FutureIsFemale:
Why do men cheat?

Point of correction, 'some men'. Please speak for your family members and boyfriends and leave the rest men alone.

Assumptabeke:


If you have the basic food ingredients like rice, beans and garri in your house, you can cook a pot of soup and stew that would last you for the week with 4k.
Take for instance,
Soup: Ogbono
Ogbono: 400
Crayfish: 200
Uziza and Ugwu: 150
Stock fish: 200
Panla: 500
Pomo:300
Palm oil: 150.
Total:1900
Stew
Tomatoes and pepper: 500
Tomato paste medium size: 300
Vegetable oil: 300
Meat:700
Sachet curry and thyme:50
Bullion cubes:50
Total:1900

The remaining balance use am do transport fare go market

Food don ready.
Once you cook finish put some for inside freezer, you're good to go for the week.

Meat 700 for the week? Unless OP is staying in Gombe, Sokoto, Bauchi.etc

Mercychen:
Na so!

Dear Bride, don't be deceived. If you like look like Marilyn Monroe, men will still be men. Cheating flows naturally in their blood.

So don't fall for your father in-laws bull crap.

I'm sorry your husband/boyfriend is a cheat, therefore giving you the impression all men are cheats.

AmadiAba:
Jubilations in Anambra as Dr. Maduka Shares FREE Fuel to ALL Keke and Okada Riders in 21 LGAs | #IgbereTV

They have started o. Free this and that just to get votes.

prosperioh:
Did the person use ur number as guarantor?

Them don tell you NO, you still dey ask questions. Oya go ahead na.

johnmartus:
Before university isn't for kid but today kids has taken over.

I remember back then if you no big and you wan enter university fear go catch you. I was a bit scared when I got admitted years back but today youths smaller than I was are graduating. Back then we hardly hear about students committing suicide cos of pressure. Go to Jamb centers now you'll think you're in Jnr Waec exam hall. I remember the GCE exam back then, na big bros and aunties dey write am. Those people wey no fit wear school uniform write Waec. I wonder if they still write that GCE these days. Times are changing man

gracile:
You let it stay dry
Moisturize often, preferably with Vaseline

Vaseline crew will disagree with you

NgeneUkwenu:
As reported by the BBC Igbo, the Monday Sit-At-Home called every week by the proscribed IPOB organisation has continued to fail in Ebonyi State.

Today, was not different from other Mondays, where people are seen , going about their normal daily activities without molestation in Ebonyi State..

https://www.facebook.com/1385243528221504/posts/4532698506809308/

See pictures below.

Ebonyi state is business oriented. They're the next Anambra

paulolee:

but he gat 3 in 3 UCL games.....him with such form n winning the ucl is d main goal
PSG would always win d league without leo gaols

Out of the 3, one was Tapin and another Pk.

DOTian:
You dey find them go Dubai as per say you be interpol abi wetin?
When you leave your wife to follow all those small gals for club, Kelvin dey find you come Owerri? You go just open mouth waaaaa dey talk rubbish..

That Maria should sue every piece of fat in that your round torso untill you apologize..

I heard sense is still cheap in the market despite the dollar rise. What are you waiting for?

paulolee:
Juve use 3 seasons before DM discover say this gee na big fraud bt una own no even reach one season n am happy una don de realize say cr7 jus needs a perfectly balanced team dt he can easily score tap ins like city bcox he does nothing in building up play apart from waiting for goals..
I blame dt ref for not sending him off in dt his dirty ball play against dt Liverpool defender
If u are frustrated, react with goals on d pitch n noy kicking a player....dts a slap on his "professionalism"...

Your lord and saviour is still yet to score in a farmer's market with the best club in the league and top notch teammates.

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

You are a learner in fabrication. Your story is false and cooked up sir.

BigYash:
Blogger don nter one chance...
But Daddy Pastor should forgive na..

Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven." ... Of course, Jesus did not mean that we should stop forgiving after 490 times or even 77 times -- he meant that there should be no limits to our forgiveness.

Forgiveness is allowed Daddy....

How bloggers jump into conclusion is something else. Especially that kemi of a person

Nlanalyst:

Could that be why the money hung in the air?
I sincerely don't even know.

No. It won't even let you put your pin. Limit exceeded is what it'll say. Well, thank God for OP. One cannot be too careful in life.

Nlanalyst:
Reading through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6812771/robbed-thieves-placed-palm-oil made me create this to narrate my own ordeal.

All fingers pointing to his friend. I don't think he should be carried away.

I had an experience one time although nothing fetish was involved.

