At least the pictures are a truer reflection of what living is like in the UK,


Unlike Nigeria, the "dirts" dont mount up to become a heap.

@BEBEELOVE/MILITIA


Can you stop looking for trouble .

How could Imani claim laudate is gay?

How far laudate dear

Jackal:

@ Imani,

Arsenal havent found their free-flowing football yet just like United is yet to find their scoring form that brought 89 goals last season.
United will score goals when MANCHESTER UNITED CHRONICLES come back.
Only a fool will fail to see the threat ROONEY + SAHA + RONALDO brings into the team.
The trio had 55 goals between them last season and that speaks volume.
Babes, its not yet time to PRESS the panic buttons.

Thank you for your analysis. Goodluck with your team

I-man:

1. By that measure Wigan are better than Chelsea and Spurs are better than Arsenal-they won 4-0,remember? However way you look at it,this period offered the best opportunity for our rivals to put a gap between tham and us and they failed to grasp that opportunity.

2. If you think Arsenal are playing well at the moment,then there isn't much hope for the club.Their performances against Fulham and Blackburn were quite mediocre.

Oga Iman, let me hear word please.

1. A good game one week does not translate into a good game the next.

2. The Arsenal team have not yet found their free flowing football yet. [s]the team is still adjusting to the absence of you know who[/s]

My love for Arsenal not not mean i am hopelessly immune to their faults

Jackal:

@ Imani,

CHELSEA is the only THREAT to MAN UTD.
I don't care if City wins their next dozen games without conceding. They will fade off by WINTER.
CHELSEA is the only team that can embark on a 25 winning streak and that will be a worry for MAN UTD.
Any other team at the pole position is just flattering to deceive.
DONT believe the hype . . . . . . . UNITED & CHELSEA are the occupants of the top 2 spots.
Man City will ve evacuated when Wazza and Ronaldo returns.
.

We will see about that. There are 35/36 games to go.

There is no guarantee that the top two will be Chelsea and Man Utd this season. The game can kick you in the teeth,  like they say. Let United keep dropping points and losing games.

In the game of football, "you are only as good as your last game".

I-man:

If you know anything about footie,you will know that the gap between Utd and City is insignificant.What is significant is the gap between Spurs and Arsenal.They finished one place behind you over the last 2 seasons.You better keep an eye on them since they have been running you close for 2 seasons in a row   I can't wait.  

Never mind about Spurs Spurs in the Champions league? you are having a laugh

Their case is simply that of " being so near, yet so far"

I-man:

Abi na 1 point dey seperate una from Spurs Only One point ;DGames plenty!With a wonderful keeper in Lehman,its only a matter of time

Look who is talking

Have you seen the table recently and seen the gap between u guys and City?

BABEELOVE:

You hear say I be lesbian  What does that mean  Na you no get designation of your sex in your profile--so please my hands are clean oh! Of course it was Donzman that started all this love game bologna!

You mean the one and only Donzman made such allegations

Why am i not surprised 

Oga I-man imposter

Mind your own business. No need to take medicine for Arsenals headaches. Thank you

Lehman is begining to remind me of David Seaman with too many gaffes

Everytime the ball is near Lehman these days, i begin to cringe

I think grandma can do a better job than him at the moment.

We dont want the fans to start singing, "with Lehman on thier side, who needs a striker"

Well done spurs!!! 

Even if it is only Derby.

PTH:

My dear, after a few years of unsuccessfully using the pigeon theory and[b] watching other guys fly away with my pigeons [/b] i have since decided to modify it. Once you catch a pigeon, tie it down!

Oga PTH,

How could your pigeons have flown away from you to other guys and you didn't do anything who dumped who

@topic,

Some men take a LONG time to grow up.

A relationship period is supposed to be a time of "happy" companionship and when you get to a stage where you are having doubts, please thread carefully. Your instincts are probably right but love they say is blind.

Afam and PTH,

You guys need to calm down.

Please dont let every thread you post in turn to settling personal scores or scoring points.

The original post asks some questions that affects us as a nation. Let us try to exchange ideas and learn from others rather than fight all the time.

Anyone that doesnt have anything to contribute should move on.

callycute:

Wouldn't it be a wise thing to do to find out first at least before passing any comments bassed on your assumptions? or don't you all reason so?

They are pasing comments because there are lots of such adverts on this forum so it is difficult to distinguish the genuine agents from fake ones.

Young man,

1 wife is just enough to handle not to mention 4. except you want to go to an early grave

Rather than think about wives now, you are still young. Face your education and by the time you are 25, you will come to realise that you may not need more one wife.

Afam:

@Imani,

Abeg, my name na Afam, leave the oga part I take Jehovah beg you

O yes, we have past issues. Nobody is spoiling for a fight, at least not with this guy.

And to be honest I cannot stand his posts, finds it difficult to understand issues and yet will use that as a basis to insult others.

See the first few lines of the post I responded to and you will see where I am coming from.

If he is wondering if the article was written by Afam after all the correspondences thus far why should I bother taking such an individual serious.

You guys have past issues. I didnt realise that.

I checked your blog and thought it was interesting.

Femi Micah - Praise along

Tottenham strikers have remembered where the goal post is. Praise in the highest

doncaster:

For me i will not marry an osu and will not be friend their girl to avoid mistake. i do not want to be ostracized by my own family.

It is very very easy to say it that you will marry an osu than marrying an osu. I have a Rev father in my parish that preach against the osu cast system but when his brother wanted to marry he was the first that raised the issue of the osu for his family to go and find out about the girls family.
.

1. Even if you really love a lady only to discover she is osu, you will break up the relationship?

2. As for reverend, typical of some nigerian leaders, "do as i say and not as i do".

Afam:

@chidichris,

Work on your diction, it is terrible, you don't make sense.

