You cant know if a lady truely loves you, excerpt you are god, or you have divine power to see through people.
relationship is all about giving your best, with your head and not heart., it it works out, you thank god, but if it dosent you move on and try with some one else

rubi:

Frank 3.16, It is not my intension to display my education level but since you sound like you are interested to know I am a graduate, with a good job married to most wonderful man on earth. You sound impossible, Let me tell you some thing when I met my husband he was not what an average Nigerian girl will like to marry but because of the word LOVE and there are powerful potential in him but there is no opportunity to bring it out I was patient and considerable right now he is in pharmacy school about to graduate with honors and is far more better than what he was all I am telling you is that where there is love and understanding nothing is impossible. Remember the old saying "delay is never denial". If you can't help one work out his/her weak point please leave them alone. All of us needs time and opportunity

thanks for the education.
i know that a man who cant speak english is far better than a lady who cant speak english. we men are even trying to put up with the ladies who can speak very well(because with that they still act dumb) not to mention someone who cant speak.
again ladies have been found to be more patient in relationships, they can easily adjust if they want to, they are much psychologically stronger and have the strenght to endure.

i bet you, if it were the other way round for you and your guy, the relationship would not have gone to this extent.

ashe2:

Frank 3.16 am not suprised at u because your name says u are frank so u think u can your views frankly ba? well i would tell u something and i hope u hear me with the right ears. sometimes airin all that is in your mind is sometimes blatant foolishness. who wants to know if your somethin somethin is big? u.

i wonder why that part really hit you.
hey keep it cool girl, you should have really checked out the kind of girl i like (slime busty chik with wet acomodating p****Y)
i only talked about my something to let you know the reason i like such girls, dont see no harm in that.

but all the same, sorry if my statement didnt go well with you, i just sometimes cant help being frank sorry.

NaJa HaJe:

ok

music. . . . . . . a guy that can sing . . . . . . . . . . mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

WOW!!! do you know me from some where?!!
wait are you serious about the singing thing?
Oh my God!!! i think i have found me a wife hurrayyy

you really really need to hear me sing (might be blowing my trumpet, i dont care, cos this opportunity might not come again)

o boy, how did your 1 enter her 0? abi you give am your akamu make she drink?

Obasanjo was discussing with Clinton

"how do you manage to rule your country so intelligently like this, ruling mine is so hard."

"well, its not difficult, the average American is very intelligent so this makes it easy for me to rule them." Clinton proudly replied "are Nigerians intelligent?" he asked

"I dont know" Obasanjo replied.

"are you intellignt?"Clinton asked

"i don know"

"Ok lets test you with one question. Who is your fathers son that is not your brother?"
after 45 munites Obasanjo couldnt relpy

"You see? This a very easy question that the average American can answer"Clinton said dissappointedly. he looked up and saw Algor, his vice"hey Algor. Can you tell me your fathers son that is not your brother?"

"Me ofcourse" Algor replied without thinking.

Obasanjo was amazed "you guys are too much. let me go home and ask Nigerians. thank you very much."

upon reaching Aso rock he called Atiku and asked him the question. and seeing that Atiku will not be able to answer, he said "Go, i give you two weeks to answer"

Obasanjo called all the ministers and governors to answer the question, and they stil could not answer, so he gave them two weeks also.

before the two weeks ran out, Atiku travelled for a business trip to Ghana and after the business discussion he remembered that Jerry(Ghanian president) was brougth up in America, so he said

"Please president Jerry. i have a very important question for you."
"shoot" Jerry said.

"Who is your fathers son that is not your brother?"

"Me" he answred without giving the question a second thought.

"Ohhh. thank you very much. i am very glad.

as he got back to Nigeria, he proudly call Obasanjo and all the other ministers and governors.

"I have the answer to your question." he said, smiling like he had won jackpot.

"ok, who is your fathers son hat is not your brother?" Obasanjo asked again

Atiku proudly allowed them to wait for him before answering. "my fathers son that is not my brother is President Jerry of Ghana"

Obasanjo laughed and laughed, he almost fainted. "you are a big fool. Mr atiku. you dont know anything. let me tell you the answer before you make another fool of your self. your fathers son that is not your brother is vice president Algor of Americam."

Frank

you are just looking for trouble

but i wont stoop so low to give it to you

can akara buy love?

am not botherd about trusting anybody.
i just enjoy relaationships while they last and if she gives me a reason to distrust her, then i decide on what next to do depending on how bad her behavior was

i can marry a girwhose chatacter apeals to me at the moment, her past wont bother me at all, except it is affecting her nagatively in the present

you sound like you are in secondary school. ss1 for that matter.
my advice for you is to concentrate on your studies. continue to be her friend but dont think about anything sexual yet, but just try to express your love.

always remember you have a long future ahead of you, na you go tire when time reach.

why are you afraid of her saying no?

NaJa HaJe:

I think am going to stop making an effort to understand you!!!!

You are making me angry with your quirky hypothesis. . . . . . . . . . . .

ok, sorry.
i dont like it when you get angry with me.
so tell me, what is your soft spot? please dont say food, food, food again.

how can nigerian guys b romantic when nigerian babes dont evn know what being romantic means.

tell a nigerian girl, "i love you" and she will ask you "na love i go chop"

so you are one of them guys who dont have choice when it comes to women.


well, no sleep for a covetous man

the fact that you like her so much does not mean that she must be yours.

so stop kiling your self and tell her how you feel so that she can tell you no or yes

you give us half story, i don't know what you expect

but so far, i think you should concentrate on other things other than him.
the worst thing we do to ourselves is to see love as something that lasts forever and beleive that it must work out

this relationship thing is a gamble, if you win you are luck if you fail you try another game.

if he wants you, you don't need to force him, he will do it naturally
why can't you just allow yourself to understand that it is not working out, grief a little and move on, instead of making your self a niusance to someone who does not worth it.

alway remember, he is not worth the strees if after being with you for some time, he still turns out to behave like this. don't kill your self for some low life who don't deserve you.

the earlier you move on and forget him, the better for you. forget the fact that he is handsome and does not flirt, abd see it that you misjuged him. at least you are getting more experience about life. all that glitters are not gold. moreover even if he is a perfect guy, he doesnt seem to see you as the one for him.

let him go and if he is yours he will come back, if not please please please see him as not worth the stress and move on.

@poster,
this is really cheap and bad coming from you. you could have titled your post with a different topic. does that little LovePeddler of yours represent even upto 2 percent of my hounorable and beautiful nigerian girls?

pls for your info, nigerian girls are not cheap. they know what they want and are good mothers and wives even with the harsh economic condition. just stop being foolish

your friend done enter ogoni bus. remember ogoni bus no de get spare tire

NaJa HaJe:

(I can't believe am about to do this) . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

I think his reply is a statement of pun.

He's just turning the lesbian thing to meaning he is a lesbo at heart because he fancies women.

Not necessarily that he is gay.

thanks, once again you are a darlin. you have saved me from this scandal that i was about to bring unto myself. i owe you a kiss for that.

now i am a straight and tight young man, who really loves the feminine specie. AM NOT GAY.but i have always liked lesbians, sometime i wonder what they enjoy in the act and i say to myself , these lesbians dey enjoy ooo. to tell the truth i wont mind if my wife is a lesbian,please this is not a priority.

you dont have to wast your time looking for a male virgin. just concentrate on being a virgin if you think its important. men dont need this virgin shit.
i think it is morally wrong for a guy to be a virgin,
because a virgin cannot divirgin a virgin, at the end of the day both of them will still be virgins

NaJa HaJe:

Excuse me?

what da hell are you on about?

you should know what the hell i am talking about.

you said food food food, meaning that food is your soft spot, ie if you eat food you feel Hot.
well, in my own opinion plenty men willl be willing to give you food, therefore you have eaten food plenty times, therefor you have felt Hot at these various times, therefore, you have slept with someone at these various times you have eaten food. and these people you have slept with are men.

i dont really care, i just love pussy as long as it gets wet and jiucy.

ok
i like slime girls with large breasts, and i like slimmer girls because they are usually more deeper and accomodating for my large somethin somthing

this is quite normal, espexially if you are rigid and selfish. don't see tis as insult.
but you have to free your mind, reach out to people just as you allow people to reach out to you.

and try to understand what love realy is. to my own opinion, love does not come to you, you go to it. you decide to release your self and form an emotional attachment with some one that suits you. this emotional attachment is most times described as love.

MsHoneydro:

Well if you sincerely care for her, you won't hold her speech against her.

i dont know if you are educated, but if you are,be sincer to yourself, can you date someone who cant speak english

how can you even care for such a person when there is no smooth communictiob.

sometimes we just advice people to do impossible things, just because we can can type and get away with the rubish we type.

i wonder what kind of advice you want from nairalanders if not that you should go and tell her your mind.

why is this difficult for you. dont you go for job interview? or pesent seminer as a student, and make speech at one time of the other.

i wonder how you can be successful in life if you cant tell a woman you have feelings for how you feel. if you are broke aND YOU NEED MONEY DONT YOU TELL PEOPLE YOUR MIND? if you are afraid of rejection or failure, how then can you handle or celebrayte success.

because there are not enof worthy women to get married to. the good girls are few and the many good guys outnumber them. so we are waiting for the bad girls to repent and turn good.
till then we can still catch fun and feed our lust and sexual desire with the bad girl who dont want to turn good

the best way to know when a woman loves you is to cheat on her. if she forgives you and stays, then she love you,
if she leaves you, you let her go and get another lady who will love you

NaJa HaJe:

so you are a lesbian at heart?

noooo, i mean if i was awoman.
well you can say that i am a lesbian at heART. I HAVE ALWAYS ADMIRED THEM.THEY sure know how to do it woith either sex.
but i HATE homosexuals

NaJa HaJe:

food food food

food is your soft spot?
wow, how many maen have you slept with?