Martinez39s:
Egbon call am "breaking the yoke of love." Lol. This is a new phrase that I like.

Is this cruise or for real? The date is on valentine's eve

COOL10:

heartofcity12:
Loosen up bro. Enjoy life

Interesting. What makes guys stuck at stage 4 and how can they deal with it?

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

If she's not carrying your baby atm...


There is absolutely no need to satisfy her cravings...


Don't wast your time and energy fixing dates for sharwarma and ice cream for cravings that can change from yoghurt to fruit salads faster that a Porsche can go from 0-100mph..


Over indulgence in her cravings will make you lose your respect, her respect and my respect..


It's not everytime a child asks for candy that you give to it..


Don't be on the list of the men that are on her contacts solely to satisfy her cravings..


She'll lead you on, let you hug on her and if possible let you hold her waist and hands in public but you will never ever get that pussy..

Heartofcity and my other gees wey dey drop those pics from Twitter and redpill hub...


Thanks a lot..


please continue..


Also for all the guys here...



Learn to go through your screenshots on your phone once in a while...



There are vital things that you thought were important enough when you were scrolling through the internet and you screenshot them and forgot about them..


Go to your gallery and review once in awhile, some important shit is always there..

I swear bro. My phone is filled with screenshots.

Martinez39s:
Dude needs to get his priorities right.

Exactly.
Though entitled, I don't even blame the girl. She is even helping him by breaking up with him. And she has clearly pointed out all he needs to fix in his life.

There are lots of guys like that out there. They can barely take care of themselves, but they will be borrowing money to woo and impress babes. Useless simps.

robosky02:



He is good like KANU just need to built confidence

Ogbeni, that guy is nothing like kanu.

Martinez39s:
With your explanation, you point is now clear. I now get that you are saying that men ought to learn the red pill and not be simps, but going out there to game women isn't a must for everyone as they have the liberty to go monk or not, and personalities are personal interest differ; after all, going monk doesn't make them lesser redpillers.

I think the misunderstanding emanated simply from semantics: people's use of the terms "red pill" and "game" do not align even though they are referring to the same thing. Some use the term "red pill" and "game" interchangeably, while others use it differently. All that matters is that we are saying the same thing. Also, I think the problem that others had with your post was that you said LEARNING game isn't compulsory. Some think you can LEARN one or two games without necessarily PRACTICING it, and game is important to learn. As I have said, I think it all boils down to semantics.

Yeah, some guys often use game interchangeably with redpill. I don't know if that's right.
I believe game is simply player lifestyle. So, perhaps, game is a subset of the redpill lifestyle. But is this aspect of the redpill lifestyle a necessity for all men? In my opinion, it's subjective. It's optional.

Perhaps I got the semantics wrong. Perhaps game isn't just the player lifestyle in short. So, what exactly is game? I'm open for discussion.

SOZINN:




Let me just say this, a man who is unwilling to learn game must cut all sexual ties with women.. Even platonic associations should not be encouraged. He should keep himself away from the sexual market place because if he enters he is going to simp hard and get burnt.

A redpilled man can choose to do as he pleases, including having sex. A high value man does not operate by the same rules that govern minions. All a man needs to avoid simping is the redpill. Game is secondary. Game is optional. Game is like an extra fun added to the redpill. However, not everyone has time for that.

I saw you in another post analyzing Mark Zuckerberg, lol. You cannot always judge a marriage from the outside, especially one where they don't give out much information to the media. You don't know who controls the frame in that marriage, for all we know, Mark could be in her frame or vice versa so let us stick to the ones we have ample knowledge about.

Remember, Bill Gates and Jeff Bozos.

I never mentioned anything about Zuckerberg's marriage. So, it's either you lack basic comprehension or you're deliberately misleading. I said gaming doesn't suit everyone.
To buttress my point, I only pointed out his personality which we all are very aware of. He is a stark nerd. Dude literally talks like a robot.
I went ahead to say such a nerd will suck at gaming women. However, he can be redpilled if he chooses to be. And that's all he needs to be safe (from female manipulation).
I would not mention anything about his marriage, because of course I have no idea what's going on in it.

Some guys need game to get what they want. Some don't.

Every guy should know what works for him.

Smartb0y:
Guys can we take the movie talk somewhere else.
Thread is derailing

It's not derailing. The argument is on who is more alpha, who to emulate. That's very much in line with the purpose of this thread.

I believe we need that here.

