SEGLIZ:

this is rather shallow and a wrong reasoning.

It's is not shallow. Your people can do it!
Innoson is very wise!

This lady is wise!

She is preparing her documentation for seeking asylum in US or Canada. You are there cussing around

Kudos bae

This lady is wise!

She is preparing her documentation for seeking asylum in US or Canada. You are there cussing around

Kudos bae

The problem is will these buses get into the streets?

From Apapa Airways to Creek Road?

From Masha to Bode Thomas

Will the ferries move on Road?

What are the alternatives?

I understand the security aspect of this ban sha.

calabardick:
I think you're wrong. Are you married?
The wife has no right to hide any form of infection from her husband if her ways are pure.

You are wrong, the OP's wife knows that he is married to a grown ass boy! If she had told him, he will nag her to death if she tells him he got a yeast infection, he will accuse her of being a slot! He will tell her parents that she has wide pussy and tell his parents that their daughter-in-law has a smelly under. He will tell her neighbours that she is a loose woman. He will give her silent treatment for 3 months! All because of mycoten.

The OP has verbal diarrhoea, he is not man enough to run a home. Imagine saying “I drop money for her and the son”.

When he realises his mistake after embarrasing the woman both in private and in public, he will justify his actions with “I have temper issues”, “we laugh and make up”, “we have been together for 50 years so we understand ourselves”, “I still eat her food” and blablabla.

The woman is simply watching out for herself. She knows she is as good as a single mum without a viable partner so wants to take care of herself by herself.

The OP is evil. And his wife knows!

Superstition is caused by lack of structural education, extreme poverty, religious fanaticism and corruption. No society can develop if it’s people are deprived basic human rights such as access to education, health care and social protection.

uncastableodd:
Wow I have been here reading from first page to the last page.

Nairaland is definitely a place to get solutions to issues and I commend everyone who sent a response. You have all done well. I say a big thank you. I will address all the related comments with paragraphs.

Firstly ,we have been together for six years. We have been together as a married couple since 2017.This means we dated for three years before coming together as husband and wife. During the period of dating, I only accused her of infidelity once and that was when I was serving but she was undergraduate then .Since we married, I have never have any cause to suspect her till yesternight.

Again, I have never in my life raised my hands on any woman let alone my wife. I accept the allegation of aggression. I am hot-tempered though but no matter how I may be aggressive, it only stop at nagging and then, refusal to talk to my wife for days but I eat whatever she prepare because I eat a lot in the night since I don't eat in the morning or at work.

On the issue of relationship with my wife. I need to tell you that my wife is the best that ever happened to me. I love her so much and I don't even want anything to come between us. We are so close. We go out together .We unwind when opportunity shows. We are cool together. We have disagreement occasionally and when this happen, my wife don't mind staying for years not talking to me. As a man, I am always the one to do the reconciliation process. When she is good mood, she says sorry and we move on. She have been like this for years and I don't even read meaning to it since they say we fight to live another day and I believe such occasion is bound to surface itself.. Even, she called me like two hours ago that the money I dropped for my son is not enough. For now, she can only call me. I can't only call her(she deliberately did that setting on her phone). With the comments I read here, I am cool and okay already .We will be fine again when I get home ..(I am the oninufufu type).I mean someone who get angrily easily and forget easily...

Yes,this is where I am actually going. Just about forty five minutes ago, her mum called me and ask about my son. I said he is fine that he will be in school till 3pm.She said she want him to come and spend the weekend with her. I said no problem that her mum will bring him when he is through in school tomorrow. Five minutes later, she called again and tell me to tell my wife that when she is coming tomorrow, she should bring along with her a cream she forgot in our place the last time she came to visit us( three weeks ago). I said OK ma.i will definitely inform her when I get home.(the cream is only used once once or twice because it is still very neat and it is the pack) That funniest of all what she said when she called the second time was that she bought the cream because she was using it for toilet infection she got when she was busy moving from one location to another(she is olopo..a caterer who prepares food on occasions). You know what !My M-I-L have a shop now selling things because she once told me she stopped doing job because of smokes which made her got glasses from optician) ..I don't even have plan of telling my wife she asked her to bring the cream.. I plan to just tell her she should call her mum.

With this new development, I am not going to let this affect my relationship with her. I will be good and nice to her as usual.Definitely,she have called her mum to safe her the embarrassment though. I actually don't know why she can't discuss issue like this with me. Instead, she called her mum for damage control or whatsoever .And if she have been cheating on me with another man, I will be cool and calm to let things out themselves.

Once again, thank you everybody. You are the best. I am not gonna threaten her and I am not gonna do her any harm. I just need to be careful for now and watch things as they unfold naturally. We will be cool again and we will remain the best friends we are. Those are promises. Thank you and have a wonderful day.

