rat?

I never hear this kind abuse before oooh. Savagery boss.. Congrats

QuitNotice:
Mumu. See as you are sounding so sure like you know me. If you don't know how to read, I didn't compare him with me, neither am I hating. I compared him with WIZ KID. Since when has comparison become a crime? Gerrarahia with your itk!

Idiota.. I was also comparing you with wizkid. Since when did comparison become a crime? Why are you pained then? You've nothing to offer dear, just go lick your sores cause at the look of things, you're nothing but an overfeed Imp with free data. Anumanu!

This music is dope, terrific.. For a moment, I thought I was listening to a western music due to its quality and calming effect, an attribute that's lackened In almost all Nigerian song. However, I would advice you take your audience into consideration.. This is Nigerian and what they need is a beat they can dance to.. Your song is dope, but not for majority of Nigerians. Nigerias need noise like one corner, wo, these noise they mix in studios.. Nigerians are pathetic.

For me, this is the kind of song i listen to.. But take your audience into consideration..

The sky is your starting point

QuitNotice:
He's looking like joke grin
His mates are busy beating the likes of Drake, Jay Z, etc to the mobo. Here he is doing comedy with his hair. I'm sure he's trying to see how closely he resembles the peacock he's going to see

Your mates are out there making a name for themselves, stay here and be hating on another man that have gone very far than you will ever go in life.. Ask yourself, where have you gone? Wizkid no be your mate ni? I just feel like slapping the hell outta you.

duduade:


Sell your kidneys o

Nah only kidney dem dey sell there? Nawa ooh...

I will be leaving this discombobulated nation to Malaysia, who's with me?





Anyway, visit www.entmirror.com for all your business ideas

Somebody shift. Lemme faint

Lemme drop my own cent..

Op, blog is much more than just writing contents.. When you venture in, be ready to learn and learn.. Google and YouTube are awesome places to learn..

Good luck..

nkwuocha:


I don't give a f what two people choose to do to themselves. They should just keep it far away from me.

Lol.. Now this is how I know people who are really wise.. Kudos �

nkwuocha:



Lol.I'm an open minded person who have experience with matured ladies who are down to earth. Many of whom are married, but have other sexual preferences. I dont deal with pretence. My experience has taught me that straight forward ladies are simply the best to keep at home.

Yes.. By your level of wisdom, I doubt if you're homophobic. Are you?

nkwuocha:
@ op,go to your wife phone history, check out the porn sites she may have been visiting then see for yourself exactly what she may be up to.Fingers crossed.

When I read ops story, I got the same feeling, that the lady might be bi or lez. The only way to confirm is by checking her browser history.. As for you, you've gone far lol..

chibbyRJ:


Lalasticala and Nairaland Admins cant see dis one because am not a paying them money to push my article to nairaland front page..... Nairaland Admins collects money from other bloggers and website owners so as to push their post to nairaland front page... I hope Oluwaseun Osewa the CEO of nairaland catches them and sack them...

If u guys can check my profile Nairaland Admins has never pushed my post to their front page even though my post is making sense and my viewers and nairalanders are liking it... they will never push it because am not paying them money
#CorruptionInNairaland

So without Nairaland, you won't make it as a blogger?

Jbfranklin:

1852 likes but you have only 800+ views...
I smell robots everywhere...

That's a text, be observant next time.

ANTONINEUTRON:

next time u post an incomplete information, i will click u link n do d needful.

If e pain u, am in my house come n beat me.

Haaaaaa.. I'm not the op oooh

ANTONINEUTRON:

I resemble d op for una eye??

Better finish what you started

Not too bad..

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thatchic:

Please do no project, you obviously use your fist to resolve conflict. Others have better anger management skills.

Nothing like anger management.. I'm not in support of slapping a child, but you guys make it seem as if you don't even flog kids or have never tried anything of such.. It's easy to pretend online.. I won't be surprise if you're really a demon in real life claiming to be a saint.. I will pass..

Apus:



sorry sir for d intrusion. U talk too much.U should have ignored d post.

Next time, don't ever intrude. Why didn't you ignore this?