Peaceyw:

People on this thread will tell you "learn game" but you think money will do it for you. Continue...

Man, you lack basic comprehension. Where in my post did I insinuate that just having money will save you? Look at who I used as an example, Elon musk. He isn't just rich, but redpilled as well. He has his sh1t together.
Eventhough game is good, he doesn't need it to land the baddest bitches in the world if he wants. And due to his redpill awareness, he wouldn't get burned in the process unlike his fellow Billionaires like Jeff and bill. Dude is too busy with so much revolutionary work to be spending time gaming some babe. And that's fine. Game is good but not compulsory.
Game doesn't even suit some people's personality. I doubt someone like Zuckerberg can ever be good at gaming even if he tried. He is just too nerdy. However, he can be redpilled if he decides to be. And that would be enough for him to be safe.

Like skepticus said, the player/gaming lifestyle isn't for everyone. Some people can have a lot of fun (playing mind games, etc.) with several women and still have their sh1t together. Others can't. Some others need to be laser focused on their sh1t in order to get it together.

It's important that every guy knows what works for him.

SOZINN:




100%. Especially for those who will get married, learning how to keep your woman on her toes is a must. You must learn game. Game is an essential part your life, you will focus on it the way you focus on your career.

Game is good, but not compulsory. Don't tell me Elon musk is focusing on game.

Tonnyray:
By the time you master this art you will find cold-approaching ladies more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.
Too many factors come into play, so much that this deserves a thread of its own.

Oya na. Open a thread. We dey your back.

DieRich5:
Dem say redpiller don't know what dere talking about
Women knows the game already ND religious is the sure back up plan to marry a simp who thinks all women in church re God fearing

Watch how pastors and brothers in the lord will flood her DM.

Smartb0y:

He made a lot of sense
It's easier said than done

Yeah, I understand him.
I was in that kind of scenario recently.
Though I was not interested because my neighbor was already smashing her.
When I saw that guy's post, it cracked me up because now I'm thinking what if I was interested and she said that to me when I made a move.... It would be really awkward
Being redpill aware is easy. But doing it is indeed a different ball game entirely.
With these girls, sometimes, you never truly know. They may just be hoping to add you to one of their beta orbiters.
But there's no crime in trying if you're interested. If she says no, you move on without looking back, without hanging around and orbiting her.

Adeniyi33:


You're very knowledgeable... But ladies are very confusing in nature. Who should initiate move? What if u fixed her light finished and you try to make move and she ask you "what are you trying to do"? The whole thing about women is confusing my boss.

Zabiboy:

Still shocked that posts like that still get some people angry...
Ask yourself, did your mum take care of you and all sorts because that's her personality or because she's hoping/knows you'll return the favour in the future?
Lets say for example, you had a maid( boy or girl) while growing up, you cant tell me there wont be any difference in the treatment/appearance/allocation of work and all sorts. And as far as this is true, it means you are being loved/cared for conditionally ( future benefits) which is the same as when you are being loved for what you can provide/money by other girls out there...
Note: No one said you should not help your parents, we just establishing the fact that despite the love and care ( which most of us would love to return back), it's still conditional and so AWALT.
The best way to know a person's true personality is how he/she treats those who nothing is expected of in return

End of discussion

Lordcassy:


I DID NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT REAL MEN AND I DID NOT CLASSIFY WHAT A REAL MAN IS...

FIRSTLY WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW WOMEN TELL YOU WHAT A REAL MAN IS...THEY KNOW NOTHING AND CAN NOT UNDERSTAND THE MASCULINE BURDEN WE CARRY..

MAYBE I WAS NOT CLEAR...I AM TALKING ABOUT A REAL MAN IN TERMS OF HOW A MAN SEES HIS FELLOW MAN..

THIS IS MY PROBLEM WITH MEN NOWADAYS...IT OKAY IF YOU CALL YOURSELF A REAL MAN IN YOUR HEAD AND IN REALITY YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT...

MEN OPERATE IN THE FORM OF MERITOCRACY AND BY GOD EVERY MAN IN THIS GROUP EXCEPT HE IS LIAR AND WIMP..HAS JUDGED HIMSELF BASED ON WHAT HE THINKS OR WHO HE THINKS A REAL MAN SHOULD BE...

LIKE I HAVE WRITTEN "THERE IS NO UTOPIA"...THIS IS REALITY AND THE REALITY IS A REAL MAN IS AN UNSONG TITLE AMONG MEN...YOU CHANGE TO GEE, GUYMAN, ALPHA, BADGUY ...IT IS ALL THE SAME THING....

