Holybaddo:
They should look for another way of solving this economy issue
This plan of theirs isn't favoring in anyway

Some people accept only cash no cash no business
This will affect business men both those in higher chain down to those on low of the lowest in a negative way.

Besides this gives a higher chance for hackers and thieves to cart away people hard earned money

Eg me prefer cash to cash transactions I hardly do transfer nor accept it

Nigeria is to risky for all this online transactions.

Fact is ..we can't get it right by sticking to old traditions.
Lets go cashless bro

jeromestarks:

If she get sense, you go meet her as a virgin.

Lol, marry first bro. U will understand best.
Your prayer will be to find a woman that can support u.

jeromestarks:
To have a peaceful marriage, marry a virgin woman.
Do otherwise and suffer torments in your marriage.

Lol, oga find woman wey get sense o. Hmm, talking from experience. And make sure as a man u can provide o. Because virgin or no virgin women no like hunger.

freddaboh:


That's your own part of the story, we will need to hear from the guy to know what exactly happened.
Probably the guy was just saved from an early grave.

I swear women are manipulative. Sometimes, I wish I could rewind time.

Tracypacy:
Marriage is not something you manage If you are already walking on egg shells when you are with him, don't marry o. I have been there and its not a good experience. He constantly reminded me that his mother had over 8 children and suffered alone to train them and do house chores
just because i told him we will require a house help since I won't be doing domestic chores everyday whenever I have a full production week. He lacked communication skills and instead of telling me when I offend him. He will rather carry grudges like satan and punish me emotionally. I will beg for my sins and the sins of the world.Which man in love ignores 39 missed calls from a woman he claims to love ? . He had a 9 year old daughter and hid it from me.I found out in the most casual and painful way.I would have treated that child like my daughter,but why hide it from me?. I talked about him running a genotype test because I am AS and since he claims AA when he said he used to be AS ,ain't it better,we redo a test in another hospital?.

He preferred to call off the wedding plans. No matter how you try to make up excuses with love. An abuser is an abuser. I was engaged, my friends were happy but I was miserable.I lacked peace of mind. Should marriage be this way ? I never enter and e be like this?. I didn't have a dime.I was dependent on him and the little money I got from sewing for people. I thought about starting all over again and it affected my self esteem. I was a depressed bitter woman. When he left,I was bitter, little did I know that It was God who saved me from an impending doom. Not everyone will be lucky. Maybe I would have been a single mother with a child and no penny in her account.

Single woman, Hear me!...Never settle for less .... I may not have a man now to call my own but I am happy!..very happy!
My parents do not lack,even though daddy is retired ....I take care of them and I ensure everyone is catered for. .. I once asked him if he will ever relocate to my location if I had a good job that fetches money more than he does,he said NEVER!. Most men in their quest for headship lose out.
You earn 30k in Abuja and wifey earns 500k in Lagos, so wife will resign to join you and your miserable 30k because you are the HUSBAND and HEAD. Arth thou not a FOOL?.

Now the EX is regretting,he said he hasn't found a woman like me and I assured him he will never find. My type is LIMITED EDITION. We are scarce and not just for any man. I AM A GOOD WOMAN, AN ASSET TO ANY MAN provided he treats me right, yes,ask GOD, he knows this too.So ladies,love with sense,peace of mind is what money can never buy. Na me talk am. If he is rich and treats you like shit, he is not worthy to be called a husband. If he is poor and doesn't treat you well, I pity your condition because even when he makes the money, you won't be treated well. If his family doesn't like you, don't marry him,you will be miserable. There is a lot I wanna say but this pos
Wait,let the biological clock tick.
Wait for a good man to come ...don't marry a wicked person to pepper your friends.
Don't marry a selfish man who thinks about his family only. If my husband cannot care for my family the same way I will care for his own family ,then he doesn't deserve me. Note that there is no perfect man. but at least be sure he falls into what you desire in a man.
Don't ever make a mistake of thinking he will change when you marry him ..You are not the holy spirit..
MARITAL MISTAKE CAN LEAD ONE TO AN EARLY GRAVE

Just remember it goes both ways.
I got married not long. But anytime I try to b happy my wife come of with things I cannot handle.
I've pleaded, there was a day I even knelt down.
She lie for no reason, that really breaKs my heart.
She's stubborn and when i react, she feels I am overreacting. I really don't know what to do.
Its frustrating. Its annoying.
I do virtually everything at home. Seriously, marriage is frustrating.

