piroux:
I would love someone who shared my values and principles but not my limitations oh. I am too much of a play-play and i can be uncaring and forgetful. People have also told me i am blunt and judgemental. I want someone nicer, quieter and more composed.

lilmax:
I don't understand myself, I give people stress.... I don't always forgive

so why should I marry hell?

dukeprince50:
OK wait, exact replica mean.
I have a dik,
I have hairs on my chest
I don't have boobs
I don't have punana
my title says Mr.
I love only ladies


sorry pls, I can't marry my replica.

but character wise? yes I'll marry my replica unfortunately I haven't found my replica.

addictiv:
i would definitely go for someone that shares the same values with me but not the same character....i am easy going,reserved,idealistic,blunt, go out of my way for almost anyone, make others happy even at my own detriment, too caring. i practically need a military/street woman as bae to keep the dogs out and straighten me up when i need it ......(with love)

Atlantia:
No way, it would be too weird....and when we both get angry, we'll end up killing each other.

Ezionye:
Nopes

I am just too serious. Maybe a little " unseriousness" will help

adontcare:
Love at later sight it is then. Just like meeting a cute guy but not interested in him. Then later with time, got attracted to him, fell in love becos he is nice and understanding. The later love is understandable

funstufz:
So, where are the 17 facts?

TANKDESTROYER:
I love that pst Adeyemi's quote.....

Angy55:
The call should be from both parties, not one sided. And even if you and your spouse chat a whole day, before saying good night let there be at least 3-5 minutes of talk on phone.

In the morning while both of you are preparing for work from your different location, you can just drop a quick voice note on what's app or do the normal phone call for one minute.

It is only those who are not busy that would have time to chat all the time.
Come to think of it, the feeling one gets when you drop a message and it takes so many hours to get a reply because he/she is so busy.



Thanks dear
I grab
Lol@ that feeling ...crazy one it is

imustsaymymindo:


Here I am!

imustsaymymindo:


Aww.. Fumisko. Come here, let me hug you.

I can feel the frustration. All I can say is you would someday find that person. Dont settle for less.

And you can't actually blame some people for lack of communication, some people have lived a life of not having someone to talk to right from childhood, others- victim of rape, abuse and were threatened never not to reveal to anyone which in future can affect the way they communicate.

Also, communication involves emotions. The society frown at people showing emotions especially men. Soft, moist are what they call people in that category.

Juat stay positive, you would get the right one, dear.

imustsaymymindo:


The book "why men love bitches" is a classic literature. One that would get you a man who would be infatuated with you for just a short-term i.e when he finally realises what he is in love with. There is the male (player) version of books like these too, they all have the same toxic effect. No wonder "why men love bitches" was my unfaithful ex's favourite literature.

In a country where we were taught la cram la pour whenever reading books, how would people know that the information in a book is to be dissected and only the meaningful one (if any) should be applicable?

@Fumisko Purposely ignoring people or giving space to your partner for some time to get attention is the order of contemporary relationships. Men, boys, girls, women... they all do it. Even while they miss you so much, they punish themselves by restraining.

Rorachy:
Its not bad if he calls you ones every 3 days but once a week, forget the relationship, he is calling another lady.

The funniest thing is that when you start calling them or complain about their lackadaisical calling attitude, they will think you are disturbing them and it will lead to unnecessary quarrel, when you decide to free their matter and not bother to call, they will start accusing you of cheating.

Like seriously, relationship is not easy.