I am a lady of 25-years, staying in my sister’s house in Lagos. She payed my elementary, middle, high, & she is even paying my university fees for me. Also, she gives me whatever I ask for.

The problem is that, I have developed a strong feelings(love) for her husband. I started dating her husband when I was in SHS 2. He loves me, I love him. We really love each other.

He said he made a mistake of marrying my elder sister, but I am the one he loves. I love my sister’s husband so much, & he is a real business man, physically strong, both in bed & money.

Now, he wants me to be his second wedded wife. But I also do not want to be a second wife. What I want him to do, is to divorce his wife(my elder sister).

We spoke about all this in the room, Not knowing, all what we were saying in the room, she heard it. Came in & threw hot water on me, fought with me, & bite my ears. I just recovered 4-days ago.

Still the man wants to be with me, but the obstacle is my sister.
Please help me, what should I do ? I want to kill my sister to get her husband. I really love the man.

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Slynation:
It's quite interesting how most married people are trying to get out of marriage while the single ladies and guys are trying to get in....

My partner and I have been married for 11 years. We were in love. We were ready to face the world together.

1. You can go to bed angry.
There is an old saying along the lines of “never go to bed angry” or some bullshit about working through an argument before you go to bed. This is utter and complete nonsense.

No one, in my opinion, should be fighting or arguing or having lengthy discussions when they are tired and cranky. Staying up to work it out may only make things worse.

Many times we have gone to bed angry with each other, lying on the furthest sides of the Queen bed, and have woken up with a fresh perspective of whatever it was we were arguing about. And then we could sort it out like well-rested, calm adults. Honestly, many times, the only reason we were fighting was because we were tired.

2. You will argue about money.
At some point in your relationship, money, where to spend, where to save, and where to invest will come up, and you and your partner may have different ideas of what is best.

My partner and I have been fairly financially stable throughout the majority of our relationship, but have still had arguments and disagreements about money. Some were silly, some were more serious, and we got through all these arguments.

Our biggest life-saver was our joint budget that we manage on a shared Google Sheet.

3. You will be annoyed and you will be annoying. It’s okay.
Your partner will annoy you and irritate you. You will annoy and irritate your partner. These feelings are perfectly okay. We are only humans after all.

The major difference between my partner and me when it comes to being annoyed is that I will speak up and say I’m annoyed and need to be left alone to let the annoyance leave me. And this annoys the crap out of him.

I can tell when he is annoyed because he becomes withdrawn, a bit dark and broody. This is also his go-to behavior if he just needs space. But I know, when I see this, it’s my sign to silently slink away and let him deal with whatever he needs to deal with.

4. Your partner will do the laundry differently from you, it’s not wrong…it’s just different.
Unless they toss your jeans into the dryer at the hottest setting, then it’s wrong. And this needs to be rectified ASAP because you only have so many jeans and you can’t be wearing a pair that is now two sizes smaller and about 5 inches shorter than it should be.

5. Your partner is not telepathic, and neither are you. You both need to speak up.
This was something I swore I would never bring into my marriage. My mother loves “giving hints” instead of speaking up and saying what it is she wants you to do. And would then become angry and withdrawn when nobody got the hint. I would say it’s probably taken my sister, father and I about 30 years to figure out when she is hinting at something.

Hints don’t work. Speak up. Encourage your partner to speak up. You can’t wait for 30 years until you or your partner have figured out when the hinting is occurring.

Similarly, your partner doesn’t know if you are angry, upset, sad, wish they didn’t throw your jeans into the dryer at the hottest setting unless you speak up and say something about it. Encourage your partner to speak up as well. Open communication is the key to a healthy relationship.

6. Nagging helps no-one.
That’s all I need to say here. Nagging helps no-one.

7. Saying “I need attention” is a great way to get attention.
My partner is not very physically affectionate. It’s just not in his nature. And to be honest, I’m not the most physically affectionate person either. But sometimes, I need to be affectionate and I need to cuddle or I need to hold hands. I find the best way to get this type of attention is to tell him straight up that I need attention.

If he has spent the entire day playing a PC game and has retreated into the world he lives in and I need some adult human attention, a chat, or whatever, I tell him.

