Godsgirl's Posts
Nairaland Forum / Godsgirl's Profile / Godsgirl's Posts
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (of 5 pages)
 Nairaland / General / Re: How To Post Your Own Topic On Nairaland by Godsgirl(f): 4:31am On Aug 08, 2007 |
@ Seun, I sent you an email earlier, I need your help! Someone has chosen to vandalize one of my threads, can you  The person used pornography on my thread. 1 Like |
| Religion / Re: Breaking News : No More Trousers For Redeemed Ladies, Adeboye Orders by Godsgirl(f): 4:25am On Aug 08, 2007 |
No, but I will visit one of these days, I hear it is a nice place to worship. I will be visiting Naija soon and hope to visit the branch in Lagos. How about you? |
| Religion / Re: Breaking News : No More Trousers For Redeemed Ladies, Adeboye Orders by Godsgirl(f): 4:19am On Aug 08, 2007 |
I hear you D. We will not let them off the hook. We can deal with those irresponsible men on a different thread. Such men (married included) continue to hit on me despite the fact that I dress reasonably. Now those men have no excuse for their actions and need deliverance. |
| Religion / Re: Breaking News : No More Trousers For Redeemed Ladies, Adeboye Orders by Godsgirl(f): 4:08am On Aug 08, 2007 |
Hey, you wanted my opinion and I gave it to you. You mus'nt agree with it. I agree that it is the man's roaming eyes can get him into trouble but a man cannot walk around with blindfolds during the entire svc if every woman chooses to dress like she just came from a night club. Again, the reason why my original post was long is because I gave very specific details of the dangers the flesh pose. It all starts in the mind, then seeps into the heart, we then act on these feelings, then it leads to death. This is a process (look what happened to David) You responded so quick, you want a "yes or no" answer. This case cannot be dealt with that way. Men are not as strong as women are when it comes to control in this area. Even the best man that means well can fall at any time. This is a struggle. I cannot and will not support women dressing like whores and attending church only to blame the men for looking, That is just unreasonable and unfair. We must help each other so that neither one falls into temptation. You have a right to your belief on this issue. Please allow me to do the same. Agape! 2 Likes |
| Religion / Re: Breaking News : No More Trousers For Redeemed Ladies, Adeboye Orders by Godsgirl(f): 3:52am On Aug 08, 2007 |
Well, My point is, trousers is not the only problem. "dressing" is the issue. Tight trousers are better than a tight short skirt, at least the trousers cover up. ban trousers and the skirts will get shorter. I do not think that this is an issue man can handle-Only God can. It is an issue of the spirit. The change in dress code will never change the heart of the person that dresses that way, it will only make some of them bitter. But then again, The pastor must do what he has to do to keep order in the church, the ban could at least prevent some men (married included) from falling into sexual temptation. |
| Religion / Re: Breaking News : No More Trousers For Redeemed Ladies, Adeboye Orders by Godsgirl(f): 3:43am On Aug 08, 2007 |
Yay!!!! Boon's first thread, I'm here to support ya!  Well, I am just wondering why for the past 2 years I keep bumping in RCCG guys and pastors, This is so so so so weird. I just bumped into the head pastor of the one of the US. churches today at the post office and he struck up a conversation with me. Now here I am, another thing with Redeemed. Ok, this is what I think, We women of God should know better when dressing. It is quite a shame that it had to come to this-for the G.O. to place a ban. The Holy Spirit that dwells within us ought to convict us on how to dress, For instance: When I dress to go out, there is always a "look" that I intend to go for, either the business look, the girlie look, sporty look, the romantic look, the relaxed look, the chic look, etc. The moment that clothes hits my body, My alter ego comes to life. I get excited, stare at myself, My flesh just loves that "bad girl look." The clothes is like a second skin and if you are like me and have got the curves in all the right places, it gets pretty dangerous!! Then, I start to strut around, just loving myself in a conceited way (sin) and dance around infront of the mirror. I am free to fantasize/be whatever I want to be at that moment, but the minute I attempt to walk out that room, the Holy Spirit goes. ah ah ah!, "Where do you think you are going dressed like that?" The Spirit always wins the battle over the flesh bc I cannot afford to go anywhere w/o the Holy Spirit's guidance. No matter how good the flesh feels, if I truly love God, I must return to the wardrobe/change. I will keep changing until the Holy Spirit is satisfied. So, I guess, those private shows I have infront of my mirror will have to wait for my hubby, and Oh will he enjoy the show. Ladies, we gotta cover up. The Spirit is willing but the flesh is oh so weak! By dressing slutty, we only lead others sin and you know what the bible says about that. ummm, sorry for the details, I had a point to make, |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 3:13am On Aug 08, 2007 |
@ Boon, Hey babe! I mean ego in the good sense, alter ego as in your "other self" whom I have thought you had on Naira rules for quite some time, It's just a mystery how you appear and disappear, I always had this feeling that you came back as someone else that probably even attacked me on a thread, how do I know you are not even "K0be?"  You guys have never been on at the same time. hmmm,  @Boon and K0be: What "Holy Nail" are you guys talking about, you lost me  somewhere. And hey, be nice, I do not feel good today! |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 2:41am On Aug 08, 2007 |