MEN REWARDS DISTINCTION AND WE SUBMIT TO POWER..WHETHER YOU LIKE OR NOT IT IS THE TRUTH...

WHY DO YOU THINK MOST GUYS REFER TO THEMSELVES AS ALPHAS AFTER TAKING THE RED PILL AND FILL NEED TO CALL OTHER GUYS SIMPS AND BETA....IT IS BECAUSE MEN OPERATE IN THE FORM OF A MERITOCRACY....YOU HAVE SOMETHING OR KNOW SOMETHING THE BETAS DON'T...SO YOU SEE YOURSELF BETTER THAN THEM..RIGHT..

IF I GO BY YOUR LOGIC THEN NOBODY IS ALPHA, NOBODY IS BETA/SIMPS... EVERYBODY IS A REAL MAN..THAT IS BULLSH!T...

PEOPLE TEND TO FORGET THE REDPILL IS ABOUT DISCOVERING YOUR MASCULINITY AGAIN NOT JUST ABOUT MEN VS WOMEN THAT IS THE BASIC...THE REDPILL ALSO COMES WITH SOME HARSH TRUTHS..

SCREAM ALL YOU WANT..NOT ALL OF YOU ARE WILLING TO DO THE WORK TO BECOME A HIGH VALUE MAN, NOT ALL OF YOU HAVE THE BALLS YET TO TELL A WOMAN AS IS IT. NOT ALL CAN LEAD...

IT MIGHT BE BECAUSE SOME OF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE BECAUSE WHEN YOU IN THIS THREAD YOU ARE REAL MEN BUT AT LEAST YOU KNOW NOW WHAT A TRUE RESEMBLANCE OF AN ALPHA REAL MAN IS AND CAN COPY IT TO AN EXTENT...

THAT IS WHAT MEN ARE..WE THRIVE FOR PERFECTION AND DISTINCTION AND OTHER MEN LOOK UP US AS REAL MEN...NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE WEAKING BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE IN A HIGHER ECHELONS OF WHERE THEY WANT TO BE...

YOU CAN BE BRAGGING IN GUTTERS OR YOU CAN TRY TO REACH TO THE PEOPLE ON THE OTHER SIDES...

PLEASE NOTE: A REAL MAN IS AMORAL BECAUSE A REAL IS NOT PERSON BUT A TITLE(ABSENCE OF MORALITY)

PRESIDO IN A CELL IS A REAL MAN
PABLO ESCOBAR IS A REAL MAN TO DRUG DEALER
BUHARI IS A REAL MAN TO SOME POLITICIAN
YOUR MALE BOSS IS A REAL MAN TO YOU
CAVEADDULLAM IS A REAL MAN TO NEW REDPILLERS AND SO ON AND SO FORTH

WE HAVE DIFFERENT VARIANTS OF REAL MEN..BUT DON'T GIVE THAT EQUALITY BULLSH!T...

IF EVERY WOMAN YOU DOMINATE, YOU ARE A REAL MAN BECAUSE THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT A REAL MAN LOOKS LIKE ONLY MEN KNOW...

IF YOU ALLOW THEM MANIPULATE YOU WITH THE TERM NA YOU KNOW..

THE LORD HAS SPOKEN

This is hilarious, because I've never seen you type in caps .... You had to type in caps all through like he does just to match the argument and probably win it by having a longer post.

I can imagine you two having this argument offline. You would probably be shouting at the top of your voices. But what you should know is that your voice is loudest does not mean you're winning the argument

TLona1:


I still don’t get this.

How about the random beautiful women we see everyday and are attracted to? How do we let them do the chasing when we’re just strangers to them?

The thing is... it's haaarrdd. It's hard as fvck.
You're going to have to be very high value to be able to pull such women. They will chase you if you're very high value. If you're just one of the average Joes on the street, they won't look at you twice. Most men fall into this category and that's why they do the chasing.

Beautiful women generally do not chase, because they have an infinite supply of men chasing them.
However, If you're a stranger they see regularly and they sense that you're really high value, they will do all in their powers to get you. They will subtly start chasing you.

So, the answer to your question is simply become a very High Value Male.

When you do, those very beautiful ones will start simping for you.

Like we say, talking redpill is easy. Doing it is uneasy.

Martinez39s:
If somebody says or type "k", it means they don't want to engage further for whatever reason, good or not. The fact that you both disagree and he chooses to disengage doesn't warrant you calling him a wimp. That's going too far. He is not a wimp or an emasculated man for choosing to not engage further.

On this thread, let's solely focus on people's ideas, actions and opinions without unnecessarily calling them names or unnecessarily implying things about their disposition. We are here to learn one thing (the red pill), but we are different individuals with different experiences and background; as such, divergent views are bound to clash and it is no big deal. Simply discuss to come to a better conclusion or agree to disagree.

Sadly, I doubt guys will heed to this. I mean, if even someone like ubúnja cannot keep insults out of his arguments, I doubt most guys here will be able to.

This is sickening ..... The kinda adverts seun allows on Nairaland these days sometimes makes me short of words

Lightway:


Shut up

This advice is only for those who live in poor neighborhoods....

Where I stay, greeting someone is weird

Very weird. You're right, it's probably in the slums and ghetto/hood where you must greet the low-self-esteemed miscreants when passing through their hood in order not to be attacked by them. You must give them tips too (for doing nothing) from time to time.

Calibrator:
Be fluid like water.



Acting like Idi Amin all the time makes you very predictable and predictability breeds familiarity.

Surprise others and yourself in particular by acting bluepill at times, the burns suffered by such acts will keep your redpill lenses sharp and precise when you revert back to frame.


Redpill is a route of endless journey not a destination.

I love this.

LegitGuy22:
Redpill is more about defence not attack, if u need women in your life pls stay away from redpill.
Redpillers are the most fearful group I have ever seen, women are like lions in their eyes.

I reject redpill because it paints ALL women as evil and manipulative, which is very wrong.

Smartb0y:

Bros, you're overthinking the matter.

It's not compulsory someone greets you.

The guy matter just taya me. Most of those little girls are even shy. Some of them will frown their face when they see you. If you're experienced, you know it's mostly a defence mechanism. They will not talk to you or greet you unless they have no choice. Na normal thing.

fattprince:

True, every man with his decision though. If it were me I would help her but tell her, it would have been better for her to start with good morning.

I agree. I wouldn't bother telling her to greet though. Weytin young guy like me wan use your greeting do? Will it increase my networth?
I would just help her get the water to her head since she asked politely. I would do that regardless of the gender. Leave greeting for elderly people.
Occasionally, random girls do greet me, and it baffles me because in my mind I'm like I don't know you, so what are you greeting me for?
We too dey carry respect for head for this country.

sajmark:
Random tips for kings 3

*How to win friends and influence people* SIMPly teaches you to be a nice guy. It's a bluepill book. A Machiavellian can leverage it though.

ubunja:
calm down will you? You have literally not been insulted in any way., but you'll sit down and claim to be insulted. Smh. A whole red piller wailing. over nothing. It's all in your head bro. And no, someone using a Biblical reference to explain a point is NOT going to spark any "serious intra religious arguments". You're just being paranoid. I have referenced the Bible a lot even on this thread and not even an atheist has objected. You're just overreacting.

And anyways many red pillers are not big on logic the way you hope they are. I'm sorry to tell you. People believe what they want even when logic is presented. The topic of broke guys fuccing better than men with money is an example of how people who claim to be 100% logical can reject logic and proof when it shatters their cherished views.

Religious references will not stop,, better keep skipping as you've been doing and shut up

How old are you?

You called yourself a fool in your previous response. Now, you claim you're wailing and you're also telling yourself to shut up.
I guess those aren't insults in your books. See how ridiculous you come across?

Yet, those insults wouldn't make you right and me wrong. It's the problem with you. You think you know so much and should not be questioned. You resort to insult when you cannot logically disprove what is thrown at you. Very childish thing to do.

Now you're claiming most guys here are not logical.

All you've done so far is rant about how you're gonna continue using your religious references without paying any real attention to the reasons I gave. Post whatever you wish man. It's a free forum for all, but don't expect all to relate to those religious references. It's that simple.

Religion doesn't rely on logic, but on faith. Most of the ideas we mull over here are based on logic.

For example, you can't tell me king Solomon married 500 wives, so I should take a cue from him when I don't even believe in the Bible in the first place. How hard is it to understand this?

In order to avoid or reduce conflict in ideas here, we are suggesting that such religious and non-romance references should be discussed in their specific sections. No one is totally discrediting them.