8. You won’t always find each other sexy. And sometimes you will be attracted to other people. It’s perfectly fine.
Especially if you have been in a long-term relationship. Sometimes you or your partner may even have a crush on someone else. And that’s okay too. It will pass and you might even be embarrassed that you had a crush on that person.

But if you are in a monogamous relationship, acting on these feelings is what isn’t okay.

9. Your partner may decide that your expensive hair conditioner is just the thing he needs to keep his beard soft, luscious and healthy.
You’ve noticed your conditioner, which you pay a pretty penny for, seems to be decreasing at a slightly faster rate than usual. Your shampoo-conditioner ratio is out of whack. Then one evening you see it, your partner is squeezing a decent-sized glob of your conditioner, and rubbing it into the beard he has been nursing for weeks. But you don’t mind, it makes it soft and cuddly.

10. Just because your partner isn’t in “the mood” does not mean they don’t love you anymore.
The body and the brain are a complicated thing. And if your partner isn’t in “the mood” it doesn’t mean they don’t find you sexy, or that they don’t love you. They may just be going through something. More often than not, they are stressed out or sleep-deprived. Ask them what is going on, let them speak, let them know you are worried.

11. These following words are important and should be said when needed:
I am sorry.Please. Thank-you.I love you.

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Timileyin1234:
Some Nigerians are evil

Very Evil.

okomile:
Shine your eyes!
Eko for show!

Many girls are gullible and dumb.

God will keep us and our families for the remaining days in 2019

Amen o

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Last night, my nineteen year old daughter got a mouthwatering offer for an ushering job. The pay was N10,000 per day. It was for 3 days. She and her friends were excited about the offer.

We had been talking about discerning spirit and she just felt all wasn’t right. When something is too good to be true then it is. She said one of the things that struck her was when he offered her VIP section to usher and she asked if the pay was different, he said no so she opted for regular.

She then googled the event the guy mentioned. There was nothing on the net about the event. For a big company like Coca Cola there should be some hype about their launch but that wasn’t the case. There was nothing about it on social media or their site. She became suspicious. The address he also dropped was bogus too.She called the guy to ask questions he couldn’t answer. When they were too much, he blocked her.

She quickly notified her friends and one of them called him. Guess what, he was arranging a hookup for them for the weekend. Imagine! If the girls had shown up, they would have been lured for hookup. But was it really hookup?

The kidnap spree now is no more to get money but for organ harvesting. People are disappearing especially young girls and it is because they are lured with financial gains. Imagine making N30k in a weekend for standing for six hours. Many young girls will jump at it but these are guise used to lure girls into prostitution or get their organs.

Get close to your wards. We are living in perilous times which require us to get closer to our maker and get our children to know Him too.

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When you think of a broken heart, you probably picture something out of a romantic movie or a cartoon heart, cracked like a fragile piece of china. Indeed, so-called “broken heart syndrome” has a certified place in popular culture, and has been eloquently used in films such as The Notebook. But while we certainly feel “heartbreak” during periods of emotional upheaval, can you actually die of a broken heart?

The answer is never going to be simple, so first we should start with a bit of science. In the last two decades, atrial fibrillation (AF), a form of irregular heartbeat, has become one of the most important public health problems and a significant cause of increasing healthcare costs in western countries.

Individuals with AF have a five-fold and two-fold increased risk of stroke and death, respectively. It is estimated that there will be 14-17m AF patients in Europe by 2030; with 120,000–215,000 new cases diagnosed each year. In the United States, AF prevalence is projected to increase from 5.2m in 2010 to 12.1m cases in 2030.

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spirul77:
how people believe stupid stories like this amazes me.fable!!!

It obvious...... Spill it out and free your conscience.

Rajman45:

The only women that interest me are the ones I have affection for. Reasonable folks don't cross some lines

Everybody is not like that you know....... What if the guy refused her severally but the lady kept pestering and na only two of them come dey house o.

Rajman45:
Ur fiance is a womanizer..... Better now, than to be sorry forever.
Look for a better man.

You cant really blame him naaa. If you were the man would be starring at her over the Night ?

MEGA4BILLION:
So you are telling us that you sent a basket of fish to a cat. My advise; please allow that cat enjoy its fish in peace.

... Even after realizing the fish had lots of BONE ?

