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Make I go collect my own dollar before Baba Bubu come back from za oza country... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Make I go collect my one dollar before Baba Bubu come back from za oza country... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Oga op why not show display them here instead of za oza room. I dnt have that time to waste joooo. ![]() |
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Oga op why not show display them here instead of za oza room. I dnt have that time to waste joooo. |
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Leme go get my own before baba bubu comes back from za oza country.... 2 Likes |
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Lawa ooooo. What a fuckery |
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Academic and non Academic staffs of kogi state university embarked on a solidarity protest over 11-12 months unpaid salaries.
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You can never seperate celebz with their fake lifes styles. Y not use that 500, 000 and get another one. Attention seekers. I almost gave a Bleep but I didn't...
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optional1:becos globacom is the sponsor and a Nigerian own glo... I hope I answered it correctly. thank me lata if I did |
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Pausing the Mavros in the ponzi scheme is necessary reason been that as a typical Nigerian we have to cover up our trail when huge some of money is been made like buying the authorities. Remember EFCC, SEC, SENATE etc warned Nigerians not to indulge in the Pyramid scheme. my thought...... If u are still there waiting like they said u are sitting on a long thing. 1 Like |
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die hard hustler..... |
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where are the real men? this photo was taken in the timber shade of Anyigba Kogi State.
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stale news, since Dec. 2012 op look for something else to post this is no longer news |
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isorite |
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Nigerians with fake bews they are APC and Liar Mohammed. |
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News without Source, pepper, maggi, is like a news from APC, and Liar Mohammed.... |
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we don read am, any other tin to read OP? |
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dihalao: m Mr judge, observe carefully before posting rubbish is the speakers, amplifiers, generator in that picture not worthy to be steal right. |
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Sept. 17th how una de, 08067960080 |
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When you think of uses for honey, you may think of just using it in tea or sweetening a desert, but you might be surprised to find there are many more awesome uses for honey. Remember, quality counts so it’s important to purchase quality honey. The ones in grocery stores are usually processed and removed of the essential pollen that natural honey gets, so when applying these tips be sure to get organic honey. 1: FADE SCAR Honey is also a natural skin lightener while also reducing the appearance of scars. All you need is to mix a teaspoon of honey with a teaspoon of olive oil or coconut oil then just massage it to your scar and covering it with a warm washcloth. Leave it for 15 minutes. Try doing this daily for a big chance of fading scars immediately. 2: HANGOVER REMEDY Honey works just like a natural tonic which allows you to get rid of a hangover immediately. It will also accelerate alcohol metabolism as it supports the elimination of toxic compounds that resulted from the metabolism. So the morning (or afternoon) of your hangover, just whip yourself a glass of water with two tablespoons of honey then you’ll be hangover-free. 3: SHINY AND SOFT HAIR Honey is a good regenerator. If you feel like your hair is closed to damaging, or if you just want to have healthy hair, just apply some honey, wait for a couple of minutes then rinse with water. 4: SOFT AND SUPPLE LIPS Creating your own honey lip balm is a healthier version than any big cosmetic brand out there. Mix honey, almond oil and beeswax then you have your very own 100% natural lip balm. 5: TREAT CUT AND BURN Treat minor wounds with honey, especially Manuka Honey, because it is a natural antiseptic. This was how Egyptians treat their wounds centuries ago. Clean the wounded area, dry it then just apply some honey on it. 6: NATURAL FACE WASH Honey is a super gentle face wash that doesn’t strip off the skin’s natural oils. Not only that, it’s a nice antibacterial alternative to soap that can soften your skin while removing blackheads and whiteheads as well. 7: HONEY BATH At night, wind down and relax by having a long, hot bath. Add two tablespoons of raw honey to your bath water which will moisturize your skin and protect it from damage, especially during the colder months. 8: REDUCE SEASONAL ALLERGIES Don’t you just hate allergies during spring? By taking a few teaspoons of local honey each day, you will have a massive relief from seasonal allergies. The small amounts of pollen in the honey apparently builds up an invulnerability to the pollen. It’s like an allergy shot but with a sweet taste and without the scary needle. |
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Virginity. It’s something we all know of, something we’ve all talked about. It’s something we, as a culture, obsess over. It’s a very valuable thing to have, if you’re a woman, and a very perplexing thing to have if you’re a man. Female virginity is valuable to society, but a man’s isn’t really worth anything; in fact, it’s better for a man’s social status if he is not a virgin. And this ties into what is known as the sexual double standard: Women are shamed for having sex and men are rewarded for it. The idea of your first penis-in-vagina sexual encounter being something significant and life altering (well, for women anyway) has origins in women being considered property. That is to say, virginity is a social construction that came about because of the commodification of women. Since women were (and sometimes still are) considered property, when they got married, they were passed on to their husbands from their fathers. You know the whole father-walks-his-daughter-down-the-aisle tradition? Well, it represents a transfer of property from her father to her husband. Her father was literally giving her away. A woman’s sexual purity became very important because of this. Her virginity was seen as one of the most important things about her. Sexuality was also, of course, also regulated by religion, which made sex shameful and taboo outside of marriage. And for the most part, contraception was unattainable, so it was important for women to remain virgins for their husbands to ensure the purity of his bloodline. Basically, virginity served as the Medieval form of a paternity test. But although virginity may seem like just a tradition, it’s actually very problematic and even harmful. 