Avoid heartbreaks by all means. You need to treat your relationship in a business-like manner. Damaged hearts go about damaging others. Stop the cycle by being more intelligent in your approach.

Okay, here comes six 'sins' you shouldn't commit in a relationship towards marriage.

1. Don't choose your partner over your business or career. A partner is more easily replaceable.

2. Don't wait unilaterally for your partner for years in order to marry them. If you're ready, and the other person is not ready, move on to whoever is more ready. If there should be a wait, it is because BOTH of you are not yet ready, both of you. Not one person ready, and has to wait for years for the other person to be ready.

3. Be generous, but don't INVEST heavily in a person you're not yet married to eg. Training the person through University, or sending the person abroad. Don't be sīlly. Such heavy investments should be for only someone you're married to, and you both have at least a child together. Children solidify the commitment to a union/partnership.

4. Don't get into a serious relationship with someone who has a genotype of AS if you are also AS. Know on time, and cut off before any emotional entanglement. Don't be unfortunate, except you're willing to bury your own children.

5. Don't get pregnant for a man who's not at least 95% committed to marrying you. Don't be a single mother, and reduce your chances of getting a spouse later.

6. Don't forgive someone who physically assaulted you or cheated on you in a relationship, thinking the person will change. It will get worse in marriage.

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1. Reproduction Is Rigged In Favour Of Youth

This is perhaps the most inarguable fact why marrying early is preferable, and this affects wœmen more because of pregnancy.

Pregnancy is called a “hyperdynamic state”. What this means is that it places a lot of PHYSICAL STRESS on your body, and your body never remains the same after each pregnancy.

Most athletes involved in strenuous physical sports are at their peak in their 20s and early 30s. Most of them retire in their early to mid 30s. It is the same with childbearing. According to Obstetricians, after 34 years, a wœman is regarded as “ADVANCED” in maternal age, with its attendant complications... If you marry early and start procreating early, you will also stop early.

2. The Stress Of Early Parenting

Children are born helpless and hapless. You do every single thing for them. You don't wanna know how your sleep patterns will be disrupted by having a new born baby at home.

Everything about taking care of a child, including school runs and helping to do assignments is stressful and a lot of work. It is better you do these things as a young person, trust me. You don't wanna be in your 50s and be doing school runs for preschoolers and preteenagers. By then some health challenges of age are already creeping in.

3. As You Age, You Lose Your 'Innocence' & Become Set In Ways

It is said that a f00l at 40 is a f00l forever. It simply means that after 40, you're no longer flexible and malleable. Yes.

Marriage involves a lot of compromise and the MOULDING of two lives TOGETHER. For clay to be mouldable, it needs to be wet and flexible. When you're still in your 20s and early 30s, that flexibility is still there. A lot of ADJUSTMENTS can still be made.

As you grow older, you tend to be too rigid and calculative and suspicious of intentions. You tend to be less vulnerable to your partner, which of course is an important ingredient for a sweet intimate relationship.

In your career, you're already made. Your partner never saw you through the PROCESS of how you climbed to the top (if you're at the top). It makes your partner have less SAY or STAKE in your life.

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Pastor Azzaman has released a strong allegation against the Vice presidential candidate of All Progressive Congress (APC), and former governor of Borno State, Kashim Shettima, of being one of the Boko Haram sympathizers.

Azzaman stated that Shettima's past records when he was governor of Borno State had implicated him as a member of Boko Haram.

"His brother is a Boko Haram commander. Kabiru Sokoto, the Christmas Bomber was hidden in one of the Government Houses in Maiduguri.

"He is one of the masterminds of Chibok girls Kidnap and he went to Jonathan in Aso Rock shedding evil tears not crocodile tears. Instead of dismissing Chibok secondary school principal he rewarded her with Commissioner.

"Borno State is about 40% Christians (Askira Uba, Gwoza, Chibok and Biu etc this areas are predominantly Christians) yet no single Christian from Borno have come out to speak in his Favour," he said.

He continued; "Remember in terrorism, the following are participants:

1. Strikers

2. Midfielders

3. Defenders

4. Goal keepers.

"Tinubu's Deputy from all indication he is not a striker, he is not a defender nor is he goal keeper in the game of Terrorism but he is a midfielder who feeds the strikers with what to score goal (Terrorism) with. And I have a very strong premonition his role in the Chibok kidnap which lead to the removal of GEJ due to high level evil deception ,even Christians where deceived led to his compensation by the North as the running made of Tinubu.

"An Agricultural Economist and a Banker, obviously he is intelligent. I wonder how an intelligent man like this can go so low but that's Religion for you. I have 11 years experience in Banking and also an Agricultural Economist, now a Pastor. I can't go so low and my Religion teaches me to love not deceive for the gains of my Religion.

"This is the man I see some stomach Glory Pastors supporting. The blood of every Chibok girl and the blood of every Christian killed by the help of this man shall follow every Christian that votes Muslim-Muslim ticket."

Azzaman cautioned that electing such a character as vice president will spell doom for Nigeria.

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The Presidential Candidate of the Labour Party Mr. Peter Gregory Obi on Friday visited the Emir of Kano, Alhaji Aminu Ado Bayero where he reiterated his desire to serve Nigeria.

Obi visited the revered monarch as he arrives Kano to sympathize with the Kano Flood Victims as well as Beirut Road Collapsed Building.

The former Anambra State Governor, who said he has been exposed to various areas of governance for years, noted that he is experienced to lead Nigeria.

While he told the Emir he is in the state for sympathy visit, Obi said he deemed it appropriate to make the Palace his first point of call.

The visit to the palace, Peter Obi explained, is to pay Royal Homage to the revered Emir and also to formally inform him of his intention to run for president in the coming election and also to sympathize with him as a Royal Father for the twinntragedy that befalled the state penultimate weeks.

On his part, the Emir of Kano expressed his happiness for the visit and said he admires Peter Obi's eloquence, calmness, humility, respect for culture, and fear of God. He also thanked him for having respect for culture.

The Emir who said the country is blessed with resources but wondered why there’s suffering and poverty and crime, said he believed Obi is eminently qualified for the position as he did it as Anambra State Governor where he wished Peter Obi well in the pursuit of his ambition.

Peter Obi was in company of Kano State Gubernatorial Candidate of Labour Party Engr. Bashir Ishaq Bashir, his running mate Dr. Datti Yusuf Baba Ahmed and members of his entourage.

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