Someone cleared my account and made away with my life savings running into 400k plus.
The guy was so smart but luck later ran out of him. First, he had been watching for a very long time as he had access to everything about me. I just lost my phone and I was using a small torch light phone then. Long and short, he registered for UBA Mobile banking on his phone and he had gotten my card details the day I begged him to borrow me his phone to pay for a stuff online. I didn't know he activated the screen recording and from there he got every of my card details. Shortly after, after he had activated the mobile banking. he transferred #350k to a paga agent and as God would have it the money hung in the air due to bad network. He went ahead to credit a newly created betting account with #120k. I have never indulged in betting all my life.

The next thing I saw in my inbox was a message from an unknown number telling me I will regret ever trying to drag babe with her. Which was really shocking as I can't remember ever stooping low to fight a fellow man because of a lady. I have never done that and will never do that, no insult intended please.
Turned out the message was to sway suspicion, to cause me to start imagining who could be targeting me because of a lady while the real culprit would remain unnoticed.
The guy most have waited all his life expecting the paga agent to receive the money that never entered.

The money was finally reversed to my account the next day which was when I saw my balance and saw that more than 100k was missing. What happened, was that, the guy that carried out this act had access to my phone and he deleted the alerts while I didn't suspect a thing. The other thing he did was that....

He went to the agent hours before doing the transaction. Requested for his details and told him he had transferred the money already. He waited for a while knowing fully well that he didn't do any transfer. The agent asked him to drop his number that he would call him when he finally sees the money. Mind you, this particular paga agent was in a different city from ours. It was after he returned home he now did the transaction and coincidentally the money truly hung in the air as he already lied. I Sha was credited the next day (Sunday) and to my utmost dismay, he was the very first person I narrated my ordeal to out of frustration and he still went ahead to tell me what to do while sympathizing with me and as well raining curses on whoever carried out the act. Not knowing he was the very person.

How he was busted.

I went to bank the next day being Monday and UBA was really helpful. They gave me the details of the paga agent and the manager was so concerned about my case that he personally decided to message the betting site himself. The tears in my red eyes and the catarrh in my nose plus the hiccups must have really driven him to no choice or perhaps it's just God. He asked me to go to a nearby police station and make reports that they will tell me what to do. While I got there and they were asking for bribes inspite of my situation I returned to him (the manager) out of frustration and he decided to cut corners for me. I sincerely don't know how he did it.
All I know is that he sent sportybet a message and he asked me to come back the next day. The next day, Tuesday, I was there and he said they haven't replied him. I even thought it was the usual gimmick to frustrate me into moving on. I went back there the next day Wednesday and to my greatest surprise, the details from the betting account into which my money was credited was staring at me on the computer screen of the manager. I didn't need anyone to tell me who the culprit was. I was even thinking someone probably created a parody account of this culprit so as to further sway suspicion. But it was real.

It was John, my roommate of 3 years, my supposed best friend of 13 years. We've shared everything together in between these years. A feel for friendship wanted to let me overlook the whole thing but then when I thought about what I would have lost if not for mercy of God and when I thought about how he would have feigned innocence if he wasn't caught and would have wasted my life savings feeding his betting addiction,I trashed the feels.

He was handed over to the police which was where he narrated his tactics.
It took like forever before Sporty bet could refund my money tho, I have even almost lost interest. I just kept bombarding their email with a reminder.

Share your own experience.

Sorry for what happened to you,but I bank with UBA and have been using their mobile banking. UBA mobile banking only allows you transfer maximum of 20,000 each day for three days before you can be able to upgrade your limit. So how was it possible that he transferred that much at once?

apoti:
Former Secretary of State Colin Powell has died due to complications from COVID.

He was 84 years old.

His family released a statement on Facebook saying: 'General Colin L. Powell, former U.S. Secretary of State and Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, passed away this morning due to complications from Covid 19.

'He was fully vaccinated. We want to thank the medical staff at Walter Reed National Medical Center for their caring treatment.
'We have lost a remarkable and loving husband, father, grandfather and a great American.'
The four star general was the first black secretary of State.

He served under several Republican administrations – including for Ronald Reagan, George H. W. Bush and George W. Bush.

Also, from 1991-1993 he served as the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff for Bill Clinton after being appointed to the post by Bush Sr.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10103527/Colin-Powell-84-dies-complications-COVID.html

Rip Powel. First heard about you from Olu Maintain's song 'yahooze' and watched how you did the famous dance steps.