1. Virginity Is Sexist Sure, in modern times, virginity as a concept exists for guys, too, but it doesn’t have nearly the same social implications or significance. Women are taught that their virginity is valuable, even a commodity. If they “lose” it the wrong way – that is, with the wrong person or at the wrong time – then we label them as easy or even call them “damaged” or “desperate.” Meanwhile, men don’t have to worry about being judged or shamed for “losing” their virginity. In some cultures, women who aren’t virgins when they marry can be exiled or even killed, particularly for shaming their families. Virginity is a sign of purity. And not being pure when you marry in many societies brings shame and dishonor to your family, even if you were raped. Men who aren’t virgins when they marry? They don’t face those cultural consequences. 2. Virginity Contributes to Slut-Shaming Virginity is constructed so that we judge women based on how and when they started having sex. Losing your virginity at the wrong age (usually being “too young” in this case), at the wrong time (“too early” on in a relationship, or not during one at all), with the wrong person (usually someone you aren’t “in love” with) or with the wrong feelings (doing it for any other reason than loving your partner and wanting to pledge your love and devotion) has social consequences. These factors are all subject to speculation and judgment by others, particularly by slut shaming. Slut-shaming is when you place guilt and subordination on women for their sexuality. Women dressing in revealing clothing , having or being perceived to have slept with lots of people, or even just having a lot of friends who are men are common behaviors women are slut-shamed for. This is problematic because slut-shaming is sexist and reinforces a sex-negative mindset, based on puritanical sexual values. Slut-shaming doesn’t give women sexual autonomy, but instead constrains their behavior and choices by placing these expectations on to how they should go about being sexual (i.e., they shouldn’t). And not losing your virginity in the culturally defined appropriate way can lead to being slut-shamed. 3. Virginity Frames a Woman’s Worth as Inversely Proportional to How Much Sex She’s Had As stated, virginity is linked with purity. This means that the more sex that you’ve had, the less pure you are. What that translates to for women is that your value is inherently linked to how much sex you’ve had , specifically how much sex you’ve had with men. There is an inverse relationship in how much sex you’ve had and how much society deems your worth to be. For men, however, there’s a positive correlation between how much sex they have and the worth that society deems them to have. Men are socially rewarded for having sex, and women are socially punished – he’s a stud, and she’s a slut. This is what is known as the sexual double standard and virginity has a lot to do with its context. 4. Virginity Is Heteronormative Virginity assumes that penis-in-vagina sex is somehow a special type of sex that is different from all others. It’s assumed that unless you’ve had a penis in your vagina, or put your penis into a vagina, then you haven’t really had sex. Somehow, even oral and anal sex don’t really “count” in our culture, despite both having the word “sex” in them. This means that there is an assumption that engaging in heterosexual vaginal sex is the standard (and should be) for your sexual activities. Heterosexuality is the norm, and virginity just works as reinforcement to this. Virginity erases the experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer and other non-heterosexual people – and the experiences of straight people who just don’t have PIV sex! It paints their sex as somehow invalid and not as real as heterosexual sex. Virginity assumes that you are heterosexual and doesn’t take into account the lived experiences of any other types of sexual expression. 5. Virginity Erases Queer and Trans Folk Since virginity is stuck in a heteronormative box, it doesn’t leave room for those that don’t fall into the gender binary or other so-called “conventional” forms of sexuality. Virginity is dependent upon being a heterosexual, cisgender man or woman and doesn’t have any sort of framework for relationships and people that fall outside of this. These folks are often not considered to even have lost their virginity, unless they’ve had heterosexual sex with someone of the opposite sex. Look no further than the Internet! There are pages upon pages of people questioning whether or not lesbians who’ve had sex are virgins. The fact that this even matters to so many people obviously says something about how much we as a culture value virginity (way, way too much) and how we view virgins and non-virgins differently. *** Because of how non-inclusive and sexist virginity is, using it is extremely problematic, as it contributes to these social problems. By applying the concepts and values of virginity to your own and other’s sex lives, you are reinforcing patriarchal norms about sexuality and women’s worth. The patriarchy wants you to commodify sexuality and hold sexist attitudes about it because that is how they can keep the status quo in tact. By forcing sexuality to exist in this small, heteronormative, cissexist, heterosexist box, they can effectively erase the experiences of all people that don’t fit inside of that. I don’t stand for that, and I bet you don’t either. I ask you, then, to consider your feelings on virginity and start to question your own ideas about how sexuality is constructed. The more critical you become about virginity, the more its cultural obligation will start to seem trivial and unappealing. After all, social constructions are just based in how we tell ourselves the world is based on prior knowledge and experience. But what would happen if that knowledge and experience changed? That question is the key to losing virginity for good. |
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fear not those who can kill only the body but he who can destroy both the BODY and the SOUL. this are the words of our lord. May God grant the families the fortitude to bear this great lost. Return If Possible (RIP) no peace for the wicked. 1 Like |
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why this Oyibo people no go fit be like US for once.
who send am? 1 Like |
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please stop crucifying the new female ontodo's even some of the guyz too are guilty . I keep wondering if this guys pass through school, jeez what are u guys going to teach this children cos most of u will be deployed to schools. I believe most of this guys will end up to be a ghost corp members.
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if he don't take care of them, who will? |
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black is beautiful, black is nice. if e easy make oyibo paint their self to black. #ilovebeenBLACK 2 Likes |
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