Hello Big Mummy in Christ
The author and finisher of faith
Ekabo
I thought God said the greatest commandment he’s given to us is Love, how come you are here dishing out judgements?
So because i said engagement, you thought it was just introduction? Please ask before you put your opinion across mada
I had my court wedding already madam and he has paid all his dues,so please stop going around throwing shades at people with your words.
Practice what you preach g

Honeysweetest:
lolll��, Christ was love,do u know ur Bible,or do u read where suit u,he also ignore when wrong takes place,this is ur definition of showing love?��, u did not see my good advice,let her man do the needful,and I hope he is not the person forcing her to get pregnant before he do the needful as some men do, Lol, u call that judging, because I said things like that are not supported, do u know my story,do u know my battles,u better calm down with this ur I will not be able to talk to some mamas here if I see them face to face,lol, I fear no man nor mamal, u ended ur Epistles by saying emulate Christ,are u? u think u make any sense to me? loll,see emulators of Christ,let her man do the needful and other things will follow, oya write another Epistles, come again and teach me about battles of life.

Hey mama
Please ask well before leaping. Probably you didn’t understand what i wrote up there. I’m going to say it again, traditionally; my man has all the rights already. Okay?
Out of wedlock indeed. Lol
Nairaland really accomodates a lot

Mummy4life1:
So, you can advice me as your friend to get pregnant out of wedlock?Hmmmmmm! Please I need more enlightenment biko........

I am here to learn oooooo

Thanks

beyedew:

Maybe you should check with a Dr to rule out infection. Meanwhile I hope your "man" is ready to go all the way with you. Be sure of that before you commit yourself to getting preggy before marriage. Men can be somehow ok .

I did the right thing with the person already. Thanks ma.
Dunno why people keep judging like they are holier than thou, it’s not like I’m small or unemployed or anything.

Ayaoye:



Hmmmm..... The last part of your response is not nice..... I usually just waka pass such comment but i dont think this responds is friendly.... You dont know her story so please don't assume.... Engagement could mean a different meaning here. Even getting pregnant out of wedlock doesn't mean the person is irresponsible. Please next time correct with love. NO BODY HOLY PASS

Hey mummies in the house
I and man recently got engaged and we’ve been trying to get preggy. Last month 23/10, my period came for just half day and it was light red, the remaining two days, i had brownish discharges all over my pads. I’ve never had a day period before in my life so I’m really worried. I did a PT just now and it came out negative.i have cramps in my stomach and sometimes i feel like something is piercing me in my stomach. Even when i try to put pressure on my stomach, it pains me.
Please help mummies.

Good morning and happy Sunday guys.
Please any teaching vacancy in Ibadan?or lagos mainland? I have a Bsc in Human Nutrition and i also have two years experience in taking Food and Nutrition/Biology.
I can take Biology,food and Nutrition and Agricultural science.
Please help a sister.
Thanks.

Good morning admin,nairalanders
Please i recently finished NYSC and in dire need of a teaching job or a customer care job in either lagos or ibadan. I have Bsc in Nutrition and Dietetics and also two years teaching experience. I can take Biology, food and nutrition/Agric science
. Kindly help with vacancies around you. I appreciate your nice gesture.

Hello barbie, you inspire me with this post, can i get to talk to you please? My email is ajayipelumi32@yahoo.com or you could drop yours.
Thanks so much

barbiee:
I'm so grateful for this thread, it was long overdue but before I say anything if you are not abroad yet and want to know how you can immigrate as a nurse then follow the link above to the other thread where you can be guided in this process.
With that being said, I will go ahead and share my little experience in diaspora.
As some of you may already know I was on route to USA through the cgfns process but had to stop halfway due to situations beyond my control. During my time off I decided to look into the UK which turned out to be a good idea because few months after I started the process I landed here. I highly recommend this route if you are tired of waiting in Nigeria, you can go to the uk and work while you pursue your American, Canadian or Australian dream. The last time I checked there is a big difference between 10 pounds and 10 naira.

1. I had no issues with immigration, Nursing is on the shortage occupation list so it was easy. my visa was granted within 15 working days without having a visa interview. my employer paid for my visa and flights.

2. I landed in Manchester UK in April and what hit me first was not the fancy airport or buildings, nah it was the cold. My teeth were clattering and I was trying so hard not to appear shaky. it was supposed to be spring but it didnt feel like spring to me though. The cold was real but what was more real was the wind. Everyone kept saying I'm lucky i arrived this period because it was warm and I was like well maybe its warm to you but definitely not to me.

3,4. Working here is different from how we do it back home in Nigeria, we have to explain everything to the patient and get consent before carrying out any procedure. Handwashing nkor? I now carry hand lotion in my pocket because of it, another culture shock is addressing my boss with his or her name. No more sir or ma, they dont even like it when you say mr or mrs in front of their name, secondly I only noticed this when I got here, Nigerians say the word sorry a lot even when it's not necessary and up till today I'm still guilty of this. When someone gets hurt the first thing that comes out of my mouth is sorry and he/she will be like oh it's not your fault thirdly, there is no doctor yelling at you here because that is verbal abuse, everyone does what they are expected to do and not pass their job to someone else. Lastly, you are accountable for all your decisions and actions.

5. Work, make money, further education, travel etc

6. To all Aspiring Nurses, make hay while the sun shines, NMC uk has made the process of immigrating to uk easier and faster, do not waste your opportunities, stop wishing and start acting on those dreams. There is no better time to start this process than now.
Ps. I'm still going to pursue my usa registration but until that time comes, let me jejely enjoy my pounds.
More stories and pictures coming soon.
@tunjinodayoff
@incredible

doziej84:


hi, I'd like to make a personal request....how can i reach you?

Please,my mail is ajayipelumi32@yahoo.com
Thanks