Mothers and their Son. . . . .its a well told story about the bond they share.

To the OP, i think first thing is getting DH to trust that you love his mum and ur actions towards her are true and pure. Try to understand what is at stake why ur MIL is actig as she is doing. From a friend's experience it could be attention, finance, health. My friend's mum was used to seeing her son almost every weekend. . .as in at least twice in a month and she is not in lagos ooo though comes around once a while.

Friend's DH is last born, other siblings are out of country with one in Abuja. mama's favourite. Friend noticed MIL started acting funny and cold last time she was around. Complained to her hubby who dismissed it as she being too sensitive. Not long after she heard her hubby talking with an elder cousin aunt over phone. . .his mum reported him that she doesnt see his face anymore since he married

Sharperly, she arranged weekend getaway to ibadan for all to stay with MIL. Now she plans her hubby's calendar, he must go to ibadan at least one weekend in the month. She had to understand that he was all the old woman had left close to her. 5 kids with 3 elder ones outside and one in abuja, he played the role of all 5 kids to mum before he was married (father is late). Though he cant make it as frequent as before but they managed it well and there is peace.

We may need to just objectively review all and see where concessions need to be made. as i believe, we will get there and also want that affection at whatever age.

I wish us all well and spirit of love visit all wives and MIL to co-exist.

Well, could not resist but add my own experience.

While i have read lots of stories about bad MIL and seen a few. I have no such experience. I wont lay blame on we the wives as being cause or over-reactionary to some of the things MIL do but my experience has been wonderful.

While courting my hubby, my MIL was very supportive and anytime i visit, would hv me with her in the kitchen teasing me about how hubby was growing up. Fast forward to after marriage, my first pregnancy was a lil on the "trouble" side and after 3 months, my DH was already worn out. He comes back late and start a vigil over me as i as in and out of illness. Well, to cut story short, i moved to my in-laws place and my MIL (God bless her and her household) was all over me. Would fry just a piece of bean cake or make just one wrap of moi-moi or grate and make about 3 scoops of ikokore (my ijebu folks would understand) . . .all to satisfy my un-ending cravings.

What i would just advise any married or single lady out there is that - show your MIL the same love you will to your mother. I seat my MIL down to ask about her health. . . .supply her monthly supplements as i do for my aged parents as well. I call her often and take the kids visiting. I go visiting without DH most times. It helps break the ice and seek her advise more often on kids and so on. . . .they appreciate and feel happy when you seek their experience.

I have a son and a daughter and would love to be close to them and their family when they reach that stage so. . . .just as i am bonding with my MIL now, so i pray to bond with my future daughter-in-law.

Except where right before marriage you were not wanted, i see no reason why with determined effort, you should not be able to build a family with your in-laws.

For my father-in-law i should not even start. . . .God bless him for me!

Let's talk about our Sexual Performance and Challenges

Do you have low sexual drive? fertility issues? or observing reduced performance by DH? weakness of the organ? early ejaculation? Is work stress affecting your urge and sexual stamina? loss of sexual interest as a married woman?

These are issues that lots of men face and deal with in silence regarding sexual performance. Same for women losing interest in sex and rather just feign a reason to stay away. A family unit should be able to discuss their problems and seek solutions. To all men or women who have a positive answer to any of the questions above, i introduce to you a natural safe supplement to help boost sexual performance and combat impotence - the Forever Multi Maca

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i will over time talk on some health issues and their cure, prevention or management through use of safe natural supplements

let us discuss Prostate Cancer today -

Are you a Male and up to 40years old? or married female with DH over 40 years? or you still have an elderly father?

Are you male and have you had a prostrate test before? If No, please do so during your next general medical check-up.

This is a very common form of cancer in men is the prostate cancer and it develops slowly with symptoms not showing for years. It is generally diagnosed when sufferers notice changes in their urinary patterns, once the prostate becomes large enough to impact the urethra.

Like most forms of cancer, the exact cause of prostate cancer is unknown but certain things put someone at a higher risk of developing it –

Age & genetics – This is a key influence as men over 40 are likely to with higher chance if a direct relative has had prostate cancer

Diet – for example, a high consumption of Saturated fat which is mainly found in animal sources increases the risk. When next you are buying your cooking oils, please check the saturated fat content. Olive, nut and rapeseed oil and cholesterol free oils are recommended. Also, Vitamin D deficiency, diet high in red meat (suggested to limit this to maximum of 500g per week)

Sexually Transmitted Diseases – Men who have had gonorrhea have higher chance of developing it

Prostate cancer prevention can be done through dietary manipulation and natural supplements. As mentioned earlier, dietary manipulation is watching what you consume as you grow older – consumption of cooked tomatoes, broccoli, mindful of dairy intake, regular promegranate consumption, reduce oil consumption and drinking green tea.

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Dear Viewer,

In this thread, i would be discussing about the human body and natural supplements to complement our health. A healthy life-style with some based on life experiences ranging from weight management to hormonal balancing and stress management.

Comments about personal experience are welcome.

Today, i will start on Body Cleansing

The human body is a great work of art. Just like our machines and cars, it needs regular system cleansing as you change the oils of your car which after a while become bad for the car's engine. So also are the food cravings we relish and load the body system with. After the required nutrients are absorbed, there are free agents and toxins left to roam the system.

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yolemum:
Pls house,what can be done to increase seminal volume cos it's just 1ML

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Church12:
pls the experiece one in the house shd help me interpret this SFA test.
I married like 1 and half years ago

VISCOCITY: viscous
volume: 3ml
MICROSCOPY:
epithelia cells: Nil
Push cells : 0-2/HPF
RBC: 6-12/HBF
MOTILITY:
Active: 50%
Slugish: 40%
Non motile: 10%
MOPHPLOGY:
Normal form : 65%
point held: 20
swollen head: 05%
Tail defect : 10%
SEMEN COUNT: 05 million sperm cell per mil
CULTURE ISOLATE: No bacteria growth after 48 hours of incubation

Hi,

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