Gloryr:



IIIdiot


What do you want her to do??...carry the grudge for years??...of you dont believe in repentance and second chance.... every man/woman deserves a second chance if they are genuinely sorry..

People like you will advise your sisters and relatives to stay with a proud unapologetic manbut here you are forming voltron and castigating a woman that choose to be christlike and forgiving.

FCCCK YOU and whatever you represent

Do you even know what "genuinely" means?

People die in their marriages because of people like you. Hope you'll be there to block the punches next time he tries to lay his hands on her. Because it's easy for you to chase someone back into a situation you wouldn't love to be in yourself. Mr Christlike.

Gloryr:



IIIdiot


What do you want her to do??...carry the grudge for years??...of you dont believe in repentance and second chance.... every man/woman deserves a second chance if they are genuinely sorry..

People like you will advise your sisters and relatives to stay with a proud unapologetic manbut here you are forming voltron and castigating a woman that choose to be christlike and forgiving.

FCCCK YOU and whatever you represent

Do you even know what "genuinely" means?

People die in their marriages because of people like you. Hope you'll be there to block the punches next time he tries to lay his hands on her. Because it's easy for you to chasw someone back into a situation you wouldn't love to be in yourself. Mr Christlike.

affable4:
This issue of battering is so complicated. Why?
Women can run mouth and make a man to commit murder.
But then, if you are a man and can't control your anger, forget about marriage.

There's nothing complicated about it. Men run their mouths too and nobody murders them for it. The men who beat their wives are demons, simple and short

Jupxter:





Let us reconcile some factors...


Why should someone date a person they can't get married to? Does it make sense?

You date to get to know a person. It's not from day one your sure you're gon may the person. Maybe she's not sure yet.

kense88:
una never cook for una self finish na, let alone boy friend

Like I said, looking for someone to respond without resorting to personal attacks. Now run along.

majekdom2:
Must a man be responsible for a lady's material needs

But a woman must be responsible for a man's stomach needs. What's else do you all offer in relationships besides money tho? I'm yet to see a guy answer that question instead they result to personal attacks. Prove me wrong.

Please I need an apartment on Lagos mainland asap. Due to my lifestyle (travel a lot), I'd prefer somewhere I can pay quarterly or monthly. Found one but #60,000 per month is unreasonably high for me. Neat/decent structure, proximity to a major road, good electricity and guaranteed water supply are key factors I'm looking for. Ikeja-Yaba axis preferably.


I'm ready to seal this deal before the end of the year.

Legit and serious agents only.
I will do my due diligence, thank you.

jajanwani:
may God punish you. Tell me how many lives you have created??

What are we saying, what is this one saying? If you're looking for a way to die, all you have to do is jump from your delusion to your IQ. Eleribu.

jajanwani:
I PITY THE PERSON THAT WILL PAY YOUR BRIDE PRICE...IF YOU LIKE KILL HIM OVER MISSED CALL....YEYE!

Can you imagine? You have concluded that I am going to be a murderer because I don't agree with you. I am not that petty. How much is the bride price y'all are paying that you keep screaming about it? Do you really think we want your bride price? Please keep it to yourself. Like the damn thing can actually make up for all the investments our parents put in us. Marry if you want to marry but nobody really wants your bride price. Pity yourself only. The fact that you take joy in looking down on another human being like yourself because of different sexual organs says a lot about you. Let me spell it out simply for you. YOU ARE WICKED.

Disclaimer: I don't support anything Mariam did but don't rope feminists into this. I don't see where she ever called herself one. She is just a wicked person, full stop. Stop grasping at straws.

bokunrawo:
Prison sentence is to small for such grevious offense after terminating her husband destiny, she needs to be killed, because that will serve as a warning to all anger filled and non submissive women we have, smh, the root of all this shit in Africa is the wave of the feminist ideology raving Africa, men and women can never be equals, the earlier women get this into their skulls, the better

Eyah, we women are very scared. This matter is not that of non-submissiveness but of anger and hatred but somehow your small mindedness has found a way to rope feminists into this. Lesson KO, test Ni. The wave has stayed whether you like it or not and it is not going anyway anytime soon.