@ Swiftycool Positive: If this is "love," the fact that you will be away should not change how you feel about each other (that is of course if she really does "love" you). If this is love, she will move on with her life the best she can-always loving you, despite any relationship she gets in (till you come home). Uncertainty: Be aware that three months might be too soon. This poses a threat if what she really felt from the begining was merely, "a crush." Negative: If it was a "crush," it would be a good idea that she never found out where you were going incase those false feelings be reinforced by the fact that you are traveling abroad. If her feelings was indeed a "crush," she may turn into a golddigger. My advice to you is this: Do not respond to this even though you think you love her. Go ahead with your plans and leave. If you find yourself unable to get her out of your Eventually, you will come back to Naija; even if it is to visit. If it is true love and if you 2 were meant to be together. There is nothing in this world that would be able to stop it. As sweet as this post of mine may sound, your situation is still a slippery slope and I am so glad that I am not you right now. I do feel your pain, I would pray if I were you. I will pray hard! Have a safe trip and may the Lord bless you Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 3:31pm On Aug 07, 2007 |
Oh by the way K0be, I think your thread (this one) and mine (Is it safe to tell a man "I love you" are the hottest right now on Naira Rules. Check that out!!  yay!!!!Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 3:25pm On Aug 07, 2007 |
K0be, you have not told me what Boon has done to you. From where cometh all these assumptions? Have you noticed he is very selective in his responses? And when he does respond, out comes wisdom from his replies. I have a suggestion, How about you create a thread just for Boon and I, and if it's ok with him, the both of us could try our best to keep you entertained. I am sure his imagination is just as creative as mine is . Hey, he probably even has an alter ego here (u never know), Nevertheless, Boon is a busy man so his answer will probably be "no." Well, i guess we can keep things as is on your thread "Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins?" This is your thread isn't it? |
| Forum Games / Re: Nigerian Slangs: by Godsgirl(f): 4:53am On Aug 07, 2007 |
|
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 4:51am On Aug 07, 2007 |
, Nigerian slangs-  I'll be over there |
| Romance / Re: Temptation by Godsgirl(f): 4:48am On Aug 07, 2007 |
Thanks for the update babe. God is good, I'll still keep you in prayer, you never know what the next challenge is. |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 4:36am On Aug 07, 2007 |
oops! I just found that "Boondoggle" is actually a real word in the dictionary. |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 4:27am On Aug 07, 2007 |
You see?? Boon's such a gentleman . So very polite to everyone, How could any girl not want that? Well, about the name and the meaning behind it, I do not know what it means and I am almost afraid to ask . The last time i asked for clarification on a term, K0be dealt with me severely . Apparently, there are plenty of slangs going around that I just do not know about . I try my best to keep up with the culture so I can relate to people better w/o being critical (you know, to keep balance , I just can't seem to keep track with the fast growing terms out there. Boon, hate to put you on the spot, so you can tell me some other time, maybe in my thread for nigerian slangs (which no one cares about) It's easier to continue the discussion there so we won't disrespect this poster, Agape! |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confessed To Two Previous Abortions by Godsgirl(f): 4:09am On Aug 07, 2007 |
Sorry, Two things I cannot do on this forum is post my pic and exchange my personal info, This is all you've got bro. Enjoy my contributions on Naija Rules while it lasts, I won't be here on the site for much longer, |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confessed To Two Previous Abortions by Godsgirl(f): 12:12am On Aug 07, 2007 |
I'm just telling the truth, the whole truth and nothing but, But lets get back to the issue at hand, This guy's girl confessed to 2 abortions and he is in need of advice. We have no right to take over the forum this way, See ya later in some other forum. Now be nice, and no cussing! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 12:08am On Aug 07, 2007 |
Well, I guess it is possible for a "hater" to turn good afterall. See,I always knew there was a soft spot in that heart of yours, We've got "God kind of Love" It's always available for all, No partialty. Sorry hon , |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confessed To Two Previous Abortions by Godsgirl(f): 12:04am On Aug 07, 2007 |
How did you know I was fine, I mean, Of course I am but can it actually show via my words (and no, I am not conceited either)  |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confessed To Two Previous Abortions by Godsgirl(f): 11:58pm On Aug 06, 2007 |
Nicely put! |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Want To Marry Virgins? by Godsgirl(f): 11:52pm On Aug 06, 2007 |
