Kobojunkie:
Yes! Unless the agreement they both made, husband and wife, is to be monitors over each other as most mothers do to their kids.

Kobojunkie:
Same way her husband can get up and go is same way a wife can. She is an adult and can do as she pleases.

Marriage is not meant as prison or as extra chains in one's life even though many, due to insecurity and control issues, tend to believe it should. If you can't be willing to live with your spouse and let him/her love, then you are not mature enough for marriage.

Tutu82:

I applaud you for being faithful,it is a good thing.Can i remind you,that you are in a Marriage not Maximum security prison so why would you not have friends?.Maybe don’t suffocate each other you are allowed to socialise with your friends sometimes and have “you” time too.You cannot sit home and be looking at each other’s face all of the time.

koyyess:


I am concerned with this.

Has your wife ever implied that you are 'suffocating' her?

You should have time to spend with good friends if you have them around.

Sometimes, people appreciate you more when you aren't always available to them.

What do you think?

Jaqenhghar:

What have you been doing to her?
A woman cannot just leave her husband for her ex. You must have been doing something wrong.
Let's hear her side of the story first. There are 2 sides to every story

Idaytesj29:


Gentleman900000

There you have it. Thats the advise you are looking for. Just follow that.

Let me add that, its must. Top priority for you to know the friend she went to the cinema with and if possible interview the friend.

She will tell you its a female, but by the time you dig, you may find out its a male friend.

koyyess:


Are you faithful to your wife?

Forgive her ok. And do things to spice up your marriage. Your wife is bored and going through early mid life crisis.



Cc jeon

emmanuelbrown26:

I think I know your wife,

superCleanworks:


Sneaking clothes in bags to dodge off to the cinema.? That's stuff kids do. Or is she missing those stuff she used to do in her single days? How old is she?

This is very dicy, approach carefully because you wouldn't have known if she didn't tell you. It is left for you to be more observant before she goes outside to carry pandora's box to open it in your house.

Mrsoft3:



She has apologized and opened up to you. Leverage on that and try to talk to her often, my brother nobody perfect o. It's either you are the one cheating or she is the one cheating. But save your marriage, forgive her but most importantly have a healthy communication, find out why she is doing what she is doing. She might not be happy with something it's best to find the root cos. No perfect marriage out there o, if you believe in your own fight for it, fight with everything