RIPEnglish:
We are know they will ending up to gave to people who are have connections. .

Sit down there and keep up with this negative mindset. Pessimism never got anyone far. I just got a great job offer on merit, no connections, superb company. It was advertised same way this is being advertised. I applied just like everybody else on NL. Please stop discouraging others.

I can't believe you guys here think Tunde is struggling. WTF?! Do y'all know that he and his bro are co owners of EME along with Banky W? And he is back flying people!! Tunde is not from a poor family so he definitely didn't have to marry up. His mom that is a former chairman of GTB. Haters everywhere mehn!

Benita27:
True @embolden. I felt he had to brush aside reality 'cause his article needs to be sold. Going to dig up names would be a waste of my time 'cause I know it's difficult for a wealthy man to identify/find genuine love. Not that they don't tho.

To add to your list. Locally we have Otedola,
Cosmos and charity of Coscharis group. Women who start with such men are never messed with.

Oga, Otedola was never poor. He was a governor's son

omolorlarh:

OK madam saint since you don't understand.

This has nothing to do with being a saint. Generalizations like this are what lead to genocides. Be careful when making generalizing statements. It propagates a prejudice. It's because of talks like this that guys assume every lady wants them for money. I don't and I know a lot of people who don't. Like I said, just speak for yourself.

omolorlarh:
I can but I prefer the man earns more. We women get wahala.

No! Please speak for yourself. "You get wahala''

femigabe:
Guys....any news from NBC? after interview and Medicals...this wait is getting too long o

They might still be ongoing.

isaiah9:
na achievement he won chop or if she get the two em bad

the 2 no bad o but the way that one come him mind first show where him priority lie.

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This Tekno dey get luck for babes sha. I have always wondered how it will be like to date a Billionaires daughter.

Them go sabi boil eggs sef?let alone cook Efo Riro with Pounded Yam?

Really? This is 2017. Cooking is not the only reason you marry a woman. Misplaced priorities. I hope the meaningful achievements of females around you are not overshadowed by their cooking prowess.

femigabe:
Please has anyone gotten an Email response for the Assessment Centre Exercise? Please let us know.

what dept did you apply for?

itiswellandwell:
My sincere condolence to the ladies cause they will be brutally raped with all those rubbish wey dey done drink. They should go and wash their system. Also, it may not be a case of the nurse forming for the thug but a case of the lady not wanting to be in a relationship with the thug again after chopping his money. You need to see beautiful ladies and even graduates that are in relationship with thugs. Most especially, ROAD UNION THUGS because they earns daily. So, they are bound to get money from them anytime and not waiting till month end like that of a banker.


Check my signature for ongoing promo of our full capacity powerbank

Are you seriously trying to blame the victims? You are a sociopath.

Chevinsmedia:
Am I the only one for 13th?

Chose supply chain though.

Any one else can holla, make I know say no be only me waka come.

Same here

Check your mails guys. Mine didn't drop until I checked it and it was sent 2 hours ago.

I got mine too. It's how to get a day off the work I just resumed that is the problem now. Any ideas please? What excuse do I give?

Personal Note: I personally find some stances on both sides highly hypocritical and this Huffington Post article pretty much sums up how I feel. I hope you enjoy it too.

Your crazy old divorced uncle is a Conservative. Your crazy young divorced aunt is a Liberal.

Liberals are concerned about economic inequality. Conservatives are confident that one day they’ll be rich.

Conservatives vote. Liberals don’t vote, but they urge their fellow like-minded liberals to get involved.

Liberals are honest about the complex issue of race. Conservatives “don’t see color.”