You find it supremely difficult to understand issues and it is affecting you seriously.

Do have a lovely weekend.

Haba, Oga afam, that was harsh. Chidichris only brought in another dimension to your original post. Except you guys have previous issues

Why is everyone spoiling for a fight on nairaland these days?

chiogo:

Lol @Imani, u got a clone right there.
@Youngdice$, OmG, what are u talkin' about?? how u know i like ghetto boys?? My friend lives in brooklyn by d way. I do not like ghetto whatsoever or ghetto boys if that's what they're now called. Infact am scared of 'em. This dude brought a gun to school and he's from naija, they locked his ass up and he was an A-student, supposed to graduate in june but got locked up in april i think. never graduated. They fined a $1000 on his ass, nobody was ready to pay, i think he's still there. so u see, am scared of ghetto folks but i do see ghetto stuff a lot at my school.

That clone is I-man aka 4play

Paw-Paw:

I see diaper changers are still thinking may be I was refused visa. Is only an idiot who will think that the only way to make money is to emigrate. I am a prime example that you can make it in naija without stealing govt money. I have more money than many of the people shouting "God bless America". I have travelled all over the world so am not jealouse if you live in Europe or America. The only place I've not visited is the moon. No country will refuse me visa because am an employer and not somebody hoping to do "boi boi".

Congratulations!!! At least, according to your claims, you are making your money honestly.

Being an employer, however, is no guarantee to getting a visa. Most times, it is easier to get visas outside Nigeria than from Nigeria.  

Not all who live abroad do sub standard jobs, some have very good jobs and still have properties in Nigeria. It is a case of being lucky and having the right opportunities.

I-man:

Imposter! Imposter!

You don dey craze sir!!

chiogo:

lol, am home now. hey, i thought u said u were in naija?? are u back already??

hey, Imani, good of u to teach him. that's what i try to do.

Please don't give up on him

YOUNGDICE$:

but 4 real tough u need to teach me how to speak with so much sense as you do.

It is not hard to be sensible, sometimes, you just need the right people around you.

Despite your image on nairaland, i dont believe you are the "hater" some people make you out to be. It is probably more of being "conditioned" by the environment you grew up in. We all were like that at some stage.

If you are truly on medication, please make sure you take them and also try to be positive always. In terms of goals, if you can see it you can do it.

One last note, not every question or person on nairaland deserves an answer. Sometimes "silence" speaks louder than words.

YOUNGDICE$:

damn girl u got me running arround naked on the street u talk too sexy 4 real.

Hmmm, mr man, make sure you dont do anything silly ok?

YOUNGDICE$:

yall talk with soo much sensitive i never hear a girl speak like that in my life,all i hear is nigga u need to stop fucking around and take your medicine.

Well, was what i said positive or what you have always heard before?

My intention was just to make you just calm down and see that you have a whole life ahead of you. And you can do anything you want to do, as long as you are focused and committed.

I have a younger brother around your age, hence the "sisterly" role. Sorry if you took it out of context.

YOUNGDICE$:

@Imani wow naija girls are really educated.

Don't understand

k0be:

laudate no mind them, na jealousy. they understand the dull nature of the stereotypical threads they create, and they know you won't allow them the chance to flaunt their hypocrisy, so they've decided to stop at nothing until they make you miserable. Not to worry though, them no go succeed. Thunda faya them!

So much love on Niaraland these days!!!

Afam:

My article seeks to highlight the problems we have as a people, after all people make up the government.

When Mr A will rather fight and curse than accept a clear mistake it sends a very dangerous signal and that is why I wondered if our leaders have not been doing the same thing, living in denial refusing to accept their mistakes etc.

So, I do not believe that Nigeria is even hopeless, rather I think that we are all responsible for any short comings we see in this country based on our own attitudes.

Maybe it is because we live in a society where accountability is never really practiced. Once you are an "oga", it gives you a license to do anything without being questioned. And to be questioned by a "junior" or a younger person insinuates an "insult" on your authority. Nigerians, i have noticed don't take kindly to being reprimanded.

Some of the attitudes are also a reflection of the family and social settings. How many parents can admit to their children that they are wrong? In a hierarchy system, where age determines a lot of things, then accountability, except to superiors is non existent. That is why most of our leaders never bother to inform the people the reasons for some of their actions despite the fact that we live in democratic times and the people actually elect these leaders.

Until we move to a system, whereby, people that hold public offices can be held accountable and when there is a breach and there is proper disciplinary measures in place, then we will have people getting away with a lot of stuff. We also need to get to a stage whereby the best person gets the job, not necessarily because they are older and have "experience" but because, fresh ideas are needed. Everyone should have an equal chance of getting to the top.

But knowing Nigerians, once someone is coming up and trying to be different from the norm, the "enemies" attack and then we are back to square one and going round in cycles. Like someone said, a change is coming, but might require a revolution. Since nobody wants to die, well, i guess we can always hope.

Iyke-D:

You can bet your last Naira that Paw Paw is not on that dying list, its just the usual gra-gra that
Nigerians home and abroad like to make - its our trademark!

We make too much mouth in this country.

All talk and no action.

YOUNGDICE$:

i take medecine evry day if i walk out the house without taking those medecine i think i will go the jail for the rest of my life,and i got allot of dream.

YOUNGDICE$:

she got on my nerve am not a type of dude that like cursing people out or like to show people how gansta i am,but i got high blood presure i could kill someone easily.

Biko, Please try to take your medications all the time. It will save you. Seriously, you take things too seriously and can be unstable.

You said you have a lot of dreams, dont let it die a premature death. Stay out of trouble and learn to ignore people . No offence is intended.