Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,178,738 members, 7,905,734 topics. Date: Tuesday, 30 July 2024 at 05:20 PM

IsmailVasiti's Posts

Nairaland Forum / IsmailVasiti's Profile / IsmailVasiti's Posts

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)

Crime / It Was Attempted Rape – Cynthia’s Friend, Anita Finally Reveals. by IsmailVasiti: 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2019
After all the brouhaha of the past hour about the False Allegation of Rape by Cynthia and a twitter user @ynotes.

Cynthia’s friend, Anita, has finally responded.

In case you missed the story, Click here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/cynthias-rape-story-how-twitter-is-reacting-to-the-false-allegation-of-a-19-yr-old/

Meanwhile, here are the characters in this story

Anita is the friend of Cynthia that got raped.

Cynthia was the one that posted the story on Twitter

Ynotes is the guy that was accused and his taking them to court.

After the uproar the recordings caused, Anita who is a major character in this story has come out to declare that “Rape did take place“

Here’s what she said transpired: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/it-was-attempted-rape-cynthias-friend-anita-finally-reveals/
Crime / Re: Cynthia’s Rape Story: How Twitter Reacted To The False Allegation Of A 19-yr Old by IsmailVasiti: 4:46pm On Oct 14, 2019
kenddys:
pics please

Crime / Cynthia’s Rape Story: How Twitter Reacted To The False Allegation Of A 19-yr Old by IsmailVasiti: 4:14pm On Oct 14, 2019
If you haven’t read the Cynthia Story or have no idea who Cynthia is. Here is the full story: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/the-cynthia-rape-story-the-lie-that-may-put-a-19-year-old-in-jail/

Meanwhile, a summary of the story.

In case you dey wonder why Anita, Tega, Cynthia and she's 19 dey trend come here let me yarn u.
���

Guy knack Anita.

Anita go tell her friend, Cynthia say guy rape am.

Cynthia come for twitter as usual say men na scum and say guy na rapist.

Guy takes matter to court.



A lady by the name of Cynthia came out in September to accuse a guy of raping a Friend of hers, Anita, on twitter and expected the guy to settle them.

But the guy did the unexpected (for most guys in that situation), he took the matter to court and this singular action made Cynthia and her friend understand that


And Cynthia could end up in Jail.

So, Cynthia along with two friends went to meet the accused guy for settlement.

Listen to how it went down here.

Meanwhile, when the guy posted all the recordings of the meeting…Twitter went up in flames.


Everyone had an opinion.

It’s safe to say most people had a few colorful words to say about the False Rape Allegation by Cynthia.

See twitter reactions : https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/cynthias-rape-story-how-twitter-is-reacting-to-the-false-allegation-of-a-19-yr-old/
Crime / Tasued Student Poisoned By Close Friend - Video by IsmailVasiti: 3:58pm On Oct 14, 2019
Sanni Iyabo, an Instagram comedian and a student of Tai Solarin University of Education, Ijebu-Ode has exposed her fake friend who tried to kill her with sniper after stealing N57k from her account.

According to her, the young boy, identified as Efy Nwamama on IG is her friend and partner in the comedy business, but out of envy that she’s about to ‘blow’ before him, he had to take drastic steps to end her life. Something she never imagined could happen.


Sharing photos of the culprit after he was caught, she shared;

After stealing my money, he went ahead and poured sniper in my drink and food, d little I ate out of d food caused me a lot of harm last week but I thank God for life. We have been so cool to you, I even suspected someone else. This guy no want make I blow…I had to deceive him here….but what if I let him go and he hurt me in future?am so sad he wanted to kill I and Mario Talker.

Watch Video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/tasued-student-poisoned-by-friend-and-partner/

Crime / The Cynthia Rape Story – See Why This 19 Year Old Girl Is Going To Prison!!! by IsmailVasiti: 3:24pm On Oct 14, 2019
The streets of social media is raging hot with a lie that could land a 19 year old girl in jail for up to ten years.

About a month ago, September 4th to be precise, two young girls, Anita and Cynthia falsely and publicly accused a young man who goes by the username @ynotes_ on twitter, of rape.