Conservatives don’t want to hear liberal Hollywood celebrities talk about politics. Liberals also don’t want to hear liberal Hollywood celebrities talk about politics.

Conservatives are enamored with conservative Hollywood celebrities who talk about politics. Liberals don’t know who those celebrities are. “You know- Nick Searcy. You’ve seen him. He’s on that show Justified. You know- Justified. It’s on FX. Well, I’m sure you’d know him if you saw him.”

Liberals are pro-choice. Conservatives had an abortion years ago, but now they’ve seen the light and don’t think other people should be allowed to have one.

Conservatives celebrate Christianity. Liberals celebrate Christmas.

Conservatives vote against their own self-interest. Liberals vote in the interest of their own self-loathing.

Liberals support good teachers. Conservatives support eliminating bad teachers.

Conservatives oppose violent Islamic extremism and the homophobic, misogynistic, oppressive ideals that it represents. Liberals oppose Israel.

Liberals, for the most part, support the Democratic Party platform of fair taxation, equal rights, and job creation. Conservatives, for the most part, support the Democratic Party platform of fair taxation, equal rights, and job creation.

Conservatives support free speech. Liberals support free speech unless it’s politically incorrect.

Conservatives watch FOX News for their news. Liberals watch FOX News for laughs. Both Conservatives and Liberals think that CNN is horrible. Nobody watches MSNBC.

Conservatives hate soccer. Liberals love soccer once every four years.

Liberals benefit from Obamacare and are disappointed with it. Conservatives benefit from Obamacare and want to get rid of it.

Conservatives watch race car driving for the crashes. Liberals would watch race car driving if there were more crashes.

Conservatives have lost interest in Sarah Palin. Liberals are still obsessed with her.

Liberals love having sex. Conservatives hate when other people have sex.

Conservatives try to get their Liberal Facebook friends to see the light. Liberals try to find out which of their Facebook friends is Conservative so that they can de-friend them.

Conservatives are disappointed with President Obama because he’s too liberal. Liberals are disappointed with President Obama because he’s not liberal enough. Moderates are disappointed with President Obama, though they can’t put their finger on why exactly.

Liberals believe in global warming because of the scientific data. Conservatives don’t believe in global warming because it felt a little nippy this morning.

Conservatives believe that we can stop global crimes against humanity though the use of military force. Liberals believe that we can stop global crimes against humanity by tweeting #StopGlobalCrimesAgainstHumanity.

Conservatives think that corporations create jobs. Liberals think that corporations create jobs in China.

Liberals think it takes a village to raise a child. Conservatives think it takes a family to raise a child. Children are actually being raised by TV, video games, and the Internet.

Conservatives think that unemployed people are responsible for the nation’s problems. Liberals think that unemployment is a result of the nation’s problems.

Conservatives support old-fashioned, traditional values. Liberals are into being edgy. Conservatives think that being edgy is lame... which it is.

Liberals oppose police brutality. Conservatives oppose police brutality unless the unarmed suspect appears “thuggish.”

Conservatives listen to new country music on the radio. Liberals listen to real country music — like Johnny Cash and Willie Nelson — on their iPhones.

Conservatives think schools should teach abstinence in high school health class. Liberals think schools should hand out free condoms in elementary school.

Liberals are funny. Conservatives are corny.

Conservatives are organized, reliable and polite. Liberals think that being disorganized, unreliable, and rude is part of their “charm.”

Liberals have a black friend. Conservatives know a black guy.

Liberals support people in menial jobs. Conservatives applaud people in menial jobs. People in menial jobs just want to be respected.

Conservatives don’t think they are homophobic because they started supporting gay marriage in 2012. Liberals know they’re not homophobic because they started supporting gay marriage in 2007.

Conservatives believe in God. Liberals believe that God created evolution.

Conservatives can’t name three judges on the Supreme Court. Liberals can’t name three judges on the Supreme Court. Both Conservatives and Liberals can name three cast members from Jersey Shore.

