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 Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 8:53am On Jul 09, 2014 |
akinvest: Am talking from experience, men are not so perfect, and no perfect marriage on earth, but we can managed it, and also working towards perfection as its writing in the scriptures " Be ye perfect".Permit me to ask, are you male or female? |
| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 8:26am On Jul 09, 2014 |
striktlymi:Lmao!! Anyways, please tell him to stop asking, he should come confirm for himself. Am sure he'll love what he will see. |
| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 7:58am On Jul 09, 2014 |
akinvest: U can't have all your desired quality in your man. My advice to u. ok.Yea, thanks for the advice. I'll remember you cared when I finally meet him. |
| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 7:54am On Jul 09, 2014 |
JimPerry: Beautiful wishes do not always transform into reality. However, ur comprehensive faith cud make it a possibility. I'm currently going out to search thru d streets for ur ideal man. Just pray i find him and he'll be urs in secsAwww, thanks dear for offering your help in my ultimate search. But while at it, please take a closer look at the oil firms, navy offices, business provinces etc, he might just be inside one of them. Thanks again. 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Do Galfriends Really Have Customary Privileges dey Should get from Boyfriends? by JesDivine(f): 5:30pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
tlanry:Then stick with your girl. Possibly, what she gets from her folks is not enough to take care of her. So, you're the next dearest to her. |
| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 5:25pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
akinvest: Dear don't let anyone delude you, you can't see those quality in a man you intends to married, even you do you have such?Don't be so sure sir, it's possible if I believe. Have you forgoten what the bible says about having faith as little as a mustard seed? So, just believe. And besides, a girl's got to create her own fantasy world, you get? 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Do Galfriends Really Have Customary Privileges dey Should get from Boyfriends? by JesDivine(f): 5:06pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Does she give you any reason to believe you're a mugu? I mean, does she love and care for you the way you love and care for her? Some guys will be like, 'spending on your girlfriend automatically makes you her mugu'. And I wonder if sleeping with your girlfriend also makes her your sex machine. Have you stopped to think that she might really love him but just needs the money to keep fit? When a girl asks money from her boyfriend, he's termed a mugu, but when a guy asks sex from his girlfriend, it's justifiable? Guys, please grow up. Yes, some guys are mugus to some girls but I believe that in cases like that, the signs are always there, staring the guy right in the eye. So, spending on a girl you love (and who loves you too) does not make you a mugu. 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 4:17pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
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| Romance / Re: What Attracted You To Your Partner? Let's Interact. by JesDivine(f): 3:34pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
He is tall, rich, funny, sexy, single, smart, romantic, sweet, charming, warm, sensitive, athletic, kind, God fearing, clever, sincere and of course generous. Problem is, . . . . . . I'm yet to meet him. P.S - please if someone sees him, send him to me. Tell him I've been looking for him and he should come home already. 1 Like |
| Jokes Etc / Re: Who Get Swag Pass by JesDivine(f): 1:23pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
The girl of course. What was the guy trying to prove? That he's got a thousand Naira note? Guys are just so dumb. Yuck!! |
| Literature / Re: What Books Did You Read That Made You Cry by JesDivine(f): 12:36pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Haven't cried for any book before, but one here in NL made me cry my eyes out. Restless - story of a survivor by Dom (can't remember his full name now). |
| Romance / Re: Side Effect Of Being A Virgin by JesDivine(f): 12:10pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
SpaceGoat: another virgin attacking meYou know, I did click on the link and guess what turned me off? Your murder of our lingua franca. It's really getting annoying. And yet I get this feeling you're trying so hard to be funny while being silly too. |
| Romance / Re: I Refused To Sleep With My Friend's Gf, Now She's Threatening Me by JesDivine(f): 11:14pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
ICEKID334: dnt mind that m0f0, he dnt want to be usefull t0 his ppleDon't be too hard on him sir, he is but a kid. |
| Romance / Re: I Refused To Sleep With My Friend's Gf, Now She's Threatening Me by JesDivine(f): 11:05pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
ICEKID334: l0l, h0lland are 4 husltinq d cup nd ah lyk dia spirit...brazil will q0 wid silver cus they are h0st c0untryLol, see how them guys don turn your thread to a soccer guessing/betting thread. Next time, make more sense, we're all tired of hearing same old story every time. |
| Romance / Re: I Refused To Sleep With My Friend's Gf, Now She's Threatening Me by JesDivine(f): 11:01pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Yungwizzzy28: She has attempted to sleep with me on several occasions but I just can't betray my friend, now she's threatening to kill meYou again? I thought by now, you would have grown up. Anyways, keep it up, the cheap popularity you seek will happen sooner than you expect. |
| Romance / Re: What Happened To The Quote''be YOUR BROTHER'S KEEPER'???? by JesDivine(f): 10:33pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
youngdoctor: Ds quote to me has gun into extinction.i introduced a crush of mine to a friend.even though i ve nt ask her out yet..i left dem in ma place in akure.for lyk 2 months..due to ma job status.At ma arrival i notised that she rarely picks ma call,neva wants to see me..Who should be blamed?? You of course. Not asking the girl out first before introducing her to your friend was a big mistake, then leaving the two alone in your place was a bigger mistake. What were you thinking? Anyways, as for your question on what happened to being our brothers' keeper, I think O.Y.O (On Your Own) happened. |