Hating does'nt look good on you K0be Give the man (Boon) props, He knows what he wants. There's nothing more attractive than that. |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Confessed To Two Previous Abortions by Godsgirl(f): 3:59am On Aug 06, 2007 |
What is the big deal? If you are not married to her, nothing matters anyway. There is no need to worry. In case no one in this forum knew this, I would be pleased to be the one to break the news to you. You owe absolutely no "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" a thing. Such relationships do not count. Now begin to court someone, get engaged, and/married, then ask me this same question. At that time, I can honestly reply to your thread. Agape! |
| Business / Re: Nairalanders, How Much Are You Worth? by Godsgirl(f): 3:51am On Aug 06, 2007 |
Ask my manufacturer that question, He created me. |
| Family / Re: Help My Sister's Husband Wants Me To Ave An Affair With Him by Godsgirl(f): 3:32am On Aug 06, 2007 |
Good girl. I read the entire text and I do not see anything wrong with the way you handled this situation. I would say, stay in your parents house for as long as you can. Try to avoid giving the details unless you are faced with those threatening situations (as you mentioned). If I were you, at this point I will pray for wisdom on how to handle what happens next. I would also pray that the Lord will touch the hearts of your sister and family so that they will understand. If your sister does not understand and blames you, please do not direspect her in any way (though it might be tempting), I, personally will keep quiet because I have found out that in time, everything usually will work out for my good w/o me having to defend myself. You know your heart and so does God. This is all that matters Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 3:11am On Aug 06, 2007 |
Attn seuniyanda: What part of my post implied that hurt men were out to avenge their past? Attn Meta4: What part of Seuniyanda's post made you think that when he said "immature", he was reffering to men? Please read his post again and see that Seuniyanda's comment of "immature" was towards my post, Not men. It is quite unfortuanate that misquotations such as this take place frequently in Naira land-There is a possibility that one may be in such a hurry to get their point across that they might not even read a post in its context and entirety. I ask myself why I keep coming back to Naira Land. It takes too much time to write a post as it comes to your heart, only to have to explain every single thing again to make things simple. It is time consuming-But I will try "again" to get my point across. I hope it works this time. 1. That post was an attempt to reach out to men that were hurt. (In order words, I was saying that it may be hard and discouraging for them to try to love again.) 2. I said I pity the woman that finds this man (this is because she has to be the one to convince the man that she will not hurt him as the others did. Also, this woman will have to peservere in order to finally gain his trust.) 3. Chances are, this man will give up in finding "true love" because of so much hurt in the past-(In order words, he may ask, "Can I trust that she will not hurt me too, like the others did?) 4. Chances are, Because of all the hurt, he may settle for less in the future (because he may not believe that he is worth better) I sure hope this has clarified the original post. I am not quite sure how that post could have been misinterpreted. This is the best that I can do to explain, I am tired |
| Romance / Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Godsgirl(f): 10:10am On Aug 05, 2007 |
@ Boon Muahhh! Perfecto! |
| Romance / Re: True Love: What is it? by Godsgirl(f): 9:58am On Aug 05, 2007 |
Take Boon's and Mcdoe's word for it because they are right. Yes, Love is all that-quoted from the all time #1 bestseller worldwide. 1. It speaks the truth (or attempts to-at all times) 2. It sacrifices but expects nothing back in return (Agape) 3. It is you when you love a woman/man with your whole heart and realize he/she is not meant for you in that manner. (yet you still love 'em) . 4. It offers 5. It is Jacob working 7x7 years for Rachel's hand in marriage 6. It is Job going through pain and isolation, yet refusing to curse God for for my grand finale>>>>>>>>>>True love is Christ-laying down His life for absolutely EVERYONE. John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." God is TRUE love. |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 9:18am On Aug 05, 2007 |
Agape! |
| Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Tell A Man "I Love You"? by Godsgirl(f): 9:18am On Aug 05, 2007 |
The saddest thing to see is a man that has been hurt so many times by women. By the time a good woman comes around, he is an empty shell that will surely crack if you touch him. I pity the woman that finds such a man-This man has given up on finding "true love and will settle for anything (My heart goes out to all the good/heartbroken men. May you find peace from God that has plenty and may He provide the missing rib that rightfully belongs to you. |
| Religion / Re: Is Pastor Kumuyi Our Best Holiness Preacher? by Godsgirl(f): 8:57am On Aug 05, 2007 |
@ B, Hey sweetie, I know, but I am ok now, thank God, I can't stay  for too long, I'm just not wired that way. Thanks agan for your support. As always.It's all about Agape! |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (of 5 pages)
(Go Up)
| Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 57 |