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Family / Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by Headbanger(m): 3:48pm On Sep 07, 2023
Give her according to how you prefer the soup to look and taste.
if you like it watery and taste gwam gwan, give small money
if you want it yummy, and taste delightful, give her more money.
If you want here to give you good soap and after that good banging, add more money

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Properties / Re: I Need Help Please, My Landlord Is Increasing House Rent Every Year by Headbanger(m): 2:36pm On Oct 06, 2022
Headbanger:
Thank you for your input and suggestion, so the Lagos state government are no longer looking into tenant case.
Properties / Re: I Need Help Please, My Landlord Is Increasing House Rent Every Year by Headbanger(m): 12:22pm On Oct 05, 2022
Thank you for your input and suggestion, so the Lagos state government are no longer looking into tenant case.
Properties / Re: I Need Help Please, My Landlord Is Increasing House Rent Every Year by Headbanger(m): 3:39pm On Oct 04, 2022
Its an old building, no upgrade since I moved in 8 years ago

pocohantas:
Did you upgrade the property? Because most times na wetin dey give landlords this kind mind. They know you have invested a lot and wouldn’t be willing to let go easily.

Also, Egbeda and some areas in Alimosho are now hotcakes. No thanks to the power situation in these areas. The landlords know this. So their rents is closing up to other premium areas on the mainland.

Properties / I Need Help Please, My Landlord Is Increasing House Rent Every Year by Headbanger(m): 3:14pm On Oct 04, 2022
Just last year , my landlord increased our rents from 400k to 500k, and this year again, he has given us another letter of increment, this time from 500K to 800k. it’s a six flats building located in Egbeda. I don’t know what to do, even after making an appeal.

Can we get a lawyer to handle this or should we just take it as fate?
I am afraid if we take this, he will increase again next year.
Religion / Re: The Curse In Sleeping With A Married Woman by Headbanger(m): 5:37pm On Aug 26, 2022
Honestly, we need to watch it here, fornication is quite different from adultery, fornication, you are sinning against God and adultery you are sinning against God and man, every married has an oath, this oath believe to be sacred and uphold the cultural attributes of the man and woman and also before God, being the one breaking the oath will lead you the a lot of misfortunate, health issues, life issues depending on the culture of the person you are playing with, God may forgive you, but your village people will not, because of the oath which has been recorded before man and God, that which Jah has joined together no man can put wahala, your life is yours, but it’s a generational thing o. As for me, I dey run for married women o, single ladies plenty out there.
Romance / Re: Should A Woman Be Bothered About Not Being Good In Bed? by Headbanger(m): 5:36pm On Aug 26, 2022
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Politics / Re: Senate To Honour Ejiro Otarigho For Driving Burning Tanker Away by Headbanger(m): 8:29am On Jun 15, 2022
I watched that video with tears, so passionate and sefless , I will give him a medal of honour

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Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 2:53pm On Jun 10, 2022
Winneygirl:

Maybe you are setting up what you want, not what she can do.
Not everyone will understand the nitty-gritty of importation and a lot of times, you are importing goods for a specific target market.
Sometimes, you make more money from the easy, everyday buy and sell.
You can set up a retail or wholesale shop where she sells everyday items. Drinks, packaged foods, food spices, sugar, laundry agents, hygiene products etc.
Do your market research. She can buy from distributors and warehouses located close to/within the markets and sell as a wholesaler. She will just need to be in a good location with foot traffic. Everyday, simple items.
Forget all these online talk of importation. If you can do without the pressure of forex, please do without it.

God bless you plenty plenty for this, I salute you.
Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 9:36am On Jun 10, 2022
Winneygirl:


Do you know why she is jobless? Or are you unaware that some men make their wives quit their jobs/businesses after marriage?
There are many reasons why she is not bringing any money to the table.

@Headbanger, why doesn't your wife earn any money?


I have setup two businesses for her which she mismanaged, but am trying to push her into importation again to see what she will be able to make out of it. I have lost several millions in setting up busineses for her without sucess, most time I even try marketing for her.
Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 3:37pm On Jun 08, 2022
Ethanuella:


Ha! That's a lot. I feel with what I'm seeing up here, you shouldn't be the one shouldering all of these expenses.

Your wife should be able to assist, her token will go a long way.

Only me. that is why am worried o

Plus monthly allowance of 50K for Wify stuff
Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 2:03pm On Jun 08, 2022
Ethanuella:
No, she's not mismanaging. Things are really expensive out there.

As a family of 4 (myself, husband and 2 kids), we have a budget of 130k per month. This includes foodstuffs in bulk, soup items, and petrol for the generator.

The good news is that because I buy in bulk, some food items lasts longer than a month, so I get to save some cost for the next month despite been given the money.

I do not use the savings for personal use, instead, I use it to cushion emergencies that may arise anytime.

Thank you very much, apart from feeding which is 25k weekly,
We have other budgets, such as fueling which is 30k monthly for the car
genetor we have 15k set aside, and PHCN is 20k
we also have emergency 50k which if we do not use, we carry over to the following month.
Then for the laundry, we have extra 12k for that, because sometimes we engage dry cleaners.
Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 1:57pm On Jun 08, 2022
LushLady:
My family is five as well,things are very costly in the market but what I do is that I go to market once in 2weeks,and some of the things doesn't finish till next 2or 3 months so it reduces the cost when I'm going to market next time.
I buy everything I will need to cook till the next two weeks except fresh vegetable.
Please discuss your wife to know how you people can manage.
Like me I do buy
Hot chocolate half paint
Milk half paint
Spaghetti 1 pack of 20
Palm oil 5ltrs
Groundnut oil 5ltrs
Indomitable 1 carton
Yam
Potatoes
Beans
Rice
Maggie
Spices
Bread
Onions
Crayfish
All these buy I bulk and keep at home,and also cook 3 different types of soups and stews and stocked in the freezer.I also did pap too and stocked in the freezer.
Discuss with your wife and buy things in bulk this way you will not be going to market all the time.
All these I listed above 50k can buy them.
Thank you very much, this will really help

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Family / Re: How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 12:31pm On Jun 08, 2022
25k a week
keepingmum:




25k a month is 100k a month
Family / How Much Feeding Allowance Is Sufficient For A Family Of Five by Headbanger(m): 12:16pm On Jun 08, 2022
I am worried about the cost of living in this country, almost everything is double except salary. I found myself giving out 25k weekly as upkeep, we are just family of five, consisting my 3 kids, wify and I.

I can barely save after paying other bills, and the crazy thing is that my wife want me to improve on the weekly allowance, please what is the average allowance that is considered okay for a family like mine.
Any idea pls.
Romance / Re: My Cheating Is About To End My Marriage by Headbanger(m): 9:48am On May 13, 2022
Husband and wife issue na 5 & 6, I no fit tell you wetting day my mind grin

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