myproperty:

even the Muslims know about Christ but they can't accept him because he preaches true peace and love which is at variance with Islamic principle of murder

adonismuller:
from what i have been reading in this thread,it is very obvious the problem of the world is religion! See how matured people are insulting themselves cz of one faceless god or alah...how can u be fighting for ur so called creator? Why cant he come and fight for himself? Did he create u to come live ur life fighting for him? Even devil(if theres anytin like dat) wil be laughing at christains and muslims! Brainwashed people...animals self live happier dan human cz human has chosen to be foolish..

uselessgoat:


islam is the one and only true religion where one can find peace according to our Holy prophet Muhammad (pbuh).

It's unfortunate you decided to leave the right path and join the infidels. It is better you turn around before the needful is done on your existence

May the will of Allah be done

God Bless all muslims

InZA:



You're indirectly limiting your Market pool to those that oblige the use of Instagram.... You may think everybody uses Instagram, but I don't think so.... Don't you think it would be fitting to show some of your wares here?.. As either attachments to your post or your profile picture.


Just my thought.

Alexkene: I'm a psychologist and from what I've read so far.

I am sure to an extent that you're not your fathers biological child.

Most times when this kind of story arises, if the child involved is the only child, there is a 95% chance that the

child was adopted due to the fact that the parents were not able to bear a child together.

For the poster. Please I will need you to ask your parents the following questions.

1. Why am I the only child?
2. Is there anything you're not telling me about myself?
3. When am I expecting a younger sibling?
no seriously i fink her parents are are parents there is stack resemblance no doubt. so maybe after her they tryed for more and it wasnt forth coming. but they are still trying i know of that sha.

stede:

One of the best comments so far.
I'm a consultant of human psychology, I can tell you 110% that the did was done and likely that she was impregnated which must have been aborted by her father resulting to the trauma, pain, guilt, continuous sobbing and silent cry from my past experience of Human psychology.

2) The story is possible to be a doctored (false) story just to entertain people.
I have handled more than 1000 cases of stuffs like this as a consultant psychologist, so it happens in our community every seconds.
(Father/uncle/brother with sister daughter/relative/lesbianism ) but most folks carpet it within the family to protect the image of the family (home).

It happens in the olden days too, but it so rampant nowadays because of the kind of dresses our ladies wear. (what you see affects your thinking but as a responsible man (father) you should be able to control yourself no matter the circumstances.
Rukky Sandra wore a very stupid leggings to an event recently. I was like *********

3) From the story so far, if it's true which I believe, the girl isn't properly brought-up by her mother (immature/ dull).
The story is incomplete.
-Is she the last born?
-Is she the only female child?
- Is the father's wife her real biological mother
- Is she a product of a broken home?
- Does the mom and dad share separate rooms?
- who spend most time with her at home
-Does the mom live with her father.
- how many times has her father slept with her?
- does the father show any kind of remorse/guilt?
- Is her father mentally sound because I saw something like counselling in the story
- her relationship with her father's wife (mother) good/bad?
-( sleeping on her father's chest) there should be a boundary. is that done openly or within close doors?



Until one is certain about all this, it ll be difficult to come up with the best advice or solution.
Once the third party (e.g friends, relative, pastor/imam) knows about it; it continues to spread and portrays bad image about her(her sisters) than her(their) father. I.e stigmatising her {and her sisters if any} because no MAN with a sense of belonging will ever marry a molested girl).

4) From my past years of experience of human psychology.
"It's possible for the biological father/mother/relative to be doing such.
The did has been done, Telling her mom the story will only add more insult to injury so it should be settle on a lowkey. ( lack of TRUST )

Asking about her biological father from her mom will make matter worse since the deed as already been done. Its like medicine after death.
How would you feel if your kids ask such a silly insulting, embarrassing and annoying question?
Do you think the mother will ever tell the truth.
Leaving the house isn't the solution ( ori bibe koni ogun ori fifo - meaning cutting your head doesn't cure your headache.
A Segun Osewa won't be her father.
None of us can give fatherly care like her father (blood is thicker than water).
The only solution so the story is incomplete is that there should boundaries.

Finally, the blames goes to the mother. The mother should be blamed.
She is so naïve, nonchalant and insensitive.
She should have curb the excess before going that far.
I'm quite sure, no father ll allow such an intimate relationship with her wife.

So I ll say it the careless of the mother;
My advice to all aspiring mothers and mothers is protecting their female wards can best achieved by them ( female child interaction with the society)
The mother should know there is a limit to every thing
A female child is more complex (extra care/fragile/weaker vessel) as compared to a male child

mikeapollo:

Those propehecies are given so that people who care to listen/obey would take necessary steps/actions e.g prayer, fasting etc to avert or avoid the danger. Is it not better to be forwarned about an impending danger and make efforts to avert it, instead of tellig you sweet lies that everything is well, and only for you to be consumed in the impending calamity/danger that could be avoided or averted if you knew about it? Do you want to be sweet-tongued when danger is around? NIGERIANS!

There are so many similar prophecies in the Bible!