Educative article

While sexual abuse of the male child is something we can't ignore any longer, it is important that men are at the forefront, leading this discourse.

I remember having a discussion with two of my male friends who shared their stories of sexual abuse with me. I was enraged on their behalf but what was baffling was the fact that they thought my reaction funny. 'It isn't that deep, ' they told me. In fact, they said they enjoyed it. I was speechless.

@OP
You have every right to feel the way you do. If he had shown genuine remorse, it would have been easier for you to forgive and forget. For him to keep communicating with her even after you told him not to means he's really not sorry. The fact that he stopped communicating with her after threatening him doesn't mean they've stopped seeing each other. For all we know, they might have taken it offline in order to cover their tracks. So let him be. Concentrate on yourself and your kids. Channel that energy into getting yourself a job. Time will tell whether or not things will come back to normal. Pls, don't be in a haste to make rash decisions. It is well with you.

P. S- It's good to trust your spouse but it is wiser to leave a little space for doubt incase he fails; that way you wouldn't be as hurt as you are right now.

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