Thanks

ubunja:
how is that different from someone saying don't get married because Leonardo dicaprio never did? Or someone saying don't get married because Nikola Tesla never got married? It's the same thing cause both cases are using real people as examples.

Religious sources are logical to us religious people,,

Exactly. But they are total nonsense to the non-religious. So, instead, why not use premises everyone can reasonably and logically relate to? Religion is all about Faith, not logic.

and a vast majority of red pillers are actually religious. I wonder why you insist discussions become flawed if spirituality is introduced.

Yes, A vast majority of redpillers HERE are religious. But the issue is we don't all practise the same religion. And the ones who practise the same religion have different understanding and views of that religion. This is basically why using religious references here is flawed. It's flawed because it's too subjective.

Even Manosphere legends like Roosh of Return Of Kings, are verbally Christian and his blogs carry religious references. Nothing wrong with this. Mankind is a religious race. Whatsmore, religion and the redpill have common aims: Don't red pillers want virgins? They do. Well religions are the foremost teachers of virginity. Don't red pillers want traditional wives? They do. Well those kind of women you'll mostly find within Christianity or Islam and other religions. Whichever way you look at it,, you'd be a fool to war against religion because it mostly wants the same things you want. And Jesus Himself never had anything against marriage. Didn't he perform His very first miracle at a wedding? Isn't He the one who said, "It is not good for man to be alone". It's Him.

Let people come to the red pill how they want man. We're from different backgrounds. Let it be. Some of us will lose interest in the red pill if the religious aspects are totally removed because then What's the point!

In your personal write-ups, in your threads, in your books, etc., by all means, feel free to use such references. It's cool. There, they won't REALLY be open for arguments unlike here where the floor is open for all.

But if you post such here,

1) don't expect to be taken seriously by ALL of us, because a lot of guys here don't even believe in your religion. We have Christians, Muslims, Atheist, Buddhist, etc. here.

2) Expect serious intra religious arguments (for example, many Christians understand the same Bible different ways, so they will argue about what is and what isn't. And we are not here for Bible studies).

I will not argue further about this. That's what I'm trying to avoid anyway. You seem not to be getting the point and resorting to insults.

All good.

ubunja:
well given that it's the Bible itself that clearly states "wives respect your men, men love your wives", a principle that is one of the core foundations of the red pill, I wonder how you feel religion is a minus for the red pill. Yes red pill is amoral and without a feeling of right or wrong, but it doesn't mean it doesn't benefit from religion. You'll be hard pressed to find a better study on male/female dynamics outside the Bible. Hate it or love it, that book is a treasure trove in lessons on human nature. I reference it a lot when I write and it has never weakened my work. If anything it strengthens it. We take lessons from everywhere - nature, science, movies, religion etc. Take it easy.

I agree. My point, in a nutshell, is guys shouldn't dwell in those religious discussions here.

For instance, you might say guys shouldn't get married because Jesus never did. But then, the Muslim guys wouldn't be able to relate to that because Mohammed had several wives.
This is common sense. It's because of this constant conflict in beliefs that citing religious sources is often flawed if we were to reason from a logical standpoint.

Thanks.

posty56:
i don't know what's bringing religion here o, there are some things better left unsaid, if you post anything religious I skip it.

It's annoying. This is the romance section. I don't know how hard it is for these guys to understand. Any topic that doesn't align with redpill ROMANCE should be discussed in the appropriate section, not here.

Don't try to use christianity or any other religion to explain intergender redpill praxeology. Go to the religion section to discuss your religious beliefs.

For me, once I see you mentioning how God never got married or how a character in the Bible did something, etc., I just skip the whole post. Not everyone here shares in your religious beliefs, so it is illogical citing religious sources. Your analogy would be completely flawed.

Let's not get distracted. We don't want any religious battle here.

Thanks.

Herculex03:
Earlier today my younger sister logged in her Facebook on my phone and forgot to log out so I decided to read her chat with her close friend,and I guess I saw what I came looking for the girl was telling my sister how she got bleeped by a guy without condom and how she feels pain and can't walk,my sister prescribed some drugs for her
Alot going on my mind now based on the fact the chat dated back to April this year
I'm not surprised thanks to TRP but I'm getting shocked because this girls are both 17 and 16yr olds.

Hope you know that your sister sef don dey collect steady raw lashing?

Femzaremz:
GIRLS!,as I'm typing this,I'm looking at some of them! It's either they are coming back from where they just got f**ked,or they are going to where they will get f**ked!!