EMXTAN1:
All these re results of bad leadership, that's why we have to vote wisely, leaders with vision

Who is that leader?

Chijeep:
Went to the market this morning, was sent by girlfriend's mother because my house is closer to the market. She sent me to help her buy some food stuff including meat that when I pass through her house she will give me the money as I use to take the path on my way to work.

I wanted to ask the meat seller but I thought I might not get a better info as she's the one selling.

So i use style to take the picture so i can ask people when i get home in the evening.
TO MY OWN OBSERVATION, I THINK IT'S WORMS BUT IF IT'S SHOULD BE WORMS THEN THE COW WOULD BE SUFFERING FROM A SICKNESS BEFORE BUTCHERING.
What's your take on this pls?
And should in case of next time can i buy such if I needed to buy intestines.

THANKS

You should be more worried your girlfriend mother called you to buy her food stuff.

I sense problem.

FM19addict:
what the hell is this? Are you his agent? Do you know if he even received an offer from Italy or if the finances were better than that of Southampton? Do you know how many good players were developed their skills in Southampton? Playing in England brings exposure, and if he is good enough, he will get a better move. Ask mane and van dijk, even Richarlison played for Watford, Kante signed for Leicester team that spent more than 30 weeks in the relegation zone, same with mahrez.

I taya..Tinibu spoilt my day.

SmartyPants:


You don't understand football at all.

1. higher wages

2. Tougher opponents so more self development

3. Exposure. Even if Southampton go down, must he go down with them?? He can prove himself and move to a bigger club but no big club will sign a player from the Scish league because the level is no high enough

4. It's the player's dream

Oga, wrong move.

I doubt if any white player at his pick will make such move.

Why Southampton?
Why not Italy or just stay in rangers?

Can he win African best in Southampton?
Wo, na nonsense move.

Hopemanfx:
Hello!
Nairalanders, please I really need your advice. Am really afraid of marriage. Am already 37yrs this year! I keep postponing it. I earn average income from my business; atleast I can boost of 300k-400k per month. with this, I can take care of my wife and children..Unfortunately! Am afraid of marriage for the following reasons.
1) I have a believe that if I get married I will lose focus.
2) the fear of not achieving what I want to achieve in life.
3) am afraid of diverting from my main goal in life and focus on something else.
4) fear of marital issues that will make me lose focus and plan.
5) marrying to pretendous woman.
6) a lot more.
Please I need your advice

Seriously, be scared.
It's really not an easy adventure.
My marriage is three month now..mehn, ill say marriage is meant for the brave.
U have a lot of things to learn.
Another fact is, u will no longer put urself first.

Seriously, be scared.

bibianna:
Oh sorry, my initial post was an error!

For me, I wouldn't go ahead if they don't approve of him. My parents are awesome and that's why at the early stage of my relationship, its wise to get their opinion before it gets too difficult to let go.

Period!

A good parent won't make u sad. As long as uv prayed and seen the will of God in marriage..a good parent should pray and support u.

My parents won't reject anyone to ur face..they will just tell u..we will pray.
And u will be surprised..the relationship will just scatter.

Islandlady:
In some cases like this you have to go with your parents advise becos marriage these days are not worth dying for

Your family will always be there, but if you turn your back on them there won't be a place to run to, when things go wrong

Your parents must have seen reasons why you shouldn't marry him or her

Think about it

Do u know one good thing about parents?

U can't always turn ur back on them.

No matter the sin uv committed they always gat ur back.

Even when marriage they rejected turns out bad..Trust me, parents are the first to console and say all will be fine...but we warned u.


But if u miss that opportunity of being with the one that gives u peace..it will hunt u for the rest of life.

Parents have no issue..reason I don't really get scared of my parents when making decisions. They always come when needed.

