This is a serious issue to me.
I just want to understand how it's done. Please help me comprehend. For me I find it illogical to be in a relationship where the man would contact you after every two or three days. Some even one week. And maybe it's via watsapp message only not necessarily a call and would feel it's normal.
Some guys say it's not how often but how quality the once in three days contact was.
For me I feel I can't handle it as the lady. Where would be the bond, the intimacy we should share as close friends that share each of their day together, who would I contact about any sweet gist daily? I wouldn't get emotionally fulfilled and satisfied. I feel true love should make you miss your partner more often.
So my question is
1. The guys that contact after every two or three days or one week...are you really into your partner Like really in love or you just managing her till someone better comes along or is it just a natural thing??

2. Ladies with such male partners, how do u handle it? Do u feel emotionally fulfilled and do u find it as normal
Please help

I know of a friend waiting to get from them too

Have you ever wondered why your partner doesn't just get you and appreciate your gesture of love even when you put your all into proving your love sometimes?
It may be that you are commmunciating your love in a language different from his or hers. Read this educative and informative post below to determine your love language and that of your partner
It would help solve that tension in your relationship.

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

Have you ever wondered why your partner doesn't just get you and appreciate your gesture of love even when you put your all into proving your love sometimes?
It may be that you are commmunciating your love in a language different from his or hers. Read this educative and informative post below to determine your love language and that of your partner
It would help solve that tension in your relationship.

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

I am asking same question too for Abuja trainee program
Have you received success mail??

That's d spirit. Love should be mutual. Resist d urge to reach her

DouglasH92:
What we call love at first sight is just mere infatuation or sexual attraction. You can't love someone you've not gotten to know.

Jesus loved us without knowing us

PeggySandas:


if you guy won't stop creating useless and senseless threads I wont stop attacking you!

#MakeNairalandGreatAgain #NoSenseLessThreads

Would like to meet this detector of senseful and useful threads someday...meanwhile let me check your threads sef....ohh I did not even know...it's insults u post about...shouldn't have wasted energy typing a befitting response like this to someone like u

U are very funny

Pusyiter:

Ah!Rorachy..... you are not being fair to your pretty face that spots what she wants@1st sight

Could u kindly give me another word I could have used to summarize what I was trying to say other than "later sight" ?
Thanks

EtherealAnn:
Op what the heck is love at later sight ？

Men, this is how you spot wild female creatures. Choose wisely a befitting wife material.
Have a blessed day

PeggySandas:


stop creating useless threads! you twisted semi-literate fool!

Should she have written "I love my husband at first sight" ....lol
You self if she should catch you I no dey o

Caustics:
so you dont love him anymore. divorce is better than adultery. my advice ma

Hi everyone,

So today's post is going to be very interactive and would greatly involve you sharing your view point on the subject matter below.

So I got talking with a friend and we deliberated on this matter nonstop today.

"Which love and affection do you consider to be true...Love Type A or Love Type B? (I would give you the details of both love in a bit)". So here we go.......

Is it love at first sight (let's call it Love type A ). I mean the love, affection or attraction that naturally comes without you even really having known the person. You know, that type for example that can make a lady continue receiving slaps and beating from her man and yet she would say "but I still love him". This kind of love is actually not based on what a partner does or doesn't do...It is just there...it comes naturally for that significant other even if he or she is a slowpoke...lol

OR

The love that grows after having known a person (let's call this Love type B). I mean the type of love that comes after you have gotten to know a person. After you have gotten to know this person is nice, caring, loving, affectionate, considerate and all those things and then you now choose to fall in love with that person.....lol. So can we say love type B is truly genuine since it is a love that has grown after one has been receiving the right treatment from the other person? Or should we just term it as being a self centered kind of love?

Well...my friend stuck with love type A as the true and genuine love while I stuck love type B (don't judge me o...lol).

So please I really need to hear what you think about the trueness and genuineness of love type A OR love type B. Feel free to leave your response in the comment session.

Have a blessed day.

Cheers!!!

P.S. Love type B is more healthy than love type A. However, is it more true or less true?
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

If he got the honey pot early
U r useless to him

Wow...it's been really difficult picking a title for this post. Well, I would be sharing my view on the concept of open marriage and open parenting. In fact 80% of parents, individuals may not directly agree with my view on open parenting and open marriage. But I feel it is a concept that needs to be integrated into every family as it contains immerse benefits that would help build up future homes.

Enough said though. So what then is open parenting and open marriage in this context?
Well, simply put, Open marriage and parenting is a concept where by parents openly run the affairs of their marriage and home in front of their kids when they have attained a certain age while parenting them so they can learn for their own future homes.