2special:
I have Nothing to learn from the story

Obviously...... "Birds of the Same feather"

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Miss Adetutu narrated how her friend had called her few weeks to her Introduction about having nowhere to stay at Ibadan, after a seminar she attended.
Her story:

My friend Adeola said babe I have nowhere to crash the night do you have anyone I can stay with, I replied her and said I don't have anyone except my fiance.
But let me call him.
I called him and he said anything for me.
My friend later went to my fiance place at apata, she stayed the night and the next day came back to lagos.
Just last week she called me and said I can't go ahead with my introduction because am about to wed the Father of her child.
I asked If she was alright and she said the other day she slept over at my fiance place they had s** together and had resulted to her pregnancy.
Am confused. My fiance has apologized to me after I confronted him. And I already promised him at the beginning of our relationship that I will always forgive him no matter what.

I want to go ahead with the wedding but the issue of my friend pregnancy Is the issue.

Please advice me what can I do

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CC: LALASTICLACLA - Everyone needs to read this Heart touching true story that happened in Ebonyi state few days ago.

Lady Shares Heart Touching Story of Her Friend who Slumped and Died During His Wedding.

This is her story:

Saturday 19th OCT 2019 ����

@Chukwuemeka Onwuka , I remember you visiting my office in August when you came to Lagos for a seminar, even with your very tight schedule.
My first encounter with you was in 2010, PSF Absu chapter when I ran away from holding a post in the fellowship.. I remember you always telling me that God will surely catch me and I must serve him whether I like it or not..
You will always laugh at me and call me ‘MAMA in the making’, I would frown at the tease but today my service to God is not measurable..

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After school and I went for service in Lokoja (2015), I met you again by chance (apparently you also got a job in Lokoja) and was even staying behind my lodge and you became an elder brother again...
Fast forward to August/September 2019, we talked about life, my relationship and yours and boom you told me you have found the one and will be settling down soon.. you gave me full gist about how you popped the question and I blushed on your behalf ��
On my birthday, you made your colleagues sing a happy birthday song to me and the list remains countless...
I have woken you up as early as 5:30am to ask for advice and you are ever ready to be brother and friend..

I was supposed to attend your wedding but for some obvious reasons I couldn’t and as usual, I was waiting for your wedding pictures..
I am still waiting for that wedding picture from you..

Haven’t been able to sleep well, and for days I am still in shock , and writing this down I pray will give me the closure I seek bcs the last time I felt this way was when my dad died..

Still praying you aren’t gone forever and there is going to be a miracle and for some reasons we will meet again..
When they talk about a Christian brother, you are one I could vouch for.......

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Dr Eugene Gu, Surgeon-scientist specialist in saving the lives of infants with congenital heart and kidney diseases. Subpoenaed but not silenced by Congress who as also Sued Donald Trump and won has this as a reply to Trump on abortion.
See his words:

No responsible doctor anywhere in the United States would terminate a healthy fetus that can be safely delivered and survive on it’s own outside the mother’s womb. In most cases, this is when a fetus weighs more than 500 grams and is older than 24 weeks of gestation.

Trump and the Republicans are trying to confuse the American people about the concept of fetal viability. There are fatal diseases like bilalteral renal agesis, where a fetus has no kidneys, and anencephaly, where the fetus has no brain, which are totally incompatible with life.

If a fetus has a totally fatal disease like bilateral renal agenesis or anencephaly, it will not survive whether it is 25 weeks, 35 weeks, 40 weeks, or even after delivery. Forcing mothers to carry these babies to term no matter what is psychologically traumatizing and cruel.

There are also cases where the mother’s life is in severe jeopardy. If she has dangerously high blood pressures called pre-eclampsia, she could have seizures and end-organ damage resulting in her death. These situations may call for a therapeutic abortion to save her life.

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An Author Reno Omokri took to his twitter page to make comment:
"President @MBuhari collapsing today in Lokoja. WATCH and SHARE Not that I am happy. I pity the man. He belongs in a retirement home, not in the Presidency. This man is not healthy. Those who love him should tell him to #ReturnToDaura. "

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10 year challenge (How Did Age Hit You, #2009vs2019, GlowUpChallenge) is a photography comparison challenge in which people publish photos of themselves, taken 10 years ago. Also is a meme with two pictures parodying the challenge.