| Romance / Re: Side Effect Of Being A Virgin by JesDivine(f): 10:18pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
SpaceGoat: hmmm.. this post is aim at you to show to you the evill of the word "virgin" to you male guys and female girl out thereTo start with, your English sucks (no offence, just couldn't help noticing from all your topics I've seen). As for topic, I take it you meant that as a joke, cause apparently, your claims are based on what your small mind came up with, not on researched facts. My advice, do your homework well before you present it to your teacher. 11 Likes |
| Romance / Re: If You Have To Choose, Which Kind Of Man Will You Pick? by JesDivine(f): 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
MabraO:Yes dear, now I understand. Though you wouldn't have gone through the trouble of explaining if you had made sense the first time. |
| Romance / Re: If You Have To Choose, Which Kind Of Man Will You Pick? by JesDivine(f): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
MabraO:You might want to explain in clearer terms what you mean. Its either I can't read in broad daylight or what you wrote made no sense. |
| Romance / Re: If You Have To Choose, Which Kind Of Man Will You Pick? by JesDivine(f): 11:48pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Tough choice it is. Would have gone for guy A, but with the debts? As much as I won't choose an unromantic playboy, a romantic debtor is certainly not an option. So its none of the above for me. Or manageably, guy B. |
| Literature / Re: A Second Chance by JesDivine(f): 5:10pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
missberrypop5: Yeah, I do. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance. But not everyone is given a 2nd Chance. It can be painful. But what happens if the 2nd chance hurts more? What happens if the person didn't really change? It may affect the giver. Because to me, giving one a 2nd chance is to trust, love, accept and take one the way you've taken him before, faultless. What if your ex-lover comes back and Hurt you more than she did? Will you still have the heart to give others a 2nd chance?I get your point about giving someone a second chance and they end up hurting you more. Which is why I said a REALLY CHANGED PERSON. It's left to you to discover if the person is really changed or just pretending to be. And I believe there are cases where you don't forgive and forget. Forgive yes, but to forget? Being conscious of the fact that someone is liable to hurt you at any time makes the hurt less painful when it eventually comes. So it's left to you to decide if that someone deserves a 'forgive and forget' or a 'forgive, don't forget and also don't talk about whatever that had happened before'. |
| Literature / A Second Chance by JesDivine(f): 3:51pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
Staying at home all day long, alone, left me with no choice than to make up for the loss of company with what's available - the t.v and my phone. So yes, I spend the earlier part of my days watching t.v or handling my phone when 'our dearly beloved' decides to seize their power. Sometimes, rarely, I go out to visit the few friends I have around where I live. Other times, I do the aforementioned. So oneday, I watched this ghanian movie (can't remember the title now), it's about a guy who had to survive the hard way. He lost his parents quite early and became the parent of a younger brother and sister. They took to the streets. Eventually, his brother was killed by a mob and burned cos he stole a phone and was caught. The kid sister got raped by a man old enough to be her father. Eventually, she died of tatanus after being wounded by a rusted nail and there was no money for treatment. Subsequently, the guy became the leader of a four - man armed robbery group, who use matchete to terrorise the streets at night. One after the other, his gang membes got killed, all during one operation or the other. After witnessing the death of his last gang member/friend, he decided it was time he sought peace with his God. He became a changed man and began to take care of his baby mama and his son. Then one night, someone he had stolen from before recognized him, called a mob and they beat him up after which they burnt him alive. This got me thinking, ' Doesn't a really changed man deserve a second chance?'. Then another day, I watched a programme called 'Tales from the powder room'. In the programme, they read letters from people and discuss it. The letters are mainly on relationship/marriage problems. The letter that day was from a lady. She is 32 and he is 38. She works in a bank. The guy had been the one that took care of her and her family since her dad died, saw her through school. They've known each other for 12 years (used to be family friends before they started dating along the line). Years back, he was arrested for drug possession and convicted for 12 years. She had promised him she would wait till he's out. After 3 years, some guy in the bank she works got interested in her and wants to marry her. The family is pressurizing her to marry the man and forget the one in jail, 'afterall, when he gets out of jail in 9 years to come, he will be tagged an 'ex convict''. So the question is, 'is it right to marry an ex con? Even when the person leaves jail a changed man, do we still have to castigate simply because he happened to make some mistakes that landed him in jail?'. The most important thing is that they are changed, renewed and ready to embrace a new type of life. Someone pointed out that living with an ex con is poverty declaration because nobody will want to give him a job. Really? Are you for real? Like those employers are any better. We all make mistakes which lands us in trouble, whether we land inside our mothers' spicy lashes or inside a jail, either way, it's a mistake. The important thing is picking the lesson that comes with each mistake we make. If you think you deserve a second chance to prove yourself worthy of that girl's/boy's love after that big mistake you made, if you think you deserve a second chance after you betrayed the trust someone somewhere had in you, if you think you deserve a secod chance after you did something that deflated your parents' pride, if you think you deserve a second chance after you did all these and more, then why not them?? I BELIEVE a REALLY CHANGED person; ex convict, ex lover, ex robber, ex child or ex whatever, deserves a second chance. DO YOU?? 1 Like |
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