Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 10:16am On Jan 17, 2020 |
bamidelee:
But male folks are to be blamed for the body count. If you don't have sex with them and dump them after your satisfaction, that body count won't exist. That's why am against sex before marriage its not my fault someone is so desperate to have an iphone and theh throw themselves at me, then you expect me to ignore 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 9:57am On Jan 17, 2020 |
majormofor: My only advice for men is if you given birth to a girl with a baby mama or who ever try training the girl yourself... BE involved in it so she wnt come out the same way ladies raised by single moms are worse 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 12:03am On Jan 17, 2020 |
ubunja: loneliness by itself wasn't going to cost Adam his life, home and relationship with God. But companionship has done that.
Look at the mess that Prince Harry has got himself in by marrying a divorced woman, Megan! She found him a prince and has succeeded in taking him out of the Royal family and making him just another guy in Canada. Wake up. Women will separate you from your destiny. Truly women are destroyers of Kings. Saith the Bible.
Its isolated. It's 1 in a million. But 1 is too much already. Cause we only have one life. the harry guy is an example of simp men.. acting like babies, letting a woman control you... lol.. she didn't even take his name, thats a red flag and a huge disrespect to the royal family 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 11:05pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Hisduchess:
Babe biko Preach! Preach!! Preach!!! Nah them dey often open yeye threads up and down to bash and talk trash. If you ain't married as a man,no one takes you serious in any gathering.they will always wave your talks away cos you never keep woman for house.this is Africa and marriage is a yardstick in measuring so many things about an adult. In Igbo we call them okokporo and old okokporos often gets senior okokporo kolanut during traditional marriage and nah subtle insult be that ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) lol no one cares if a man isn't married... we aren't like women.. why do you people lie so much in this group... i know we just revealed the hard truth that you will remain single forever.. i understand, i was in your shoes, I'd react the same way you did.. its okay life is unfair.. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 11:02pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Rapmoney:
Young man, you are very wrong. I don't know your age but from your thread, I don't think you have gathered enough experience in life to gain emotional maturity. The reason why many ladies are still single has nothing to do with the mindset of men of your kind. The main reason is tied to the fact that many young men are not financially placed to furnish the cost of marriage and family upkeep.
Don't conclude on issues just because someone woke up one day and decided to write some stuff without taking cognisance of prevailing societal factors.
American men too are not financially stable?... its simple, men aren't getting married because there are more cons than pros... 11 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 9:02pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Mineisgrace: Who are the people now getting married every Saturday where... and nairaland is full of ladies giving us jamb list criteria.. the amount of people getting married on Saturdays have reduced 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 9:00pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
aytuns:
Not in Nigeria/Africa. Our laws are still very fair on men, so why won't men here want to get married? for us its more about.. pros and cons.. if you check it well you'd see why you shouldn't bother 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:52pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
MedicH:
Wimpy is not me men u got the wrong guy. I doubt if u strong in mind reach me. Have u ever held a body till it turns cold in death then u leave it and walk away like nothing happened? I am here to relax and have fun and i love my women damn this life is short. just as i love to use my brain cells in all i do. Next time u have nothing to say just lean learn to shut ur mouth and observe.
I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.
I think pocohantas is a great personality i observe her inputs here from a distance i don't even follow her but that doesn't mean im head over heals sort of and even if it is, it's not ur business.
By virtue of the number of years i spent in the uni i can say I've virtually seen and interacted with more women than u but you wont find me come here to bash women and throw in hasty generalizations not minding that my mother and only sister are female because i know better. Majority of what u read here are one sided accounts and some are fictitious but hey no one is perfect. oga leave your long story, you're a wimp.. you've already showed us how woman dey shark you... all this men dem wey na touch breast before.. ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) sha send her a message, maybe she go give you breast suck.. onye ojo 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:43pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:40pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
ubunja: lmfao. Simps will be simps. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:35pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
MedicH:
This charismatic controversial pocohantas just mentioned me today lol beautiful. Dont mind these men oo i want to marry. If u are ready, call me all these wimpy men acting like sheeps anytime them see woman.. all this secondary school behaviour that time when we see woman... men like you are just weak... Toto wey we don knack tire na hin you won kill yourself for ndi ara 21 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:31pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Comments on an american youtube page i follow ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ... this reality is hitting bad... then they even have feminism there... suicide rate will increase in this decade lool 5 Likes 1 Share
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Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:26pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:
Lol. Look at someone damaged by Hollywood, Bollywood and Nollywood telling me I'm damaged by Ubunja's miseducation. My friend, I found out the true nature of women before I was 16; probably before NL even existed.
My old neighbour sits outside his house the whole day on a cane chair until his maiguard takes him inside the house in the evening. Where he even gets his food; I have no idea. His wife has been in the States with her grown children who have never invited their father to my knowledge. I never saw him pick a phone call from the wife and children that he squandered his money and youth on. Another old pensioner neighbour is constantly being ridiculed by his loud wife because he can no longer bring home the cash. If you see how this once proud man is broken, you will pity him. If not for the fact that he owns the house and the shop which she uses to sell stuff, I am sure that his wife would have left him since.
