ultraviolet27:


This Idiot is a real Junkie I swear always talking off point, unrealistic and unreasonable So that Shim can be viewed as a Deviant/non conformist or be seeing as Woke!!this is an Idiot who may have never giving 500 to a needy Person before in His/Her life!!Shim too dey come online to Spew Garbage!!

So it's only the Rich that must help the Less privileged at all times they can't also repay by helping when they can?? Or you think giving aid is only financially? Your time and energy can also be used to render help So her staying with His Wife just for 2 days to assist is bad but She can dump Her lives Problems with this Man and He wouldn't hesitate

You are nuisance and you make me angry I swear na your type the Yorubas call asodi always facing the left if others face right like a Psycho

Even the very wealthy requires even little gifts as appreciation for what they do for you too it doesn't have to be eqiuavalent of what was gifted you though!! If not it will look one sided and ripped off and they may stop doing

Why does even God require us to show appreciations by thanking Him giving our lives in service to Him giving 10 percent to Him as tithe?? Even though He is an all provider ? It is to show that their should be reciprocity in relationships

Only Moronic leeches take and take without reciprocating!!

IjebuWarrior:


Madam, didn't mean to brag... I personally donate >N5M annually to orphanages and widow(ers). It's my calling and my responsibility towards humanity.

Cuz you dey give ur poor friend's kids cheap rice and stew, we no go rest again, ba?

Madam, you no well, I swear. 🤬

Fountainofyouth:



Bolded shows you clearly do not understand the bible which says love your neighbour as yourself not help, Bible also says you shall get in return meaning your reward is in heaven not getting a return from whom you helped, don't twist the bible to suit your narrative.

The husband clearly stated that she wanted the woman to stay as in sleep over with his wife in the hospital, so where exactly are you getting your assumptions from?

I clearly gave several suggestions and ways the woman can help without sleeping over in the hospital with his wife how can you not see that? Of all the people they know, must that woman be the one to sleep over?

I do not have time for unnecessary back and forth on something mundane that requires basic common sense and sound logic, it's simple, give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return, let God or posterity reward you, simple.

Fountainofyouth:



Bolded shows you clearly do not understand the bible which says love your neighbour as yourself not help, Bible also says you shall get in return meaning your reward is in heaven not getting a return from whom you helped, don't twist the bible to suit your narrative.

The husband clearly stated that she wanted the woman to stay as in sleep over with his wife in the hospital, so where exactly are you getting your assumptions from?

I clearly gave several suggestions and ways the woman can help without sleeping over in the hospital with his wife how can you not see that? Of all the people they know, must that woman be the one to sleep over?

I do not have time for unnecessary back and forth on something mundane that requires basic common sense and sound logic, it's simple, give wholeheartedly and expect nothing in return, let God or posterity reward you, simple.

Olumaeme:


Abeg no dey disturb yourself.

Na tit for tat I dey do.

I don't expect anything from anybody, and I don't sacrifice for anybody also, everybody dey he dey.

If I need you, I pay you, if you need me, you pay me, we deal and everybody goes their separate ways.

What is the benefit of me supporting you and you are not supporting me? And from the comments, you can see that most people are ingrates.

The fact that you are nice to people does not mean they will be nice to you.

Na the reality be that.

Olumaeme:


See this one.

Na why I say I no dey help poor people be that, what I do is strictly business.

You come, help me, I pay you, you find your square root.

I have something you want, I sell for you or you GTFO. Nobody is entitled to anybody by so doing Abi? So I don't expect from you, you sef don't expect from me.

You are ignorant because you don't know the whole story. When they had their own last born, na me use my car carry the woman go hospital in the middle of the night, leaving my own family behind. Sebi Lion too fit come chop them, I for leave her to labour till they are able to sort themselves out too nau.

As I talk, I to help poor people na the most stupid thing wey anybody fit ever do, and you sound like a typical poor person.

Kpele.

IjebuWarrior:


The useless lady is delusional and entitled.

She's very foolish and useless at the same time. She no get commonsense to understand basic life principles. Na frustration and anger go finish am las las.

escapadechuks:



You sound so sure about all you typed about me like you know me. Lol. You're just grasping at straws. You couldn't have been more wrong.


Anyway, truth is I help people when I can. It's not something to brag about. It's just basic human decency. But I don't help them expecting anything in return. . . Unlike you.

It's not too late sha. Change. You're too entitled and arrogant. It's not nice.

Calm down and reflect on yourself. You hate hearing the truth. That's why this post has entered 15pages and counting. If you want to help somebody, help them. If you don't want to help, don't help. You're nobody's God OK? She shouldn't need to turn her children to your nannies because you give them "something" after. Get off your high horse and realize you messed up.

They were surviving before you came along. They'll still survive without you.

Enjoy.

IjebuWarrior:


Madam, once again...

You're indeed MADDD! 🤬

escapadechuks:




Atleast I don't go about using other people's children as my errand boys and girls. Change.

Fountainofyouth:



You really are all up in your head, so I'm not surprised you arrogantly insist your opinion is right.

First off, the bible says do not allow your left hand know what your right hand does, meaning help and expect nothing in return, in fact the bible expects us to help from a distance, without publicity and fanfare.