Well, some months ago I was kinda in similar situation..where the girl parent rejected me. In my case, I had no issue with the parent because if their daughter decided to be with me, her parent decision would mean nothing to me. But she decided to break up with me. Well, story short, I got married this year to someone that loved me. The sad thing is, she is still sad about everything and single filled with regrets probably.

To my point..you the man. You in a critical situation.
Do what makes u happy.
Said thing is, my case was easy because my family loved the said girl. So even if her family did not like me, what my family had for her was just enough to keep her going. I always say to her, if my family love u, ur parent will come around soon.

If u can protect her from your family, get married to her.
If u cannot protect her from your family..let her go.

But truth is, whoever let go will be the one filled with regrets.

For me..I won't bend to me parents mostly when it's about marriage.

In marriage ur parents will not make decisions for u. Infact they will be far from you.
So get married to who gives to joy.

Karlifate:


JERRY, born in 1925

U see year.

I see, just numbers. One nine two five

Karlifate:


How come you're 97 years?

Lol..where did I state that?

MadeINchenzen2:
If marriage is as sweet as u've said, why are u cheating on your wife?

Trust me, never done that.

bluefilm:
Marriage is overrated.

There's absolutely nothing you enjoy as a married person that you can't enjoy as a single person, most especially if you're a guy.

As a man, the worst thing about marriage is the complete loss of your freedom once you get married.

You will understand better when you 50.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Mehn..marriage is beautiful. Seriously I really wished I did it early. I never wanted getting married.. till I met my woman.
Sometimes, when I am at home probably after work, and my wife not back..I jump up at the slightest bike or car sound I hear.
Mehn, I really don't want to wake up to hear my wife is no more.

She's so lovely.

When planning marriage, being a virgin should not be a cateria.

Just the way relationships crash, marriage also crashes.

My advice, get married to who want to be a wife/husband.
Get married to who want to be married and know what it means to be married.
For men, marry a woman, who sees u as her everything...most men do otherwise.

If your wife loves u, the chance of marriage lasting long is really high.

And before marriage, make sure u tell ur partner where u stand.
If u drink, tell them u drink.
If u smoke, tell them you smoke.

Marriage is really beautiful.

We expecting our first child..and it feels really great..its with a woman my child can call mum..not side chic.

APC and PDP. I sure know I'll leave my wedding venue aa billionaire.

Verysmart101:


Entering marriage for the wrong reasons.How can u expect God to love u when actually u won't love ur husband? And u think God doesn't see ur heart baaaaa? See the type of position u already wanna relegate ur future hubby too? Do u think all men are bad and some can't truely love you? God have mercy on you

Am a man. Well if I find a woman that truly love me. I'll reciprocate..but until then..ill manage my heart.

AmuRod:
[/color][color=#006600]This one na stupid talk

Evryone is entitled to his or her own foolishness. I own mine. Hold urs. We can't both be the same and ur ideology towards life can't be same with mine. Happy Sunday bro.

kokkubabboni421:

Life is truly not fair I must agree
After series of heartbreaks, I began having first issues
So once I’m dating and I sense you’re cheating, I mean sense ooh not even say I catch you, I’ve moved on
If we can’t Acess each other phone’s, there’s no business we have being together

Good. Me, I hate drama. If u can't stay. Use the door.
For me right now..I don't date for love. I date and will marry just to have companion.
Like someone that can help me when I am down..financially, spiritually, physically and mentally.
The only love I need right now, is from ma family and mostly importantly from God.
Aside that, I can only love myself best.

kokkubabboni421:
This is one of the adverse effects of quick moving on and the reason people fall back to their exes
She’s actually right. If someone breaks your heart, give yourself time to heal. A large percentage of people move on to the next partner not solely because they’ve found love, but because they don’t want to feel the void of being dumped. That’s why majority of people still have sex with their ex because their hearts are still connected to the person who dumped them one way or the Other.
Like Enyia said, “walk to love and you may dream but if it should leave then give it wings, but if such a love is meant to be, hope is home and the heart is free”

This song “hope has a place in the lovers heart” was something that helped me during my heartbreak, imagine forgiving a cheating partner only to end up being dumped a second time. She’s married now but funny thing is, we are still friends; and on her birthdays, if I’m around I still attend.
It’s hard to forget someone who once loved you to a fault.
But then again, people fall out of love just like Chike sang

Heal from what exactly?
I just they laugh.
For me all this no they work.
If u break ma heart after one week, I start to date again.
Reason is, when dating I really don't expect much from a woman.
I always give room for some shades of disappointment.
In other words, I am prepared ahead.
Infact, when I start sensing a breakup or something funny..I already have the next girl I want to date.
I have no time to stay lonely o..lol.
Don't like it.