Is that the kind of companionship you wish for me? No thanks. Forget that nonsense about smiling old married couples vacationing in Hawaii. It's a myth. he still believes all that Cinderella story 13 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 8:11pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
pocohantas:
There is nothing to be ashamed of there. These women couldn't get men in their home countries, but can conveniently come to Nigeria and pick able bodied men You all are the ones that should be ashamed. Dump them were? Only in your dreams. You think that place is Nigeria?
Your brothers are fcking SUBMISSIVE there. Go try your alfaness there and get eboued. Haq haq haq... ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) e still pain you hahaha ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) old ugly white women is still getting husband from nigeria when fine young women cant.. chai.. life is unfair.. if you're lucky you'll find a man.. dont worry shiloh is there ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) sorry life is unfair 11 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 6:55pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
pocohantas:
Alfa males like you would be used for anything in your PRIME, all it takes is pali.
Once you commot MM, nobody rate you. So, sit down and be humble. lol how many successful women are there?... lol how many times do we see this happening?.. but we see men using you hoees everytime... aren't you just our slaves...? Abeg relax, those men use thouse white women and dumb them.. are you angry no man desires you but an old white lady. You no dey shame say na old white mama dey carry all your husbands ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 6:11pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
pocohantas:
They are not dumb, they get young prick and a caregiver. I am sure your fellow alfa males are the ones washing their clothes and reminding them to take their drugs.
My Naija sisters hustle and get pali o. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) lol so you rather be used for your money at your old age, is this what you derive pleasure in? 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 5:56pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
pocohantas:
Very true. Naija alfa males hate evening newspaper, until she has a foreign citizenship. They'll gladly lick her ancestral toto.
Tell us something we haven't heard. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) lol thats men being smart and playing dumb women who are desperately looking for masculinity.... lol its all about using and dumbing them. Its not love 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 5:41pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:
We are here trying to educate other men on how to get their masculinity back, we are not looking for wife. If we were looking for wives, why are there so many desperate spinsters still on NL?
Those are pussified men that are still not woke. We will wake all men little by little.
We advice women to stay with their husbands FOR THEIR OWN SAKES, and that of the children. If unmarried ladies cannot get husbands, what are the chances of an overused divorcee finding one?
See above.
They are mocked for their misguided belief that they will always be 'hotcake', and the attitude that they show thinking that because men toast them today, they can get a husband anytime they like. Most women do not understand that because a man chases after a woman, it does not necessarily mean that he sees her as an attractive life partner. 99 times out of a 100, he merely sees her as an easy lay for short time relief.
It has started. Many are not, and more are joining. Even those of us who are married mostly stick around for the kids and are totally indifferent to the women we married, doing our own thing and planning our own futures. And one day soon, 50 of you will hold on to a man's cloth offering to buy your own food and upkeep if the man will only let you share his name.
The only contradictions are in your diehard manner of understanding the changing dynamics that feminists have dug themselves into when even your feminist predecessors have seen the light and are abandoning the misandrist ship en masse. Google former feminists like Cassie Jaye, Lorraine Murray and Mary Kenny and LISTEN to what they are telling you. There is a mass awakening among women about sensibly rushing back to the kitchen to retain men in their lives.
Write a sensible comment first. you said it all bro... see linda.. that one don dey find man anyhow now, but too bad, nobody wants a 49 year old woman.. let them keeo joining feminism... lol their graves 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 5:36pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: You don Nack and tire, yet you complain that women have many body counts and have loose vjays. If men are the ones nacking and getting tired, then they definitely deserve the lose vjay. By the way, we still have so many decent women, if you can't get one, then maybe you don't deserve one.