I know this sounds a bit strange, yes...it's something we are not used to as Africans. In fact I have heard over and over again were by couples are told not to run affairs of the home openly in front of their children. Personally, I think this African mentality is something that had greatly increased the rate of marriage failure in our nation.

How you may ask?

Well, many young adults who are product of their parents marriages reach marriageable age and get married with little or no knowledge on how to act and what to do when pressures and challenges in their own union set in once they get married.

I feel our parents marriage and home should be a training center or school for young adults to actually be prepared or shown a path for success before writing their own exams ( running their own homes) as they approach that period of their life.


But No....society encourages our parents to discuss in secret vital issues which would build their children for their own future homes.......In fact this same African parents come first in encouraging their grown kids to start their homes once they are of age whilst this young adults have been left ill equipped of the diverse ways and manners to handle challenges when the going gets tough in their homes.

No doubt, anyone can act all rosy when things are smooth which is what children get to see their parents display in the living room everyday...lol...but do they expose this kids to the techniques they use in solving tough crisis when these crisis stare at them so that somehow, wherever their kids may be in the house; be it the bedroom or toilet, This kids can subconsciously and practically hear and learn the vital secrets of handling issues they would most likely face when we they start their homes? (Of course one is not oblivious of the fact that there would be some cats that shouldn't be let out of the bag...but I feel that parents should be able to discern properly).

So did you ever get to see and know how your mum handled the situation at a time when your Dad had only 1000 Naira to give her to buy food for the next three days? Where you able to see her actions and the repercussion of her actions (good or bad) and also discern whether she handled the situation well or not and then finally make a decision if you would like to pick up that character should in-case you face such a trying period in your home in the future as a lady?

Or was such issues discussed out of your reach and you have no idea that such trying periods may come?


Did you ever witness how your parents handled differences in opinions, ideas and conflicts and then you observed if your dad was so bossy and your mum so unsubmissive OR did they both had a respectable pattern to carefully bring up their different ideas and Work on a solution together?

What would you have done as a man or lady if you were faced with similar challenges in your own home? Can you say I think Dad or Mum's actions where superb and .....(please check link below for continuation)

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng/

Please read and help me criticize my write up so I can know how to improve..thanks
Please is my blog also ok? What do I need to improve it...it's a marriage, relationship, love blog.
Thanks

Wow...it's been really difficult picking a title for this post. Well, I would be sharing my view on the concept of open marriage and open parenting. In fact 80% of parents, individuals may not directly agree with my view on open parenting and open marriage. But I feel it is a concept that needs to be integrated into every family as it contains immerse benefits that would help build up future homes.

Enough said though. So what then is open parenting and open marriage in this context?
Well, simply put, Open marriage and parenting is a concept where by parents openly run the affairs of their marriage and home in front of their kids when they have attained a certain age while parenting them so they can learn for their own future homes.

I know this sounds a bit strange, yes...it's something we are not used to as Africans. In fact I have heard over and over again were by couples are told not to run affairs of the home openly in front of their children. Personally, I think this African mentality is something that had greatly increased the rate of marriage failure in our nation.

How you may ask?

Well, many young adults who are product of their parents marriages reach marriageable age and get married with little or no knowledge on how to act and what to do when pressures and challenges in their own union set in once they get married.

I feel our parents marriage and home should be a training center or school for young adults to actually be prepared or shown a path for success before writing their own exams ( running their own homes) as they approach that period of their life.


But No....society encourages our parents to discuss in secret vital issues which would build their children for their own future homes.......In fact this same African parents come first in encouraging their grown kids to start their homes once they are of age whilst this young adults have been left ill equipped of the diverse ways and manners to handle challenges when the going gets tough in their homes.

No doubt, anyone can act all rosy when things are smooth which is what children get to see their parents display in the living room everyday...lol...but do they expose this kids to the techniques they use in solving tough crisis when these crisis stare at them so that somehow, wherever their kids may be in the house; be it the bedroom or toilet, This kids can subconsciously and practically hear and learn the vital secrets of handling issues they would most likely face when we they start their homes? (Of course one is not oblivious of the fact that there would be some cats that shouldn't be let out of the bag...but I feel that parents should be able to discern properly).

So did you ever get to see and know how your mum handled the situation at a time when your Dad had only 1000 Naira to give her to buy food for the next three days? Where you able to see her actions and the repercussion of her actions (good or bad) and also discern whether she handled the situation well or not and then finally make a decision if you would like to pick up that character should in-case you face such a trying period in your home in the future as a lady?

