Blessedone26:




Seriously the clitoris is there. But I can still confirm from the mum. I do have a normal moderate libido. But this continous scared scared issue made one to loss interest. I have read about one too on google with same issue, he lost interest after 3 months. But they are Oyinbo. That might be an excuse for my dropped libido.

The clit may be there, probably it was partially chopped OFF and not completely. But one of the effects of FGM is the narrowing of the vaginal passage which is very similar to what you described in your narration.... I still insist that you ask her or confirm from her mother like you said and you will see.

Alwaysachick:



What has circumcision got to do with this? Who wasn't circumcised?

Damn bro! Your ignorance stinks to the high heavens!

Don't tell me you are unaware of the ills of Female Genital Mutilation (circumcision) despite all the sensitization by the federal government in conjunction with the ministry of health and women affairs.

You must be living in a remote village! Anyway go and read about the practice and effects of FGM on the girl child in Nigeria/Africa.

Blessedone26:
Hi nairalanders,

I dated my wife for close to 8 years without sex, we went to same school. Though the decision of no sex before marriage was mine. Cos I am a very addictive person, I never wanted to be addicted to sex during my undergraduate days. She later told me she was a virgin then which I never believed and I told her I am not interested in her being a virgin or not.

Fast forward to our wedding night last year, naxo amaria begin they cry my daddy, my daddy, lets do this thing nah, nah tears full bed. So I took her to see her dad the next day and both of them were crying like a baby.

We got back to our location, we made several attempts with no sex, we've seen different pharmacists, we but different lubricants, but a touch of "pola" on the honeypot area, she will start crying of pains, she's so scared to the extreme. Confession: It was after 3 months that we've been trying that I was even also able to recognise the location of virginal, I had been putting the thing in a wrong place initially. ....sorry, ain't a bookworm but a bit spirikoko

I reported her to her parents , they came, brought diiferent lubricants, still we weren't able to reach the promise land . Now we've decided to go the way of sedative drugs .

Is there any side effects to the drugs?

Do I have to get her to sign a paper cos women ain't predictable, that she won't start shouting emotional trauma in the future that her husband drugged her to have the first sex with her. We need kids mehn.

Thanks..

Went through the whole comments on the front page, unfortunately nobody told you the truth.

Let me tell you the truth... Your wife has been Genitally mutilated (circumcised). You can ask her and she will confirm it.

Circumcision is an irreversible process so you have to deal with it. Fortunately it seems you don't have a high libido so you should be able to cope.

nashito:
Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she have always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon. But to my greatest surprised, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this? I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit that ass hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & ti be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict. Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks alot

porn has nothing to do with her not liking sex. let me tell you the truth......she has been circumcised. you can ask her and hear what she will say.

Lol. But I think they should do this in the premier League and other leagues too. There is a current debate on cancelling the whole season. It will greatly affect Liverpool considering their heroics this season.

Some matches should be played behind closed doors and people can watch from home. The money they will realize from live broadcast should be reasonable enough and better than cancelling the whole season.

Stupid people. The average black man is very stubborn and difficult to control, a similar thing is happening in South Africa and they have resorted to the use of soldiers.

With this type of rebellion, i feel the government should have allowed it to spread and do some damages so that people will take them serious, but Unfortunately innocent people will suffer.

Look at the case in Italy today, i am sure if their government declares 1 year stay at home now, none of them will complain nor disobey.

I hope his account has not been hacked by one IPOB

More money

Skinnienigga:

Confirmed cases less than 10? No reported case of local transmission yet?
Are you living under a rock?

I hope you know there is a difference between reported and confirmed?
Yeah, no local transmission yet. (i mean Nigerian to Nigerian in Nigeria)

Check your mail bro
cc: ojigbijigbi

Impossible.

The lock down won't last. They will call it off before the end of next week.

I see no reason for the lock down in the first place. Confirmed cases are still less than 10 and all of them came from outside the country. No reported case of local transmission yet.

NORSYK:


Believe me I don't see Bayern Munich defeating ATM, Bayern Munich always fumble where it matters most

Bayern is on fire in the champions League this season. Their performance has been phenomenal so far.

Check out the stats; they are the only team that won all their group stage matches, claiming the maximum 18 points.

Remember how they demolished Tottenham both home and away and recently disgraced chelsea at home with 3 unreplied goals.

Bayern are out to make a statement this season and it will take a something special to stop them.

NORSYK:


Truth be told Liverpool played well and couldn't take the advantage of the chances they created, in the other hand ATM also defended well and took advantage of naive Liverpool goalkeeper.
Believe me ATM will rip Bayern Munich apart. And will use tactical approach to oust Man City

Did you say rip Bayern apart? That is an insult.

This athletico team cannot beat Bayern. They may beat city but not Bayern.

Bayern are ruthless in their attack and very good at scoring scrappy goals which are very difficult for even the best defense to mop-up. And they are not bad defensively too.

Honestly Adrian ruined this match for Liverpool. The game changed the moment he gave away that cheap goal. It demoralized the players after working so hard to score two goals and one man just rubbished all their efforts.

You are leading with 2 goals and with less than 30mins to play, yet you couldn't compose yourself. Why make a harried clearance when you could have taken your time to make a better pass. This dude needs to be shown the way out just like Karius.
I don't even know who is much worse between the two of them.

SUPERPACK:
I suspect murder or suicide here. How can a 5v USB electrocute a grown up human being, something I even put in my mouth. Even if the charger goes bad such wound looks out of it. Waiting for professionals to throw more light on the matter.

AngryIgboMan:
I have said this before and I will repeat it again;

This man may have murdered and maybe a lighter used to burn and char his hand to make it look like a charger accident.

Research has proven it over and over again that the volts contained in a phone charger cannot kill a human being. Even, how many times have we seen were an electric current killed someone? Our impulses are designed in such a way that a single shock will jolt you away in a split second to keep you safe.

If not that Nigeria is a very useless country and an irredeemable zoo filled with very hopeless people in large proportions, a forensic department of the police will be able to discover many fingerprints on this man's body.

What am I even talking about. Do we even have a police force not to talk of the forensic department? They are busy running after yahoo boys who brings money! Hopeless nation who their criminal, irresponsible politicians have stolen away there past, present and future.

As an Electrical/Electronics Engineer, I won't rule out the possibility.

Yeah, 5V cannot kill but leakages do occur. The transformerless design employed in phone chargers nowadays does not completely isolate the mains (240V) from the output (5V). Some of the diodes and other components may fail, causing the mains supply to leak.

Transformerless designs are portable and lightweight but one of its disadvantages is the possibility of HV leakage. This doesn't happen in older transformer designs because the transformer completely isolates the mains supply from the output. But they are usually bulky and not easy to carry around.

Rubbish. How many Nigerian girls can even boast of still having a clit? Majority of them have lost it through Female Genital Mutilation (circumcision).
That's the reason why they don't like nor enjoy sex and cannot experience orgasm.

Yankiss:
So after two kids and ten years you are discovering that your wife is unromantic? What and what have you tried to change the situation? Is she bleeping outside? If no, have you tried to teach her and take her out to improve the situation? Have you taken her to a counselor? She could be victim of rape or such ether sexual violence as affected her love life. In that wise only maturity and tact on your side can help matters. But from your submission, u seem not to have done anything to help matters. If it's allure of another kpekus, u will meet worse problem in no time for jilting your partner. A warning.

Guy, that woman is circumcised. Sex to such women is just for procreation only. They do not like sex because they don't enjoy it. And they dont usually have urge for sex too.