From this write up, I feel the failure of marriages is caused mostly by men, I am not interested in going into details cuz many threads on this forum do address that, however, the men should stop the babymama syndrome, because it will turn out to affect men in the long run. As long as the woman is the one who carries the pregnancy, nurtures the child, she can make/or/mar the child, infact the foetoes. She can turn the child against the father. Have we not heard of some women groups abroad who want the emancipation of men and are out to control the number of male child births? Nature created us male and female, children should be brought up properly in marriages, men should appreciate and treat the modern women right, that way, marriages will be beneficial for both genders. don't blame womens extra curricula affairs on men.. you always blame men for everything... is not the desire for luxury and money that makes women keep body counts?... is it my fault you are so insatiable and the only way yoh choose to get things you want is by sleeping around.. how am i supposed to turn down that offer when a woman willingly throws herself at me for money, how do you come to the conclusion of blaming me?.. how did that work out? 14 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
zexy2030:
How can this one be a wife material? Just thinking...ur character need to be checked if u r still searching. I just understood why u regularly visit romance section. Good luck. yes nau, na their type, desperately looking for husband, any thread against marriage they hate it 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:40pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
cerpvad: Good. Don't you think you will be happier when you go to stadium in the company of your wife, children and grandchildren at that critical old age than to go alone? I watch premier league well and I see people both old and young in the company of their families watching the games and they appear happier than those who have come there alone oga why would i be happier with a burden?... do you know the problems of the average man in the society today... watched a documentary on paternity fraud going on in america... an instance is a man found out his 3 kids he had been training for over 7 years weren't his...he filed for divorce, the court still mandated he oaid $1000 weekly in child support.. even though the biological father of the kids are still alive.. .. weren't you here when a nigerian doctor came out and said 4 out of 10 nigerian men father kids that aren't thiers without them knowing... is that the kind of shi't you're so wager and happy to deal with?.. I'm not.. you can go ahead ,not my problem ... (modified) guess what he had o forfiet his morgaged house to the womman.... he was still paying morgage for the house even though it wasnt his anymore... the woman brought the biological father to live with her in the mans house 16 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:31pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Honestly its weak men that go crazy about marriage.. when everybody is waking up you're fooling yourself.. is it babies you want? Just knack one babe and pay her off.. easy 10 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:30pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
cerpvad: Marriage is part of total success. Your misery go be like imported from hell if at old age it is only you sleeping in your cold bed lol a man has alot if things that makes him happy.. i work with american clients in the 3d animation world.. most if them are in their 69s, 70s.. in a group video, something led to this investigation, most of them weren't married.. some have never been married.. guess what they are still geeks, own software companys, and they say they've never been this happy alone 20 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:26pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
cerpvad: Na the video games go be human company you go badly need at your old age àbí? Na the premiere league go dey fulfil your sexual fantasy at old age? I pity you you bruh lol go england make you see as old men dey enter stadium watch games.. dont let Nigeria poverty mentality finish you bro... so you're saying all the babes you've been knacking, you've married them...?.. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 20 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 4:16pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
cerpvad: I keep saying it that those of you who are against marriage now, na loneliness go kill you at old age. lol how can a man be lonely, when there is premier league, la liga, seria a.. when i can always play video games?.. am i a woman? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 28 Likes |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 2:17pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
MrCork:
Great news..quit wasting time advisin the planet. I juss found a man for u,Davash222. He said he love lesssbian & that u the best feminist on nairaland. Please giv him ya nomba & call him so shes even a feminist feminist that is looking for a real man... onye ara
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Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 2:14pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:
Lol... I will not be a single forever. I'll soon post my wedding pics here and you'll see it live! Ok? You have chosen that part so be it unto you.
Real men dont reason the way you do. It because you're not a real man, thats why you have a poor and weak mentality. Real men dont argue with women and that is why you're backing out cos uoi can live with your fellow woman as you'll have troubles cohabiting like you rightly said. Only sissies like you would support this post.
As for me, I will marry a real man who can handle me like a real man should.
Tot I was talking to a man though. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) thats what you ladies always say when men don't desire you.. "real men" dont do this real men don't do that...lol go and sit down, that real man talk doesn't move me at all... lol, i choose to be sensible not have anything to do with women these days because of their sick attitude and live style and you say for that reason I'm not a real man because i reject you? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) how about if women were real women they wouldn't be knacking half of the guys on a street.. lol you cant trick us with the real men talk.. we no want una again... lol i bet your not in a relationship, thats why you're here struggling to prove a point... ehyaaa 52 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 1:59pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 1:58pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:
You guys should speak for yourselfs. I don't know why you're making it look like its a taboo for an eligible spinster to be on the lookout for a man to marry. Should I be looking out for a woman? Or cant you see you're beginning to sound off?
The fact that majority of you are here to flirt away your lives doesn't mean there no decent men out there who still have sense and understand God's purpose for their lives to marry and obtain His blessings.
If we check those of you always coming here to bash women, youll likely be all these dry looking men we avoid in real life. Yes! So what's the boast about? Na una type? why do you ladies always say men who reject marriage are not matured or are small boys.??.. you don't think its normal for men to reject the marriage union?.. wakeup.. sensible men are waking up... nobody wants to deal with a womans problems... you just cant accept the fact that men aren't rolling over heels for women anymore... why should i suffer for a vagina with alot of body counts that its now loose as hell.. please keep it, if you say there are some men out ther willing to marry, why are alot of women single... you better face the reality, you might be single forever 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 12:54pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
oodua1stson: Not surprising baby mama ti take over.
Just get someone pregnant, send upkeep money and be free from all bullshit thats the best thing, no drama 16 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Have You Noticed Men Aren't Interested in marriage Anymore? by Kennedyiheme: 12:53pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
AfroKnight:
He is right.
You know he is right cos you yourself are still on the look out for a man to marry.
Marriage is no more attractive to men cos of the way society glosses over the toxicity these women bring into their marriages. Sometimes you wonder if it’s a home or a battleground for women against men.
Guys are leaning towards illegitimate children these days. Babymama drama is not as difficult to deal with as crazy wife drama. she cant accept the truth, just insecure.. watch out for women coming to bash this thread 47 Likes 1 Share |