All in a bid to get hush money from the guy.

However, the plan grossly backfired.

@ynotes_ took to the same social media platform in a series of rants to raise alarm, and increase awareness over the issue.

@ynotes_ eventually had to resort to taking legal action against both girls, as they refused to refute or withdraw their false accusation.

Since then, things have only taken a turn for the worst, for both ladies.

Read the full story and watch video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/the-cynthia-rape-story-the-lie-that-may-put-a-19-year-old-in-jail/
Nairaland / General / The Cynthia Rape Story – See Why This 19 Year Old Girl is Going To Prison!!! by IsmailVasiti: 2:24pm On Oct 14, 2019
The streets of social media is raging hot with a lie that could land a 19 year old girl in jail for up to ten years.

About a month ago, September 4th to be precise, two young girls, Anita and Cynthia falsely and publicly accused a young man who goes by the username @ynotes_ on twitter, of rape.

All in a bid to get hush money from the guy.

However, the plan grossly backfired.

@ynotes_ took to the same social media platform in a series of rants to raise alarm, and increase awareness over the issue.

@ynotes_ eventually had to resort to taking legal action against both girls, as they refused to refute or withdraw their false accusation.

Since then, things have only taken a turn for the worst, for both ladies.

Read the full story and watch video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/the-cynthia-rape-story-the-lie-that-may-put-a-19-year-old-in-jail/
Politics / See What Is Happening To Nigeria!!!! (PICTURES) by IsmailVasiti: 10:46am On Oct 11, 2019
It is Friday, and that means another week is coming to a close. You should not end the week without catching up on Nigerian news. To make it super easy to catch up, here are ten Nigerian News Headlines you probably missed.

1. Sowore unable to meet bail conditions.

The convener of #RevolutionNow protest, Omoyele Sowore and his co-defendant Olawale Bakare; charged with treasonable felony have still not been able meet the conditions attached to the bail; which wasgranted them on October 4, 2019 by a Federal High Court in Abuja.

On Wednesday, their lawyers decided to return to court to seek a reduction in the bail conditions to those which the defendants could readily meet.

2. NYSC arrests 95 graduates with fake certificates.

The Director-General of the National Youth Service Corps, Brigadier General Shuaibu Ibrahim; revealed that about 95 graduates with fake certificates from both Nigerian and foreign universities; were apprehended and handed to security agencies during the last orientation exercise.

Just as he threatened to blacklist any institution caught including the names of unqualified persons for mobilization into the NYSC.

3.Army to demand identity cards from Nigerians.

Henceforth, Nigerians will be requested to carry identification cards to prove their identity to the military as the Nigerian Army begins quick profiling of citizens under a new military exercise, codenamed: Operation Positive Identification.

The exercise, according to the Chief of Army Staff (COAS), Lt.-Gen. Tukur Buratai, is to uncover those with questionable identities.

He said the operation will also stop dislodged and fleeing insurgents from accessing peaceful zones.

4. Borno hires ‘juju’ hunters to battle Boko Haram.

Borno State Governor Babagana Zulum has engaged over 1,000 hunters with supernatural powers to battle Boko Haram.

This comes after last week’s engagement of Imams from Saudi Arabia to pray against the continued attack by Boko Haram on the state.

Read more and see pictures here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/the-big-ten-ten-nigerian-news-headlines-you-missed-this-week/
Romance / BB Naija Is Destroying My Marriage by IsmailVasiti: 1:09pm On Oct 10, 2019
Sometimes, you think you have seen it all; meanwhile you have not even seen half of it.

Reality shows can be real enough, but that is exactly just what they are: shows. There’s nothing wrong in enjoying such, really. The problem arises when you start to mix up your real life with the things you watch.

You’ll understand soon enough, on today’s agony aunt series.

Let’s take a look at this mail I got sometime this week;

Dear Agony Aunt,
I have been married for three years, no kids yet; and we have been very happy. My wife is a very big fan of Big Brother Naija, but that is not even the issue.

When the show was still on, if something happens to any of her favourites in the house, she will take it out on me. She can just be moody and start giving me attitude. Just because of Big Brother Naija.