However, in ma relationships I always stay faithful but really do not expect much.

Seriously, after like years of hearing ladies tell me they love me and at the end I get dissapointed..I absolutely don't value love from human that much.

Even me myself, I can't count how many ladies I have told I can't live without..yet, see me..very happy after every breakup.

Well, I'll be marrying soon and I started dating my wife not even up to one month after a breakup with my ex..infact we started communicating when I started sensing how unstable my ex was.

For me, I really don't see the need preparing ur heart for years just to get another fresh heartbreak.

Theirs no formula to how long you must wait.

Even while u dating someone , u can find love.

Lifez not fair, just program your heart for dissapointments and you will be fine.

Imagine what would have happened if u marry ur ex.
Oga, let it be.
Find happiness.
It's all over.
Don't hold on to what is lost.

gentiles:
I pray Nigeria meets either Algeria or Egypt in the next round, so that the super eagles will not go to the World cup. That's the only thing that can wake us up from Slumber. I pray they never qualify for Qatar.

Sadly we can't.

ZendayaColeman:
We sane Southerners pray Nigeria cease to exist before 2023.


All thanks to the lifeless bigot in Aso Rock

And u still voted in Anambra. Well done.

akacomedyvideo:
this man most be lucky

Na people like you they make women think say sex na food for man.

Aizenosa:
This is my situation currently, I am just being hopeful of someone positive in the end and trying to move on at the moment.

You will be fine. Sometimes, when I am faced with heartbreak it seems like the world should just come to an end. But after few years, I see myself happy again.
What works for me is, if a girl i dated with a score of 6/10 leaves me..I never return to finding a 5/10. I go for a 7/10. An upgraded breed.
With that, I never have regrets or miss my ex's.
For me, heartbreaks are beautiful experience.
It really make me understood a lot.

I think I have mastered the art. Right now, I just let things go!!!
And say sorry..no matter how provoked I am.
Time makes us fine.

BadRadio:
Any ideas?

Simple. Take her out and don't spend.

Tokskob2008:
This people should be left alone to do whatever they like to do within their country, if they like let them kill evey single citizen in their country na them sabi..

I just think American has a plan, and it's obviously working.

HASSANAASIA:
Why is everyone avoiding the part he said he has so many girlfriends?a girl can't be serious with such a guy

I think a lady should learn to keep herself. Worry less about anything a man does.

Why don't girl complain about their cheating boyfriends they way boys do?
Fact is, women cheat with men, I believe those men also have girlfriends so why Don't they complain much.
All I see on nairaland is, my girl cheated bla bla bla.

Amajerry83:
You should get married if it comes from your heart and make sure you marry your like. Study a lady before getting married to her because people don't change after marriage. Although, in some cases people drop old habits as they get older and wiser. Some married prostitutes who later became good housewives while some married devoted church goer who later became cheats. If you want to look at only the disadvantages of marriage i bet you would be scared of it. Free your mind, understand your partner. DO NOT be extremely jealous and possessive. You married her does not stop her from being friends with the opposite sex. Let her do her things but guide her to make sure she doesn't fall. Women think they are smart not knowing men are way smarter! You should trust a woman before you make her wife. My last advice is do not fall for the phone privacy rubbish. If there's nothing to hide both you and your partner's phones should be accessible to the both of you. My brother, marriage is sweet. I've been married for 13 years with 4 kids. I feel so happy everytime i see my beautiful wife and my cute kids.

Good. Congratulations.

Pls did u marry her a virgin?
Because I am in a situation, I fear cos my girl not a virgin when we met.
But, she's so nice.
When I think of that fact, I just feel like not getting married.