TooNoisy:
One thing that is very clear is that the Yoruba are the most accommodating tribe in Nigeria; no one can deny that. However, what have we got in return - hate and envy especially from the Igbos. The Hausa/Fulani are suspicious of the Youruba but they do not hate the Yoruba. The are also accommodating to the Yorubas.

The Edo/Isekiri/Urhoro are siblings to the Yorubas even though they have their own identity. The Efik/Ibibio are somewhat indifferent to the Yoruba but that is fine. The Igbos outright hate the Yoruba and it is time Yorubas become very conscious of this hatred.

Everyday they are castigating Tinubu, Fayemi and Osinbajo; and other potential Yoruba presidential candidates. The other day they were calling Yoruba women undesirable and dirty. All of them were hating on Peter Okoye for marrying a “dirty Yoruba woman” - a woman who is more educated and exposed than anyone in their generation. They insult the same Lagos where they live - why don't they just go back to Onitsha and Aba.

They insult anything Yoruba- from Anthony Joshua, Wizkid, Tiwa and everything Yoruba. These insults are not unnoticed. Yoruba will not forget and will surely retaliate!

It saddens me when we turn against each other but cry when the whites treat us like trash

Long story short. They met in the University (Delsu) when he was in 100level (10years ago) they've been dating ever since and she stood by him during the darkest of times. Yesterday was indeed one of the happiest day of their life, nothing has ever felt so damn good. The wedding was a big success and lots of love, support and prayers from everyone. Their court wedding is coming up next. Below are some pre-wedding shoot and pictures from their traditional wedding.

Kobojunkie:
You are kidding right? So all the Yusufs in the south west are also abokis?

Goodnight man.

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

No tribalism intended. But he's an Aboki cos of his name (Yusuf)

Moferere:

Illiterate Peoples of Biafra

You'll go to overseas one day. Don't cry fowl when the whites treath you like trash o. Look at you using your coconut head to promote Tribalism on NL. You and the person you quoted are jobless and senseless. God punish you both the day you cry about racism. CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.

Metrix147:


Source: https://abntv.com.ng/2021/10/sad-father-son-daughter-who-allegedly-died-after-eating-suya-and-juice-in-abia-set-for-burial-same-day-see-poster/

So painful. RIP to their souls enjoyment turn sadness. God abeg o.

Benmob:
go to sport section u will know I am a big time Ronaldo fan but I don't do sentiment in football, like kante is my Chelsea favorite player, in d euro I know if France win kante will win d uafa player award but I was very happy Switzerland kick Dem out, and again Mason mount is a Chelsea my club player but I like de bruyne and bruno fernandes than him even though dey play in Manchester clubs I don't like...

Ronaldo game impact is far better than Salah bro. His goals were meaningful and game winner. His match rating is better than sala oga. And player of the month is done by votes. Salah only scored towards the end of the month. Well, your opinion though.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

You be heavy mumu. I no pity you one bit. You deserve what you got. You're getting married to someone and u don't know her age. Ode. You did court wedding without your parents. Let me ask you. How did her brother sign for you when the court registry always gives a form to fill weeks before the court wedding,in that form you will write down the names and details of those that will sign. At least this is what I passed through from Abuja Registry. I don't believe your story though. I don't believe someone as old as you can be this stupid and weakling. I spit on your childishness

Benmob:
Am a big time Ronaldo fan even though am Chelsea fan but mo Salah deserve it

You're never a Ronaldo fan bro. CR7 fans can't and don't say such.

dkdmy:
If only he will just retire and enjoy his money! What else does he want?

Most men crave power

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

Go and open your own account. Avoid upcoming situations cos e go happen again. Maybe she miscalculated,I don't know. But OPEN YOUR OWN ACCOUNT

cosade:


Male bankers do wear earrings in developed countries.

Don't mind them. Even pastors do wear earrings. Since it's a wedding he should have let it slide. Over Sabi and some Nigerian pastors are 5&6.

It's funny nobody here is saying what the so called man of God did was wrong. Everybody dey blame the guy. Na why I hate church wedding and opted for a court wedding. Too much drama from shameless old hypocrites. Nonsense African mentality.

betcliq:
Ask am whether you be her Papa . To knack you 2by2 just dey hungry me. Simp everywhere


Train any Nigerian babe at your own peril unless you give am Belle.

In Mosdii voice those people are very useless.


That amount done reach to start up reasonable business in Nigeria.

Abeg Op give me that amount N549k to do turn over in my biz this coming season December by February I'll return N650K with value..

I can give you if you have a good collateral and you live in Port Harcourt