Everything became worse when Tacha was disqualified. Ah, this woman will not cook, clean or do anything. She is just eternally angry.

Read more here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/agony-aunt-series-look-what-big-brother-naija-caused/
Education / #sexforgrades: Unilag's Dr. Boniface Attempts Suicide!!! by IsmailVasiti: 1:12pm On Oct 08, 2019
So many things have happened just in the past 24 hours:
1. BBC released a #SexForGrades documentary which exposed UNILAG lecturer, Dr. Boniface.
2. Dr. Boniface bags suspension; and UNILAG shuts down the Cold Room.
3. ASUU is still quiet over this matter, and Twitter is boiling HOT.
However, the #SexForGrades trend does not stop there. Unilag’s Dr. Boniface, the lecturer/pastor that was exposed in the documentary has allegedly attempted suicide.

He has been rushed to the hospital where he is being closely monitored.

Of course, you know Twitter is literally buzzing about this.

Take a look: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sexforgrades-unilags-dr-boniface-attempts-suicide/
Education / #sexforgrades: See Why ASUU Is Still Quiet; And How Twitter Reacted!!!. by IsmailVasiti: 12:32pm On Oct 08, 2019
In light of the #SexForGrades scandal that rocked the country yesterday; people have been calling for the Federal Government of Nigeria to pass a bill against sexual harassment on campus; in addition to investigating the issue.

However, Nigerians are wondering about the prolonged silence of key actors in the education sector most especially the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU).

In 2016, the union kicked vehemently against the sexual harassment bill proposed by the Senate, insisting that the focus be on dress code instead.

This, in addition to the union’s silence over the #SexForGrades scandal, has raised the question of ASUU’s possible involvement in the matter; and has also been interpreted as the union’s effort to protect it’s members.

Let’s see how twitter reacted: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sexforgrades-asuus-possible-involvement-and-how-twitter-is-reacting/
Education / See What UNILAG Did To The #sexforgrades Lecturer by IsmailVasiti: 12:02pm On Oct 08, 2019
The thirteen minute long #SexForGrades video released by BBC Africa Eye yesterday, exposed Dr. Boniface; a UNILAG lecturer and Four Square Gospel church head pastor. Dr. Boniface Igbeneghu.


The University of Lagos has announced the shut down of the Cold Room, where lecturers allegedly harass students sexually.

The University has suspended Dr. Boniface, and also barred him from campus academic areas.

In a statement signed by Mrs Taiwo Oloyede, the Principal Assistant Registrar (Communication Unit), the University stressed that the so-called Cold Room is a Functions Room that may have been abused and used for other devious purposes other than meetings, seminars, events, etc for which it was created.

In addition, the University assures members of the public that it will suspend any other lecturer mentioned in the full version of the #SexForGrades documentary.

Meanwhile, haven’t watched the video? See it here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sex-for-grades-unilag-lecturer-pastor-casted/

Celebrities / #tacharebranded – Three Things Tacha Did After Leaving Bbn That Shocked Us! by IsmailVasiti: 4:55pm On Oct 07, 2019
it has been one week and some days since Tacha was disqualified from the Big Brother Naija reality show; and it is still all about Tacha, Tacha, Tacha. Titans are really not playing.

1. Davido’s OBO tattoo is gone.
New brand, new Tacha. Tacha removed the tattoo of Davido’s face that she had done in between her breasts; and it is safe to say that her fans are loving it!

2. Her genuine goodwill messages about the BBN top five.
In light of the BBN finale yesterday, Tacha took to her Instagram page to write what she would have told the top five before she left.

Read more and see twitter reactions here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/tacharebranded-three-things-tacha-did-after-leaving-bbn-that-shocked-us/

Education / Re: Dr Boniface And All The Other Sexforgrades Twitter Stories You Missed by IsmailVasiti: 4:31pm On Oct 07, 2019
The story cracked me up big time
paparazzi1987:
lol.! remembered when a lecturer from EKSU was asking my wife for sex over a carried-over 2 unit course. I went to the man and begged him with 5K , which he accepted.