Or was such issues discussed out of your reach and you have no idea that such trying periods may come?


Did you ever witness how your parents handled differences in opinions, ideas and conflicts and then you observed if your dad was so bossy and your mum so unsubmissive OR did they both had a respectable pattern to carefully bring up their different ideas and Work on a solution together?

What would you have done as a man or lady if you were faced with similar challenges in your own home? Can you say I think Dad or Mum's actions where superb and .....(please check link below for continuation)

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng/

How long have you been friends
Act fast or one man would pick her up

Ohhh
So it's not that u r shy or an introvert
Lol
You just don't know how to call. We shall pray for you then

True that's the only way.block her. The temptation to talk to her when you miss her would be high. But if you can pass that phase, you would get over this. Resist it squarely. Once u talk to her again within that period, you Wld go back to square one and your heart would start beating for her again n she Wld drop u again....so u have to completely cut off. Tell her u need space and u Wld apprciate if she never reached u again cus u won't even b picking her call. Simple. Straight. Clear. Then try to hang out wit other ladies or guy friends wen u thinking of her deeply again...with time you may even get to fall in love with one of your female friends...that's why they say date your friend.

madone:
Sir if u can endure the pain and be man enuf to leave her allow and face ur life. She will keep acting like this . Dont let her come back yours is still at the early stage. I Av seen a friend struggle with a girl like this for 3yrs and nothing came out of it. If u continue worst things awaits. She LL tell you she never love you...she LL tell you she has outgrown ur kind of relationship and love affairs...she LL tell you she has Lost sexual feelings for you... All this is to make you her slave...she LL only come back to you to refill her ego when the other guy hurt her and she LL leave when she is healed...you LL notice that anytime she comes to you she is always dejected and frustrated ,when you help heal here she leaves you dejected and frustrated, with on cash in ur account cos you did all to please her .. End her now or you re finished. Dont even try to make her ur sex partner cos your heart cant carry it. Run mehn run b4 she make you lose precious opportunities..remember that anytime she leave you become less productive for a period of time those re supposed to be ur good time to get up and he things done for that pretty woman that you LL meet tomorrow. Leave that your girl and you LL find out that after some time when you meet her again u LL be angry at ursef for wasting. Ur time or nonsense like her.

U truly loved her.
I can understand. That moment when u know this person is harmful to u and you don't even want the person again but yet the person can't just leave your heart. U try and try. Your thoughts just keep going back there even when you try not to let it go there. You love deeply. The guy must have spoilt her with money u could never afford to give her.
I appreciate your level of love. Hard to see a guy that loves truly and deeply like you do

Obi88:
thank you so much, I appreciate your advice, I strongly believe i'll get over her soonest, I'm working on that WEAK aspect for sure

You did not know he used to drink before?
You did not sense he is the type of man that feels a lady is to do all the house work while he sits in parlor and watch tv?
I wonder what people take time to observe while dating
You think it's just to be hanging out and talking I love you
This are issues you should have seen while dating and spoken about it
"Tell him openly then...boo I think I Wld appreciate if u Wld help me around the house wen we marry o...this one that u hv this mindset that house work na only d woman go do am even if she wan die u no go help)
Learn to communicate openly
If he won't stay then let him go, at least u Wld know God saved you from eternal mess
Than to now be shouting just barely 4 months after wedding
Rubbish

maritalblues:
Me and my husband argue about little stuff but it carries a lot of weight. He drinks and I don't like it. He was supposed to have quit drinking liquor, but I've found out that it is not true. Been married only 3 1/2 months and don't know what to do. I cook, clean, work, take care of his affairs, etc... He feels he shouldn't do anything I believe and what gets messed up in the home, he's the one to do it and I could have just cleaned up. Just don't know how to handle these situations and need some advice.
http://maritalblues.fincoapps.com/story/my-husband-argues-like-a-woman

Read on how to be an "alpha man" on google. You need to learn it. You probably an introvert. Good you noticed early. Those ladies would term u as unserious. They are giving you green light and u r messing up.
Also open up to one of the ladies u like. That's if you truly like her (communicate and tell her that...I truly want to call u...n talk to u)
It's Jst that I do not know what and what to keep the conversation going but am trying my best like right naw...tell her you think u r an introvert....if she is really into you to...she Wld understand u and who u r...n try to help d situation n feel in the gaps in discussions for u....till you become more comfortable with her and can be truly free and not nervous around her

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

Sincere truth

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

My first love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

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Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught
me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on).

I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted.

Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough.


From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work.

True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could.

But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having?
Was it my fault or his fault?

http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng