congrats to both buyer and seller,fhemmmy i am impressed,nice one,more grease to your elbows

omawummi you dont really owe anyone any explanations except to GOD and the person or people you have issues with,let me tell you the truth about life,98% of the people here dont really care about your problems or that of aigbe sef,most people are just here on the internet to pass time and kill boredom and go back to their own problems for we all have them,take a crtical look at your way of doing business and make amendments where you need to make them,if need be humble and seek advise from established business people,issues come up in business all the time but the way you handle them is what matters,make honesty your watchword no matter what and your business will soar higher and higher,having said that please look for ways to sort out your problems,call your creditors,be open to them,let them know the true postion of things and they will be more inclined to work with you if you are being honest with them.lastly go to GOD in prayer and he will not forsake you,forget the people throwing stones at you now and calling you names now,it is only you and you that can determine things with help from GOD.shalom

Caracta:

Hehehehehehehe. I used to think "softies" cannot be feminists. Interesting. I doubt if you read my previous comments on this woman. I've been almost totally against her. Doesn't matter though. Just the way my heart went out to the two armed robbers that were burnt alive in my area, my heart goes out to her too. Don't blame me. It doesn't mean i support evil. Nah...

Happy weekend to you too.

in a way i understand you,at the end of the day it is the society as a whole that looses at things like,people just dont see the whole picture,it is like having children and the chlidren are fighting and becoming bitter enemies,the father knowing the truth doesnt give him joy even though he has to give judgment.i have been going through the saga and i see the lady in question is strong but is using her strength wrongly,i also feel for her as a human being but do not support her actions,my policy is always to hate the sin and not the sinner,i belive in every human no matter how bad can be changed for good if the right buttons are pressed,it is only the devil that is hopeless in that regard.omawummi please dont get too enbittered,i know very very deep in your heart and at night you shed tears over all this,know this,after making mistakes you can always retrace your steps and make amends,u have the strength to do it

Ki-Katanga:


Everyone hears GOD's word. We are all Christian.

please answer the question honestly,are you a christain?

ogeelove:

When I said cut the broda some slack I did not mean for u to forgive, he hasn't wronged u, I meant go easy on him. The bible says that GOD is quick to forgive and slow to anger. If we repent of our sins he will surely forgive us. the psalmist testifies to this in psalm 51. A broken and contrite spirit GOD will not despise. Shalom

dont bother to reply such comments,you can see his not really interested in the op problems,if you look above he said he wanted to help but since the op only requested for christains he wouldnt,then the op humbly told him he had nothing against nonchristains,then see the way he replied, right or wrong something tells me this man has something against christains,anyways thank GOD for the moderators in the house,any hatefull speech and comments have been banned

Ki-Katanga:


GOD doesn't forgive. GOD is vengeful. GOD will watch as you suffer for your crime, and then you will burn in hell for your treachery.

at poster and all,disregard this comments,sounds this guy has issues within himself,i can feel the animosity from his comments or you are just trying to derail the thread?from his comments you can see he is not really interested in the op problems but just wants to pass his personal beliefs.everyone is entited to belive whatever he wants to belive,we are not here to banter please

ogeelove: Sincerely, I think u should still confess wat u did to ur client and give the option to either pay back or purchase whatever the money was meant for. Stop worrying about ur reputation and do the honourable thing. Shalom

exactly!just what i wanted to say@op return the money back to the client and let him decide what he wants,if he decides to do business with you fine,if not dont stress yourself as you have done your bit in the eyes of man and GOD.shalom@ogeelove i bless that 10 pounds in your hand and join you in prayer,higher and higher you shall go.

Busy_body:


1) Family Breakdown. Most black males in the UK don't have a Father figure or a positive male role model to look up to!!!

2) UK government has been aware of the alarming rates Black men especially are being radicalised and forced and bullied to convert to Islam, but they bury their heads in the sand in instances like this to prevent being accused of racism. US too has this same issues...

i beg to disagree,everyone has an excuse in this world,obama did not have a father figure but look at what he is today,i know many people were grew up without both parents but made something out of their lives.lets stop creating excuses where there is none,a child brought up under the watchfull eyes of both parents can still err,let GOD just take be taking care of our kids for us while we do our best

Sincere 9gerian:


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/05/mali-operation-army-arrests-saboteur-soldiers/

nice one,i love this cheif of army staff very brave and says it how it is,sir also i think you should look into members of the military on socail media,the way some military personnel post combat pictures and informations on facebook would make you wonder

first of all i commend you for realising your fault and owning up,it takes honesty and humility to do that,dont mind any holier than thou christain who may come here to bash you whereas they are gulity of more hidden sins no one knows about.first you must genuinely repent,call up the guy and be tototally honest as someone has advised you here,conffess everything to him,i will encourage you to read a verse in proverbs which says "go and plead your cause with the one you have offended" also read the books of romans 10 and matthew 12,you see our lord works in mysterious ways,he can soften the heart of your friend and make a way out for you to pay back the money,let this experince draw you closer to him.you see when you fall in sin,dont remain there on the ground,get up and ask GOD for forgivence and sin no more,.
the bilble says he will you peace that surpasseth all understanding.many christains today always preach forgivence but this is one area many christains dont like,unforgivence still rules many christains today,but without forgiveness no one can really stand before the holy of holies GOD,pray to GOD with a genuine reptantant heart and he will forgive you.
let your heart be calm,anixiety in your heart will only make things worse,take all your worries to the lord in prayer and you shall rise and shine again very soon in your business.
i wish you all the best

redsun:

Of course i know what i am saying.I have come across one of his real life victims.

Nigerian police force,like the judiciary are citadels of hoodlums.

you should be carefull what you say o,how can you accuse a sitting CP like that?do you have evidence?i am all for freedom of speech but it should be with responsilbilty,take care,no think say na faceless community u dey o,u can be traced to come prove what you say o

akinlabi if i was you i wouldnt even diginify this stupid allegation of scam,it aint worth the time or the effort.

fhemmy i am impressed,keep up the goodwork,congrats to the buyer

how much are you selling?

what a stupid post!!!!

no comments?

@poster can you make it down to any country in western europe?people with your condition are well taken of here,infact you may even get residence permit under under what it is called "EXPECTIONAL CASES".but if i may ask what part of asia are you?cause i know if you are in japan you would be taken care of,if you can not make it to europe,then d other option left is to go home,i heard there are ONGs in nigeria who give out drugs for free (dont know if this is true sha)all the best

i am thinking of starting a pawn business,that is giving short term terms loans to people based on what they bring as a collatera,anybody in this business or anyone with experince in or information about it?

when it comes to morals and a lady behaving well in nollywood,omotola leads that group ,this is one actress i have lots of respect for her,even TIME agrees

@poster i can feel your pains and fear but dont worry yourself,everything will work out for the best,you will be amazed when this same child starts performing academic expoloits

@poster i know the money sounds tempting but please i beg you dont do anything with the money,find a safe place and keep the money,then take your mind off it,you may never know,the owner might come for it anytime and then what would you say?if the owner of the money had given you to invest then that that is different,he gave you the money to keep for him,please do just that,a similar thing like this happened to me some years ago,i thought i could invest some money which was kept with me,but guess what,i lost the whole money and it was only the grace of GOD that brought me out of that saga.please keep your name dem no dey buy am for market.

APC!APC!!APC!!!HOW MANY TIMES I CALL UNA?if you want the presidency dont include fashola,no offense to him but many people see him as a ruthless capitalist,he can better function as a lawmaker

fashola should not be put in the presidential race,fashola has zero popularity because of his bulldozers of recent it would be a very big mistake,fashola no doubt is one of the best things to have happened to lagos but politically he can not win at the national stage

This is how most of them got into NDA,THOUGH some NDA cadets have the brightest brains you can find but there are many exam cheaters among them.also wickedness runs in some of them,i have seen some officers here promise to plan accidents for people make i no mention names

na badbelle dey worry all those wey dey insult this innocent kid,na hin fault say hin papa na president?haba!!!!

@seun in as much as your actions in exposing scammers are very laudable please dont use nairaland as a forum for jungle justice,there should be evidence,if not any jack or jones who wants to spoil any one name can do it easily here including yours,so please lets be carefull but dont give up the fight on exposing real scammers

Thank you all so much for reponses,yesterday she sent me more hate texts and i responded with hate texts too cause i couldnt bear it again but this morning i felt bad about it,never in my dreams did i belive i and my sister would become sworn enemies!!but like you most have suggested i will try and look for a solution(that is if she is willing).
Thank you,you guys on nairaland are the best!!!!

it is very obvious your sister hates you.your wife and your kids are just victims of this hatred.ask your mother more and find the answers from her,this is the reason some people dont allow family memebrs living with them.
Having said that dont allow her make your love for your wife wane ,even if your wife had done anything to her,she should have called you personally as a brother and i am sure you would have done the right thing,for me i dont support bad wives neither bad sisters or maybe it is a woman thing between ur wife and ur sister,you know some women can hate each other just on sight but when she included you in the insults then it means something else,take it from me bro your sister hates you or she doesnt just like seeing you being happy with your wife,if that is the case,guy forget her and contiune loving your woman jare