Few weeks later after everything has been resolved with my hard-earned five thousand naira. I organised a very prestigious beating for this man. He was beaten to stupor at a bear joint. Myself and my wife visited him in the Hospital with Milo and 6 three crown milk.

Right now am so sure he will be wondering what could warrant such a wonderful and melodious beating. Even my wife was not aware as at that time.

1 Like

Education / Dr Boniface And All The Other Sexforgrades Twitter Stories You Missed by IsmailVasiti: 3:23pm On Oct 07, 2019
Dr Boniface Known as Mr "Lock the door-OFF-THE-LIGHT-I will Kiss you for one minute"

Like the Pandora’s box with a rusty lock, all hell was let loose when Nigerians saw the faces of Sexual Predators who work as Lecturers in one of Nigeria’s most prestigious Universities.

The University of Lagos.

And as usual, Social media is having a field day and the name, Dr. Boniface Igbeneghu, a University of Lagos Lecturer who works in the French Department in the Faculty of Arts has gone viral.

For all the wrong reasons...

[https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sexforgrades-unilags-dr-boniface-and-how-the-whole-of-twitter-reacted/]

Education / This UNILAG Lecturer/pastor Asks Students For Sex In Exchange For Marks - VIDEO by IsmailVasiti: 12:33pm On Oct 07, 2019
On Monday, BBC Africa Eye’s released a documentary targeting lecturers in some West African universities who harass their female students for sex in exchange for marks.

After numerous testimonies, BBC Africa Eye sent undercover journalists; disguised as students inside the University of Lagos and the University of Ghana.

Senior lecturers at both institutions sexually harassed and pressured the female reporters; who all wore secret cameras on them in a 13-minutes video documentary that was released.

One of the culprits exposed is a UNILAG senior lecturer, Faculty of Arts; who is also the head pastor of a Foursquare Gospel Church in Lagos, Dr. Boniface Igbeneghu.

he undercover journalist posed as a 17-year-old student who wanted an admission at the University of Lagos.

Igbeneghu, who invited the teenager to his office for tutorials, subsequently began to have inappropriate conversations with her.

On their first meeting, he wasted no time in commenting on her appearance.

In the 13-minutes secret filming, the lecturer revealed how his colleagues tossed and passed around UNILAG female students for sex.

SEE VIDEO HERE: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sex-for-grades-unilag-lecturer-pastor-casted/

Crime / This UNILAG Lecturer/pastor Asks Students For Sex In Exchange For Marks - VIDEO by IsmailVasiti: 11:51am On Oct 07, 2019
On Monday, BBC Africa Eye’s released a documentary targeting lecturers in some West African universities who harass their female students for sex in exchange for marks.

After numerous testimonies, BBC Africa Eye sent undercover journalists; disguised as students inside the University of Lagos and the University of Ghana.

Senior lecturers at both institutions sexually harassed and pressured the female reporters; who all wore secret cameras on them in a 13-minutes video documentary that was released.

One of the culprits exposed is a UNILAG senior lecturer, Faculty of Arts; who is also the head pastor of a Foursquare Gospel Church in Lagos, Dr. Boniface Igbeneghu.


The undercover journalist posed as a 17-year-old student who wanted an admission at the University of Lagos.

Igbeneghu, who invited the teenager to his office for tutorials, subsequently began to have inappropriate conversations with her.

Read more and watch video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sex-for-grades-unilag-lecturer-pastor-casted/
Crime / This UNILAG Lecturer/pastor Asks Students For Sex In Exchange For Marks - VIDEO by IsmailVasiti: 11:32am On Oct 07, 2019
On Monday, BBC Africa Eye’s released a documentary targeting lecturers in some West African universities who harass their female students for sex in exchange for marks.

After numerous testimonies, BBC Africa Eye sent undercover journalists; disguised as students inside the University of Lagos and the University of Ghana.

Senior lecturers at both institutions sexually harassed and pressured the female reporters; who all wore secret cameras on them in a 13-minutes video documentary that was released.

One of the culprits exposed is a UNILAG senior lecturer, Faculty of Arts; who is also the head pastor of a Foursquare Gospel Church in Lagos, Dr. Boniface Igbeneghu.


The undercover journalist posed as a 17-year-old student who wanted an admission at the University of Lagos.

Igbeneghu, who invited the teenager to his office for tutorials, subsequently began to have inappropriate conversations with her.

Read more and watch video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/sex-for-grades-unilag-lecturer-pastor-casted/

Nairaland / General / Hult Prize 2019 – Win One Million Dollars! by IsmailVasiti: 5:30pm On Oct 04, 2019
Hult Prize is an annual global student based competition organised by Hult International Business School in partnership with the United Nations and the 42nd President of the United States of America, Bill Clinton.

Hult Prize primarily aims at supporting ideas that can generate businesses and change the world with a whooping one million dollars.

On Thursday, 19th of September 2019, OAU organized an Information Session with over 100 students in attendance.

The 4 phases of the competition are:
The on- campus stage
The regionals
The accelerator
The Grand Finals
To be eligible for participation, new teams should register here : http://HultPrizeat.com/Obafemi

Deadline for registration: 9th November, 2019
The Hult Prize team Coordinators will mentor and also support registered teams through team trainings.

The Oncampus event is set to hold in Obafemi Awolowo University on November 15th and 16th. After that, top teams from the competition will represent OAU in the Regional Finals stage.

In addition, registered teams will have 6 minutes to pitch their ideas to High Profile Judges on the Event day.

For more information and enquires about the Hult Prize Oncampus event in Obafemi Awolowo University, kindly send a mail to hultprizeoau@gmail.com or contact the Campus Director on 09033633966.

Politics / Ten Nigerian News Headlines You Should Know This Week. by IsmailVasiti: 5:12pm On Oct 04, 2019
1. Court grants Sowore bail at 100 million Naira.

A Federal High Court in Abuja has granted bail to politician and convener of #RevolutionNow protest, Omoyele Sowore and his co-defendant, Olawale Adebayo Bakare.

The conditions of bail for Sowore include 100 million Naira and two sureties in like sum; prohibition from traveling out of Abuja.

2. Facebook removes accounts from Nigeria, Egypt, others.

Facebook has removed 443 Facebook accounts and 125 Instagram accounts; 200 pages and 76 groups stemming from UAE, Egypt, Nigeria and Indonesia as well.
According to the company, these accounts were involved in coordinated inauthentic behaviour.

3. Buhari and Ramaphosa sign Agreement over xenophobic attacks.

Several weeks after Xenophobic attacks on Nigerians in South Africa, Nigerian president, Buhari travelled on a 3 day visit to South Africa on Wednesday.

They agreed that early warning mechanisms will be set to detect hostility between citizens of both countries, and Buhari also assured that there would be compensation for victims.

Up to 32 agreements were signed.

4. IPOB members protest against President Buhari in South Africa.

Indigenous People of Biafra members led protests outside the Union Buildings in Pretoria, South Africa’s seat of presidency, during President Muhammadu Buhari’s visit. The South African police later confronted them with guns and tear gas.

Read more: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/the-big-ten-10-nigerian-news-headlines-you-should-know-this-week/
Crime / CRUTECH Final Year Student Killed - SEE PHOTO by IsmailVasiti: 9:47am On Oct 04, 2019
Three months after the leader of Clans cult group was killed after his exam in Cross River University of Technology; another student of the school has been murdered.

Some students of the school claim that the killing may have been to avenge the death of the Clans leader back in July 2019

The victim is rumoured to be the leader of cult group. He was killed on campus during the school’s Cultural Week celebration.

Romance / My Girlfriend Does Not Attract Me Anymore! by IsmailVasiti: 11:34am On Oct 03, 2019
It is another week of Agony aunt, and we’ll be looking at attraction.

What even is attraction? Everyday we hear people talking about attraction this, attraction that. Talking about I still love her, but I do not feel attracted to her.

Let’s look at this mail a guy sent me last week:
Dear Agony Aunt,
My fianceé and I have been dating for the past three years, and we have been living together since the very beginning of our relationship. I love her with all my heart, God knows I do, but I just do not feel attracted to her anymore. She does not appeal to me anymore.

Read more here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/agony-aunt-series-i-am-not-attracted-to-my-girlfriend-anymore
Nairaland / General / These 7 Private University Rules Will Shock You by IsmailVasiti: 4:24pm On Oct 02, 2019
There’s an ever ongoing debate about Private Universities; Are they too strict? Are they worth it? Can you even have fun? And the most asked question: Is there freedom?

Let’s not forget the rules part. These schools have the most annoying rules. Here are five most amusing rules of Private Universities:

1. Guys can’t hug girls after 7 pm

Yes, you read that right., Male students are not allowed to hug female students from 7 pm in Joseph Ayo Babalola University. Any student caught doing so will undergo community service in the university bakery.

2. Students cannot wear Jeans and Chinos

Covenant University has some of the strangest rules that can land you either suspension or expulsion. According to the University’s handbook, students are not allowed to wear Jeans, Chinos and also Corduroy materials

3. You can’t wear Designer glasses and local beads

In Al-Hikmat University, an Islamic institution in Nigeria, students are not allowed to wear designer glasses and local beads. Don’t ask me why.

4. Female students cannot use fashion accessories

The Mountain of Fire University, run by the Church that established it. This university frowns at the use of certain fashion accessories like necklaces, chains and hand bands.

Also, the skirt hems female students must be 2-4 inches below the knee.

5. Female students cannot wear long hairstyles

Babcock University does not allow its female students to wear long hairstyles on campus. When a student fixes attachment or weave to her hair, the university rules say the extension must not exceed her neck area.

6. Faculty dress Code

Each faculty has a dress code in Afe Babalola University, Ado Ekiti, and it is compulsory to comply. For instance, those in Sciences put on cream-coloured shirts with trousers to match.

7. Listening to worldly music is a very big crime.

At Covenant University, listening to worldly music is a very serious offence that could get students suspended from the school. The university frowns at secular music and will never allow its students to be destroyed by such entertainment.
Education / Easy Scholarships For You!!! by IsmailVasiti: 2:14pm On Sep 27, 2019
What better way to study that course in that dream country than scholarships? Good thing we are bringing a lot of scholarship opportunities your way!

As usual, we have come through for you with ones you just may not like to miss:

Click here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/scholarship-opportunities-just-for-you/

Nairaland / General / Masquerade Sniffing Cocaine On The Road In Ondo State!!!!!! by IsmailVasiti: 11:08am On Sep 27, 2019
Masquerades are a common part of some Nigerian cultures; what is not so common however, is a masquerade leaving his duties for a quick fix.
Don’t believe me? Take a look at the video here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/even-masquerades-need-a-break/

Baba has other pressing needs to attend to hahaha.

I remember one time I was going home from a friend’s house; I saw masquerades from afar holding cane, very long cane o. Trust me now, I quickly crossed to the other side of the road, and took the longest route home. But I didn’t care o.

Anyway, you know social media will be buzzing about this. Here’s what some people had to say: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/even-masquerades-need-a-break/
Hold up! Someone really said the gods are not to blame, haha. Somebody should seize his phone.

This happened in Ondo State. The same state that a man climbed mast just to sleep! It really must be something in their water.

Did you miss that? No worries, you will find it here https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/look-what-this-man-did-just-to-sleep/
Nairaland / General / This Man Climbed Mast Just To Sleep!!! by IsmailVasiti: 10:55am On Sep 27, 2019
One question: how far will you go just to sleep. Weird question? Think again.
Apparently some people will do whatever it takes to sleep; even if that means climbing a mast!

Local man in Ondo State was tired and decided to sleep on a mast!

Mast o. Okay.

He’s taking a power nap on a power line. See what I did there? Okay, never mind.


click here to see the full video https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/look-what-this-man-did-just-to-sleep/
Romance / My boyfriend does not give me anything! by IsmailVasiti: 2:05pm On Sep 26, 2019
Relationships come with a lot of twists and turns, and can be complicated sometimes, and that is what the agony aunt series helps you with.
Compromise, – sounds like a really big word, does it not? Everyday you hear, relationships are all about compromise – well, true, but, can all things actually be compromised? What do you think?

Before you answer that,
Let’s take a look at this e-mail i got from a young lady:

Dear Agony Aunt,
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We actually met through a mutual friend two months before we became official. Although, generally, the relationship is good, and he is a really nice guy; I have one issue that has been bothering me for a while now.
My boyfriend does not buy me things, and before you all start saying my boyfriend is not my father or bank or whatever; I do buy him things. I personally believe in giving your partner small, unexpected gifts here and there, instead of waiting for special occasions.
Special occasion or no special occasion, i do not get anything. Anything at all.
We are both working, so it is not like he does not have a source of income. There are times when he says he is broke, and i do give him money that i don’t even collect back. It gets really tiring when you are the only one putting effort in a particular area, or when there is no reciprocation.
All i want is to be spoiled, or at least buy me something once in a while, even if it is a small perfume or chocolate, or food! One of my male friends told me that guys buy gifts for girls they really like or value. Does that mean I am in a one-sided relationship?
This thing is eating me up, and i do not even know how to approach the issue with him.

Now, this was my take on it:

Dear friend,
It would be a lie if i told you that....
Click here to continue reading: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/agony-aunt-series-he-doesnt-give-me-anything/
Education / Jabu Vs Abuad by IsmailVasiti: 11:31am On Sep 26, 2019
Let us do something real quick; imagine there are only two universities in Nigeria - not possible, yes, but that's why we have our imagination. Those two universities are, wait for it, Afe Babalola University and Joseph Ayo Babalola University. See? There are even similarities. That's not all o; you have to pick one campus.
Did you know: in ABUAD, there are different dress codes for the different faculties; The students in the faculty of sciences have a dress code of cream- coloured shirts, according to reports.
Did you know: in JABU, male students are not allowed to hug any female student from 7 pm?

Well, now you do.

Read more and defend your school here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/campus-conflict-abuad-or-jabu/

Nairaland / General / Real Madrid Is Now In Nigeria! by IsmailVasiti: 10:23am On Sep 26, 2019
Football fans will be the most excited about this, and before you ask, no, it is not a joke. The treasure base of the nation - Rivers State- has indeed partnered with Real Madrid to open a Real Madrid Football academy in the state.

As usual, Nigerians have taken to the ever busy streets of social media to air their views and opinions on this.

While some are convinced that this new development will not last for long because of corruption, others seem to think that kidnappers are going to use this as a new opportunity to make more money by abducting trainers, haha, Nigerians sha!

Read more and see more pictures here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/real-madrid-is-officially-in-nigeria/

Education / How To Pass That Student Visa Interview by IsmailVasiti: 9:58am On Sep 26, 2019
Are you considering enrolling in that cool university or college in the United States of America? or do you want to go for your Master’s program in the U.S? Are you preparing for that Student Interview visa? Then this article is for you.

There are a lot of sob stories involved at the end of Student Visa interviews; I know someone that has been denied a Student Visa twice. Do not let that be your story. I am 100 percent sure that if she had seen this article earlier, there would not have been any problems whatsoever. But guess who is lucky to come across this? you, and all the friends you are going to share this article with.

REASONS MANY VISA APPLICANTS ARE DENIED
There are a number of reasons for denial of F1 Visa to applicants. For those of you who do not know what an F1 Visa is, it is a visa issued to International students attending an academic program in a U.S University or College. Typically, these visas are valid for up to 5 years, but sometimes, they do expire in less than 5 years.

Many F1 Visa applicants are denied either because they are not qualified; that is, not having the right academic records; or they may be indeed qualified, but did not prepare well for the interview. Either way, this article helps you to do just that.

Apart from not being qualified or prepared, many students fail the student visa interview because they were asked questions they did not expect, and of course had no answer to.

DO NOT LET DENIAL BE YOUR INTERVIEW STORY
But do not worry, we have tips and question guidelines for you. Just check them out, and you are good to go!

Read more here: https://www.magazine.vasiti.com/how-to-pass-that-student-visa-interview/

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 86
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.