How Hard Did Aging Hit You Challenge was started on Facebook. It is believed that the first prominent user to partake in the challenge was Damon Lane, chief meteorologist for KOCO News 5 in Oklahoma. The post appeared on his facebook page on January 11th, 2019.
Initially, the meaning of the challenge was to compare your first profile picture with your current one. Then people just began to publish photos of themselves from 10 years ago (in 2009) adjacent to a recent image of them from 2019. So the challenge has several names: 2009 vs. 2019, How Did Age Hit You or 10 year challenge.

With the growing popularity of the challenge, new memes appeared, to make it even more entertaining. People began to post pictures of animals, movie characters in the style of the challenge.

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FrancisAdl:
Some even make more than 5k a day but you should factor in the taxes they pay and the agberos they have to settle daily

Sure !! But the money is sure afterwards.

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Former Nigerian pop group Plantashun Boyz which consisted of 2face (now known as 2Baba), Blackface and Faze has been regarded as the group that pioneered the Nigerian pop sound that has now been refined to become the golden sound that is called the ‘African sound’.

The group was eventually dissolved and since their split, 2Baba and Blackface have had several public fallouts; with Black being the vocal part and seeming instigator of the spinoffs.

Where does this beef stem from?

2000 – 2004: Brief Backstory



The group was formed during their college years in Enugu while they were students at the Institute Of Management And Technology (I.M.T Enugu). Plantashun Boyz reigned supreme between 2000 to 2004 when they eventually broke up – a move that shattered the hearts of their fanbase. Since their split, which was supposedly caused by several internal disagreements and fallouts, 2Face Idibia who now goes by 2Baba has had the most successful solo career – one that cannot be matched by any other member of the defunct group.

This decade-long split has been followed by several messy accusations – right after their split, Black Face and Faze had accused 2Baba of betrayal and theft; claiming that 2Baba’s solo breakthrough hit ‘African Queen’ was a property of Plantashun Boiz, asserting that 2Baba absconded with the record as soon as the group was dissolved and released it without the approval of Faze or Black Face. While Faze eventually let go of his sentiments and patched things up with 2Face, Black Face has continued to be frienemies with Idibia.

2007: Plantanshun Boiz Reunited



In 2007, the trio squashed their beef and reunited for a new album titled Plan B. The eleven track project which contained hits like; Ocean of Passion was distributed by T Joe. The project fell part as none of the former friends seemed particularly excited about it.

2013: Blackface Was Absent from 2Baba’s Wedding



2Baba tied the knot with Annie Macauley and Blackface was conspicuously missing from the ceremony. On why he didn’t make it to the wedding, Blackface disclosed that he wasn’t invited. 2Baba however countered his claim during an interview on Rubbin Minds – citing that Blackface was invited- at least to the traditional wedding in Calabar.

2014: Plantashun Boiz Suprise Performance



During the grand finale of the 2014 Hennessy Artistry 2Baba who ended the show, ‎surprised guests by bringing up members of his former boy band, Plantainshun Boiz onstage and they performed a medley of their classics, Plantashun Boiz, Don’t You Know, Cousin’s Cousin, Knock Me Off to the delight of eager fans. That brief moment did not last for long however…

2016: Black Face Accused 2Baba of Theft

y not ask dat u wana record my song?I was out in d wilderness n u never called becos u wish me dead so my properties be urs? @official2baba

— BlackFaceNaija (@Blackfacenaija) January 25, 2016

Black Face took to twitter on the 25th of January 2016, of theft claiming that 2Baba’s collaboration with American singer Bridget Kelly ‘Let Somebody Love You’ was written by him. 2Baba soon reacted to the accusations during an interview on Channels TV; ‘It is just so unfortunate. I do not know where it is coming from (but) I am trying to think of different reasons’, he said.

2017: Black Face Accuses 2Baba Once Again



During a recent interview on the Loose Talk Podcast, Black Face opined that his former partner, 2Baba, was past his best and has not done anything outstanding since he left Plantashun Boyz.

He also accused 2baba of having done little to help the music industry grow over the past few years since the break up of the group.

2Baba however, immediately responded to Black Face’s assertion urging him to get in the booth and make music if he truly has all the answers he claims to possess.

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