Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

Wordsfrombimpe:


Hmmn

Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging .

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship ? Haba!
E nor go reach two years from now before them use you for ritual. Which car your papa and brothers de drive? Who be this badly brought up child? Audio millions.... Of all my friends the one who is more successful nor get car... You think say Naija boys broke? The least de drive Benz, E 350 2015. EMPTY VESSELS MAKE THE LOUDEST SOUND

God Abeg o!

007Marvel:


Na u I supposed dey tell that one! Una too dey quick to tag everything as racism. Things way dey happen for 9ja regularly

007Marvel:


I hope you remember that everything you just wrote happens in Nigeria too! Would you call that racism too? Blacks are too quick to tag everything as racist! No offense but have you crossed the Mediterranean sea before ?

juman:


It's purely American ego war.
Go and read the cause of the crisis from the beginning, its Biden war.

007Marvel:


Source: Trust me bro : :-

Obidientyoruba:
Raven are associated with loss and bad omen, you don’t have to be spiritual to know this . So connect the dots

poweredcom:


True omo when u work in a hotel you go see naija gals finish , 90 percent of dem aint virgins ....dont let dem decieve you

In my area alone wey hotel yakpa ...we don see taya we don nak taya , we don taya for dem cos they got noting to offer

Karnice600:


Sad that most women can't stand the truth, without window dressing

CodeTemplar:
chai... Naija have finish.

motionarena:


Sorry bro your Mom is among

OboOlora:
So the male counterparts also went there to sell vag1na?

We know what he’s saying is true but as a man, you shouldn’t be caught blabbing like this.

Dude is talking like a bleeping sissy! Like someone said in another thread, [/b]na why dem carry another man pikin give am[b]

Hardcore11:
ooooo please don't bring this boy issue here again we have close this chapter for long. Una dey make the forum childish

Killerbag36:

If u get mind paste ur full name for Facebook

Killerbag36:


Bro mention me wit ur full name in Facebook mk we talk sha bi I b ur friend

DispatcherLagos:
And the Christian's book told them that if the man was a Sinner before his death he will rot in hell and if paraventure his killers repents before their deaths, they will go to heaven.

Now assume that you have sense, does that make sense to you?

Chee59:
Wise advise. Now wait for alpha male to drop quote.

EriMma1:
There's this person I brought into my line of job. When I brought her in, I wanted her to learn the job very well for like 6 months or a year before she can launch out to get her own clients and be on her own but she left three weeks after following me a few times. She felt she has gotten the hang of the job and started getting her own clients and has been on her own since last year. I overlooked all that. She then started calling me along the line to teach or show her somethings on the job to which I refused because she left of her own accord knowing full well she has not learnt all there is to learn.

Now, there was a place I submitted my proposal letter and after they called me. We had a chat and after a good bargain, they told me to resume the following week. Two days to resumption, they called and told me to hold on. So I felt they got a better bargain. It pained me and I told this person all that happened and what I charged them. After that, I got two other clients who paid the same amount I charged the one that flopped. So I used those ones to console myself and moved on but was still hoping that they would get back to me someday.

Fast-forward to last week. This close pal of mine I trained on the job told me she got a call. In fact she went to that same place I told her I lost an opportunity and submitted a proposal. They now called her and she offered them lower charges and she was given the job.

At first I felt stabbed because she knew about my ordeal with the same company. I just chose not to discuss it further.

Ok, last year, I confided in her that I want to review my charges with my old clients. Like those I've been with for 4 , 5 years. Today, she called saying she reviewed her charges too with her clients. O boy! Because I reviewed, you too review? I mean something she started last year, she's already reviewing just because I told her I did and my clients have responded to it. These are clients I've had for years and you've only had yours for a few months, cos she started mid last year and she's already increasing fees. Is that how things are done? Anyways I didn't try to warn her of the implication of such act.

Now, I feel this person is just trying to compete with me and I'm thinking it's high time I start concealing somethings from her.

What do you think? Is it safe to continue divulging my plans to this person or am I overreacting?

kenedyx:


He sells the materials. There was no prior agreement of sorts ..just that naturally it's expected that I buy from him since he sells it.

But the honest truth is that I got a hold of his supplier and even other suppliers too.. the difference is just too much to ignore.

@ bolded
I get that, but should I be cheated by my own bro?

siofra:
God! I love this man so much for this. He's one of the last brave ones we still have in this world.


He knows what true love is and I respect that.

Such a supportive man. God bless you, sir.

Modified;

It seems my post is annoying some people, well, they can die for all I care.

I see topics all the time on front page telling a woman not to leave her husband just because he cheated on her.

But here I am praising a man for being brave enough not to divorce his wife for cheating and they are coming for me like I'm the devil?

Fūck all of you insulting me, what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.

Racoon:
Poor souls! They took the bullets for the wicked undeserving political elites that don't care for their soul.

sonofElElyon:


Drama King.. privatisation off NNPC is currently in process.. percentage of the shares to be sold to the public so it becomes PLC.. same can be done with ports. Then get a competent core investor.

Which one be privitise again ?

sniperr007:


You didn't answer my question.

You can't make a claim and tell me to research your claim without any resources.

I don't work with hear say.. I need facts.

If you can't provide facts.. don't make such comments.

As for number of companies reducing compared to military regime. In a sane country that's diverse like Nigeria, government had to sell its stake in most of those companies, I recommend they even sell their stake in NNPC, NTA,NRC etc.

Those organisations just increase the recurrent expenditure and loophole for corruption.

sniperr007:


Name the companies atiku sold abeg.

Don't come online and write things without having facts to back up

Thinkam:
Igbos na una dey do yourself, within 24hrs two drug users have insulted your tribe, this
Election wey una suppose just dey observe.


Atiku is coming

Mustiboy:
Everywhere you go, people hold their phones in their hands even when they have absolutely no need for it and the phones would be safer being in their pockets or bags?

Is it some kinda show-off? Cause I could swear this act is more common amongst iPhone users. Are they trying to make a statement? “Oh see the phone I use? I’m not doing too bad”

One thing I’ve noticed is that you’ll hardly find people with broken-screen phones or an entry-level smartphone holding them in their hands this way.

I overheard a Bet9ja boy narrating to his coworker how the respect he gets from folks in his neighborhood has skyrocketed because he now uses an iPhone 13.

Is it a Nigerian thing? Or na so dem dey do world over?

bassdow:


Chances are, he wouldn't agree to Save in your Bank account and that's very understandable.

if you want to help him SAVE since he seems not good at SAVING, tell him you both should open a Joint Account with both Signatory required before any MONEY could be taken out of the account.

that way, You require His consent and he requires your Consent before any debit transaction could be made on the account.

Then to further lock the money away, Fix the money in FIXed Deposit account and you both should be aware and the duration should be atleast 1-year. hopefully if after 1-year he sees the total figure, that might make him want to save more.

Things such as this have to be introduced very gradually especially since You are not just a LADY but a girlFriend.

He needs understand it's not rainy always and he ought not go broke easily just because His salary was delayed or worse still, lost his means of livelihood

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

mrvitalis:

Europe fought themselves for over 1000 till them formed state along ethnic lines and in their own terms

What I'm saying is every ethnic nationalities in Nigeria should have control of their land resources and police simple ...rule yourself what ever way you seem fit

Simple ...if any ethnic group can't develop themselves it won't affect anyone then them simple

mrvitalis:

Oga did you read what I wrote at all no us talking about states ,?