Secondly, if the sick woman was single I would have excused the other woman on the basis of her not having anyone to help, even at that there is a limit to it because she is a married woman with kids, but this is a sick woman who is married, how exactly will you expect the other woman to leave her household to come stay with someone that has a husband that can care for her? Can't the husband take excuse at work to stay with his wife because there is no job that won't give him sick leave if he requests for it, why can't he do that? Doesn't he have friends around that he can take his daughter to so he can stay with his wife? Hell he can even let his daughter stay with that family to take care of while giving them little stipends for the assistance, that way, the woman can be available for her home at the same time helping them out with their daughter, more like killing two birds with a stone, why can't he do all these things?

Try to be logical in thinking it's not that hard, emotions will not get you anywhere, the highest that family can do is to visit the woman at the hospital if possible everyday and go back home that's all, not sleeping over when she has her family to cater for, wisdom is profitable to direct abeg.

okerekingsley90:


But konojunkie is right on the one. She has told you the truth. Nothing in this life sweet pass mind your business. You would save yourself from lots of troubles

SAMBARRY:
tell the mother in clear words and actions.no hide mouth talk am or be sounding apologetic, speak firmly and with conclusion.if after telling the mother the kids still come around,do something that will provoke the woman that will make her never to allow her kids around your house again.e.g when the kids come around (that's after you must have warned her o) carry broom and sweep their legs off your premises.anybody that is Yoruba knows the meaning of that.

No mother can stand watching her kids getting embarrassed or chased away so that trauma will be a reminder to her to ensure she doesn't allow her kids to your vicinity again

Fountainofyouth:



See them, birds of a feather

You want a married woman to stay with your wife at the hospital when she has her own family to cater to, why can't you arrange where your daughter will stay till your wife is well so you can stay with her at the hospital? Why feel she has to be the one to do it on your behalf because you help her family? Did you ask permission from her husband? Or you feel they are at your mercy because you also clothe them? What if all her excuses are genuine? Such entitlement, smh, see the way you're even very condescending of people's life situation because you're above them, na only poor people get bad character?

Ko da, this life ehn, so many people lack conscience and genuine human sympathy.

torqque7:


Don't mind her..see her even opening dirty mouth to try to justify her bad and arrogant behaviour. She is lucky she met a calm person that she can take advantage of because she give am dead phone or helped her small before.

7upnigeria:


Apparently you have that 'use them as long as they're benefiting from you' mentality. I will not argue with you because it's a mentality of people who have low IQ, it's either you're UNEDUCATED or an OBIDIENT. Otedola donated N1 million each to 750 students of Augustine University who he didnt know, it was just to ease their burden and make life meaningful for them. Many people adopt children who are not theirs and give them meaningful lives. Come to the UK and see how millionaires donate heavily to orphanages just to share love and their wealth. You're seated in one corner of the world thinking everyone has a poverty decorated brain like you.

IjebuWarrior:
OP, You're MADDD! 🤬🤬🤬

frog12:
AH. this na FAKE story

we ask serious question and see the reply.

frog12:
AH. this na FAKE story

we ask serious question and see the reply.

tollyboy5:

Dont worry you can call me stupid na.
Because i have also been leaching on you. If you have a pet like cat and you notice people ignorantly believe cat are trained by witches then make sure your cat is confined within your apartment and not disturbing others.
Get your neighbor threat recorded and let her know you have evidence you want to harm your pet in case anything later happen to the
Honestly speaking you must be an arrogant and terrible person

frog12:
how many children do you have? why can't you send your children on errands?

Obinzubechi:
My dear I don't think you dropped this write up here for people's opinion because all what they're saying seems not to be sounding write to you, if you feel you know it all you shouldn't have come here asking in the first place.....you can't be too sure your friend actually told the daughter not to come, confront her and hear what she will say, and feeling entitled that the children must always do what you ask of them is too bad, for me that is know more help, because you are expecting something in return.

7upnigeria:


Madam, the little change you have is getting into your head. They were not eating before you moved into their street abi. Haven't you heard? 'Who go help you no go stress you'. Nobody truly wants their kids becoming househelps, its financial situations that makes people consider such options. If you want to help them, please help. Stop looking for cheap labour.

SAMBARRY:
madam no be everything you go say here.the more you talk,the more your words are misconstrued to make you look like a bad person.

In the first place you don't even have any point to prove to anybody.God sees your heart and motives and he is a rewarder.he rewards everyone accordingly for their deeds on Earth

tollyboy5:

For you to even be in a street argument might reveal the kind of person you are. So you wanted the said friend to come and fight on your behalf?
It seems you don't even put on a thinking Cap. She did the right thing as your friend to calm the other woman on your behalf and calm you down later. Sorry to say that your friend is way smarter than you are. You're just feeling you're better maybe because you're more financially stable.

tollyboy5:

For you to even be in a street argument might reveal the kind of person you are. So you wanted the said friend to come and fight on your behalf?
It seems you don't even put on a thinking Cap. She did the right thing as your friend to calm the other woman on your behalf and calm you down later. Sorry to say that your friend is way smarter than you are. You're just feeling you're better maybe because you're more financially stable.

culf:


So the assistance you're rendering is a reward for the errand they run for you?
You should see it as a privilege but no wahala, when one door closes, God opens another unless if they don't look up to God.

Hmmm!

9icetoo:


Your entitlement mentality is astonishing.

Truly, common sense is not as common as it ought to be.

Unless of course, you are just trolling.

Which makes your post and comments barely okay.

frog12:
if your story is not fake, just pack away from that area

escapadechuks:
Op doesn't sound like a very nice person.

Is her child your nanny? Or because of your small small help? Then stop helping and get yourself a personal errand person. Shior