Liberals have a weak stance on immigration. Conservatives have a strong stance on immigration... but it’s evolving.

Conservatives are proudly uninformed. Liberals are proud to be informed about issues that nobody cares about.

Liberals are involved in sex scandals that ruin their career. Conservatives are involved in sex scandals that they get away with.

Conservatives support issues that help their families. Liberals support issues that help families.

Liberals love that the world of college academia is a place to share ideas. Conservatives hate that the world of college academia is a place where they can’t share their ideas. College students love that the world of college academia is a place where they can drink and have sex.

Conservatives support the troops by saying that they support the troops. Liberals say that saying you support the troops is not really supporting the troops.

Conservatives like movies with action, violence and lots of explosions. Liberals like movies with action, violence lots of explosions, and characters we can care about.

Liberals believe in some elements of socialism. Conservatives hate socialism and they only believe in some elements of it.

Conservatives have a problem with women. Liberals have a problem with Conservative women.

Conservatives are friendlier than Liberals. Liberals are nicer than Conservatives.

Conservatives don’t want to be blamed for Ted Nugent. Liberals don’t want to be blamed for Rosie O’Donnell. Nobody wants to be blamed for the Kardashians.

Conservatives believe in the death penalty for all the people on death row. Liberals are opposed to the death penalty because they believe all the people on death row are poor.

Conservatives are more physically attractive than Liberals, but Liberals are sexier.

Liberals have a better personality than Conservatives, but they’re condescending about it... which is an ugly personality trait.

Liberals don’t trust the media unless it’s “alternative” media because if it’s “alternative,” it must be trustworthy. Conservatives don’t trust the media because the media they watch and listen to tells them not to trust the media.

Liberal billionaires use their money to support worthy causes. Conservative billionaires use their money to support Conservative causes.

Liberals show their compassion by helping others. Conservatives think they are showing compassion by not helping others.

Conservatives are afraid of not having guns. Liberals are afraid of Conservatives with guns.

Conservatives love the past but fear the future. Liberals hate the past but fear the future.

Liberals are full of crap because they don’t really believe what they say. Conservatives are full of crap because they truly believe what they say.

There are good Liberals and bad Liberals. There are good Conservatives and bad Conservatives. Serial killers are apolitical.

Liberals like to have fun. Conservatives like to have fun. Liberals and Conservatives like to have fun with each other... unless they’re talking about politics... or especially when they’re talking about politics.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/galanty-miller/theres-only-one-real-diff_b_6135184.html

sharpwriter:

That's not true, dont blame the young man. Some ladies are just foolish and still live in children's world. I have dated a lady before that told me that she will love her mother more than her husband. Now, do you think that such a lady will listen to the husband's advice over her mother's? Woe betide the man if the lady's mother is a bad one, because she will be a bad influence on her daughter, and from observation, girls like this seldom have a mind of their own. They are easily influenced to act foolishly by mother or friends. Mind you, I am not against the friendliness of a man or woman with their mothers, but they should know that an adult is an adult and things should be done moderately.

Virtually every guy I've met claim that they will love their mothers than their wife including my brother. Even my mom had to caution him. I once told a guy that was on my case that I can't be with a man like that and he stopped pursuing after then. Dude said he can't deal and I respected his view. Personally, it is unacceptable to me because I plan to love my husband than my dad. We need to be on the same page.

sharpwriter:

That's not true, dont blame the young man. Some ladies are just foolish and still live in children's world. I have dated a lady before that told me that she will love her mother more than her husband. Now, do you think that such a lady will listen to the husband's advice over her mother's? Woe betide the man if the lady's mother is a bad one, because she will be a bad influence on her daughter, and from observation, girls like this seldom have a mind of their own. They are easily influenced to act foolishly by mother or friends. Mind you, I am not against the friendliness of a man or woman with their mothers, but they should know that an adult is an adult and things should be done moderately.