Pardon my typo.plsss

I have read everything you wrote here.
You a just a very irritating human being!
#spits

NwaAmaikpe:


God will not bless him for this supposed act of charity because the money is not his.

Why bless him for a gift that technically cost him nothing?

God will only bless him if he goes to his bank account, withdraws from it and gifts these widows in private.

You are 100% right on this one!

Let me emphasize on a few things:

1. I do not fault one child policy in the cause of Daisy’s death. I do believe that every sensible government should do what they can to control their population according to their resources. China was in an economically bad place in the 80s hence their urgent need to take care of their population. Now that things improved, they relaxed their policy to accommodate two kids per home.

2. I blame Daisy’s ignorant parents for her death. They loathed her and their too much favoritism for a male child ruined Daisy's self-esteem and self-confidence. I believe that every child (male or female) should be gratefully accepted and treated with respect. No child is better than another. Men and women are equal as they are both unique in their own ways and each have their own unique role to play within any given family or society.

3. We as Africans have an entirely different concept friendship, marriage, death and other things to the Chinese people. So a lot of these things may not be understood by you looking at it from the African perspective.

4. Finally, in your comments, please be gentle.

Thank you for reading

Pictures

My friend ChenYuHua (Daisy) died on Wednesday.

Official Cause of Death: Suicide

She was at work on Monday, took leave for Tuesday but never returned.

Daisy lost a “huge” investment in late November (money that she told once me she was saving to buy a house) so she planned it and took her life! But I know this strongly, that the investment loss did not kill Daisy, depression did! Investment loss was just the trigger.

I have known Daisy for about 3 years and we became quite close about one year after when we formed a click of 4 friends. The four of us would eat together at the refectory almost every day and would hangout after work most weekends. Although she was socially withdrawn, I never thought she was in a desperately bad place until it happened. Usually, I assumed that because she was very short, she always wanted not to be trampled on or disregarded.

Daisy told me stories, stories that I never really attached any strong meanings to, until she died.
See eh… She was born in a rural community in Lanzhou Province. At birth, her parents did not really accept her because she was a girl. But they held on to her until about 4 years later, when her brother was born and she was given away to another local family (because of one child policy) to raise her. There she went to school and later graduated with a diploma.

Some of her stories had included how she went back to her birth family when she as in higher institution, but she never got along with her parents (dad especially). She tried bonding with them a few more years, started going less regularly. They never included her in any family events, marriages, decisions etc. One of the times she visited home, they had opened a big supermarket but no one told her, they don’t even need her money. So she traveled very very far away from home to my city to start work, and maybe a new life! She eventually stopped visiting home.

This means to me that, she has struggled for acceptance both with her adopted family and her biological family. She also admired the relationship I had with my mum despite being far away and would say things like “they don’t miss me”.

Daisy is dead and I am still in shock, we all are. But as in a culture, nobody really talks about it in the office. So to stay safe, I just stick to my side of the story, grieve for her and try to move on.

Daisy, I pray you at peace is in a better place now. I miss you!

Answer: No, not in this generation.

If we are lucky and if Jesus tarries, before the next 10 generations.

You need to understand that the machine called a lie detector is nothing of the sort. It is a stress detector. When used properly, it can show the sudden surge in stress when someone is confronted with a fact that they know of, but are claiming not to.

An important part of a polygraph test is establishing a low stress background against which a sudden surge in stress can be measured. I can see no way that a man dragged against his will into a polygraph test would have a low background stress level against which to notice an increase in stress. The operator, who knows well that a null result will not favour his financial future, is not an impartial witness and is strongly motivated to return the result the person paying is hoping for.

No court accepts polygraph evidence, and many lawyers regard it with contempt. As do I. I see it as pure superstition, 20th century witchcraft.

Quora

She could still marry if she wants to. She might even be engaged already. It's never late!

If she is into kids, she might soon adopt and be able to send the kid to an elite school. The making of a star kid comes with money - fact!

Besides na this kind late dey get money to take care of her parents, pamper them, take them on vacations etc

I'm happy for her abeg

Kolanut lasts longer in the mouth of those that know the worth!

So 5.1 million human beings follow Tonto?
Wow!

It doesn't look scary to me sha

Donjazzy12:

Shut up, I was talking to the lesbian who wants us to believe that her marriage is made in heaven. But like most foolish young men of nowadays who worship pussy, you dive into the conversation to make a total fool of your self as usual.
If you don't like the normal configuration of the family consider joining bobrisky in his trade!

Oga o. She is agressive and squabbles a lot. But not a lesbian. Haba!

Well, yes!

