Oga for you to agree like this, that you did gra gra here in naija tells me ,that you really showed this woman pepper, you dealt with her , and for her to still carry on dis vengeance on, proved that you had killed her emotionally and psychologically, and have shattered her life, if not I don't see why a woman will be behaving like this, pls go back to those this you knew you did to her back then and fell her pain then see how you can help heal her , pls stop the fight otherwise both of you might regrets it

The man might be an Abiriba man in Abia state
they considered their siblings as their family they're responsible to more than their children and wife

finally you have out smart spirit of wasteful spending