Virtually every guy I've met claim that they will love their mothers than their wife including my brother. Even my mom had to caution him. I once told a guy that was on my case that I can't be with a man like that and he stopped pursuing after then. Dude said he can't deal and I respected his view. Personally, it is unacceptable to me because I plan to love my husband than my dad.

I am always #TeamDoWhatMakesYouHappy so long as it is not at the expense of any other person. I believe so much in the principle of ‘pareto optimality’ when it comes to happiness. This means when I'm happy, you are either happy too or at least not less happy than you were before I became happy. I also believe in being considerate about the feelings of others. This is how I think humans should relate ideally but in most cases, it is unrealistic. I believe we can try though.
In relationships, especially marital ones we need to identify the clear differences between making an intention known and seeking consent when it comes to doing things that will make us happy. For example, if I have decided to further my education whereby the expenses and burden will fall entirely on me, I’ll make my intentions known to my husband out of love and respect. In this case, I’m not asking for his permission. Of course, I’d love it if he supports me. I’d prefer to hear a “that’s awesome honey, go for it!” However, if I happen to hear a “err….I don’t know, doesn’t this mean you’d be at home less?”, it then becomes my duty to allay any concerns that might arise and give a detailed description on how I intend to maintain a balance. If my husband truly cares, he might even offer to get some burden off my back here and there.
What I don’t expect to hear is a “No, you cannot and that’s final”. Err….Oga, are you an enemy of progress? I think we need to understand that we are all adults capable of making informed decisions that affect us. You having a say over the choices of your partner is a priviledge given to you by that partner who chose to love or marry you. You don't have authority over your spouse unless that spouse has given you that authority. It has nothing to do with your wealth, strength, status, beauty, etc. Those are only superficial reasons we can see. If your partner decides not to notice all these, what would you do? There's not much you can do about someone who is unwilling to be submissive or humble except you force it by instilling fear. This is the root of DV in most relationships. Sincere submissiveness comes from a place of respect and not fear.
I hear people get angry and disrespected because their husband or wife built a house without letting them know. Someone wants to make a reasonable investment and you are angry because you are what exactly? Wife? Husband? See, I understand you might feel hurt and betrayed. I mean, why would my husband not trust me enough to let me know about such an important move? I believe this should point me to a more serious issue which is "mutual trust" that I need to fix with him (unless it is meant to be a surprise). I however do not believe it is enough grounds for me to start seeking for an extended family meeting, separation or divorce. I mean, come on What I believe can justify anger is if the funds used were mine without my permission or if we had agreed to use the funds for a joint project that will affect the entire family especially the kids. Now, that is my husband's happiness at my own expense or at the expense of our children. Is it still grounds for a family meeting, etc? For me, that would depend on how remorseful he is. I don't see myself ending up with an inconsiderate man though.

So what do you think? Do you feel the need to seek the consent of your spouse on certain things or do you simply inform them of steps you need to take? Let's here you in the comments section.

Don't forget, the power you have over someone is the power the person gives you. Don't take advantage of it.

Cheers.

myvic70:
Please who has gotten his registration number recently. I have submitted close to a month now nothing yet.
Does it usually take long like this?

Have you gotten a registration number now?

amazingspiderma:

No one asked for your sympathy.
Thank God you said they were killed for speech, I only pity you.

Pity yourself. I don't need it.

amazingspiderma:

First they came for the
Socialists, and I did not speak
out—
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade
Unionists, and I did not speak
out—
Because I was not a Trade
Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews,
and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me—and
there was no one left to speak
for me.

People of the South East are been killed unjustly and some people are dancing over the news.

Continue....

Abeg abeg abeg take responsibilities for your actions. You don't expect the same people you've insulted severally and called names to come out and defend you after so much provocation from you. I'm sorry but your people have made it difficult for us to sympathize.

Florblu:
How that BLACK lady beside her turn yellow over night is MAGICAL

Don't be ridiculous. There's something called camera quality.