In ideal situations....
Woman can own properties
Woman can write their own wills.
Woman can build business empires etc

But in Nigeria today, many families now are only supported by one income - usually the man's. Many women in Nigeria are not financially independent. How can she write will? What will she will? The women lack lack funds to get their lives all together sef, not to talk of will.

Also, the typical African man has a huge ego! That needs to be massaged by the woman that depends on him for her survival. So he will put up a fight if he senses his “power” is about to be taken away from him.

The men thrive on “submission”. A will-writing woman is definitely not “submissive”

Pls there is a lady (I think) who runs a logistics business (moving things) within Lagos.

Pls someone help me, remind me her name or quote her for me. I want to reach her. Thanks.

The heaviest caskets are the ones carrying kids

RIP little one

Is handcuff a private property?
Where did Davido and his squad the get handcuffs from?
What other weapons and gears do they have?

Oh well, in Nigeria anything goes.
Anyway, the girls were foolish too.

DenreleDave:

No.. At all..... Do u think u wud av been married to him if u hadn't broke up

Is that you on the dp? U look so beautiful oooo.. Chai e pain me that I'm too small for you.. I for like be with u sha

Lol. You completely took me off balance. Thanks for your complements o.

I was waiting for typical NL responses like you don dey old o, shakara don end, shiloh 2050 blablabla, you know how you guys here do it. So I was equally charging up by asking you small small questions

I was 22 at the time I walked away from my ex. Hehehe I tried getting into other relationships after but they were not successful. The guys I liked, didn't like me (enough). The ones that liked me, I didn't like them (enough). But the older I grew, the more matured I became, the more understanding I got, and the more relaxed I became. Lol

By 28, I was working and seeing small money. My interest was diverted. I have never really been a social media person, only Nairaland and very very few times Facebook, maybe twice in a year. Lol. I started travelling, seeing the world. I started understanding more about life and relationships and marriage. As a bookie, I was also advancing academically and “career-rically”

Then luckily, when I was “not looking”, I found Mr Right! Hurraaaaay. Feb 2020 is the date. I wish I can share our pictures and things we have been able to achieve together, or the picture of my future mom-in-law and me eh. But no, lemme keep it. The thing is just shaaaking me

Do I regret leaving my ex - NO
He was a good guy but he would not have been able to protect me from his mom when wahala starts coming. His mom would have literally dictated how our lives run. Also thinking about it now, if I married him, I would have just settled in early with life, nothing big, just making babies and getting by. Lol

Really, I am happier now.
Thanks for asking for me for my story politely.

Cc: Luminouz, bro I sight you.
Wo hen hao a!

DenreleDave:

Since 2009... U must be almost 30 now

Lol. Reminding me my age. World pipu
I am more than 30 sir. Do you have a problem with that?

DenreleDave:

Are you married now

No sir. Why do you ask?

My boyfriend's mum was too domineering. Whenever I went visiting, I noticed how she relates to her husband and her kids. My boyfriend couldn't resist her. He even submitted all his salary to her. I could not imagine her as my mum-in-law. I let him go 2009.

Ykc2:
you wan quench?

How is your story related to the thread?
Egypt Air is not a Morrocan Airline but Egyptian (clearly writren), they are also a member of StarAlliance. You don't have to rubbish the airline.
Just wish the girl well.

Ykc2:
[s]Egyptian air line?let me recorver first from the shock I had the day I took morrocan airline from Lagos going to bologna Italy ,from Lagos we arrived in Casablanca in 4hours and they check all of us for Ebola that was 2015,as we took of enroute to bologna one morroncan man stood with beard like Osama bin ladin he start going toward the kitchen as I was watching one naija guy too was watching I nearly pee on my self ,I said what carry me enter Moroccan airline biko nu thank God the man only went to back sit to sleep on unoccupied sits[/s]

Dust

Congratulations Champion Deborah!

Biology, Physics and Chemistry textbooks in Hausa loading. Mucheche mucheche

notoriousbabe:
Take them to Dubai, Ghana is to expenses to go for vacation, with just 200k you and your family of 5 will have a two week vacation in a nice hotel in Dubai, flight and accomodation inclusive

Pls how true is this?
Can you give a breakdown pls

solmusdesigns:



I have being listening to video clips of defectors including his relatives

Haven't you been hearing from your relatives who ran away from Nigeria to better developed countries?
People always look for greener pastures, the difference is that the guy locked his borders so as to reduce the encroachment from the west and also so that the country and its citizen will be self-reliant! Not everybody wants to depend on others for food, technology, healthcare etc. That is his own style of leadership.

Oh, btw North Korea is far more developed than Nigeria.

Okay, bye

solmusdesigns:


Killing your own uncle and girlfriend, and closing your country off to foriegn medical and other supply just cos you love power is deffinately wickedness

You have been reading too much propaganda from the west!