My dear I understand your plight. A lot of heartbreaking illtreatment from employers of labour in Nigeria.
I keep wondering what has happened to people's conscience.
Keep disturbing them for your salary. They must pay.
No evil shall go unpunished.

This woman doesn't have any value for her life. She wants to die because of a useless marriage that has turned sour. Sorry for her.

OgogoroFreak:
What exactly is making the man beats her?

Woman are becoming stubborn these days and we actually need more men like him to put our women back to their default state.

Your comment matches your moniker.
Hiding behind social media to write thrash.

Look at jobless hungry youths celebrating poor leadership online.
Why do you fools like involving Igbos in your useless political comments?
And who told you the Igbos are craving for VP?
All of you haters should borrow sense because your hate speech can never remove anything from the Igbos.

Na wa for this our country o. 30-34k in a Federal government parastatal like that.
Well if the job won't cage you, you can manage it as a beginner while you hustle further.

All the Igbo haters and their brother Rochas Okorocha can go and hug transformer because the Igbos cares less.
We can not be deceived by the Igbo presidency bullshit not to talk of chosing Rochas.

Every opportunity is scam to some folks. It's a pity that when you come across scammers you will fall to them. Nobody is being forced, so if you are not interested, read and pass.
It is not a get rich quick without work opportunity; meaning it is not for a lazy Nigerian youths that wants good things on a platter of gold.

Dear everything is not about big money. You need to be alive and healthy to enjoy the fruit of your labour so better go with the second guy since he is considerate and supportive.
Once you know your onion on the job, I believe better days are ahead for you.

What happens if you wake up one day to discover that your job is no more? One source of income in Nigeria is poverty because salary in Nigeria hardly pay bills. Don't be taken unawares. Help yourself by investing in your plan B today. A lot of Nigerians are scared of online opportunities because of experiences of the past but with due diligence, you will know genuine investment when you come across one.
Watsup me on 0-8-1-7-7-6-2-2-1-6-0.

It's unfortunate that most Nigerian youths keep searching for white collar jobs that will enslave and suck their youthful strength dry for peanut salary which hardly pays bills talkless of securing ones future . They shy away from opportunities that can change their lives forever. Every opportunity is not a scam, you only need to shine your eyes and grab a genuine one when you see it. Don't be a lazy Nigerian youth: you can make 6 digits in few months if you are determined. chat me up on 0.8.1.7.7.6.2.2.1.6.0.

You have to quit the job when you have created alternative source of income. If you have a skill, think of establishing in that area and start little before quitting. My opinion though.

Kenneth4u205:
Because the church today is not functioning in it fullness.some church focus only on the word.while some focus only on holiness.while some focus only on prophecy .while some focus only on prosperity.while some focus only on healing .while others only on miracles.Another on deliverance.That was never the plan of God for the church.God want his church to flow on all this at the same time .don't just focus on one area and neglect the other.preach the word of holiness and prosperity,then go ahead to heal the sick ,cast out demons and give prophecy to those that need directions.

You have a good point.

Don't even waste your money investing in any business here now. Just use 2-3m and process your travelling to Canada, then in few years you can come back to invest in a bigger business. For now your chances of succeeding in any business investment here is under probability considering how harsh the economy is right now.
I made that mistake of wasting my little savings in opening a business here after I left such job.
Until we have sane leaders in Nigeria; the Exodus to foreign lands will definitely continue.

If she has left the useless wife beater alone, she would have escaped this temptation.
She has been the bread winner after all and could have survived without him. I don't know why women always chose to destroy their lives over marriage.
When a marriage is not working and you have done your best for it to work, yet no way; better package yourself and walk away than story that touches the heart like this.
God forgive the poor orphan for her mistake and let her be free to take care of her tender kids.
For all the wife beaters; every day is for the thief but one day is for..........you know the rest.

If they are for real, a bill on "Too old to rule" should be passed too. That is the only way this recycled Political leaders and their cabals will fizzle out of the system and allow us try the younger generation.
The president just wants to use the bill to appease the Nigerian youths against 2019 election.

Only if this writeup can get to the National Assembly and receive attention.
The trend is not just annoying but counter productive too.
If it continues this way, then Nigeria is never getting better anyday.
Some people got admission late in life and are faced with incessant strikes in the university system and when the person finally struggles and pull through; issue of age limit will become a barrier to getting jobs.

youngest85:
Eye service people

No be small eye service. Our leaders are just irritating.

Anybody in Portharcourt who has a clean used sewing machine for sale should reply me.

How long was it used? Is it in a good working condition? Price not negotiable? I am interested.

This is serious. That's what you get in a lawless and corrupt society. Imagine what all this foreigners are doing to Nigerians in their own land. Nigerians are not safe any where, even in their country. Thank God an activist is speaking up. Let's wait and see the outcome.

MMM baptised.

Acrofab:
Good day my fellow Nigerian job hunters and hustlers, i know baba called us lazy Nigerian youths but let that not discourage us.

Straight to the point, I graduated and finished service , like every other graduates was hoping that I will land a good job within few days or weeks after passing out, but that was not to be. The first job I got was a factory work of 13k per month!. I worked for close to a yr before someone gave me an advice to come to lagos which I did, but on coming to lag I discovered that it's almost the same story . I trekked from place to place searching for job , attended lots of interviews but all to no avail. The only highest paying job I got was 35k per month which I did for 3 weeks before quitting cos the woman was troublesome.

I stayed without job for months, it was then I decided going into okirika(akube) business at least so that I can be seeing money to feed and transport In case there is an interview invitation.
It was there that I discovered that okirika biz is a goldmine!. I started the business with total of #19,500. I paid for a roadside space for #12,000, then bought what I will be selling for #7,500, but to God be the glory I have saved over #500,000 excluding expenses like feeding, clothing, house rent and money that I do give to my wife to be and my parents in less than one yr. I made savings of 63k in two week(last two weeks).

I shared this testimony to motivate job seekers to find something doing instead of waiting for job that is not available out there.

Thank you for this piece. God will definitely bless your hustle.
Others should wake to reality and find something legitimate like this to do, and get busy instead of roaming the streets and causing trouble.
The leaders of this nation is trying to make education unattractive but it won't work for them.

iKingsley:
on aliexpress, price of goods are like 38 - 54; does it mean it's negotiable?

Yes depending on the quantity and your negotiating power.

santos876:
pls friends,i intend placing an order from an online store in china(Aliexpress),but i want it to be delivered within 2weeks.Is it possible?

Very possible. Just get in touch with the seller and politely request for fast shipping. Tell the seller it's urgently needed for sampling, that you are coming back for bulk purchase. Also promise the seller good review, if you get it fast.
Again it depends on the shipping method. Free shipping takes time compared to paid shipping.
I have received goods on free shipping from Aliexpress within two weeks even without chatting the seller.

I would like to be a part of this project; though in suspense of the nature and detailed information about it. Honesty is my watchword and I am very effective and efficient in anything I find myself doing, once it's legitimate.

This one is double wahala for dead body.
Well she can't kill herself; life must go on.
If the husband is willing to hear her out, then she should let him know that there is no skeleton in her wardrobe. She can as well involve the family members to sort it out.
If no headway then she should pick the pieces of her life and start all over.
There is nothing this eyes will see and shed blood instead of tears.
It won't and can never be the end of her life.
Tomorrow is always pregnant.

Okoroawusa:

doctors don't go through asylum

They go through "skilled workers program"

Whichever way, the point is that our professionals and highly intellectual citizens are fleeing the country and it calls for government concern.

If you have friends or relatives you can put up with for sometime; I would have advised you to go to places like Ogba industrial area and search for casual work.
Some production companies pick casual workers at their gate every morning.

From what I gathered, jobs in Dubai are no longer as it used to be before Nigerians started flooding there.
But I will still advice you to move, considering the fact that you are still young and can struggle your way out if you are not lazy. However try travel through agents that will get you job and work visa. Some companies I learnt provide accommodation for their staff.
Most of the jobs easily available are security and other menial jobs and be prepared to submit your passport based on your contract terms and years with the company.
In all, do not make the mistake of travelling with tourist visa because getting a job under 3 months is under probability; so you won't be stranded.
At the expiration of your contract, you can work your way to other countries. It is up to you.

Let her thank God for showing her mercy.
Other women should learn from this.
Leave runs and engage yourself in skill acquisition or learn a trade if you don't have a job yet.

EponOjuku:


The bolded includes your father, your brothers and all males in your family.

Kpele for the pains..